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TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 11:47am On Sep 05, 2019
profemebee:
so glad you're back...

this thread won't be the same..

Hello beautiful people,

This thread has been soooooooooooooooo lovely..

read every page and i gata admit i'm a bit addicted..

Great work beautiful people..
Brother (in local vioce ) don port abi graduate to another level... And you no buy drinks for the ceremony.... Lol
Have u landed thou ?
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 6:14pm On Aug 25, 2019
profemebee:
**bigger hugs**

smiley smiley smiley smiley
I hail bro ... Happy Sunday smiley smiley smiley
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 10:14am On Aug 24, 2019
Justblow:
I am so sorry madam, u miss understood me, never called ur husband a liar, I am only trying to point out the possibility of him being an EU. Since u certain that he is an EU citizen, then the rules clearly state that he can bring his close family into the UK before 31 December 2020.

I am sorry if my previous comment hurts, never meant it that way.
It's ok
Big Hugsssssssss
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 7:35am On Aug 24, 2019
Justblow:
From this info u just provided, ur husband do not have or hold an EU citizenship... And if he claims to have, that means, he must have been in one way or the other related to an EU. Either by marriage or him self is a white EU.
[quote author=Justblow post=81548186]I took my time to reply this bcs I no one sound unappriatiative but baba na me drop matter for ground and it's all to just confirm the amount of money we paid for an application no for u to call my husband a LIER ( ur husband do not have or hold an EU citizenship... And if he claims to have,)
Just to clear it up, he has an eu citizenship, who he be or how he take get am no b d topic for discussion... Thank you
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 11:40pm On Aug 23, 2019
Justblow:
Okay... Application is from outside the UK... Now clear
Yes it's from outside the uk and
2ndly that place that is written as eu settlement scheme on the brb the lady posted that led to this info my husband's own is permanent residency that is written on it . Does that mk any difference ?
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 10:48pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
Exactly.... But regardless, if he had not swapped.... EU rules would apply = Free........
Baba I say na after application he swap... I dey evn giv my oga this info now say Waityn he pay 6k for na free the man no look bodad ooo. Say can't b tru... Plz were Eva u Gettyn this info from can u screen shoot plz. Thanks
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 10:44pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
Applicant is about £1500, NHS about £500 + Lawyer £2000 + kids + TB etc etc (assuming)........

E go reach 6K nah..........
I don lux small blood this evening ... No tb oo, say health surcharge and fee 3k each for my self and daughter nie d 6k tk set... Solicitor na £2k2 self... This thing weak me I swear I Neva one bliv. I go sleep tru am mk person no go faint...
Thanks ooo for the info , we learn everyday
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 8:38pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
He swapped away the 6K ......... grin

UKBA, are indeed very thankful........ Not forgetting the very pleased solicitor......... cheesy
No he put in the application b4 swapping... But I jux confirm from friends who went tru this same root dem say no b free ooo...
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 8:26pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
You guys decided to feed the solicitor...... Does your husband have EU settled status or UK?..... huh
Na uk ooo, but he has swapt it for British passport... No b say na we get money to spend na fear say mk dem no go dull person ... And we don finish Beforec I know abt this family
But so far it's not free
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 7:06pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
It's free because its a scheme derived for EU settled citizens/spouses ........
Baba Abeg d thing no free oooo, except no b financially free u mean... My husband put in for myself and daughter under this Eu settlement scheme ... Na £6k nie follow for the mata, health surcharge inclusive... Inshort we still dey wait for result as we speak...
So I no come undasnd dis ur free u mean...
We Neva talk solicitor 2k for charges... Anyways he has switched eu brb card for British pp not too long...
So plx Waityn u mean by this free , mk I just dey let my oga know say we get investment we need to claim ...lol
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 4:51pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
It's EU settlement status and not UK..... EU protection rules........
The answer I got it's different from d question I asked... Thanks anyways...
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 3:45pm On Aug 23, 2019
Lexusgs430:
The beauty about this application is that, it is FREE.... In comparison to the other version, that would cost you an arm and a leg..........

He just ensure his documentation is 100% in date..... One missing day, straight refusal.......
Good day , plx what do mean by its completely free... Plz enlighten me....
Thanks
TravelRe: General UK Visa Enquiries - Part 4 by MamaEEE: 8:01pm On Aug 22, 2019
Mrves111:
Please I really need help guys
[quote author=Mrves111 post

Yes u [yes u can attend after pipkin up... u don't have to reschedule
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 6:43pm On Aug 19, 2019
profemebee:
Hello Beautiful People,

Thanks for all the wishes.... its been great!!!

I pray for more successful outcomes for each & every one f us still pending..

Please has anyone traveled recently traveled with expired TB certificate?

Mine expires Sept 2019 and i want to travel early October 2019..

Please will there be a problem?

My girl will bring the original TB CERTIFICATE document while i will bring a scanned copy..

Any good? Has anyone traveled with expired TB certificate?
U wnt b needing it again... So e no mean weda e valid or not ...
But how come u wnt to Travu on a later date . Ur 30days no go don elapsed by den ?
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 2:49pm On Aug 15, 2019
profemebee:
Hello beautiful people,

VISAAAAAAAAAA GRANTED!!!!!!

Timeline

Country applying from: Nigeria
Visa Processing Office Location: Sheffield, UK
Type of visa applied for: Spouse Settlement (Non-Priority)

13th May 2019 - Online Application Submitted
20th May 2019 - Biometrics Taken
30th May 2019 - Sponsor's Documents couriered to UKVI, Sheffield
15th Aug 2019 - Collection Email received from TLScontact 11:18am
9th Aug 2019 - Date Visa was Issued
15th Aug 2019 - Passport & Visa Collected at 12.34pm as i cudn't breathe..


One of the scariest moments in my life definitely....

I loveee u all... from Lexus to justwise to MamaEEE to fridpalor to Dee282 to chrysbees to kaysus to kenttoday to Veacon to Deept....

i'm grateful my special peopleeeeeeeee...

Phewww..

Bless the others waiting.. just read thru each page and u will be fine... no lawyers involved at all..

Warm Regards.
Oh my God thank you Jesus... A big congratulations to you. I am so so so happy . Inshort I danced a little reading your message...
God happy happy happy for u
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 11:31am On Aug 14, 2019
LuvlyIva:
Many thanks. Sorry just saw your message. I have been busy trying to put one or two things together. Me and my wife later decided to go through the spouse route. I convinced her to come bk to Nigeria, we will go and do another court marriage and get the certificate, then use our old pictures to back it up. I think this is ok? What do you think? Thanks
U are going the right way... All the best...
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 11:29am On Aug 14, 2019
Dee282:
She should also have tax return for 2018/2019. No, you guys don’t have to wait till April. However, self employment route requires a lot. You might want to read the guide provided by home office https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/783641/Appendix-FM-1-7-Financial-Requirement-ext_1_.pdf .
Alternatively, you can seek the help of a solicitor. I understand that they won’t charge more than £200 if your case is straight forward.
No solicitor will take £200 from u, d list u get is a £1000
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 6:35pm On Aug 07, 2019
profemebee:
congrats!!!!!

I'm happy for you... i got next hopefully cos my biometrics was on the 20th of May 2019..

great start to August 2019

Please i have a question.. what is "Personal Details Form (VAF 4A) Family Settlement Application Form" u submitted?
Baba no wori ur own don set... grin No dey fear... We dance to d glory of God... 4u very. Wen eva i c a post from u i dey hapi 2 1 read am say urs don come. Bt i get g bliv say e no far again
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 6:31pm On Aug 07, 2019
fridpalor:
I have received great news!

Timeline and details below (hopefully it'll be useful to someone, as I've found most posts here useful myself...)

My best wishes to everyone in this process.

Country applying from: Nigeria
Visa Processing Office Location: Sheffield, UK
Type of visa applied for: Spouse Settlement (Non-Priority)

13th May 2019 - Online Application Submitted
15th May 2019 - Biometrics Taken
17th May 2019 - Sponsor's Documents couriered to UKVI, Sheffield
02nd Aug 2019 - Collection Email received from TLScontact 4:18pm
02nd Aug 2019 - Date Visa was Issued
05th Aug 2019 - Passport & Visa Collected


Collection Email

Sent: Fri, 2 Aug 2019 at 4:18 pm
Subject: TLScontact Application assessed by UK Visas and Immigration
Reference number:

Dear Applicant,

Your passport and supporting documentation are now ready for collection at the TLScontact UK Visa Application Centre. You can collect your documents in person or by a representative
.




APPLICATION OUTLINE

(1) FORMS
(1a) Online Visa Application Form (12 May 2019)
(1b) Appendix 2 (VAF 4A) Financial Requirement Form
(1c) Personal Details Form (VAF 4A) Family Settlement Application Form
(1d) Sponsorship Undertaking

(2) CONFIRMATION
(2a) Visa Application Payment (13 May 2019)
(2b) Visa Application Confirmation (13 May 2019)
(2c) Immigration Health Surcharge IHS Payment (12 May 2019)
(2d) Immigration Health Surcharge IHS Reference Number (13 May 2019)

(3) ENGLISH LANGUAGE EVIDENCE
(3a) IELTS Life Skills A1 Test Report Form (21 Feb 2019)

(4) RELATIONSHIP DOCUMENTS
(4a) Marriage Certificate
(4b) Introductory Letter, and Application Outline
(4c) Screenshots of Whatsapp Chat/Conversations (01 Aug 2014 – 15 May 2019)
(4d) Screenshots of Whatsapp call logs (01 Sep 2018 – 15 May 2019)
(4e) Screenshots of Video calls
(4f) Email Messages (2014 – 2019)
(4g) Pictures (2014 – 2019)
(4h) Applicants Nigerian Passport
(4i) Sponsors British Passport
(4j) Sponsors Nigerian Passport expired
(4k) Sponsors Nigerian Passport
(4l) Sponsors Plane Tickets From UK to Nigeria
i. British Airways (dates)
ii. Turkish Airline (dates)
iii. KLM (dates)
iv. KLM (dates)
v. KLM (dates)
vi. Turkish Airline (dates), (dates) rescheduled arrival flight
(4m) Sponsors Immigration Stamps
(4n) Applicants Bank Statement
- Please see Appendix A(i): Applicants Salary
- Please see Appendix B: Financial transaction details between couple
(4o) Applicants Bank Statement
- Please see Appendix B: Financial transaction details between couple
(4p) Applicants Bank Statement
- Please see Appendix B: Financial transaction details between couple

(5) MAINTENANCE DOCUMENTS
(5a) Confirmation of Employment and Payslips Letter (dates)
- Please see Appendix C: Sponsors salary entries
(5b) Employment Offer Letter (date)
(5c) Completion of Probationary Period Letter (date)
(5d) Office Award Letter (date)
(5e) Payslips (16 Consecutive Months)
i. (Jan 2019 – Apr 2019)
ii. (Jan 2018 – Dec 2018)
(5f) P60 End of Year Tax Certificate (05 April 2019)
(5g) P60 End of Year Tax Certificate (05 April 2018)
(5h) Bank Statement (11 May 2019) (from 20 Sep 2018 – 20 Apr2019)
- Please see Appendix C: Sponsors salary entries
(5i) Bank Statement (24 Apr 2019) (from 01 Oct 2018 – 24 Apr2019)
- Please see Appendix D: Sponsors mortgage and utility bill direct debit payments

(6) ACCOMMODATION DOCUMENTS
(6a).HM Land Registry Official Copy of Register of Title (date)
(6b).HM Land Registry Official Copy of Title Plan
(6c).Lease Plan
(6d).View enlarged to show rooms
(6e). Mortgage Statement (24 Apr 2019)
- Direct debit payment from Bank account, please see (5i)
(6f). Electricity Bill (29 Apr 2019)
- Direct debit payment from Bank account, please see (5i)
(6g). Broadband and Talk Bill (10 May 2019)
- Direct debit payment from Bank account, please see (5i)
(6h).Council Tax Bill (13 Mar 2019)
(6i). Water Bill (26 Mar 2019)

(7) TUBERCULOSIS TEST
(7a) Tuberculosis Medical Certificate (01 Apr 2019 – 01 Oct 2019)
(7b) Tuberculosis Official Receipt (01 Apr 2019)
(7c) Tuberculosis Consent Form (01 Apr 2019)

(cool ADDITIONAL DOCUMENTS
(8a) Refusal Letter UK Visitor visa (31 Dec 2018)
- Please Appendix A(ii) for explanation on visa refusal
(8b) Refusal Letter UK Visitor visa (01 Sep 2017)
- Please Appendix A(ii) for explanation on visa refusal
(8c) Refusal Letter UK Visitor visa (21 May 2016)
- Please Appendix A(ii) for explanation on visa refusal
(8d) Applicants Employment Confirmation Letter


Appendix A(i): APPLICANTS SALARY/BONUS TRANSACTION DETAILS

<Table deleted>


Appendix A(ii): APPLICANTS PREVIOUS VISA REFUSALS EXPLANATION

In the previous applications, it was stated that the documents provided then did not demonstrate receipt of the income. Therefore I have now provided all detailed Bank documents and analysis showing receipt of the income…


Appendix B: FINANCIAL TRANSACTION DETAILS BETWEEN COUPLE (APPLICANTS BANK ACCOUNTS)

FINANCIAL TRANSACTION DETAILS BETWEEN COUPLE

BANK STATEMENT BANK STATEMENT
Page Date Page Date
1 page 6 16-Feb-16 1 page 1 19/06/2017
2 page 6 14-Mar-16 2 page 1 19/06/2017
3 page 6 07-Apr-16 3 page 3 22/12/2017
4 page 7 30-May-16 4 page 3 23/01/2018
5 page 7 31-May-16 5 page 4 14/02/2018
6 page 7 03-Jun-16 6 page 4 12/03/2018
7 page 7 04-Jun-16 7 page 4 08/05/2018
8 page 8 20-Jul-16 8 page 5 04/06/2018
9 page 9 07-Sep-16 9 page 7 17/09/2018
10 page 10 22-Oct-16 10 page 8 18/10/2018
11 page 11 01-Nov-16 11 page 8 19/11/2018
12 page 16 18-Apr-17 12 page 8 29/11/2018
13 page 17 02-Jun-17 13 page 9 24/12/2018
14 page 20 14-Aug-17 14 page 10 04/03/2019
15 page 20 14-Aug-17
16 page 22 03-Oct-17
17 page 39 29-Jan-19
18 page 40 14-Feb-19


BANK STATEMENT
Page Date
1 page 6 24-Dec-2013
2 page 17 29-Dec-2014
3 page 21 01-Jun-2015
4 page 23 29-Jun-2015
5 page 24 12-Aug-2015
6 page 24 25-Aug-2015
7 page 26 14-Sep-2015
8 page 29 04-Nov-2015
9 page 32 14-Dec-2015
10 page 36 08-Feb-2016



Appendix C: SPONSORS SALARY ENTRIES

<Table deleted>



Appendix D: SPONSORS MORTGAGE AND UTILITY BILL DIRECT DEBIT PAYMENTS

<Tables deleted>
CONGRATULATIONS...
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 6:29pm On Aug 07, 2019
LuvlyIva:
Hello house as I was filling the spouse visa application I came across a question on the form asking What type of ceremony was your wedding or civil partnership Please those that have recently filled the form what can I put please? Thank you.
Hello' plz wat did u settle 4 2do... Saw ur recent post it shows u going 4d spouse visa... What abt d issue of d single stastus and not havin any1 in d uk y applying 4 ur visa.how r u addressing dat
? best u do a quite ceremony and use that certificate. Sori if i dey bring mata wen don pass i no 2 4lo wit d responce u get.
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by MamaEEE: 12:11pm On Aug 04, 2019
XML33:
Dolts who didn't watch the Frodd and Venita scene are quoting me to spew trash. Something that happened around 3am on a Sunday morning when most Nigerians are usually asleep. This is why many Nigerians aren't talking about it because they were all asleep.

I saw what I saw. Yes Frodd pushed Venita. He used force and aggression. They were even in a sort of arm to arm tug of war. She wanted to leave the room and he was preventing her from leaving because he wanted her to sleep with him on his bed.

Argue with your ancestors.
You are a bloody LIER and u know it... I watched it. Nk and vanita was with frodd in his room. Nk left and asked venita are u sleeping here she said no, I have Neva slept here I always go bck to my bed... Nk left . Venita and frodd had a lit2 argument abt his bed in the main room that venita permitted sum1 to sleep on it till his rain as HOH ELAPSED... That was wen venita got up that she was living frodd said live, inshort in his word "go meet omashola, I no dey dis kind friendship " she said ok fine I dey go
Frodd ask her to take off his jacket she was wearing she did and was living, that was wen frodd stood up to beg her by the door that he was only joking she said fone but I still wnt to live. He said ok then take bck my jacket and wear it she replied NO and ask frodd to back off from the door he did and she left...
Frodd feel straight on the bed and said trouble and smiled . Took a praying position lyin down and kayode took out the camera
DONT DENT THAT GUYS IMAGE, that's a wicked thing to do
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 11:53am On Aug 04, 2019
imback:
Ladies and gents, good day
Has anyone had the experience of the spouse getting a spouse visa and then staying in Nigeria for a year to do something like Law school?

For example; get spouse visa in October 2019, visit the UK to collect biometric, go back to Nigeria to start Law school in November

Can this affect extension later?

Regards
I think it will affect bcs you are not ment to spend more than 180days outside the uk in a year
TravelRe: Visa Refusal by MamaEEE: 4:05pm On Aug 02, 2019
Heritage2019:
The country is uk and the visa is settlement. Let give a brief story . I have been married for 6yrs and have a 6yrs old girl who holds a British passport like my wife , i have been to uk twice on visiting visa on one occasion spent 2weeks and 3week respectively. In fact i was also surprised when i was told that because of an expired IELTS certificate I was denied and if you ave seen one of this certificate you will discover it has no expiring date , that made me go online to do some search and it was there in discover that they Ukvi had set an expiration them self which is 2yrs and unfortunately i fall in that group.
I know of sum1 in similar case as us urs but hers she did ielts general instead of life skill A1... She was refused the visa and she appealed ... This is the 2nd or 3rd year of appeal still nottyn yet...
Y not sit for the exam and reapply... Bcs the appeal is kinda stressful
FamilyRe: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by MamaEEE: 11:45am On Aug 01, 2019
Anonymus010:
NB: This is not my real account, I created this account for the purpose of this issue.
Please, I need the advice of married people (especially married men). I will make the story as simple as possible and I promise not to compromise the truth to favour me in this issue.
Brief Introduction: I am a man in my late 20's. Got married last year and currently have a 3month baby.
Brief history of my relationship prior to marriage: I dated my wife for 4years before we finally tied the knot last year. I met her in the university, we were classmate in school. Before I started dating my wife, I was dating a girl in the same class but we both agreed to separate after 1year because we were age mate and she was keen on getting married immediately after graduation which I knew I will not be ready for marriage by then (Note: No sex in the relationship, She was a virgin and because I couldn't assure her of marriage, I didn't sex her). After the break up with my ex, I became close to my wife and we started dating. She was self sufficient as she had a source of income while in school, she supports me, gives me money, cooks and buy me food etc. She was the best woman any man can think of. I fell in love along the line and decided this is the right lady to marry. Note: There were several backlashes from other classmates insinuating she snatched me from my ex but we scaled through all that. We dated for 2more years in school and we graduated. We dated for another 2more years post school till last year.
Brief history immediately before marriage: Everything was fine till my wife's birthday last year. I did tripple shifts at work(48hrs work non-stop) and came back a night before her birthday and slept off. I woke up 2:30am to wish her happy birthday. She got angry and told me I didnt put her in mind and that I was not the first person to wish her happy birthday (She later told me her ex wished her first at exactly 12am). I apologised to her and told her the reason I missed the time. I had just 10k, gave her 5k to do a birthday photoshoot, used about 3k to buy her goodies as salary has not been paid. Fast forward to after 1week of the birthday, she came up with serious issue, saying she wanted a break but not total break-up for some months to put herself together. She lamented she was not getting anything from the relationship, I don't usually take her out, I didnt celebrate her birthday well for her, I didnt buy cake, I didnt buy gift etc. I apologised and pleaded with her to be patient as we had big projects before us (wedding, masters degree and family apartment) which she knew I was saving for. We settled it and had sex. After 7days, I saw a call log on her phone where she had a conversation with her ex for almost an hour between 11pm and 12am. After 1month, she missed her menses and was pregnant. I asked her if she ever saw her ex, she cried and swore that she didn't (Note: I trusted her because she is modest and she is not the sex type). So, I agreed, accepted the preg, quickly arranged an impromptu wedding, I quickly sourced for money, spent over N2million on the wedding......
THE PROBLEM:
2weeks after the weeding, my wife started abusing my family especially my mum, telling me she hated how my family behaved during the wedding. I pleaded with her not to allow this to affect our home. The insults and abuse became perpetual. My wife works from home and will give me several reasons why she cannot cook after giving her money for food stuffs once I collect salary. Its just 2 of us living in a mini flat & I wash my clothes myself, but she will give me thousands of reasons how the non-existent house shores prevent her from cooking. After 9months, she gave birth, I asked her who she wanted to come do omugo with the baby between her mum and my mum. She opted for my mum (claimed her mum will be giving her problem). Not up to 1week that my mum came over, she has started complaining about everything she does. Despite the fact that this woman will wake up 5am, wash everybody's clothes, bath the baby but she doesnt cook. My wife started complaining about her being obligated to cook every morning because of my mum's presence(Note: she doesnt cook in the morning, if I am going to work by 8am, I will either warm a left over previous night's food or source for food outside). When the complain was becoming overwhelming to the point of her almost insulting my mum in my presence, I told her I will tell my mum to go back to her house( my mum lives in a mini flat too with my dad, so they are very comfortable). She said I shouldn't. After 1 month, my mum left. The abuse, insults and complain continued. She will nag about how my mum did when she was with us, abuse and insults my family. I will appeal to her and defend my family. My wife became complete opposite of who she was when we were dating.
The real issue at hand: We would be migrating to the US soon. Lately, I can't control my wife, anytime I don't buy her idea or wish, she will rain insults on me. Just 3days ago, she told me I don't have sense repeatedly just because she said we should go and greet her mum's pastor which I told her not now but we can go later. If I tell her to do something, she will do otherwise and give me thousand of reasons she can't do it. 2months ago, I reported all her attitudes to her mum, her mum talked to her but no change, she is getting worse. Last week, I did 24hours at work, I got home, my wife didn't cook. I got into the kitchen, made custard and placed the soup on the gas cooker. We were both in the living room. She perceived the soup was getting burnt and insulted me, telling me it was because I was not the one that dropped money for the soup, thats why I wanted to burn it (She cooked the soup with her money because my salary was delayed). She insults me at will, gives me no respect and treat me as trash.(Note: I had never cheated on her and she doesn't doubt my fidelity. Likewise, I had never suspected her of such too).
I am currently scared because I know US is women's world because I have included her and the kid as my dependents in my green card petition. I am scared for my life and career because she could go worse in the US and destroy all I have laboured for.
Please kindly advise me on what I can do to change her.
Sorry for the long write up and any grammatical errors.
Please most importantly, do a DNA test for the kid, it might not b urs, der is possibilities she catch some feelings from the birthday shoutout from her X... And 2ndly the country u wnt to migrate to with her, it takes only a good woman to remain her self wen dey cross borders, this one she can behave this way in Nigeria,over der she go use hand touch ground... Last last na prison u go dey.if u touch her, property and all il b hers .. U go lux everyttn at the end
In summary, do a DNA, watch her attitude if no changes mk d trip ur self first , giv her time to fix herself
FamilyRe: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by MamaEEE: 11:29am On Aug 01, 2019
catwalq:
Did it ever occur to you that your wife might be suffering from Pre/Postpartum psychosis.
Did you read were he said she started insulting him and his family after 2 weeks of marriage
TravelRe: UK Spouse Visa/Appeal Process-part2 by MamaEEE: 4:39pm On Jul 29, 2019
DiObyyy:
Please has anyone used the added value services “KEEP MY PASSPORT “
I am applying to enter the UK as a partner. Does this service apply to all visa categories ?
I think so but I don't think it's advisable... If u read down the general uk visa thread , sum1 used it and after getting decision made mail for over 3 weeks going to 4now, He has not still be called to supmit his passport... To me I don't feel it's what the wait
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 9:30am On Jul 27, 2019
Aphrodite007:
The guy that lied about the status, did you see my response to him? Also, did it occur to you that we just finished solving one person’s lie only to see another person trying to lie for a frivolous reason?

Anyway, I appreciate the compliment- being called a saint is something to be proud of these days!
But nobody judged him, all ur tone of wsh u guys corrected him was wrong... The guy came for an answer to his ? But rada than finding answers for him u judged him...hense I called you guys a SAINT, but il all know nobody is a saint... Even the BIBLE says correct with love... I rest my case...
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 9:19am On Jul 27, 2019
Aphrodite007:
Lol, are we talking about the same UK that you have to leave the country by force after uni? Because I’m not understanding what you mean.

Whether white or pink lie, the compulsion to lie is quite annoying especially when the truth is actually more favourable. If they want to lie over technicalities, that’s fine. But lying over small issues or big issues that will catch you out, it’s just tiring!
What I wrote is simple and easy to understand, I am not supporting what ever form of lie, I am only saying the man throw a ? To the house, but some off u judged him wrongly... When it was obvious it was just a ?... At the end of the day he ticked NO... So what r we talking abt.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 9:13am On Jul 27, 2019
justwise:
Just call my ID and repeat that false line like many have done before

grin grin there is nothing like that in student visa application and many of you ignorantly keep repeating that each time somebody speaks against lies and our not-so-good reputation.

Do you actually know that foreign students can legitimately change visa and stay back in the UK after studies?

You need to spend time researching on facts rather than repeating some poor lines from people who has strange relationship with the truth.

Call me a saint i take it any day.
Baba, that law of students changing their visas and staying back has folded up, after study u go bck to ur country...
Nobody is a saint, I still stand by what I said earlier that was just a ? If u c am say he dey lie its up to you
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 8:54pm On Jul 26, 2019
CharisJay:
Thanks fatima04... She filled No afterwards. Thanks for taking the time to understand
Some of the pipo judging u here lied in one way or the other, mostly those who got their resident permit thru SCH rote...
You claimed to return bck to Nigeria wen don with sch but never did... Now claiming saints, what do u call that, WHITE LIES I guess... When it was very obvious all the guy asked was a ?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by MamaEEE: 8:32pm On Jul 26, 2019
missjekyll:
I m not quite happy with the tone of this reply. I preferred the first two replies. Lying is not an exclusive preserve of Nigerians. Babies start to lie before they can talk.
Poster only wanted to know whether there are any advantages to adding an extra passport number when applying.

I cant help though poster. I dont think it ll reduce the cost of the visa so just answer no and jump and pass. Tier 2 visa are usually walk overs anyway as they need your tax to finance f***ing brexit
It's really funny going tru the reply he got, for juz a simple ? That was asked, and all the SAINTS came out with their judgmental answers... Even the guy that lied with his status got possible advices for his situation but this was just taged a lie. All u can do is simply ansa and move on or u correct him kindly... Una dey forget say at some point in time u guys came here to find answers too
TV/MoviesRe: BBNaija 2019 Live Updates (Big Brother Naija 2019 Thread) by MamaEEE: 12:22am On Jul 25, 2019
Oyindidi:
Allow the girl biko
I have nottyn against her, she is only reaping from the attitude she fed the house with...

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