₦airaland Forum

k0be:
is that all you think mamaput? that your kids are great just because they've never had any bad misconduct, according to you.
don't you realize sometimes kids just need to see and experience the world around them.
That way they can learn more deep-rooted aspects about people and culture that the media doesn't show.

flakey94:
I think you friend should not rush things especially like you said in a country that favours women. He should plan this over like 1 year, during that time he should strategize on getting her out of his system, once he is over her he should the file for a divorce on the grounds of adultery with adequate evidence.I don't see any court giving her anything if he makes the divorce as messy as possible.

daprince:
I consider it more of a failure to send one's kids to naija rather than the pooh-poohing that some people are trying to push here. I think most people think they going to fail as parents, so the need to send their kids back to naija.

davidylan:
Send them back to naija to for secondary school. That experience is not worth missing.
Let them go to boarding schools were they learn to be resourceful, creative and independent not spoilt brats spending 30yrs playing watching TV, driving around in a drunken stupor and thinking Xbox is the best thing since sliced bread. They can visit every summer just to do small shakara to their jealous friends.

I'm not surprised that the allegedly oldest person on this thread is being her usual garullous and disgraceful self.

ThiefOfHearts:
I'm not surprised either david. It's quite pitiful really

anyway in reponse to mamaput, it has nothing to do with "not being able to care for your child"

do you know how much it is to send children to a GOOD private school in Nigeria? not to mention upkeep and such? Obviously these parents are busy working HARD aboard and sending money back to Nigeria for their children's welfare. I personally loved being around my grandparents, aunts and uncles.

I don't envy any Nigerian going to "secondary" school in The States. yuck.




Why do most Nigerians like to = the love for thir kids on the money they spend on them. Is that what love is all about.

k0be:
I'll tell you something that Nigeria clearly teaches you that you can take for granted here.

The ability to value the littler things in life. It exposes you to top-grade proverty, unorthodox lifestyle, discipline, and etc,
Smaller chores like washing clothes with your hands, hanging clothes in your backyard, sweeping the environment, living without electricity, in short it keeps you on your toes and makes you realize that life waits for no one.

k0be:
I think idiots are slowly but surely losing the purpose of this thread. Warn yourselves o.

It is not an issue of your ability to raise your child, it is a matter of what you value most as a parent. OR what you feel is right for your children.

Now it's 3 months later and I am pregnant. My husband had a vasectomy 3 years ago so I cannot tell my husband I am pregnant - talk less of saying I am pregnant cause his own flesh and blood attacked me during our trip to his home.

JustGood:
Because them believe say as you dey there, you dey available for yanshing.

Any woman wey dey responsibly married no go dey for club without her man.

spoilt:
as much as every mother desires to become a mother in law or grandma who in their right mind would give out an 18 year old girl in marriage? the responsibilities are numerous and it seriously isn't even funny.
mamaput your kids must be well mannered and pretty to be getting this kind of attention or is it that you just live around pedophiles?