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claremont: Use protection always until you have a stable partner. I agree, escorts are very addictive .

what if a peddler that wants repeat biz gives a bj b4 he wears the rubber?there are a lot of diseases hidding in body fluids

boron10: OP, all Nigerian girls are Ashi. So don't feel guilty cos you're are mostly attracted to Ashi. Apology for my generalization

very true,gsm,bb & internet has changed the biz of love peddling beyond easy recognition,there are many guys out there that have been brainwashed to think they truly have wives,fiancee and gf.we should also not forget accommodation problems in cities,one of the quickest way to get booted out as an unemployed or underpayed squatter is to let ur benefactor see u maintaining a gf hence visiting love peddlers is a safeway to step down[this could be the genesis of our OP's problem].
there are many guys who must give their gf t-fare b4 she visits,also if ur woman is earning money in a any profession were niceness to 'customer' is key to survival then rethink o,love peddling is so difficult to define,a lot of guys are just consoling themselves that their relationships is not same as patronising love peddlers even when the effect of money is glaring.
OP,i once read somewhere that u cannot chose who you fall in love with but you can chose where to look for them.your continuous visit to love peddling zones means you've taking a liking to 1 or 2 of them to the point where u no longer try 'normal' girls.in fairness to the OP,if a man is not bleeping his wife or a woman he has set a wedding date with,then a love peddler is the only other stress free option,lets face it,all these complaints about cheaters is mainly because men and women are bleeping 'just-for-the-meantime' partners who are not usually ready to let go when the time comes.dear OP for u to escape this problem,start an activity that puts you where 'decent girls' or more correctly girls that cannot be technically defined as 'love peddlers' go.zero in on one,and start treating her nicely[shouldnt be a problem since u dont mind paying for sex].slowly and surely you will wean yourself off pay as you go and move to monthly bill.the trick to paying gf for sex is not pay immediately,send her credit 2 days after or tell her to buy something worth 7k on her way to your house but give her 10k when refunding.sudden request of a gf can shake but ur ability to say no and survive depends on earlier deeds[free bleeping is a fallacy,a man that grabs the trunk of a giant oak tree and believes he can shake the tree will only succeed in shaking himself].

if i own an okada and working with it,this ban will definitely get me aggravated but i dont so my comments may not be coated with enough sympathy.
when BRF banned taxi licences for tokunbo,taxi owners and prospective taxi owners didnt like it but lagosians loved the new sharp cabs.
when the complaints and campaign against okada was brewing what steps the bajaj and jincheng take?did they consult with LASG?maybe suggest dedicated colors for okada(florescent green or orange),create training facility for new motocycle riders and retrain those ones that actually need it?
what effort has okada riders association made to sanitise their operations
what are the chances that an okada man is a foreigner?is it the work that our poor transport system created for malians,chadian,nigeriens that is being threatened or the unhealthy multiplication of okada levy collectors?
okada has proven to be very useful when there is a crucial deadline(e.g business meeting,airport etc)but do we need +100,000 of them?
general sanity and swag is enough reason ban okada,lagos is the only big city black africans can call their city,people who have never travelled outside this country to any of the 'swag cities' of this world will always shout when chicken and ram sellers are cleared from under the bridges.
people crying like babies because they stood in bus-stop for 1 hour,no wonder govt officials steal with impunity,how can people who cry because of no okada cause a change for the better?

from some of the post,it is clear that these criminals are operating without hindrance but we are too weak or cowardly to do anything about it,meanwhile hoping that these wild dogs bites the cub of a lion in the society who will in turn move in on them with a truck load of men in uniforms(army,navy,airforce,mopol etc)and give them whats coming to them and maybe an unfortunate bystander or newly initiated miscreant as well.if police cant or wont do something,what of our journalist?if a reporter goes there and let these 'boys' know that lagosians are accusing them of committing all the robberies on the bridge,i am sure their responses will make things clearer,it might just be an entirely different crew committing the crime.this bridge must be under a local govt chairman's jurisdiction,as well as a counselor,senator and aspiring equivalents looking for opportunities to prove that the incumbents are ineffective.wait a minute,did the victims even report their ordeal sef?

A nation may refer to a community of people who share a common language, culture, ethnicity, descent...IS THIS THE CASE WITH NIGGER AREA?
A nation may refer to people who share a common territory and government (for example the inhabitants of a sovereign state) irrespective of their ethnic make-up....THIS SEAMS TO BE OUR CASE,BUT THE COLONIALIST THAT MADE US A NATION ARE GONE(hello?).so our present situation is that of the animal farm,the farmer is gone,but those animals that are more equal than others do not want to dismantle the farm.if you were in the right places in this govt,will you not grab all you can grab before things pafuka?the tell tale sign that our founding fathers had it at the back of their minds to go their separate ways lies in the acceptance of the name "NIGGER AREA",they did not care,do not argue with the whiteman,just let them go first.the largest nations,the northerners had a well established groundnut producing economy,yorubas had cocoa whose proceeds already put ibadan on the same level as manchester as at the early 70s,the east had coal,the rails lead to the 2 major ports,they all needed the ports,then came OIL-CRUDE OIL,the 3 major nations quickly divided the fake nation amongst themselves perpetuating the notion that if you weren't hausa,then you are yoruba or ibo,which the ibos gladly accepted because of oil in ijaw and effik ibibio nations,but before that the yorubas who were making enough money from cocoa happily allowed a midwestern region to be created by parliament,yes,till today only former bendel state was democratically created,but has the proceeds from oil started trickling in,the 2 main tribes could not let the oil producing section go after all the oil is not really on ibo land(most of it anyway).my prediction is this nation will be kept alive,even if it in a state of coma,until yorubas find oil and do what they did to midwestern region when it was time to share proceeds from cocoa,yoruba educated christian is the glue that hold the east and niger delta parts to the nation and the yoruba iliterate muslims is the glue that holds the north to the nation.only a situation that will make yorubas NET DONORs will disintegrate the protectorates that form this ROYAL NIGGER COMPANY,this nation was formed for economic reasons and it will fall apart for economics reasons.

pek: Visited Ibadan two years ago and I told my colleague that the building will one day be demolished. It is too close to the road and if any expansion work is to be done, it will go. Let's not get sentimental here, but the truth must be told. All he can do now is ask for compensation.

you are right,i told my pals exactly the same thing.ayefele built his house on a space that only ideal for horticultural expression,i hope ayefele gets some compensation because the officials should have stopped him unless he acted against good advice believing in the power of his egunje

eko oni baje,eko oni baje,are we not seeing changes in eko?we cant continue to curse ourselves and expect progress.

*Kails*:
lol.

our "discussion" has everything to do with the topic.
we were getting to the root of the issue.

you and royal were not getting to any root,the positions you have both taken will circumlocute to the very origin of man,where you will both end up arguing or agreeing that the white man and indeed all other non-negroes migrated out of africa in the first place.none of you made references to the current points raised in geneaography or the human genome project,rather you started your point-counter-point game at a point in human history that was convinient for the point you were trying to make.there are many rude words out there but i have particular interest in NIGGER because we as nigerians carry it everyday,some of us have try to add swag to it[9ja,naija]but the truth is that as at the time this country was to be named,NIGGER or NIGGA or NIGER or NIGRE(all pronounced nee-gah[r])was officially an offensive word.were the colonial masters being cheeky or trying to be politically correct?google the n-word and weep.the longest stretch or the source of the river is not in this country.let nairalanders start a movement to change this 'CURSE'.thats the least we can do for nation that is home to the largest population of people with the richest presence of melanin in their skin cells.a few suggestions[NEGROLIA,MELANINIA,ONYXIA,],brazil & USA are the next in line when it comes to negroid population size and this is clearly not their problem.this country gives belief to other sub-saharan african nation,once we achieve anything,the rest is easy for the rest of africa.kails & royal your exchange is loaded but lets take care of the small matter of telling the whole world we are from NIGGER AREA.imagine somebody telling you he is from BASTARD AREA

moderator?are you there?i think you better find a way to create a new thread and forward posts that are relevant to it,the OP asked why nigger is offensive.the last 3 pages are not really addressing the offensiveness of the N word.these professors of history,political science and political economics should carry their battle to another thread.if nigger is not offensive why did the colonial masters change the pronounciation of nigre or niger(black in latin) to naijer?nigger or niggah is never used in an official capacity because it is an insult,just as bastard is not used in a formal setting.the name of our nation was coined from this insult,the very first step to our greatness is tied to our willingness to change our name to something better,the only reason why we'll ignore the name is the same reason slave trade thrived in the first place,which is,we did not see ourselves as one,the slave buyers encouraged the empires to fight amongst themselves in africa but treated the prisoners of war(slaves)like one race in america.the structures and way of life that allowed slave trade to boom is still there,ibori had to be jailed by a uk court,our courts could not stop him just as the system could not stop the kings and their cronies from profiteering in brotherly treachery from 1586 to 1900s.a NIGGER is the worst possible name you could call a fellow human being

at last some pple are begining to see the connection between the word NIGGER and our beloved nation NIGGER AREA.
if nigger was not a derogatory word why do americans of non african decent get into legal trouble for using it?
if nigger was not a derogatory word why did our colonial masters change the pronounciation of niger to naija(what does naija mean?at least niger or nigre is latin for black).
like somebody mentioned earlier,a white says 'nigger' and his white buddies look around if a black guy is around.nigger means sub-saharan african or his descendants.
blacks use the 'N' word both for bonding and as a wake up call for those blacks that want to behave as if martin luther king and mandela were heroes of the old testament,for God sake,a teenager in 1968 when luther king was shot in the neck is less than 70years old today,mandela is still alive.one day white pple will use the 'N' word freely(they obviously love it)but most black pple are not ready yet,the wound is still healing.
white pple wont let the world forget exploits older than the scandal of slavery but want to us to forget slavery or blame africans for slavery,why didnt they build their plantations in africa?they gave guns and chains to africans,got them addicted to booze,folded their arms and waited for the rest.
the 100th year anniversary of the almagamation of this country will be in january 2014,this will be a good time to start a movement to correct our name.we did not give ourselves that name.

member_479760: anyone can be a nigger (white, black, brown, yellow, orange, red, etc) provided you are cheap. Any employee is a nigger regardless of race and color. EMPLOYEE = SLAVEE = NIGGEE.

pls dont confuse yourself

well said proudlyafrican.
I do not know anywhere in the world where there are no union agents[yes,agberos are union agents],did the cost of transportation reduced after banning of police checkpoints?bus drivers will use every trick to resist paying the dues they owe their union,same thing with okada riders,even bus drivers will happily set agberos on a passenger that refuse to complete fares.agberos have entrenched a culture of squalor,rudness and general nuisance in trying to master their environment,i even heard that they lobby to keep some roads unfit for cars so as to make monitoring of buses convinient for themselves.agberos need to evolve,but only a naive person will expect them to disappear.

shymmex: Reality check - most Nigerian parents don't encourage their kids to do sports, period...

All the people representing Nigeria are not the best talents we've got..

Maybe, parents need to start encouraging their kids to do sports - and stop moaning about education all the time...

A country as big as Nigeria should at least be able to pick up a medal - with or without preparations...

you nailed it.the FIRST and main recipe for success in sports is LOVE for the sport itself.the athletes representing nigeria are the best we got period.any so called better talents are just hypothetical.once upon a time table tennis boards was a common site,the summer holiday was the time for all manner of junior soccer competitions in the late 70s and 80s..wey dem?lets stop pretending....we love sports only when others are entertaining us....we are fast becoming an india[at least they have cricket].once negroes from north america and carribeans are doing well in sports,then we as nigerians[NIGGER AREA] should be ashamed because they are from the same physiological stock as us

I agree with the poster that talked about chinese adding retail to their manufacturing,that is where the real threat is.chinese are different from western europeans,americans even indians,i cant count how many times i have seen a chinese in danfo or on okada,they can get as rural and crass as they need to be.we all thot nigerians could never be suicide bombers,igbos and walmart are essentially middlemen,china has a lot of small scale manufacturers who will make more money relocating a portion of their manufacturing process and sell directly.igbos will survive walmart but should be looking over their shoulders for the chinese because their balls is in the hand of the chinese

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na wa for this country.surrogacy is established means of reproduction in many countries.young men(healthy,drug free) are encouraged to donate their sperm to a sperm bank for a fee or free.young healthy women donate eggs for a fee.these are frozen and used to help those who desire to have kids but cannot for some fertility related reason,but ourself deceit is so much that even when these clinics are available the level of patronage is very low,couples prefer to receive their 'miracle' from God.In india,surrogacy services cost as much as $25k(N3.5m-N4m),it should be less in Nigeria where volunteer mothers will be contented with far less.in all fairness nigeria is not the only place this kind has happened,many illegal indian surrogacy runs have been raided by police in america in the past,i also remember reading about the stealing of kidneys in india as far back as early 80s(yes,somebody jumps on an innocent passer-by with a cloth deeped in chloroform,by the time the person regains consciousness he sees that one side of his lower back has been stitched,otokoto did it for years but did not release their victims but killed them to make it look like the work of ritualist)na wetin we like be that.....coat everything with juju or demonic runs....instead of following the money

88 first class?before nko?parents go pay hefty fees and their pickin no go get work because of 2.2 or thirdie degrees?private secondary schools have been flaunting high pass rates to stay in biz for years.the next step hopefully will be universities flaunting how many successful genuine entreprenuers[not oil subsidy billionaires o] graduated from their citadels or left in 200 level to become multimillionaires because the quality was too high he didnt have to finish(wink)

sorry gboss4sure for calling ibos lazy,i meant the hard work,patience and honesty in farming wont go down well with somebody that prefers to lie to the producers that buyers are not buying,then go to buyers and lie that producers are not producing just to create phatom surplus and scarcity to his own benefit.
explain why the first coup was carried out by ibos?democracy was already in place,midwest was created by parliament,other regions would have been created too,gboss4sure do you know how many years nigeria lived in the wazobia lie,i.e if you are not huasa,then you must be ibo or yoruba,just imagine 3 parasite tribes trying to load over everybody.you said ask old men the truth about regionalisation,the real truth is in the protectorates,how many treaties did the british empire sign?na ibo sign for the whole south minus yorubas?
when the hausas were in power they disected the regions,especially the eastern region to put the ibos in their place,then when OBJ came he punctured the idea that anything north of yoruba or ibo land was hausa,now we have middle belt,north west,who knows GEJ might dilute the west further.
please ibos should really stop getting unduly excited when regionalisation is mentioned.the problem is nobody wants to be outlooted when this country finally disintegrates and we are taking stock of who chop pass.

gboss4sure: The map above is correct, the states there are the states that made up the biafra region if you doubt go and ask any old man in your village or grandpapa he will tell you the real truth about that, one thing people don't realise is that south south was created out of the eastern region in order to put enemity between us so that we will start seeing each other as enemy's but I have no problem with that cause of a south south sees me an easterner as an enemy I will also see him as an enemy. From what the south south guys are saying this days the Biafra I advocate and is fighting for compromises of 6 states only which is:

1. Abia
2. Imo
3. Ebonyi
4. Enugu
6. Anambra

That's it and I know that when we have the biafra of my dreams some states in the SS will also join Biafra because by then their elders will speak out and not these under age boys here shouting foul, though I will not like them to join us cause of reasons I won't say here but if they want to join us they will be welcomed.
Till then say what you really know about the SS and SE and shut up if you don't know anything and for my south south brodas, go and ask your grand papa and any truthful old man in your village for the relationship between SS and SE before you reach to conclusion.

We igbos have everything to survive as a nation, put oil outside, how many Igbo men o women benefits from Nigeria's Oil? We can survive without oil though we have it in plenty, within few years of Biafra's existence it will be among one of the greatest nations in the world.

All I fight and pray for is for a peaceful division of Nigeria but if for any reason there is anything like war, hmmmm I rest my case.

Long Live Biafra
Long Live The Spirit Of Oneness In Us

biafra is an igbo dream,ijaws are not igbos,efiks are not igbos,urhobos,isokos,itshekiri nko?
only igbo people[at least the delusional ones] did not see ojukwu's ambition[to corner the richest national resource for his tribe with him as president for life,ojukwu would have died with more money than khaddafi]
It is the blind ambition of the igbos in the millitary that changed the course of this country for the worse,why did ironsi do a coup?to fight corruption abi?that singular [I=i,B=before,O=others]act lead to this colossal mess.all you ibo pple that smile at regionalisation and hoping it will be according to that crazy map will get your education in time.infact,in terms of the average nigerian on the street,the ibos are getting the best deal!the corruption,squalor,hopelessness favours their view of life,yes IBO[yes I=i,B=before,O=others]let there be bad roads,no light,no water,corrupt police,corrupt custom officer....thats good news for mr i-before-others.
easterners should stop laughing at the north and middle belt,you are in the same category,i.e.land locked,over populated,you will need visas and entry permits to sell,your land is too small to feed you,and you are too lazy,too impatient to farm.

danka777 what is the meaning of the name NIGERIA?niger area abi?who renamed it river niger?the first official name of that river is river nigre(nigre is latin for black).this name was used by the so called civilised world in their maps as far back as just after alexander the great.some where along the line when nigre changed nigger the pronounciation changed to "naija" and the second "g" was cleverly removed.yes the word "nigger" had become offensive by 1914,remember that slave trade was officially abolished in 1860.the name in its spiritual form is NIGGER AREA.what is a nigger?(check for the answer in an english dictionary,na dem give us the name).our elder statesmen could not be bothered by the name because they had it at the back of their minds to break up,arguing about the name would have slowed down independence.the name you choose to call yourself is like your mission and vision statement rolled up into one.
PS:mungo park called his boat Joliba(joliba is the name of river niger in mandigo or tuareg)

i see a lot of questions like ow he'll handle old age or child living with out a mother/father.are these situations not existing without contract marriages?even old people with many children still suffer neglect.surrogacy is legalized in many countries,before the next 50 years(if not already) developed/developing countries will be debating how many times a woman will be allowed to be a surrogate mother or how many of her eggs a supermodel should sell in her lifetime or how many zygotes should the sperm of a highly sought after male produce,i.e a lot of men will want beyonce's eggs,how many/much should/can she sell?tyson beckford nko?how many women will want his sperm to fertilize their eggs?designer babies will be the order of the day in the next 50years.natural laggards will protest and complain but just as the internet was not killed to save libraries,surrogacy/designer babies will gather momentum and become the norm.what i expected to see was somebody pointing to an institution already moderating such contracts or maybe a fertility clinic that could link him to healthy women who need the same thing and not these low level questions and trying to reinvent the wheel.OP you can see that you are not alone,what is needed is a credible intermediary/moderator to make sure that some basics are in place for the innocent child.i think you should start a new thread on the modalities of actualizing your dream

i forgot to add unemployed graduate,corper in zamfara(and places like that),small business owner.i have seen some very un-nigerian post,a poster once claimed that most NLers are not based in nigeria,i've to agree to that.
people give figures in naira not sermon

like a poster said,the OP should have presented the topic well,let me try
1.how much will you give your gf who is a student(tetiary institution of course)whose t-fare to your place cost 2.5k
2.how much will you give your gf who is seamstress/hairdressing apprentist who lied about nite vigil etc just to spend wkend wit u whose t-fare to your place is N500
3.how much will you give your gf who is earning btw 60-80k a month in a small company
4.how much will you give your gf who is earning above 150k a month,has a cute yaris,with her own miniflat in ajah
5.how much will you give your gf who happens to be a finalist in this years mgbn

not all youngmen/young women are really physically young(many will pass out after 100m dash or already too stiff even in their young age).some 50year olds take their daily exercise routines very seriously.the age of consent(18yrs)is not even fair on everybody,some girls/boys are made to endure longings because of the runts in their generation.he was this or that age when she was born is not the same thing as pedophillia.getting dates/lovers/mates is a complicated activity,the same people that frown at age difference will later find out that their sex drive(for men)does not significantly diminish when they are 45 compared with when they were 25 but by then it would be too late to apologize to all the people they ridiculed

'we have decided not to have kids'...that na oyinbo talk.having healthy babies is a must have in nigerian marriage.nature has allowed healthy 65 year old men impregnate healthy 20year old women for a reason and for the same reason a healthy 20year old man will find it more difficult to impregnate a 65year old woman.the western world has so twisted everything,they confuse age gap with pedophillia.they are ready to accept gay marriage but whistle when they see a 50 year old man with a 25 year old wife.the doctor is right,anybody who doubts it should ask gynacologist and pedriatrics if older man-younger woman is same as younger man-older woman.child bearing is a major consideration in marital union in nigeria

the solutions to this HND problem seem to be outside the country.oyinbo universities design and create courses for positions in their economy nigerian universities do not.the owners,directors of companies send their children to certain universities[rated as the best 5 in the country],do you expect them to give the best jobs to other peoples children?the rate of unemployement cannot be ascertained in nigeria but we all know it is very high,so its survival of the fittest[fittest in everything].we all know that only a few HND holders can compete with their B.sc counterparts[at least in written exams and ability to express themselves in proper english].I have worked in an organisation that used man-know-man and some meritocracy,i have also worked in organisation that will only take two-one B.Sc from certain universities and the difference in terms of staff performance is sadly in favour of the discriminatory organisation.my advice to both Bsc and HND students is to make sure you get into a relevant Bsc course while you can,the years you will lose due to discrimination after graduation will double(if not quadruple) the 2 years you will lose in changing from poly to univ or B.sc biochem/botany/micro to degree in medicine or B.Sc pol science to LLB.many courses are just not relevant in nigeria.

stumbled on this interesting thread.why cant you guys just update us on the genographic/human genome project instead of all these stories.
we have been blessed with the discovery of DNA coding.no need to fabricate stories about ancestors.religious empires are trembling with fear,because the more we know about our ancestors the more we will all realise that we have been fighting with brothers

scam or not,they got most of us scared of 'skinny dipping',thereby reducing unplanned pregnancy and consequently checking our rising population.they have come up with ways to reduce our population in the past(e.g slave trade),it is likely they will try something like HIV to force a behavioural change

I convulse with irritation when i see pple telling unilag students and alumni to accept maulag because there doesnt seem to be any cogent reason for refusing it.please is 'swag' or 'efizzy' not a good reason to refuse a name?artiste alter their names or change it outrightly for the sake of swag.a lot of research and sampling is done before a product or company is named and yes 'swag' is a main factor in deciding the final name.did the name 'goodluck' not affect GEJ throughout his life?infact GEJ was not even assessed in a presidential debate before nigerians voted,his name was enuf.even moshood kashimawo abiola was abbreviated to MKO to give it swag,but it doesnt quite work well with lag at the end of it.psychological toture from pple calling unilag students malulag student is enuf.river nigre(that is what is called in the earliest records..nigre means black in latin),then it became niger(the pronounciation of 'g' was cleverly changed from the 'g' in gate to the 'g' in george because as at 1914 niger or nigger had already officially become an offensive word),now all you pple saying or implying that there is nothing in a name should go and do more research on the meaning of nigger and tell us if we should not start fighting to change it before january 2014.

hey lesbianboy i was going to mention the money angle but you beat me to it.dear OP if your test was about money,and he failed,then he cant possibly be disturbing you,because all you have to do is to remind him of the money you need,and if your test was not about money,then you have an instant turnoff for men you have not used.ask for an ammount that is equivalent to 2 months salary,he will snap out love or obsession so fast you wont believe it.the trick is your ability to convey a REAL need and hope for the money,call him,morning,afternoon,night and midnight asking for money.tell us the result after 2weeks.infact the guy will start a thread of a crazy girl that is always begging him for money

if the guy is lying about the spiritual compatibility thing,leave him because he is ready to tell such a lie to end the marriage runs.
if the guy is telling the truth,leave him because if anything happens to him,to you,to your kids...dont say you weren't told.
spiritual incompatibility has been used as a main reason not to proceed with marriage,yes it is old school,so is marriage.
as for the guy that said he disregarded the advice,and everything is hey ok,remember what the soothsayer told julius ceaser 'the ides of march has come but it has not gone'

once upon a time goalkeepers were allowed to catch backpasses made with any part of the body aside the arms and hands,but some defensive teams adopted it as a strategy to waste time and break play so fifa changed it to only head and chest/torso backpasses allowed.the weight of the ball has changed too.they tried an experiment with offside lines in u-16 competition of 91(i think),u-16 of 93 experimented kick in instead of throw in and so on.if there's a continuous trend of parking buses in front of goal fifa has a duty to act.the spirit of the game is that both teams attack and score like in basket ball.both teams tried to score in the chelsea-man utd final.in the approximately 300mins of the 2 legs with barca and the final with bayern,chelsea couldn't have attacked for more than 30mins i.e if we edit the match in terms of attaking spells,we'll watch 3 full matches of barca and bayern pressing chelsea and hopefully 30mins of chelsea trying to score.football will continue to flourish if it is made interesting for the neutrals.chelsea won FAIR & SQUARE under the CURRENT RULE but if a rule like e.g a team that earns 5 successive corner kicks gets a penalty kick or is fouled 5 successive times in their opponents half gets a penalty kick,then teams will know that full time defending is not an option.