Agriculture › Re: I Was Almost Bitten By This Puff Adder In My Corn Farm In Kaduna (Pictures) by MansoryMX(m): 4:17pm On Jan 09, 2022 |
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Family › Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by MansoryMX(m): 8:53am On Jan 08, 2022 |
Optimistic4life: Year 2021 February to be precise, my husband served me a divorce notice. Though I saw it coming as we have been separated for some months. The case is still in court though.
We are blessed with 3 kids under 10.
Soon the divorce will be finalized and we will both move on.
How easy is it adjusting to a new life as a divorced lady?
I just want to let it out as I have never discussed this with anyone. Just my immediate family members knows about it.
What is life like out there for me?
The shame, mockery, coping with kids alone, moving on etc One fact you should know is 95% of marriage worldwide are in tact because both partners decided to make that ultimate sacrifice to stick together when they shouldn’t be together anymore because of THIER KIDS. I will not ask you what lead to your husband serving you a divorce paper, I will not ask you who is at fault because there are always two side to a story. What I will advice you is you called the short one last time by having a sit and talk discussion with him if y’all really wanna go down that path or find that spark back!. I had a serious issue with my wife and separated for 6 months and got back, not like we both did anything outside during this 6 months (Me I didn’t on my own part though and I don’t know if she did even though I believed she didn’t because she is faithful, loyal but bitterly stubborn woman). 3 beautiful kids with any woman is enough reason for me to put up with her flaws for life and stick with her. My dear it’s a cruel world out there, try and fix this marriage if you can as a wife because of your kids! |
Politics › Re: Lekki Port Ready For Delivery As It Reaches 80 Percent Completion by MansoryMX(m): 2:48pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Christistruth00: There is a big plan for Warri
The Warri to Itakpe (Lokoja Area) Railway is already running and is supposed to be Connected to Abuja within the next 2 years and the Calabar Lagos Railway will also pass through Warri,
If Olu Of Warri and Warri Indigenes go and sit firmly on Transport Minister Rotimi Amaechi’s neck he can link Warri to Abuja by Railway before he leaves office next year May
Warri has a HUGE future
Just Pray for God to bring it all to Pass What happen to that $2bn project that would have brought a lot of employment? Bro I nor dey believe anything about this Delta State again. Olu of Warri go calm down down las las and hide himself from spotlight or anything wey go involve project. I know Wetin I dey talk. |
Politics › Re: Lekki Port Ready For Delivery As It Reaches 80 Percent Completion by MansoryMX(m): 11:40am On Jan 07, 2022 |
tolue42: This particular sea port is located at the forefront of the Atlantic, even they're sand filling part of the ocean self.....I'm always here... Beautiful! |
Politics › Re: Lekki Port Ready For Delivery As It Reaches 80 Percent Completion by MansoryMX(m): 10:51am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Senomi: After this godforsaken yorubas have closed down all the ports in the South south las las na frustration and traffic go kill all of them I won’t say they closed it or blame anyone. Our greedy elders, kings, spokesmen in Government, State government and both past and present governors are the cause of our misfortunes. |
Politics › Re: Lekki Port Ready For Delivery As It Reaches 80 Percent Completion by MansoryMX(m): 10:49am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Sammy07: Nah delta state government refuses to do wetin dem suppose do I am telling you bro! Delta State has the worst government in Nigeria!
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Politics › Re: Lekki Port Ready For Delivery As It Reaches 80 Percent Completion by MansoryMX(m): 10:45am On Jan 07, 2022*. Modified: 11:40am On Jan 07, 2022 |
I love what Lagos State Government is doing in Lagos. They making sure North don’t checkmate then like they have done to almost all 3 regions. They deceived the East with the Second Niger Bridge, deceived the South with White Elephant project and deceived the West they hand over presidency to their Jagaban. Why is Warri, Delta State Port languishing in Delta State? I have been asking myself this question for a very long time because it is a port located at the forefront of the Atlantic Ocean than any port in Lagos State. |
Politics › Re: Orji Kalu: Buhari Will Surprise Ndigbo With More Developmental Infrastructure by MansoryMX(m): 7:57am On Jan 07, 2022*. Modified: 9:22pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Which kind foolish talk be this? This idiotic politician who is supposed to be cooling off inside maximum security prison still get mouth dey talk this nonsense? Na wa for the kind politicians Igbos sees a their spokesman
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Politics › Re: Brigadier’s Convoy Jumps Red Light, Hits Obafemi Hamzat’s Convoy by MansoryMX(m): 11:41pm On Jan 06, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Panic As FG Prepares To Downsize Federal Civil Service by MansoryMX(m): 8:58am On Jan 06, 2022*. Modified: 10:35am On Jan 06, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: The IGP Is Superior To Governors — Lawyer, Ndakudu Adam by MansoryMX(m): 8:37am On Jan 06, 2022 |
being: Interestingly, he's correct. According to the police structure an instruction from the IG supercedes an instruction from a governor. Whether that should change is d only debatable matter. But as at now the IG posts CP to states to receive directives from d governors but he the IG can overrule those governors' directives A mere appointee by the President supersedes an ELECTED GOVERNOR? Wetin all of una dey take abi smoke lately in this country? Una comments dey kill me with laughter. Nigerians don’t really know their left from right 
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Politics › Re: The IGP Is Superior To Governors — Lawyer, Ndakudu Adam by MansoryMX(m): 8:33am On Jan 06, 2022 |
CSTRR: A mere appointee of the president is Superior to an elected governor?
An ELECTED governor?
You are mad.
In a federal system with states autonomy, the only agency superior to the governor is the supreme Court, not even the president.
A governor can take the president to the supreme Court if he feels aggreived. God bless you for this comment. We have really lost it in this part of the world. We don’t know how to practice Democracy we adopted from the West. Walahi!
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Business › Re: Saving With KOLO: I Just Began This Journey (photo) by MansoryMX(m): 11:59am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Sirmuel1: I'll join you.
Even if na daily 1000, I will do it.
It's 5th of January, I think I owe my kolo 5k already. Hahahahahahahahaha 
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Politics › Re: Osinbajo’s Presidential Campaign Billboard Surfaces In Abuja by MansoryMX(m): 11:13am On Jan 05, 2022 |
Osinbajo and One notable & rugged Eastern politician will do just fine for me. Nobody should vote for my kinsman biko because he is a drunkard. No need to say his name, una know am!
My problem is Osinbajo should not come out under APC or PDP if he really wants to win! |
Politics › Re: Malami: Corruption Declining Under Buhari, We Are Getting It Right by MansoryMX(m): 9:22am On Jan 05, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Police CSP Defies Governor Sanwo-Olu's Order To Vacate Magodo Estate (Video) by MansoryMX(m): 9:33pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
This is a breach of Rule Of Law for a Commissioner of Police to not respect the order of a sitting governor in his own State and constituency! God! |
Health › Re: My Wife Addicted To Tramadol by MansoryMX(m): 11:10am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Afamsi: It could be an attack, we blame people at times for what they don't have power to control. Take her to a genuine and strong man of God for spiritual scan and deliverance.. Dont forget to thank me after
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Health › Re: My Wife Addicted To Tramadol by MansoryMX(m): 11:08am On Jan 04, 2022 |
poka7: Pls nairalanders, I need help ....my wife is acting strange and I discovered she is doing drugs...she is doing tramadol, this is really affect her mental health and her life in all aspect. She is becoming aggressive and had lost all the attributes that made me marry her. Please what can I do, I sent her to her family few months ago, noticed the situation is getting worst and we have a son together. I am really worried...friends keep calling me about her that she is looking very unkept and looking dirty ....what should I do?? If I may ask? How old is your wife and how long have you guys been married? Secondly she has been doing drugs before you guys got married. You just didn’t noticed it. Lastly take her to a good hospital and don’t seek any advice here in Nairaland. |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Askia Celebrates Her Daughter, Teesa On Her 20th Birthday (Pix, Video) by MansoryMX(m): 9:57am On Jan 04, 2022 |
I pity who go marry these woman daughters because you might likely Bleep their mama join and God help you if you get broke when you marry them as a rich man!
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Politics › Re: Pictures From Construction Of 2.5Km Kanti Kwara Flyover, Kano State by MansoryMX(m): 9:56am On Jan 04, 2022 |
Truthisunique: Misplaced priorities
What's the need of flyover when your people dey use plate beg all over the country cos your state can't help I tire. I always knew there is something negative about that werey nairaland mod and this thread confirms it. Disgusting Cows!
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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Ran Away Because Of My Proposed Family Financial Plan by MansoryMX(m): 8:23pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
bigpicture001: My girlfriend whom I have planned to settle down with simply started acting cold and eventually stylishly slide out of our relationship because I sat her down and made a family financial support proposal to her in which she will be financially committed to running the proposed family we intend to raise...
These are the proposal...
1. She earns about 80k wile I earn about 300k.. I asked that we jointly contribute for all the children's Career funding starting from when we get married even before any of their birth.. I proposed 10k monthly from her and 40k from me to a trust account. From it we plan to fund all the children's Career from kiddagatten to varsity or which ever path they choose..
2. That sh choose between Nepa bill or DStv or gotv sub monthly..just one for her
3. I will be responsible for rents
4. We pay into another joint account for vacation once in two years..like sh puts in 20k I put in 50k monthly..
5. I provide all the heavy food stuffs required in the house in large quantities including gas ND change of electronics, but sh provide all the daily food supplements to mk mine complete.
6. She buys her clothes ND I buy mine but we can both surprise ourselfs with gift to the other..
7. I will buy the family car ND maintain it. If she buys no p.
8. I didn't rule out surprise gifts once a while and outting which I bankroll ND expect her to do same occasionally..
Plz oo nairalanders are these responsibilities to a wife too much for her, I mean one who works and earn over 50k...? A woman with vision will agree to your plan, a materialistic woman won’t. Go church go do thanksgiving to the God you serve, if you be Muslim go thank Allah, if you get shrine! Buy the gods one goat and thank them. I rest my case |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Why Did Donald Trump Back Down After Iran Retaliated With Ballistic Missiles? by MansoryMX(m): 7:51pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
Una go just dey confuse una self. No single American was killed in that air strike by Iran. If he sure for them well well them shot missile go US soil or Even kill any US personnels in that air strike. America remove all her personnels in the Middle East for one sole purpose which will shock the world! Should anybody carried out a terrorist attack on Americans anymore!
Another thing you should understand is, it’s not about the number but quality of sophisticated stealth equipments and well trained personnel. Iran too small for Israel to deal with!!! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Soleimani: The Muslim Nation Will Revenge Against Trump - President Raisi by MansoryMX(m): 5:56pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
olugabbie: It is funny how you guys talk about US wiping out another country with Nukes. It is not going to happen. Nukes will only be used in a world war. The US does not has any stomach for war now. Carry out one single attack on US soil you will know if they will retaliate with Nuclear strike or not! You think America withdraw all her troops from Afghanistan and Iraq for nothing? US doesn’t care about what other world power nation think If they retaliate with a nuclear strike! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Soleimani: The Muslim Nation Will Revenge Against Trump - President Raisi by MansoryMX(m): 5:39pm On Jan 03, 2022*. Modified: 8:20pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
This one wan use him own hands turn him country into Desert and Nuclear Wasteland. US nor send any Middle East country again o
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Celebrities › Re: Olamide, Fireboy Pay Oba Elegushi A New Year Courtesy Visit (Photo) by MansoryMX(m): 1:22pm On Jan 03, 2022 |
iCauseTrouble: What's up with girls and bending their legs like slowpoke while taking photographs? If I were to be God, I would just make it permanent Most ladies who do this are infectious and their puna itching them always...That’s why!
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Family › Re: Things That Are Better Than Money by MansoryMX(m): 8:47pm On Jan 02, 2022 |
[s] dazzlingd: Happy new year everyone.
Money is sweet and all the daily struggles of life from going to school to learning a skill or taking a professional course or learning a trade is all to one goal; to make money and plenty of it. However in the cause of searching for this golden treasure, we often forget some things that taste better than money.
1. Good health:
The day you lose your health is the day you will realise that being in good health is the most important thing in life. There are wealthy people in poor state of health that wish they could trade their entire riches for a good health. If you can sleep and wake up without pills, eat and excrete, breath in and exhale, walk, run and jump. Having your internal and external organs functioning perfectly. You don't know the treasure you have
2. Family
When you wake, you have your loved ones no matter where they are in good condition, you have your parents in good state, it could be your spouse, your children or siblings. You have a people to lean on when in trouble and laugh together in victory. If you have these, you dont know how many people envy you quietly. Don't wait till you lose it before you realise
3. Peace of mind
Mental health, being emotionally and psychologically sound. Nothing beats these things. You aren't suffering any police case, you aren't a suspect of robbery, murder or fraud. Nobody is chasing your life. You are not running from bitter enemies. You not being set up. Not a victim of circumstances and disasters. Those suffering these abandon their dreams of chasing money to running to and fro the earth looking for peace.
Once again, I wish you a successful 2022, live the life and enjoy every moment. And for those who might be suffering any of he above, I wish you a better year 2022, good health, peace of mind and a happy family plus more money.
Like the curious case of Benjamin button, each year will come and go, enjoy the moment, live a life you are proud of and if at any moment you aren't happy with the choices you made, I hope you have the strength to start all over again and stay happy. [/s] Anufia!
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Family › Re: We Kept Ourselves; No Sex Before Marriage: PHOTOS by MansoryMX(m): 8:57am On Jan 02, 2022 |
Kizyte: Yes she is “Comrade hope dem never run you street and left you behind because if them leave you behind! Sorry oooo”Happy Marriage Life anyway
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Romance › Re: Tattoo Around Vagina Area. Please Help! by MansoryMX(m): 8:54am On Jan 02, 2022 |
Samiah33: There is always a good reason for everything. Ask Osharena! Not in this case o! Not in this case!!
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Romance › Re: Tattoo Around Vagina Area. Please Help! by MansoryMX(m): 8:45am On Jan 02, 2022 |
HenryDion: So, my friend just called me early this morning to let me know that his newly married wife have a tattoo around her vagina area.
I was dumbfounded, cause that can only mean one thing, but we could be wrong.
Right now this so called friend of mine is confused and restless, and they were the 'no sex before marriage' crew.
I didn't bother asking for a picture, even though I was tempted to ask.
Dear NLders, what do you think about the tattoo? Should he be worried? Why didn’t you ask? You fall my hand bro  [img] https://media1./images/85ec914555449ccc5f51872b089955e5/tenor.gif?itemid=23651431[/img] |
Health › Re: How Long Did It Take To Break Your 2022 New Year Resolution by MansoryMX(m): 3:57pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
jaytii: So after reading through NovesaTillie's thread https://www.nairaland.com/6909608/celebrating-one-year-abstinence-sugary#108790773 Two weeks ago, I decided to go on the same journey starting this year.
For this reason, I consumed more than my usual weekly dose of Coca-Cola and Pepsi (maximum of 4) no thanks to the festive season free drinks here and there.
Unfortunately, thirty five minutes (01/01/2022 12:35am) into the new year after screaming happy new year and saying hello to few friends and family over the phone, I was already downing a very cold bottle of Pepsi to cool my head before I realized I just broke my major resolution for this year.
Mr Dj please play Timaya "I can't kill myself"
Lalatiscl.ala, myn.d44 and the rest of the Nairaland family Happy New Year. I hope I am not the only one in this situation. If you can’t pity yourself, pity your kidneys and liver. |
Food › Re: The Most Delicious Part Of New Year Jollof Rice! by MansoryMX(m): 3:20pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Kucoin: With the rate of how peeps consume local rice in this Buharinomy, Na stone you go chip. I can never eat that local rice! |
Crime › Re: Prophet Jay Jay Enejeta Kidnapped, His Wife Shot Dead In Delta State (Photo) by MansoryMX(m): 9:39am On Jan 01, 2022 |
Comedian2019: Prophet wey no fit foresee kidnapping, that one na prophet? Na backwardness and stupidity this one use start New year
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