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keep dancing na so you go continue,one step infront five steps behind mtcewwwwwww
make I no slap you

aspirebig:
Pity fire, that is bitter truth....maybe you are one of them, see your name ....married virgin ...how naa?

na only man waka come

godoluwa:
God, please help me give jenny a wonderful man to make her a complete woman, amen

hmm love doctor kwa

Brandnew2:
Talk to your hubby about it.
You guys should reach a reasonable conclusion on that.
I totally understand how you feel and I'm sure if he loves you enough he would make adjustments to please you.

hahahahahahah when you asked the Op if her husband be youth pastor I laf tire.
I know a Zambian pastor here in US who abandoned his wife and three kids in Zambia and came here.The pastor na total woman rapper.He even quarrel with one of his numerous girl friends the other day and called her a bi***tch

spikezz:
chooi y does diz ur
story sound so similar 2
someone i kno..
iz yuh hubby a youth pastor?
jokez apart.

tell him to recolate
back to 9ja
being wit family iz far
more important dan
anything else hez chasin' up in
d uk

The Embassy is right because usually they check if your husband has been filing his taxes and they check how much he has in his account.Also if he is not yet a citizen I guess you would have to wait long before he can be able to file for you as a foreign spouse.Applying for citizenship would cost him some money so you just have to hold your heart together because eyou might still have some few years to wait.
God be your helper

prinwa:
Initially when we got married he told me he will prepare my papers, which he did but it didn't work, because i already had my daughter, so the embassy said that he doesn't. Have enough income to take care of me and his daughter. We kept on trying over and over again but nothing. Seems to work. Now i have another baby who is 11months old. My daughter gave him alot of space. My concern now is that he told me February this year that when he gets back to Europe that he will apply for his citizenship, so that it will be easy for him to take us. Up till this moment he has not applied for it. He is taking good care of financial, i won't deny that. But i need companionship, i need a man in my life. I feel empty with out him. I don't want my children to grow without their father.

My sister what makes you think he doesn't have another wife?
My sister are you sure he has the necessary papers?
hmmm this is strange,never heard of such.Anyway,God be your strength.

prinwa:
Hi
I am a lady in my late 20, I have been married for 5years now. My husband come back once in a year, I am getting tired of the loneliness and lack of sex, though I have never cheated on him. I just feel I made a huge mistake. I have 2 kids for him, and I try to keep myself busy in order to avoid temptation. My husband. Doesn't have another wife apart from me, recently I asked him about our papers and he said he doesn't want us to come and live there permanently , but we can visit and go. I want to be together with my husband. I am really getting tired of the whole situation. My children are growing up with out him and it is making me unhappy. I need your advice please.

Hope after saying all of this you now feel good about your self.I know your type and I pity your type.

aspirebig:
Op, you try.

Hello concerned ladies, the first thing here is to know and acknowledge thst you have problem getting a spouse.

Some will tell you, it doesn't matter, at most they will be a single mother especially the proud career women that feels that they are rich , they can easily care for themselves and their one or two children from one or two different men. What a shameless generation!

In a nutshell, ladies, deal with these issues:

Acknowledge the problem
Avoid proudness
Have a good character
Get a good social life, mix up well..
Dress well, not exposing your bodies.
Go for deliverance in a church like MFM, if need be, as it could be a foundational issue.Pls avoid any Pastor, prophet or MOG that try to sleep with you in the name of driving out your spirit husband, or demands money from you as sowing husband seed especially those of you that are pretty, well educated and work in a good organisations.

Set a goal for your self.

I know some ladies in such condition, like a decade ago. When you approach them, they turn you off or even started avoiding your calls.
Now Jungle don mature, most of the guys they turned off, are married with wifey, 2 or 3 children. When you call them now, they answer you fast, even call when you don't call them, send you # Happy new month msg sms, send happy weekend sms, trying yo be nice. Medicine after death. One told me that she did not have a Mum to advice her.

One babe, even took offense even when someone asked her why she never Marry. She is good looking but fake.She is the type that dresses up and use make up to put a birthmark on her face, she bleaches, she us into runs, immediately you see her you will decode if you are a sharp guy. All she is after is a loaded guy that will take her out to the movies in Silverbird, buy her clothes, get her upkeep money, new phones, she was not working but has more clothes than working class babes.
Always on the call with different guys, she stay in Lagos.The babe is her mid thirties now, her immediately sister is a single mother now, got married and leave the man after a baby...

Most men, I repeat most men do not go for such ladies, because they will not give them joy , peace and rest of mind in the marriage.
Men prefer women with submissive nature, respectful, meek,well trained and even less than 30. To me, age is NOT a number when it comes to Marriage, women have limited time frame that they are very fertile. Once a women clocks 40, it takes special grace for her
to conceive and give birth. Not in this generation that even somebody in 20 to 21 is battling infertility , people differs but women should understand that their numbet is like in the ratio od 3:1 to man.



The earliest women face the current realities of life starring them on the face the better.

The 70 or 90yrs old Mama you see in your neighborhood was certain a sisi, baby laaa hot, baby oku, Akwaa nwa, Omo too shoo, Omo to sexy, Omo to gbasski, sweet angel etc wharever, like you in her prime. It is only a matter of time, just some few decades from now.

hmmm another marriage thread abi na wedding thread.Men why una de complicate women life like this.No be by law or by force to marry.I notice men on this thread talking up and down,marriage this marriage that.
Mtchewwww abi na de kind topic this wey go make una start feel important ba?

Long throat men.If na to run behind ready made women who have made it una go be first people but you are here complaining when a woman seeks a rich husband.You all should go and sit down.
To all the ladies hunting husbands please don't let a man take you for granted because some of them when they come across a woman who has advanced in age,they begin to think they are doing you a favour by dating you.God punish the devil !!!!!!


Marriage is not compulsory ,do you think it is every married person that is happyEnjoy your selves and stop putting yourself under high blood pressure in the name of marriage

hehehehe sorry oh

octopusfreaky:
hehehhehe brother ke,,,am a lady

my brother don't go for pointed nose or else you would encounter pointed problems

octopusfreaky:
[size=16pt][color=#8b4789] small beauties ,,pointed nose and small lips is a big bonus to them..[/color][/size]

Bros wetin you go drink for this talk??
carry go jare nothing do you

osifred:
Our primary aim on earth is not to marry. Genny is living her dream.

mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwwwww *spit*

HiGod:
I ve advised my few female friends who are Nigerians living in UK to embrace and celebrate our culture in their marriages/relationships with little western influence otherwise, they would end up like this Lady.

There are so many many single mums around here in UK with the same attitude that destroyed their first marriages. Interestingly, guys(Nigerians) are not even ready to look after another man's children.

I was in this game for years here in UK dating both single mums and single lady( strictly Nigerians) before I finally settled down and one thing i learnt during dis shit was that all these single mums and single ladies surrounded themselves with people/ friends/family members who are afraid/fail to tell them the truth.

Here is my advice to the ones who are abt to go into the institution called marriage in UK:

First and foremost, as a young lady, take a journey back to when you were growing up in your family home in Nigeria and ask yourself these questions;

1). Do i see my mum calling my dad all sort of names? If the answer is no, why would get here and start what you were not brought with?

2). Do you see your dad being slapped by your mum? If your answer is no, why would you pick up this attitude then? Or is cos you are living in a country where their men grew up seeing their dads being slapped by their mothers. These white guys could live with it cos it's a norm in their society.

3) Take a look at how your mum was able to build her home and take a clue from it.

4). Stay away from London ladies and spend quality of your time building your homes.

5) Good women build their homes while d bad ones destroyed theirs.

6) The funny thing about all this is that the same money, respect, honour, love you refused to shower your ex hubbies with would be given to all these new boyfriends who have no stakes in the lives of your children. They take your money, bleeped u and abused you and you lol never get anything in return. Why don't you respect your husbands now before it becomes too late......

7) Don't entertain the mentality of "me and my children" cos this mentality ll come back when you get old to hurt u as a woman. The same children you compromised your husband for would start building their independent lives at age 18 and this ll lead to loneliness at your old age. This is d reason why some mothers couldn't let go when their son or daughter get married cos they have no lives apart from their children;they ll eventually ruin their children marriage. You and your hubby need each other at that old age more than your younger days.

Stay away from ladies who are single mums-89% of them are terrible.

Stay around people who cherish their marriage and their husbands.

Try and encourage your soul mates or husbands to join a unit in your church(not London Celestial Church oooooo) or mosque where teething issues in marriages are shared and discussed.


Finally, there are bad men out there who wld do everything on earth to frustrate their lovely wives. If u r unlucky to find yourself wt dis type of man, remain at your best and do everything possible to stay at your best behaviour. Trust me on this, the same man ll meet all kind of ladies but the good one like you ll be an issue........ These guys always regret at d end of d day.

Typing while driving....

I have this thing to say which ladies fail to understand most of the time.When a woman leaves a man because of his bad character,what makes you think that occupying her place later on makes you the best or what makes you think that you can do better than her?Lets forget about the beauty part and face some realities.When I saw the way Yetunde cried in that video,i already knew the kind of person Baba Tee was.Usually matters of this nature,i hardly take time to comment on them but I must say that from my high sense of instinct, I don't think Baba Tee's new relationship would last long.It is only a matter of time..........When I see the kind of people get involved with for relationships,i fear so much for them but I can't really talk.The heart of man is really a mystery.

you want go steal de dog ?

bigomoh:
Where precisely in ayobo?

please add post card to the list,yes ;post card and teddy bear.You know teddy bear na,the one children play with.
some men no get shame

you are very bad

mcocolok:
Them dey form lesbian when we get capable men wey fit suck their kpekus wella. mtchewwwww

Hi good day,
I don't even need traffic because I can still work on my own without telling others about it and I would still make my income.Its just of more added advantage telling others.And it would be of advantage of others to tell others too.Like I said people who don't know the techniques of writing reviews cannot make it.I remember you asked if the company is able to pay everyone who enrolls.To answer your question,not everyone who enrolls makes money.The reason is that if you don't know how to do it no matter the many words you use,you would just be wasting your time because it would be rejected hence no kobo for you.

let me share my experience I had with one other company with you.The particular company needed that you do some short short research and submit the solution.In thought I was experienced in SEO but when they gave me small tasks,i was unable to complete them.So I was not successful with this particular company even though I had a pass mark of 95 on 100 in their English test.So i decided to quit it.The name of the company is Clickworkers .IF YOU HAVE HEARD OF IT BEFORE.

The difference with me is I can't stay on the computer the whole day but for someone who can do it,it would be worthwhile.

I always like to try something first before putting it out there for others.Concerning the company I am working with which I just gave the website,if you decide to review for them please never write a negative review on someone's work.If you find something which is not good ,review it in a diplomatic way.If you want I would send you a write up of how you can do the review for it to be accepted.You would liten to music and pause it from time to time and write about what you think From the rhythm,melody,style, etc etc.There are particular words you would have to be using but you would need to keep changing the words from time to time because if you repeat your words the computer would tell you.

I dong try to type ohhh choii my hand.

Nature129:
OP, read my question again because I don't think you've been able to answer it. I don't want to believe you just wish to generate traffic on that site from here. Just a harmless observation; I'm genuinely interested, biko.

if she knows what a blessing children are in the life of a mother she would dare not abandon them.Lesbian my head!!

Harbdulrasaq:
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Journalist Ihechukwu Njoku sent me this exclusive story to me that will touch your heart. Read below

A YouTube video showcasing a heartbreaking tale narrated at a popular church in Lagos has been uploaded to the internet, a Nigerian lady confessing her sordid journey into lesbianism and its horrific consequences upon her young family.

According to Mrs Blessing Okoma, a happy marriage blessed with five children was thrown into turmoil at the premature death of her husband. Whilst mourning his demise, Blessing had a sickening nightmare. An elderly lady slept with her, ending the inhumane act with the weighty words, ‘Do you know your husband gave you to me?

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Blessing awoke in a cold sweat. She knew that gnarled, ugly face. Casting her mind back to their initial courtship, Blessing recalled a ‘covenant’ her husband insisted she agree to. “He took me to a spiritualist in his village,” she recounted to the sombre congregation.



“That spiritualist then took my blood and my husband’s, cooked it with soup and we ate it together.” The same female witchdoctor who intimated the ‘covenant’ was the one that intimately met her that fateful night.

From that day forward, ‘the spirit of a woman’ entered Blessing and everything changed. “I no longer had affection for men,” she confessed.


“I used to go for beautiful girls. Because of this power in me, when I approached a girl, she would accept immediately and I would behave as a man to her. I am the husband; she is the wife.”

Blessing would prowl schools to seduce secondary school students, under the ‘spell’ of a force beyond her control. “I felt like a man and behaved like a man,” she said, introducing countless young ladies in school and university into lesbianism.

Infatuated with a certain lady she encountered, Blessing took her home one day. “My children were outside praying,” she slowly recounted, wincing in remembrance of her dirty past.

Her youngest daughter walked into the house minutes later and met her mother in bed with her lover. She screamed. Embarrassed and incensed, Blessing’s partner gave her an ultimatum – ‘It’s either you choose me or your children.’

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“Because I loved what I was doing, I sent my children away,” Blessing admitted, much to the shock of the crowd. “I didn’t care about them or have any motherly love. That spirit would make me beat the hell out of my first daughter. I wanted to kill her.”

Blessing dispatched her five children to be ‘house-helps’ across the country. Robbed of both fatherly and motherly care, her young children were scattered, all of them leaving school to become domestic servants.

“Free from my children, I went out fully as a prostitute for women like myself,” she continued. For four years, Blessing’s children were separated from her and each other. Four years of pain. Four years of heartache. Four years of brokenness. And for four years, Blessing did not even care.

However, after a dramatic ‘deliverance’ at The Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN), Blessing said her eyes had opened. “When I see a woman now, I know you are a woman. I don’t have the urge for women again in my life. I want my kids back.”

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The clip fast-forwards to a week later, Blessing standing next to five young individuals in the same church. “These are my children,” she told the congregation, the family standing together for the first time in four years.

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“Before, I didn’t differentiate between a man and a woman. Now, the spirit of a woman has gone from me. Man of God, help me to beg my children because I know I have suffered them.”

Happiness, her eldest daughter, didn’t mince her words as she addressed the church. “My mother is so wicked to us,” she said, tears streaming from her innocent eyes.

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“She beat me up and broke my head,” she continued, showing a large scar close to her eye. “Since four years, I have not seen my younger siblings. I thought they had died.”

Tears peppered the face of Amaka, her next daughter. “She suffered us as a slave,” the little girl told the quiet church. “She used a table to hit my younger brother; he almost died.” Ebuka, Awele and Ifeanyi all echoed the sentiments of their sisters. “We hate her so much.”

Addressing the young children, Pastor T.B. Joshua spoke softly. “After prayer, the spirit of this past pain will be removed,” he assured them. “We will ensure you all go back to school.” Joshua then prayed for the young children, all of them falling to the ground.



The touching story does not end there however. The clip continues to show the family reunited in a new house, purchased for them courtesy of Pastor Joshua and his ‘Emmanuel TV partners’.



“This is not a house; it is a palace,” beams Blessing as she looks around at the fully furnished apartment in Lagos. Smiles lighten the faces of her five kids. With scholarships to continue their education provided, hopes for the future had been remarkably reawakened.

http://www.metronaija.com/2015/07/photos-i-abandoned-my-five-children-to.html

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Next you need a Paypal account where your money is sent to .I live in the US so Paypal account is easy to have here.It is left for you to check in Nigeria if you have banks that can open you Paypal account.But its good for you to start working while waiting to find out about your Paypal because they Pay out twice a week.This job is good because you don't get to pay anything unlike others that need 45 dollars for background checks.I would let you guys know if I see another opportunity.But please you need a computer .


any more questions let me know

Nature129:
OP, how does the company make money to be able to pay millions of reviewers?

issues of the heart are supposed to be dealt with cautiously when it concerns adolescents.That's why parents need to be friends with their children and by so doing they can be able to know what is going on in a child's life.Please parents don't just deliver your children and leave them on their own or leave them for the house girl to watch over them.Parents should always be in the lives of their children coz its very important.You have to know when your child starts dating and what kind of activities are taking place in the dating.You can only know if you are a friend to your child.

U2008:
Na wa for dis kind love ooo

thank you
God bless America

sonofananimal1:
GO AND SIT UP!!

go and sit down!

sonofananimal1:
KEEP THAT TO YOUR BRAIN POCKET

na you sabi

pbs4real:
guy i bow to u ooh. . . .so u mean to tel me say no gud russian babes shey. . .bone racism, that mtr nah every foreign land.

according to you na trophy you carry.If I be you I go hide the fact say I get Russian babe.Who no know say Russians are even more racist than any other race.Choii Africans and their slave mentality.I hope you guys are in the US and not in Russia.Only her family members go treat you like small rag even though them go pretend before you but their heart go de tell them different ting afterall they are doing you a favour.So when them even mention countries Russia follow among ba.Weldone ohh.Anyway its your life.... wetin consine me

sonofananimal1:
ME TOO OHH. I DON DEY PREPARE TO MARRY MY RUSSIAN BABE, BUT I STILL DEY WAIT SEE HOW THINGS GO BE. STILL PRAYING

ashawo

Vanquay:
I once got a bad dose. And none of this signs were present. This thread is hereby redundant. To all my loyal fans. Am going on a FTc retreat to focus on my novella. Catch it on Reddit or NL wednesday 5'pm GMT-5

I just made my first 15 dollars in one hour hurrayyyyyy

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God bless America

na so ,before nko??its because the ladies have wised up a lot in recent years.I even heard Nigerian men are very exploitative of their women.No be talkam ohhh I hearam.I also heard that they marry the other nationalities because they don'y yet know the truth about them.Is it true?? hummm

jerryunit48:
The rate at which Nigerian young men are marrying ladies of other nationalities leaving our NIGERIAN girls wondering what really has gone wrong is so alarming. I attended a friends wedding in Germany last weekend and it was lovely,beautiful couple the guy Nigerian the girl a German and no it's not what you think,the guy is German citizen, I have to make a thread like this because I have another friend who just got engaged to his Lithuanian girlfriend and I have a lot of friends with either a girl from Cameroon or Kenya and even Ghana so I ask myself are we scared of Nigerian girls? Well I met one who asked me if I have ever seen the queen walking behind a man? We have heard so many stories about our girls and even in nairaland if you are regular you must have heard of one guy in U.S. Warming us against marrying an Aruchukwu girl so really are they all bad ? Well I witnessed one case of a friend who brought his wife to Germany and she eventually asked the police to kick him out even though she was the one that slept around with guys but really there have to be some good ones.
Pls help our Nigerian girls with some advice while we we are very much happy for our married guys irrespective of the nationality of the wife because ultimately it's their happiness that matters

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na una dey use women up and down in the name of marriage.may oluwa answer your prayer iseeeeeee mtchewwwwwww

obiak4:
and you are married i knee down and pray may oluwa God chineke never give me a wife that thinks like you
bae you are too selfish learn to give unconditionally

mind your business

Juliet11111:
Hello nairalanders. I've got a very
surprising scenario here. I graduated
with this old classmate of mine two
years ago. Although he came out with a
'not too good' grade, he refused doing
his clearance and just did
reconciliation, he bribed the HOD's
secretary and she forwarded his name
for youth service, With the help of a
staff at exams and records he was able
to get a forged statement of result. he
has been working in a federal university
since then.

The last time I called him he said he
would still go and do his clearance and
collect his original SOR.

My question is this, how come this guy
has been able to work for two whole
years in a federal institution with a
forged statement of result?.