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well said dear .Imagine having so many projects in mind but you can't meet up with them.Marriage is overrated and the surprising thing is that people's spouses even get jealous of their success.What a world!!
Marriage is not for everybody

ajademola2000:
What so many of them don't know is that a lot of people lost their dreams because of marriage, that marriage nonsense is just too overrated

babe waka come collect hug from me.i notice its mostly the men who are saying she ain't got a husband.Suddenly men have become so important. When they hear a woman is successful,they start shaking like shakalina because their ego is on the ground.Make una leave Linda alone if she has decided that she doesn't want or need a man,no be by force na .She no do can't you see

ojehtoju:
Na wa for Nigerians o. We beef and hate for no reason. A blogger buying a house in the most expensive area in Nigeria...thats worth the fuss. She dropped a modelling career to be a blogger, something no Nigerian has done; bold step. Now she is made and celebrating her success, instead of us to learn a lesson from it, some of us are here castigating her. Wetin concern u if she marry or not? Na marriage give her the life she get so? When the time comes and she is celebrating her marriage na una go first say why she dey show off her marriage if na she b d first. She is an inspiration for us all to take bold strides in life. I'm happy for her and I think y'all should be too and stop hating.

fine woman
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And i see you are so happy about it.Please for the sake of Helen don't bring back diseases.
Wonders shall never end

olatiler:
Ethiopian Airlines must include Calaba to their route please don't tell Hellen this
But in case she find out ppl should defend me that my account on NL was Hacked

right!!! I don't know why people get so excited at the mention of sex.They just heard that sex workers have relocated and now everyone wants to go to Calabar to sleep with women they don't even know.Wonders !!!

respect80:
By the time you contact foreign HIV even quote sef I no go quote you for NL again oo.
Beware!

their hairdo looks horrible.you must not use 10 packs of weave on your head like an oracle

maga don pay na
private jet is the proof
shout alleluia somebody

I know what you are talking about.I remember the time when ebola was at its peak in Africa last year.Here in the US the segregation was serious.People would even look at you and frown as if to say you don't deserve breath.I am surprised to see my fellows blacks even trying to buy houses here in US.I can never and would never do such a thing.ALL my investments must be done back home.If not of the opportunities here I don't know what else I would be doing here

pansophist:
It was before my departure, I was patiently queuing about to board a flight from Katowice (Poland) to Eindhoven (Netherlands) at 07.15 am. While waiting, I was approached by a male employee who asked me about an unknown baggage found somewhere around the airport, I courteously replied that its not mine and I suggested that he should make a public announcement about it before passengers began to board the aircraft. When it was my turn to board, I approached the passenger service assistant and gave him my ID and mobile boarding pass but to my dismayal, he explicitly stated that I will not be allowed to board while asking me to wait at the corner for his boss to handle the situation. He wouldn’t listen to my subsequent plea as he rudely separated me from the curiously observing queuers, as I waited for the arrival of his supposed boss.

Three minutes later, the middle-aged boss arrived and as expected, collected my ID and interrogated me with the same question asked by the previous vicenarian employee, I repeatedly told him that I knew nothing about the baggage but he wouldn’t accept this as the truth. He further claimed that I was caught on camera dropping the bag and he would release the video to me if I keep denying, I was amazingly shocked at such magnitude of lie against me. I ask if I could see the video, wondering if I was mistaken for someone else, He agreed to show me but inferred that I wont be able to board the flight because after the nitty-gritty, the plane would be late on arrival, then its was dawm on me that this is getting serious. I replied angrily that if I miss my flight, I would sue the legal-person(s) involved. On hearing this, he immediately facilitated my boarding and directed me to the boarding gate. I asked again if I could see the video where I was caught dropping the baggage but he refused and reminded me that I am delaying the flight, in an attempt to diverge my pending questions. I was vehemently mortified. As I entered the plane from the front door, I noticed the fear and irritation gripping the passengers due to my chagrin. I approached to my assigned seat number, the passenger next to me wanted to be sure if I should be sitting close to her, as she was scared. I have never been publicly humiliated to this extent before. Throughout the whole trip, I was filled with so much anger, being victimized, guilt, and disregard. I wondered why I was handpicked and accorded such degrading treatment; I strongly believed it’s because of my phenotypically dark skin as I am the only ''non white'' on the flight, since no public announcement was made to inform if someone misplaced the baggage.

I have been a denizen in Poland and I have never experienced such degrading treatment throughout my time there. This treatment created a deep hole in my heart and brought to my awareness the reserved prejudice deeply rooted in the heart of the airport workers who ganged up and treated me so unfairly due to my dark skin. It is expected of public workers to be competent with customer’s relation skills, especially in airport serving passengers from all parts of the world. This experience has made me unnecessarily sensitive as I was made to tacitly understand I would have to prove my innocence if I’m unluckily present in any mix-up situation, that I will be assumed guilty by default with the burden of proving myself innocent resting on me, that this experience is but a mere trigger of an existing presupposition. The most painful part is that my feelings were completely ignored and at the very least of my expectation, no apologies issued to the aggrieved.

I am writing this letter without prejudice, and all I ask for is that the necessary authorities should equip its employees with customer relationship skills and method in reaching coherent conclusions without subjecting anyone to an inhumane treatment, and also as a deterrent from this happening to subsequent passengers.

nailed it on which cross?

please if anyone knows the couple kindly e mail me their postal address.I would send them the hearing aid for free as their wedding present.Please scammers stay off this offer please.
wishing the couple every happiness too

lalasticlala:
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clears throat

Ediss:
We're celeb for our own side

omotola is very pretty but the clothes she wore exposing her boobs and tummy don't really look nice.The exposure looks ridiculous in a sly way.

bad child

demsid:
Abeg i wan ask 1 questiön o, na that narrow path wey dey between breaasts dem dey cal cleavage or d bobby top? Wetin cum b d narrow line wey dy show btw yansh if person wey no wear pant sag trouser?

personally I think the guy has used big language to deceive her
and I don't believe he is all what he tells her he is
well at 25 years she is still young and still learning sense

Omooba77:
A guy working in a ministry in Lagos ,so loaded to take a girl frend abroad,how much is his salary.These are kind of people Buhari should be looking for.




As for you lady,the guy will marry a third wife,still telling same story.....Women and fantasy

at 25years I think you still have a lot of lessons to learn.My dear let me advice you as a woman who once had a husband.Men are very funny liars and I want to open your head for you.I would not insult you.I just want your eyes to clear from this sleep.

1) Why did he have to tell you that he is married only after some months.
Answer:Because he wanted to ensure that there was no obstacle for him to get his sex from you.He only decided to tell you he was married after having sex with you so that even if you leave him he must have had a taste of you.

2)I think it is selfish for a man not to tell you he has kids.Even if he didn't want to talk about his wife atleast he should talk about his children.A child is a blessing and I really fear this kind of man for your sake.

3)My dear you guys have only been together for 6 months and you think 6 months is enough for you to confidently say you guys love each other so much?Let me tell you something about dating/courtship,at the beginning everybody is always trying to show their best character but mind you that the real character would not take long to show.You might be thinking he is a good man but time would show you the reality.

If he was a good man would he be cheating on his wife with you?What make you think that you can do better than his wife ?What makes you think that if he marries you as second wife,he would not marry another woman as third wife too.My child,you are still very young to wrap yourself around this kind of complicated situation.Men have sweet tongues.Imagine a woman who has three kids for him and he kept getting her pregnant with up to three children and he was not ashamed to tell you that he did not love the wife and its his family that asked him to marry the wife.He is deceiving you and I want you to learn from this experience.

My analysis from the whole situation is that the man is the kind of man that no one can please.Even you right now,you might think you are the best now but when your turn would be up,he would treat you like rubbish.


This is my advice to you.
1)Do not get pregnant for him because if you try you would be left all by yourself to care for the child.
2)Stop being excited by what you hear or what he tells you.Use your head and think.You are a woman and God has put strong intuitions in women which they can use to help themselves.
3)Do not marry him.Infact cut all contacts with him and let him go back to his children.
4) Here abroad you would see men who have wives back in Nigeria but have a long line of girls they are sleeping around with and don't even use condom.My baby is that what you want for yourself at your age?

I have never taken time to advice someone like this but well I have tried to type these long paragraphs.

please please take good care of yourself.Do not let anyone fool you please

VICTORIA91:
Dear NL,

I'm 25 years old, I met this guy online via chatting and before i knew, we met and we fell deeply in love.This guy is irresistible when we met and i never prayed for something more, because he was so caring, lovely and loving, not only that he is so tall and handsome as i have always prayed for. After a month we knew each other better and every minute i rang him up, he later told me and revealed to me everything about him, because he is not the flamboyant type of guy, i hardly notice that he is loaded.

At age 33 he has a lot of properties and work with a Ministry in Lagos, seconded employment with one int'l institution, he got me int'l passport and took me out of Nigeria shore for the first time in my life. I am from an average family and I'm not easily moved with material things, I'm a working class lady earning moderate salary and living well, i had a relationship before him but not a stable one.

He later revealed to me that he has something to tell me that might tear us apart, i made up my mind since it would not lead to my death, i bet i have reached my bus stop, because he is also in love with me. What a perfect match!. Until the day he bursted it out that he is married with kids and he was sweating and breathing so restlessly, waiting for me to breakup with him, i reassured him i will still love him at that, he explained he impregnated the girl and his family forced him to marry the girl...in short, three kids, two boys and a girl from the woman,(first boy and a twins).

I almost fainted, but pretended as if all is well, at least he still managed to tell me to let me decide to continue or not. We both continued and this month make our 6th month and he is already talking about our marriage, he tried divorcing the first wife, but get warned to let her be to make peace reign, i noticed he loves me so much and also loves his children too well too. He is traveling out soon to study for his PH.D. He wants me to get pregnant for him and do the needful with my family and declare his intentions of taking me as his second wife to his first wife and family...But at this stage i have doubting mind maybe i'm ready to go on or not..i don't feel like ruining the woman's home, and i don't feel like losing this my sweet love, he is not forcing me and he wants me to decide for myself....

Please help me dearies, abuse are allowed at least maybe it will straighten my brain..but i sincerely love him, he promised to settle me down in another state and assured me that all will be well.The issue is i'm so CONFUSED.

please abeg come and tell me this story i'm interested.Why do arab men prefer their anus instead of the normal place

EggovinMma:
But seriously, some of our girls no dey try.Heard stories of how this Arab men drill their anus for money. Men these money shebi we go soon leave am die?!

the man's nose get as e be

gbam na so na
nonsense stupid foolish boss
see him head

aspabay:
Dear Sir,

Letter of Resignation

Enough is Enough.

Thank you.

By the powers invested upon me by the Federal republic of Nigeria and the United States, I hereby pronounce you ehusband and ewife.
Tin weh God join make man no separate

tohphunmie:
Oya pronounce us na

By the powers invested upon me by the Federal republic of Nigeria and the United States, I hereby pronounce you ehusband and ewife.
Tin weh God join make man no separate

Bamz:
LOL. As the e-priest and facilitator, we kindly need you to pronounce us eHusband and Wife.

Erm the real wedding will take sometime by the way

You better start making the necessary arrangements for this matter coz i'm ready for that wedding

Bamz:
Mr marriedvirgin , please wake up oh...

babe I am ready to join you two oh please you guys just let me know how you want it to be

I love weddings

tohphunmie:
Lwkm....i swear, ur something else!.....who is gonna pronounce us ehusby and wifey

husband snatcher so you can grow old too? na una sabi

little boy keep showing us all the things daddy has stolen.Please my boy can you send pictures of the banks he keeps money in and the account numbers too.............now that's my boy

next time show us pictures of you without pants and bra so that we can believe better .............ode

bros I greet

Demburrows:
This is the reason why there is mushroom churches every nooks and cranny you go.

that photo of pastor's wife made me laugh hard.

januzaj:
congrats

I don't really have anything to say to you.Na you better pass

Ura:
I disagree with your sex theory. On the contrary, sex is supposed to be therapeutic. There are many other things associated with good looks. Here in Nigeria, we have women btw 40 and 60 who maintain their youthful look yet, they engage in sexual activity. And if she looks good on the outside, the reason she has given for being single for so long makes her look ugly inside. The spirit of unforgiveness has gotten her no where. This should be a lesson to our young ladies out there. I am not encouraging the men to cheat but it is sheer stupidity to punish yourself for someone else's offence.

you remember the part where they say you have to be faithful(no infidelity) till death do you part? hihihihihihi
I de wait una to tie this knot quick bikonu

Bamz:
LOL okay.. where is the part where we get to say I do to some scary vows?

what many of you fail to know is that many of these boys are into drugs and they use their music as cover up.