₦airaland Forum

time82:
He is a Great President and worthy of emulation

chaloner:
Don't tink of coming back men , this is fuckin 9yrs in Kenya , men I'm chilling cool over here , fu*ck homie , fu*ckk BH, dey won't c my head men

CR77:
If you want real love go for europen women



80 percent of black woman na money be there own.


Love don die.

Seanixking:
Marry yourself then (Straight Face)...Just go ask your celebritie's if they're happy with all thier wealth without a man to love them... Except u wanna be a baby mama (Rolling Eyes) Or a divorce...(Laughing 2)

PunkyBrewster:
No. But whatever.

Crikey, men wanting to flip the script on us ever since they started wearing skinny jeans. LMFAO. Not today, darlings!

*humming Destiny's Child's Independent woman *

PunkyBrewster:
The times are changing, so well, keep up or shut up.

I can't believe that some men are complaining about spending either

The woman of days long gone used to be submissive, docile etc because the man of that time took care of his responsibilities, so there was really no need for her to be bitchy or whatever. Some men today just whine & whine about the same things that their forefathers did without much coaxing. Who can not be bitchy to a bytch ?

Women have taken more responsibility with the years eg.building careers of their own etc, while some of the men have become poor, pathetic nags who groan & moan about every single thing that the gentleman of the past would have done without the extra lip service given by some "men" today.

So deal. Or go find a boyfriend

falconey:
Sex all night!

modestdude:
it all boils down to insecurity problems inherent in both sexes when it comes to relationship. The beautiful ladies see the handsome guys are womanizers and a potential threat to their desire to be adored and worshiped (coz the fine guys mostly dont give a damn abt worshipping a lady) rather he will be so full of himself. on the other hand, handsome guys feel insecure with pretty ladies coz of their attraction to other men and also cannot contain their pride.

Davvymavvy:
This idea of a lady placing curse on a guy after jilting her is total bullshit to me. Ladies on this board keep making that erroneous belief that a curse would do anything...nonsense. Don't marry anybody because u pity her, u 'd live to regret it. If it were to be other way round, ladies would be like, move on because she's not meant for u, she does not even deserve you. Follow your heart young man and whatever comes out of it, take it in good faith....she would be fine whether with you or without you, vis visa

My two cents

queencalipso:
. My friend will u just keep quiet how cann u be tired of someone u claim to love annd u call giving her material thinngs love after so many yrs of digging her? Now u are looking for an excuse to dump her annd u r using spending on her to justify ur. Action. Just to mk ur self feel better she was with u whnn u had nothing nw u r a graduate. With a good job u suddenly realise she is not good for enough for u. Op hmm. My advice for u is that u should discuss with her and mk her understand the reason u both need to part ways and pray she understands and agrees with u if not u will be inviting a curse upon ur self and who ever it is u finally tk as a wife if u just dump her like that.





My two cents

morbid:
Chai!!! Nothing tickles my fancy like a woman who can dress for the continent. See my fellow man wife. God I need an all-round woman,nt just a woman with good behaviour.just see her hands:the ring,bracelets,wristwatch,well-manicured nails. Chai!!!.

phransix147:
Wetin dis mumu dey talk?

Ejo lo fe ro...

phransix147:
Una don forget say Ini is a "cheerful giver"

zudozz:
dis monalisa ''dis thing'' go swit well well.

sluvy4tune:
#welcome2Nigeria

SlimSkipper:
LWKMD

midasbliss:
if the devil doesnt die, who will?...

Chai! Thank God for dis crusade... i made front page... ifa no go dis crusade eh!

Guardianangel:
I've always entered this forum as a guest to but today, my spirit has been vexed through this topic to join nairaland.
Firstly at Op, do you think we woman do not bear all the abuses you take us through in marriage? For the sake of your post I'll narrate my predicament of an over 6 years marriage with 3 children. My hubby is over ten yrs older than me. I've gone thru and still going thru one of the worst relationship a woman can have with a man. He never says sorry for errors on his part, never says thank you for efforts I put in the marriage be it financially or physically, has never bought me a birthday , anniversary or even one cloth, I buy all by myself. Not that I'm bothered with material things but just a show of care will do as I know he's not so rich but just struggling.
now the big issue is that I'm going thru emotional abuse. I love sex like crazy but he's decided to pocket his "machine" . I always like him to clean up every night before bedtime but he's the type that hardly showers 2wice or even more. Sometimes I do endure the sweaty body scent during the act just for the sake of peace if not, na war. I try to turn my nose away though...what does a woman do when her man thinks he doesnt needb to be appealing towards her? .....that has resulted in great act of masturbation for me in fact, I'm considering a sweeter option... intimacy gadgets! And oh yes, I'd really still very attractive and still get advances from both single and ready men but I made a vow and do wanna keep it.
This is a man that I've spoken to several times, tried to make happy, told what pleases me but yet remains adamant to my cries....
If not because of this post, I'll never have voiced out so, you men should be careful how you behave in marriage. Simply because a woman cherishes her children and desires a happy role model of a home does not mean we cannot do the unimaginable.
@op, pls go back to your wife, thank her for her patience thus far, re strategies new methods for a happy her. Begin to do the little things she likes which you never did, do some TLC, listen to Luther Vandrose's."Buy me a rose". Most of all, be a man and not a weakling cos every woman is only attracted to a man who can at least partially fulfill her fantasy.
good luck!

mk3jax:
Well I have a similar issue with my wife. She was miss perfect agreeing to everything I want when she was looking for marriage and after marriage, her real self started to manifest. First it was constant complain about my family for no reason, then she graduated to wanting to control my life and determine who I am to give money or not and where I can and cannot go. She complains about everything and never appreciating anything I do. I provide all the financial need of the house 100% yet she want me to take care of her parent and siblings(both married and single ones) like i am their father and every time I refuse to send them money it is quarrel. She also expect me to praise her for almost everything she does like I demand same praise for putting her under a roof, paying all the bills, feeding her and our child and making her as comfortable as possible.
She bitches about everything I do making me feel like i am a child that doesn't have a sense of making my own decision despite being very successful in my career and handling lots of real life responsibilities that she can never imagine doing.
After the birth of our child, she turned to something else which in turn made me to make up my mind that I will never have a second child. She has time to watch all her tv programs to make herself happy but as soon as I pick my remote to play a game despite working from morning to night while she sits at home, she complains and I have over time disregarded her complains and do what I want to do to make myself happy. I have just one life to live and being married to someone doesn't gives them a control over my life and if you don't want to stay married to me again, then get the fu.c.k out of my life and go take care of yourself. I almost divorced her sometime ago but just decided to calm down. I hope we do not separate because of my love for our child but if we have to, then so be it because I will not live a life of a prisoner because of a child.

alutacontinua:
Did your supplier mix something else with your weed?




@op, have you talked to your wife about these changes?
like it or not, the most important thing to a woman from a man is not money, so, forget about the 'I take care of her financially' part.
A normal, sane woman does not exhibit all of those characteristics at once, not to a very wonderful husband. She's most likely reacting to something. Have you cheated or are you cheating on her? Do you have unresolved issues? How's the sex life? Etc etc......I seriously believe your wife is reacting to an equal but opposite action, identify the action and you can move from there.

choiii this answer makes sense
if i see you ehh i must hug you




However, if you're strongly convinced that this woman has just made it her life ambition to frustrate you for no reason, then, you have a psycho on your hand-you know what to do

liyuboy:
Hello Peep, i need ur advise,, i am married to a woman i tot was of a certain characteristics upon marriage and two years down the line my only source of happiness are the two children (Boy and Girl) we have.

Despite all I do (as bread winner) to please her she is not appreciative, she disrespect me, she doesn't cook for me, she complains too much, she compares me to her father daily even though i have told her her mother has a better character than her that is why her father would do anything to please her.

I am always unhappy becos of her character, i am thinking of seeking divorce.

What do u guys think?

smartkiddo:
Oya Front page tinx. Dancing Shoki ontop Transformer

dosht:
Where is marriedvirgin
Come and see what i am sawing

dosht:
Where is marriedvirgin
Come and see what i am sawing