shaybebaby:

aha! So relax, if you can sit through it and watch them, you can do this. Lots of sex prior to your delivery will help keep that place flexible. Also, start doing your pelvic floor exercises if you haven't start so that you can push more effectively.

CAUTION: you will poo yourself..just thought I'd mention it because no one else has admitted to it

shaybebaby:


Not as scary as it seems. Try watching this programme "One born every minute". Don't know where you live but its in the uk so you'll find clips on youtube if you are outside. It follows people who are parents to be, different birth plans etc But most importantly, you get to see before, during and after...and if you are anything like me, you'll be bawling your eyes at the sheer joy people feel when their babies are born safely, which is what we all want innit?
Focus on the prize, and you'll be prepared to do whatever it takes to get there.

shaybebaby:

Which parts?

Mindfulness:
MarryMeee,

since you and your husband are in agreement, you should announce your decision to the family and stick to it until they have practical solutions and assistance to offer. If they are not able to take care of the child or at least help take care of her, why would they expect you to do it alone? It is not easy to raise a child and much less a little troubled soul like her. I respect that you tried and I respect you even more for not being ashamed to say that it has become too much.

jhyde101:
Enrol her in a boarding school and anytime they are on vacation, let her go see her parent

Dyt:
For all the years the little has learnt to live
She has been that way
OK
I am not in support of all you wrote that she does
But what if she happens to be your daughter?
Will you sit and watch her bedwet?
Watch her doing all the things she does?
Have you showed her with love and care?

Ok sorry I am not giving you what you wanna read
Bye

olymurphy:
I will advise u to go for vaginal birth.
I usually use kegel exercise and vaginal steaming to tighten myself after childbirth and this two helps women to orgasm wella too
You can Google about vaginal steaming.

slizylindy:
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OP i respect you. You are really ignoring the negative post by not replying them and filtering and absorbing the good ones...KUDOS!!!

Valprof:
who is turnin u to atm now...go and sit..u never liked that gal from day one..........stingy wicked women everywhere that spoil families....she dont do assignment, she bed wet ...bullscrap...ur children no dy bedwet.......

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...god help us from karashika

Coldfeet:
Please marrymeee how exactly was she able to break the toilet? If everything you wrote is true I think that child is autistic and needs care. Her behavioural pattern suggests so.

Find a way for you and your husband to get her professional help if you guys can afford it.

Is there nothing at all she's good at? One just can't be an all bag of woes.

olushowunm:
To solve all the issues... Take her to boarding school and you can bear responsible her fees and others. Then they will handle her with the iron hand she requires... Maybe a public school will do the magic.

giles14:
dis ur story sweet,


well if it's really true it will be best u send her home b4 d gal turns u to a zombie n and corrupt ur kids if u have any.

for her schooling, see are good schools in the village she can b enrolled der.

and for the family members who are thinking otherwise, u can ask them to take the gal in and maybe hlp dem financially.

Use ur brain

SamMilla1:


Thanks for your post and points.
I can't fault you.
I was just angry reading how this woman condemned this girl without shame.
She is probably looking for Sympathy from us so she could have justification to do one evil plan she already harboured.

lordoseji:
pls sir/ma before you comment next time do these 5 things :
1. Read well
2. Make sure u understood what u read
3. Think on what to comment
4. Read again and make sure u really understand what u read again
5. Comment reasonably without hate

Ma/sir now read again from the first page but do it slowly this time...

Come back and thank me #peace

EfemenaXY:


Are you serious??

Okay, jokes aside. Where is the child's mother in all of this? You've made no mention of her.

When I first read your post, my initial reaction was that you & your husband should return the child to her parents. Moreover, it seems your family unit is run and controlled by your inlaws. No one apart from you and your husband should tell you how to run your home. They can make suggestions - that's fine - but the final say (decision) is yours and hubby's to make because at the end of the day, whatever choices are made, you and your husband have to live with them - not your in-laws

Anyway, as I was saying, the more I read of your post, the more obvious it was that this little girl has got some deep-rooted issues, even at that tender age. But first of all, you'll have to make some hard choices here. If you want to help that child, then you do so on your terms and not because an inlaw tells you to.

If you do decide you want to help her, then you're really going to roll up your sleeves and get involved. Like someone mentioned earlier, getting a qualified child psychiatrist to evaluate her is a good starting point. Get to the root cause of her bed wetting. My guess would be that she's got anxiety issues a lot of which is a throw back to her upbringing.

Poor child. None this is her fault.

ucheokpara100:
their is absolutely nothing in South African women. (retire womanizer in South Africa) i dont want to castigate them now but that's the truth.

Donjazzy12:

Since you fear armed robbers that goes to show that you are an armed robber in secret following your idiotic logic!

WeNoGoDie:
How individuals quote the bible amiss and put themselves in difficulties beats me.

I know women that resorted to tormenting, beating and treating a young girl with similar circumstances like an animal instead of sending her back to her parents.

If you can't handle it, send her home rather than allowing circumstances make you to turn someone's child to worse than an animal.

Nori:
Its a very messy situation, pls move on with your life it's not worth the stress. Your just 24 years old you will meet many other men that haven't slept with your sister.

Vanquay:
Y'all know Toks2008 opened his Pvssy for some likes and compliments right?

FINEST My Ass...Nigerian girls have no heterogenity

halfricanadian:


lol u no wan gimme hope atall continue

halfricanadian:


lol i will decline it fast

I care bou his heart soul nature nt his money

Ok so after d money he cheats abi?
Or turn me to punching bag?

Im d girl dat blivs i can make my own money too so use love to impress me not money

halfricanadian:
bullsh*ts like this makes me already hate marriage till eternity i will never marry whoever pays my bride price

He is just decieving himself i will marry who sees me as human not a commodity


I will never ever marry such i rada b single aint no sin in that afterall its my life to hell with whoever i rubbish u nd ur bride price

prettynerd:
As i write this i'm totally broken, never been this sad and betrayed in my entire life, i don't know what to do anymore.
Yesterday my sis called me after work and told me she wanted to tell me something, that she can't tell me over the phone, i was with my fiance during the phonecall, lately i've been staying with him, nd we have been planing a wedding in the next few months, my sister said i don't know the kind of person i'm staying with nd she still insisted on not saying anything till wen we meet on sunday (my free day).
At that statement, i became curious nd comfronted my fiance if he had any disagreement with my sister, he said no, so i told him what she said, immediately, his countenance changed nd i knew that something was definitely wrong, he said he has a confession to make but don't know how to tell me, i became angry nd said i was goin to my parent house to ask my sister since he was'nt saying anything.
He started begging me, telling me to remember all we have been through together, and seriously we both started as family frnds for a long time before it led to a relationship, we started a business together when we had nothing, not even a house, now we have achieved so many things together and started living comfortably to some extent, my school fee, everything comes from the business, my parent don't assist me in anyway, although he brought like 80% of capital into the business.we have been dating for almost 4 years.
Now he confessed that he slept with my sister once while we were like 3 months together, that she was all over him, that he never knew we will come this far, i actually came to visit him that day with my younger sister, when i left them to get something from the market was when it happend, this is someone i've given everything to and totally trust, he has kept this as secret for over 3 years and nw he's begging me to forgive him, i'm lost at what to do, i know my sister to be wayward but i never imagined she could do this to me i'm just 24 yrs, pls advise me people and forgive my typo errors