highpriestess:
whatever,why is sex placed as the top most priority when In relationship? can't Nigerians date without sex?
back to the topic,it depends in the situation.

but for me,it's absolutely a no no though.

MissRaine69:
Those who give shall receive.......

makydebbie:
Lmao, don't flatter. I'm just an advocate of the head movement. Imagine dating a guy that doesn't give head, tragic.

RadicallyBlunt:
I'll give u 2 advice which may sound offensive to you at first.

1. Horrible as it may sound, get an underage teenager who would not be difficult to control. Those teenagers are tender. Date her for the moment which may involve sex but don't be cruel to her. Take care of her. The idea is having someone who tenderly submits to you and reciprocates ur care is a potent psychic therapy to hrtbrks and rejections. You won't get such tenderness from 20+ girls and above. Then when you feel better and you've forgotten ur pain, you can gradually free her. Emphasy on gradually, not suddenly so as to avoid hrtbrk for her too.

2. Tell people around you who understand, who can get you a girl for the main time and if your flow with her goes well, u may end up in serious relationship. But if you've started noticing that she will be trouble, after the sex romp and emotional appreciation you've experienced from her in the first few months which must have made you feel better, then start preparing to avoid her.

I had a suicidal melancholic friend who had a brk up and resolved for the brothel for a long time. He met many wonderful girls there, today he laffs as he tells us about those girls. That's his own style.

I'm not advicing you to go to brothel. But look for means where a lady will appreciate you. It heals the soul

okorro1:
Lemme get this straight, your story is too long so I merely skimmed through buh you say God did it for you so you're now bigger than the guy, the girl cheated on you with abi? Lemme now ask you a question do you think God did it so you can live a half ass life? I don't think so � , God fixed you up so you can have better opportunities � so don't be lazying about being a monster, better get up find a good shirt and a tie maybe, put on good pants (don't look at me like that I mean trousers) and go out and find yourself a great lady there are so many out there... Remember you can't wear black everyday of your life just cos when you were little you lost a dear one so Oga bath, dress up nice, put on cologne and go out and stay out till you find a woman... Lemme coman be going now

QueenSuccubus:


Hard to swallow? Ooh dear..

QueenSuccubus:


Hard to swallow? Ooh dear..

QueenSuccubus:




Hahahahaa... U look chewable tho..

QueenSuccubus:



Hahahahaha... I chose this name coz it suits my personality
Still looking for my Mr. Incubus tho

Oma307:
how do you expect me to believe this

urcutecrush:
Heartbreak can be painful but here i am again seeking for love online as an indoor person that I am

Divay22:
Eminem... Headlights

folake4u:


You nor well I swear .
Lwkmd!

5thElement:

And did that stop you from cheating on her again?

ubunja:
no repercussions my man. thats your inner vagina worshipper speaking. in truth men have been played worse and nothing happened to the women. some men raised 3 kids not their own. and karma never settled the score.
life is about playing and being played. just keep your eyes open. if you're played life goes on.