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pocohantas:
Na extra time she dey now. When it gets to this point... the only explanation we evening newspapers understand is, "when am I coming to see your people?"

Nothing else will fly, I mean nothing.

Lol, is our Pocahontas an evening newspaper lady?

SoapQueen:
Hey darling,
You will be fine. Okay? I am sorry for your pain. Guys and girls go through this sometimes. It is perfectly normal. Don't beat yourself too much, okay? Try to get up, even though it might be hard. Just take care of yourself, especially your mental health.

Bear hugs.
It is well.

I love the maturity In your post, especially the part you mentioned that boys and girls go through it sometimes, not some sickhead girls that'll come here to pin it on boys alone.

swiz123:
The school drop out, Iamairforce1, can even write better than you

What's wrong with his write up?

Pure wickedness and dubious act.

The guy has a strong case if he takes them to court. The family must repay him every dime plus extra.

But on a serious note, when will guys learn to stop sponsoring all these greedy hungry girls!

BiggerbossAmani:
Marshalxv not I was pestering her for relationship,if she had told me "two week I will give you my answer" I would've waited.


Still we can give up on something like this easily, let's see what will unfold few weeks/days to come.

You're still making the same mistake, zero your mind from any form of answer from her and concentrate on her attitude and body language around you. I assure you, u need no answer to win this one. I've been there before bro.

You bleeped up bro, why persist on her being ur girl? ,you should've locked up on her answer and do your thing, must relationships started as just friends, she likes you that's why she paid u a visit for you to give her more reasons to like you more but you misused the opportunity by pestering her with outright relationship.

Girls don't visit guys they don't like.

Oyindidi:
How you take read messages as you say the screen break? You are a big fool for telling such lies. Anuofia

Nairaland detective,i salute

As it is now bro, you're currently her ex

"she's denying u sex now cuz its a sin"
Lol, obviously u didn't meet up with her standards in the other room so she's back into the arms of her rider "ex"



That guy is obviously doing gymnastics on ur babe, Just count ur loses and move on

Did many odd jobs, while I was with grandma, I sold vegetable for her,would wake up by 4am everyday ,go to head bridge onitsha or relieve market to buy vegetable, later sold stock fish.
moved in with a family, I was turned to a semi slave, would wake up every morning by 5am to go buy ice block and freeze minerals and pure water which I'll later sale immediately I return from school without even eating, this was my secondary school days. Funny thing is that I have this ajebo face that tends to hide all my stress and hardship, people always count me among the rich boys. lol.
Most times when I sleep walk while hawking, I always see myself judging cases as a judge. lol
After sec school, had to do the normal mecine job for guys, supplying blocks and serving cement in building sites, loading and offloading apples, worked as a sales boy for years, loading and offloading containers and the funniest part of it all, helping some big boys woo ladies and get paid for it in return lol, Finally got admission and currently studying. This is just half of the story, the full version will come when I finally become a great counselor and a certified legal practitioner so help me God.

any help will be greatly appreciated
be it words of encouragement, guidance or financial 0038419510 diamond bank.

Karmatyra:
Aww....its quite unfortunate..I am based in abuja.
But its OK. Send your acct number...maybe a token can go a long way since I can't help you in the job area because of our location.

I'll love to send my account too sis Biko anything smaller than a token will do thanks , still a student though but surely I'll get there soon.
pls I'll appreciate to know how this bet9ja works. I plan on going into it when I have the means. Thanks again

I'm coming, lemme ask buhari first.

Here's my professional advice.
Anytime you see her tell her u have important file u need from the phone,if she's not with the phone
give her ur own phone and ask her to send it to ur phone and return ur phone ,Just call an unexisting file for her
giving her ur phone will eliminate any form of fear that you're about to take the phone from her.
by the time she tries to send the file which she'll definitely not be able, she'll come looking for you with the two phones or ask you to send it by yourself.
Note: you have to be calm and romantic so she won't suspect anything.

Twoclans:
Hmmmmm
Baby labam ,laba otu

Chai, imebigo Amu atogbuola gi�

HeWrites:

No time to argue with you.

#Shalom

You better take correction.
peace.

HeWrites:
E pain m

No time to lecture you.

Check what you wrote and insert what you omit.

See how ignorance has eaten deep into your system that there's no more space for improvement.

It's primary school pupil and not "student" .
Mr lecturer.

HeWrites:
Op, your writeup is like that of..... (don't know which category it can be labeled.)


Comparing your writeup with that of primary school students is an insult to them.

And you think yours is better?

"primary school students "

Preshy561:
joke taken too far.
if I were to be the lady,I would have paid and then after,I will ask him what happened to his life after the date.

I'm sure you would've paid, that's why I'm taking you out next weekend.....

Preshy561:
lol

I guess you agree with me now. ��

Preshy561:
And you think that there are no ladies that warn men to stop sending nudes to them?

Different stroke for different people.
We're talking about this particular man who wants nothing to do with them ladies nude.
He's scared of showing people stuffs on his phone cuz one dirty nude may show up.
His reputation is at stake here, I'm sure that butch would've devices a means to blackmail the man if he allowed the shit to continue.
You should applaud the man's maturity for not showing the girl's unclothedness,
He deserves some accolade!

Preshy561:
How?

Didn't you read the part where the man said he's been warning them to stop sending him nude? or should he wait till they ruin something for him b4 he takes action? Desperate times requires desperate measures.

QueenSuccubus:


And only pussy azz bitches react that way.

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Preshy561:
so what's there?
stale stale stale.
a guy in this contemporary age that uses a lady's nude to hunt her is said to be dumb.
especially from this side of the world,our men keep degenerating to a value of zero.

Seriously you didn't make any sense.

Women and their wahala, you forget that his siblings has been a part of him almost all his life, you came into the picture just last year and you want to disengage them already. You said it yourself that he's like the father of the family now in the absence of his father. The best thing is to make peace with his siblings and discuss the rest with your husband.

This is how it starts bro, from there they'll fix a day to meet and see if they're both capable of the nasty things they chat about .When the guy finally bang her, she'll feel bad and kind of remorseful, then she'll come back for more and the count continues. .

She sent u the screenshot cuz she wants u to up your game, maybe you're too religious or probably don't know when she's in the mood for some naughty chat.

Bottom line is.. your boat just cracked bro, it's just a matter of time b4 the obvious...

I think I still know how to turn someone down.
You get close to her, I mean very close, grab her by the neck, hold her waist,lift her up make sure her feet is above the floor, turn her upside down.dont fail to make sure her head is down while her legs are facing up.That's how you turn her down.

NwaChibuzor44:
lol ilorin nor too get joints like that jare. Me don live ilorin before. He go find tire

Bross, joints dey oo, but Na who go, go know, everything for here na coded.

Bross come tanke olosho joint plenty there just ask any sabi okada man to take you to joint. na u go taya.

Baba beji

Thegeneralqueen:
Maybe injure him on his head or foot would be nice

That's a straight ticket to either remand home or prison.

Lol, that's what you get when you go about bragging to your friends about how sweet your boyfriend's cucumber is and how good he rides it, roomie just wanna have a taste of the lollipop �

donstan18:
SLUT: This is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous.

Be truthful to yourself, just be truthful.

African societal views on ladies who you can easily sleep with supersedes all your manner of pretense herein.

Embrace the truth and move on.
I'm a guy aswell and we both know the truth behind the OP's question.

Remember, I initially said that the lady might not be seen as a slut because she's truly a slut, but because of how the society made gender sexual encounters look.

I read all these in your first post bro.
About African mentality, I'm an African doesn't mean I have to think like every other African.
I said something about individual variation.
My lady is dealing with me and not with the society.
There's no truth to be embraced here bro, I already know my truth but you're trying so hard to force Your Own truth on me.

donstan18:
SLUT: This is generally a term for a woman or girl who is considered to have loose sexual morals or who is sexually promiscuous.

Let us for once be truthful to ourselves, the hustle for commends from women(victims) herein will do you no good but harm them by encouraging them to have sex on the first date. I can see comments filled with pretense, lies, and self deception.

We are Africans, no matter how we answer this question by claiming sexually civilized on social media, we'll still log out and face the truth and reality, that's fact. This is Africa, where a woman who slept with a man on their first date will be tagged LOOSE WOMAN by the same man and the society, while the man will be tagged FVCKBOI, PLAYER, CHAMPION etc.

I can authoritatively tell you that the way a man see, feel and value a woman he slept with on their first date MUST be different with the way he'll value a woman he didn't sleep with on that day, but they'll come here to say E no mean anything , so that you ladies will keep sleeping with them on the first date , Human beings don't value easy things.

OP , to answer your question.

Truth be told, in Africa, a woman who sleeps with men on their first date is a SLUT, quote me anywhere, she's not a slut because she's truly a slut, but because of how the society made gender sexual encounters look.

Bross speak for yourself, we all can't be the same, there's what's called individual variation. The way you see relationship and sex may be totally different from other person's view. To me, sex on the first day is not a yardstick to how much I'll value the girl, it all depends on the circumstances that led to the sex, our compatibility and how well we connect. For clarity, I once dated a girl that had sex with me on the first date and our relationship happened to be my longest and till today, I still got that soft spot for her.


Hey ladies, this is not to encourage you to be having sex about with every guy you meet on your first date. Zip up your skirt and open up your heart!