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Adakintroy:
That's not the harsh truth my friend. Depends on your definition of truth.

We're I come from when people are sick family and friends come together to do what they can. Its a silent obligation. Its why we are friends. You are not a robot but a hunan with real feelings.

That is the harsh truth. If you don't know it know it now. Because some day you may just end up being the sick person you hate to help.

Again I salute you.

You are getting things wrong. I never said that I wouldn't help and I never said it's okay not to help. I simply said no one owes anyone anything. Where you come from is not where I come from. Where I come from and in the real world that I know, no one owes you anything and no one is ready to "look" at your face when you are broke, in need and struggling. Unfortunately, you can't arrest them because they don't owe you a damn thing. Depend on people at your own risk.

You are obviously a good person just like myself but many people don't share that characteristic and you will eventually end up burning yourself if you become Mr. Nice Guy to everybody because many are cruel opportunists who can never reciprocate your kindness. People should work hard for their money and not give birth to children that they can't take care of.

Adakintroy:
No one said they owe mr. And stop asserting yourself like you are a man. You are nothing. You talk like you are dead to compassion.

People like you like to beg more than anyone else for help.

God day.

I am not dead to compassion. It's the harsh truth. No matter how emotional and dramatic, it doesn't make one the responsibility of others. Thanks for telling me that I am nothing, I truly appreciate.

When you believe in nonsenses like curses, demons, Satan, voodoo etc. this is the undue oppression you will likely have to suffer. But for your believe in these nonsenses, you could have told her to fvck off when she took you to the native doctor's shrine, you would have had your freedom earlier and you wouldn't have given her #3m. Too bad the fear of these things caged you for years and made you lose three million naira to a heartless crook. If only stupid thought processes were painful and fatal to the brain.

Adakintroy:
You are not wrong but you are not right either. Your take Its purely rational and we are not drawing from that right now.When a person is sick and dieing he or she Deserve all the sympathy out there. This means we are talking emotions now. How alive are we? He may never have the chance to get it from us again.

If my own brother ask me for 100k. I will come up with all the story line out there. But if he is sick and dieing, my emotion should overide my rationality. That tells me am alive and well and all my faculties are active

Aside nobody ask you to donate your whole account. A pinch Will do relative to your finacial stand. But in whole rejecting the ideal althogether., I don't think it projects our humanity well.

Stop acting like a kid filled with Disney cartoons. If you are dying and your hospital bill is five naira, no one, however rich, owes it to you to help you out. You seriously need to grow up.

nextnear:
well i agree with all your lines but the first line, i strongly disagree, let me tell you, there are are friends like families and families like friends, "colleague" should mean a specific bond, we need to preach to those that doesn't know they might be doing wrong things, they are suppose to be helping themselves.
and one more thing... since you are assuming they likely have nothing to give out, i will assume too that he might have helped some of them too earlier in life one way or another so don't base it on assumption. and no matter how small it can be, every little helps, and just because you don't have money to render, how about presence and show of concern, my brother there is no genuine excuse for some wrong actions, lets not forget that advice is the least help, but all the same thanks for your opinion, i learn from it about life as well.

Colleagues shouldn't mean a special bond. Two people may hate themselves and still be colleagues. You need to stop being childish. No one owes you anything. Use your money wisely and don't be a Santa Claus because when things are hard, people will vanished and snub/distance themselves from you even those you haved help. No one forces you to give and you should let people work for their money. Even if you are the most handsome and very morally upright, no one really gives a damn about you but your money. You money is for you and the rest is for your bloodline, let others go and work for their money. You seriously need to grow up and stop thinking like a six year old fed with Disney cartoons.

I discussed this situation in a topic of my titled Hard Facts of Life, but some simpletons were disagreeing with me.

1) No one owes you anything. Not your friends, not your brothers or sisters, not strangers etc.
2) When you have money use it for yourself and leave the remaining for your children. Don't be a Santa Claus helping friends, associats, strangers and relatives here and there. Let people go and work for their money if they want some. Most of the people begging you for money don't care a damn about instead they care all about having their money. Even if it's your last card, they don't care as they would by any means beg it out of you.
3) When you are broke and in need, no one is going to help you. Even the people you've helped would be no where to be found, they would distance themselves from you and if you see them, they would snub you like you don't exist or give you some attitude. Use your money wisely, don't waste it on oloshos, high life, side chicks and nightclubs etc. don't be a Santa Claus.

I noticed the exact same thing. He is artistically brilliant in almost all aspect of football and can replicate his magic over and over again with ease because he was born with it. Ronaldo can do such but not without, at least, a little struggle. I used to be a Ronaldo fan but I am having second thoughts.

Weak man. Weak piece of flesh. Once a girl is giving you such attitude, you simply move on. Gosh, some men just live pitiable lives by virtue of their inability to think properly, know what they want and value themselves. Move on I say.

HallaDaTruth:
Mikel would have been greater than he is, mourinho killed his career by changing his playing position and style. What most people don't know is that your coach can make or break you. That's the same thing with iheanacho, when he was in mancity before guadiola, he was a dynamite at city, but in his current club, he is a shadow of himself. If I had my way I will stop Nigerian players from signing for English clubs. They should go to Spain, France, Germany, etc and build up their career and skills.

Mourinho was already spoiling Pogba's career.

SMH. If only stupid thought processes were painful. How can a living human with no trace of mental illness think like this? Oh lord

rekinomtla:
Don't shift the burden of proof, prove your own claims.

Do unicorns exist?

Nice to meet you.

JujuSugar:
Ibadan girl!!!

Seems aunty Kehinde just arrived from the village and is integrating in her own way and pace .

Amakavula:
I do have it once in a while, but my worst experience was in Junior secondary school. My stomach felt like someone was stabbing me. I tried to take buns and fanta before using the drugs I got from the school clinic, but couldn't.

I fainted during exams, holding my stomach, and was bleeding; lots of my class mates thought I had committed abortion ; D ; D

It wasn't funny, but the matron had to educate the class on what it was, and I got a class gift after returning to school. It got better with time now.

So ladies what are your experience with menstral cramps, how did you deal with it. Share younger ladies might need our experience.. cheers

You classmates and teacher were both good folks.

Correct.

I think I had one two days ago. I was in a hall filled with white plastic chairs, standing air conditioner and two other people. There was a lion in the hall accompanied by a lioness. Don't ask me for full details . I was scared as hell.

IAmSabrina:
I know right? . Some people's stupidity is beyond words

Exactly. Just when you think you've seen it all in terms of human stupidity, one springs out of the blues to surprise you.

ElidaxZiel:
Don't tell me you are now a pasta , like you Now believe a flying indomie God exist

Hahaha

Oh no.

What? So there is a woman that is uglier than Ronaldinho.

World best wing back in those days before Marcelo took over.

Why get a degree in gender studies when you can get one in Medicine and surgery? Pogba, please leave Manchester United FC for Juventus.

How people still vote for APC and PDP greatly baffles me.

If only he saw what Man Utd could have done to be the best club in the world before his sack.

Emmanystone:
When you trying to seeing? Really Martins? All this noise na dey grama you fit blow?

Lol. My bad. It was a mistake. I have made corrections. Thanks.

UyaiIncomparabl:
No. Not Victorian. Victorian will gladly lick his ass.

Okay.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Hahahaha. It's a pity you don't know that lady too well.

Okay, I admit I don't know her. If she is indeed not independent they she must among the very very very very few naija girls that can call off such relationship.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lair lair, pants on fire!

As a 39 years old woman that you're, meeting a guy with such spec as you defined up there, you'll gladly and forever cling to his shirt. You'll even be a door mat for him to walk on. Don't tell us lies, please.

Stop living a lie!

What if she is also independent?

Nice house. Money has always been good.

clemz85:
Abeg who know Wetin ManU & apc score...

Kai

How did I get here!

1 - 1 halftime. Pogba scored for Manchester United while Tinubu scored a stunning header from APC. Ambode also scored a stunning and thunderous header but it was ruled offside.

There is a lot of bashing indeed. The problem I have is that you can't tell if a male is behind a male moniker or if a female is behind a female moniker.