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SaveMeLord:
Is it devil he's serving? is it not same God of the Bible that gave Solomon, Job and Jabez wealth. Why does it seem I'm being forsaken? what is my sin? have I not been praying enough? Did he not say in Deuteronomy that He's the one that gives power to get wealth. What exactly is happening?

Bodyodour:
how com there is life?

Godpikin4real:
Which time my own name go enter their own book and people
Baba God pls pick up and answer my call as I don tire 2 de wait.

Minaak47:
I dont understand this guys head

kalufelix:
Let-me-say-this-for-the-umpteeth-time..."monogamy-is-the-biggest-scam-of-modern-Christianity"...that-being-said-you-are-nothing-but-a-bloody-simp-who-simped-all-the-way-from-courtship-to-marriage....hmmm...you-sat-her-down-and-asked-her-why-she-is-doing-this-to-you...see-talk...you-even-started-doing-chores-just-so-you-can-see-your-wife's-panties...chai!...what-kind-of-men-is-the-society-breeding-these-days...anyways-i'll-let-the-elders-handle-your-case@Caveadullam@pansophist@GLYCOLYSIS@skepticus....please-give-this-brother-5000mg-of-the-pill...a-fellow-need-to-be-saved...wahala-for-who-be-gentleman/niceguy...

angelfallz:
Many of the things you pointed out were also pointed by Rollo Tomassi in his book. "The Rational Male; Positive Masculinity"

Once a woman sees a man as a beta male, it is going to be almost impossible for her to see him as an alpha male, even when he starts carrying himself as one.
Like you said, in her mind, his new found alpha maleness would be like, who dash monkey banana?

The best solution is to start over with another woman.

IDERAWOLE:
I feel like dropping some lines of advice for you, but a bit sleepy now.

From your story, your idea of a great sex is all about penetration of the organs like most men think.

Most men think the way you do. Reason for most sexual frustrations in marriages.

The starting point for great sexual experience is the holding of hands during the day when there's no sex on the agenda. Next is looking into her eyes, all the home chores you've been doing but painfully, they may not be her love languages. Find out her love languages, touching, words of affirmation, helping hands, buying of gifts etc. Some speak all of these languages, some one or two.

Sex doesn't make sense with a lady who is not asking you to make love to her. And how do you make a lady beg you for it? By those things I mentioned above.

That wife of yours will like to gist and talk and you are direct opposite of her from the way you spoke.

Forget about thrusting matter now and get to know your wife. Even lower animals love all those pre-sex fantasies, that most women want. Start practicing it, before you know it, you'll begin to run from too much sex.

luminouz:
Stop EET!!!
You are keeling me!!! ..

I don tell am wetin him suppose do.

ABANGWABOI:
My Gee ..

I just read the disgusting info the dude dropped I can't help but to marvel at his sufferings ..
A married man of Barely 34 and wife of Barely 28 masturbating because he denies her sex..
This generation of men are sissies, Weaklings, effeminate and has no spine..
Personally, I thank God I stumbled on nairaland and read so much to understand the manipulative and funny nature of most women..
DEM NO BORN THAT GIRLFRIEND WEY GO DENY ME SEX WELL TALK MUCH A WIFE. I WOULD SEND YOU AWAY IMMEDIATELY AND BRING IN ANOTHER WOMAN..
One thing I understand about the poster is ... He is emotional, and when you are emotional you become vulnerable.. secondly, he has caged himself with religion..
@OP.. If you don't become bold enough to make firm decisions then know that your pain and misery just started.. by the time you get to 10yrs in that marriage . You would be suicidal and depressed...

luminouz:
Upon all the dowry and everything, person still weaponize sex,so you can do chores and take her out? Dey shout on you when u initiate sex?

Marriage matter ehn dey taya person jare

ongback:
Sorry man, there is no solution to your problem. It is the bitter truth you don't want to hear. It is only a matter of time before you start falling in/out of depression. Your wife now view sex with you as a "favour", she know that you can't take any drastic action because of your son. Accept my sympathy bro, las las na divorce e go take end. I just hope you are smart enough to start planning ahead and make some smart moves so you don't end up ruined.

When your wife start denying you sex, it can only get worse. Take it from me. An average woman in such age needs sex at least once every 3 days, some it's even daily. No matter how busy a woman may be, she can always bleep whenever she like. The busy excuse is nonsense. And dont forget that there is a high probability that she is steadily bleeping another dude outside.

collinsuchendu:
Lol.. Obviously, You can't love something that disguts you. I only love my mum and sis.

collinsuchendu:
Honestly speaking bro,

If murder was legal, trust me no Nigerian girl near me would be alive by now. I don't know if I'm the only one that have been experiencing this (even before I swallowed the redpill)..

whenever I set my eyes on a grown Nigerian girl harlot, I just feel like strangling her to death. no joke.

Ezi1993:
Anyway,,I don't feel pity for any guy that complains of one issue or the other that he may be having with his wife..becos you must have broken a very good Ex's heart and decided to settle for this one....Please enjoy what you paid for...Thank you.

collinsuchendu:
Lol.. Thanks for the mention bro. Trust you're good.

Although I didn't read the story but to be sincere, words alone can't do justice to my anger right now. Like WTF did I just read.. Are you sure the goat behind the moniker is not a pained broke ass feminist lady? Cos I can't imagine my fellow guy in this con3 typing such jargons.

Ok. Back to the topic, if you think that the so called overrated sex is not a weapon to the bitch, then why is she denying you your gaddamn right? Obviously because your brain is full of harmattan dust that's why you can no longer reason as a man.


To the op, my advise to you is to never ever give her back that car again even if she presents to you her rotten pussy cos that's all she has to offer.


Be wise bro, it hurts me when I see my fellow men been used by all these heartless Nigerian girls bitches.

A word is enough..

BigJoe19:
Martiñez39s, Ubuñja come and see Nairaland men wey talk say Redpill na nonsense wailing on this thread, una no go get sense at last until women turn una to trash.

Not an iota of sympathy felt for him, good one from the lady.

UyaiIncomparabl:
How may I be of help to you?

CaveAdullam:
Wonderful. This will be a great knowledge revolution and unlearning on my side if such bogus and ambiguous claim comes out true. Somewhere, you even mentioned prostitutes having an intact hymens.

Like you said: "even those---women, mothers----who have had 20 babies----children, can still have their hymen intact.".............in addition to the thousands of penis penetrations they have received via their vagina opening. Wonderful!

I will make sure I watch all the videos you posted, as I have already started, and read all associated links.

The truth must prevail.

My paddy them: skepticus, glycolysiss, ubunja, regex, pansophist, dpsychologist, martinez39s, I think is time to update our knowledge and software oooo.

Lets go.

Fountainofyouth:
[s]You lack understanding, as a man, during sex, the man is in control,(which i dont condone anyway) you the one thrusting in and out, therefore you control the sex, if a man doesnt want pregnancy or be blamed, he should master the act of withdrawal or using condom, it's very simple.[/s]


[s]And how the hell can a woman absolve herself from a pregnancy when she's the one carrying it for 9 months? Something that everyone can see[/s]