₦airaland Forum

Biglittlelois:
Maybe I should call Organs and istoprudeness to educate you more on your cluelessness, we already know you sleep, eat and drink romance section, and you will probably continue this circle for the rest of your monk life.

Biglittlelois:
Lol so if I decide to say Martinez and ubunja are dirty used sloughs, broke as.s niggas as a statement of fact instead of a rebuttal, means I am well within my rights to say that cos no lady will want to be with disgusts like that right?

if no one can determine for a fact that this is how you both are in real life, since this is just a faceless online forum, but still Martinez and ubunja are dirt broke, right? Okay good to know.

Listen up ladies, you are allowed to use shaming words, not as a rebuttal, just say it for saying sake

Arthur21:
The only sensible response so far,I am impressed.
Is there a difference between saying "evening newspapers" and "broke guys?"are they not both descriptive terms? Being broke is a state,not an insult,me saying "Martinez is broke" is not shaming him,it is describing him ,the same way you claim evening newspaper is used to describe ladies past their prime.

"Used up products" "damaged goods" "second hand products " are descriptive,fair point. I don't see you use it as a rebuttal. Is your complaint against broke shaming because it was used directly at you or cohorts ,like "Martinez is a broke a$$" or because some ladies use it to describe men on the forum without making a particular reference to them like "all this broke boys on NL"

From your post it seems you draw a margin between description and shaming.

I agree with you that shaming is when its used as ad hominem or rebuttal and making direct reference to the person while description is stating your opinions and choices.

From your first post of people attaching importance to financial status,was it strictly because broke shaming was directed at someone or because ladies openly stated they spec and choices and how they detest broke guys? If yes to the two then I will say you should allow them the liberty of stating their choice and how they feel about broke guys.

PS:kindly share with me links or posts to your feud with Michelle.

Biglittlelois:
Martinez, we all know I think you are only intelligent on this section and anything ladies and the pills you normally swallow, outside all this, you are completely clueless and unable to hold a good meaningful discussion.

CAPSLOCKED:
Excuse me?
is there non-virgin/newspaper/olosho/simp/single mom shaming on other networks?
Oh, so now brokeshaming is an epidemic but not the others you involve in 24/7?

ubunja:
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.

proclinician:
There's no denying I grew in finance immediately I focused on my self. I went celibate for over a year I chased a lot of openings on the internet putting aside my degree. I dated worthless godforsaken girls that left becos I couldn't pay them salaries but now I live a better life than their entire family. I advice my fellow young men. Leave these bitches they are worthless and empty and yours too just u only need to up ur game. Opportunities are on the internet millions of them.

These girls u see here calling hard working guys broke they are poor. As in excruciatingly poor and impoverished. They just hide their true state of misery in embellishments but engage them critically their true state will come out.

Illuminated993:
Redpill gives you the tools to operate safely through the murky waters of sexual relationships.

There's a thin line between being an incel and a redpilled man.

When a person like Kennedy says he needs no woman, you see a lying man who would never admit that he has no game.

A woman who likes you doesn't even need your money (the redpilledman is an adherent of Ubunja's concept of chosen), they just want the life your money can provide.

And that life isn't so expensive, it has nothing to do with impressing her. When she even asks for money, what happened to saying "I don't give women money, I like my woman getting her own money through her own creative efforts?".

Ultimately, the woman who wants to be with you does so because she thinks you're greater than her, and not because of the money she wants from you. Redpill gives you the tools you need in making her see you in this light.

Some of the guys who talk down on women here are incels.

As a redpilled man, I assume you have a proper understanding of female nature, and this understanding serves as your manual that helps you in making better decisions when dealing with women.

Kennedyiheme02:
everyone is always jobless with you clowns... lol you must be running an oil company amidst this corona virus

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC]The Truth is always bitter...[/color]

SweetCunt97:
My dear that was how I decided to to give a broke man a chance due to the nonsense these silly frustrated men post here and I entered bush o... Better one chance. I won't try that nonsense in my life again!

ichidodo:
[color=#1980BC] This one Don dey turn to Evening newspaper....Alarm bells Don dey ring... Biological clock Don dey tick dey go....Now she's looking for who to trade her depreciating sexual market value....She's looking to cash out....[/color]

iammo:
http://www.nigeria-law.org/Matrimonial%20Causes%20Act.htm this comprehensively deals with divorce and settlements

the first deals with what marriage is in the eyes of the law

Cc. Angelfallz

iammo:
call me he or she, form alpha male to soothe your young ego.. bro you go learn anyways I helped you with laws guarding marriages in Nigeria should you decide to commit

http://www.nigeria-law.org/Marriage%20Act.htm

emmaodet:
Bro, life is good as usual and wifey wit bobo they my neck dey chop my moni as required.
Went for a job interview today jare at PH, it seems dis coming recession is really looking good for me.
I pray i secure the new job by ending. 1.2m for a start bro, for a start.
Sometimes, my dirty part wish am still a bachelor to Do justice and run Amok on all these pussies am seeing around, but marriage don handcuff me ..
I dey envy una wey be single bro
Wat is d use of money wen be say na only egusi i go dey chop, i no fit mix am wit ogbono once a while

emmaodet:
It's well.
I won't blame the woman bcus a lot of men are fvcking their maids, SILs, neighbors etc

emmaodet:
Hmmmmmm

emmaodet:
The woman doesn't trust her husband maybe due to past experience or history with the man been maybe a flirt.
They should hire a male house help or someone from the man's side to stay with them.

angelfallz:
Under what law is that mapo court operating? How can a woman remarry and still keep the children and also be getting monthly upkeep for the children if the woman wants to keep the children then the new husband should be responsible for the upkeep of the children

Akinbahm:
With the rant of guys sorry boys on NL towards their cheating girlfriends truly attest to their dominance in relationship are you trying to be funny or what

Bro, I don dey pity una ooo, u suffered during dating relationship now u don enter another phase through marriage biko redefine una marriage and stop acting like a slave in that Marriage...

Don't let any woman caged you all in the name of Marriage nd Kids u brought them to this world together and you must work hand in hand to make them successful it's not a party job but both party...

lilmonarch:
in other words, men should stick to being slaves in marriages cos their wives can take the kids away from them? Nothing i no go read o

Akinbahm:
Bro, it still baffles me a lot when guys out there still believes the devil they knew during courtship would change in marriage completely to an Angel by losing guard to them (being lenient) after marriage!!!

Someone up there was trying to make Men being lenient towards their women. How on earth would you give your maid break without the intervention of ur husband all in the name of "Trust issue" aswear it's a slap on the husband he can't call his house to order.

Bro believe me one day she would shit test him by requesting him to clean up either his son or daughter mess that's even if they belongs to him self.

Never you tolerate second hand behaviour from your women if our Fathers tolerated such nasty behaviours our Mothers won't be worthy of emulation today...

iammo:
For a relationship, you gave a wonderfull piece of advise, but in marriages things don't work out just has you just barely painted it, in relationships Men can take ubujas advise its all cool and helpful, but marriage especially the one with kids, kids you love and ready to do anything over things change and a man needs to exercise a lot of caution and wisdom

Men can always dominate a relationship as you can walk out easily, women on the other hand dominate marriage because they have leverage on you if you truly love your kids

iammo:
eyah, my child you think marriage is by gra gra, well since you aint even cut for marriage then you are free..

Oga O.P if you have sense and want to stay long and healthy on earth you better avoid silly advise of the Macho Huncho , Alpha Male, Red pillers, most of them are single kids, who think girlfriends and wives are the same, who doesn't know married women are some kind of creatures entirely, and most don't know the suffer ahead of them as a man who must labour for his family wether he likes to or not so long the blood compels him to...

My advise get a male maid, or get washing machine and other devices that can make your life easy, remember anger would only complicate issues and your life generally
.

iammo:
ahh!! Ok , Lucky you

iammo:
lol honestly I want to see how you MR smart guy , Alpha Male , Uboja red pill guys would handle a marriage in this 2020 without divorce and paying child support like donkey.. I pity una

Purplekush:
[s]From your reply I can point out 3 things:[/s]

[s]1. you're single asf
2. you're unmarried
3. you wouldn't know how to keep a woman even if you tried[/s]

crackkhaus:
Maybe PrimadonnaO can also help shed some light on this.

She's the one who first called it unhealthy..

Perhaps she might be willing to practice matriarchy instead.

bukatyne:
@crackkhaus, what did the highlighted speak to?

And I am talking 'Nigerian patriarchy'