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hopefulLandlord:
Adeboye is a man of God, he drove a car from Ore to Lagos on empty tank and he said if you don't pay your tithes you won't make heaven. what more reason do you need to keep donating your 10% to churches?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpCgpR6dETY

riverbird:
Laf wan finish me for hear , this white dude beside me thinks am psyco or something .

MJBOLT:

A single mother out here is angry
with me because I said I can never take care of another man's child

hopefulLandlord:
well well well. we've always told them it's all make-believe. charms stopping bullets are just imaginary. they'd use blanks for show or intentionally miss or use non-lethal rounds and people would believe charm worked.

https://www.kaotic.com/video/3c740e77_20221105214751_t
take a look at that video and you'd see the guy was shot at many times but the police kept missing probably out of fear and lack of adequate balance affecting his aim or he was using non-lethal rounds. if the guy did some charm and was able to run away after being shot at so many times people would start claiming it's the charm. If charms works then nobody would spend so much time and resources developing bullet proof body armour

HardMirror:
gambling for where? gambling can never give me what i am enjoying now. salaries I pay per month alone now is more than the highest i ever won then. (my highest winning was 600k).

As i said in the last thread about gambling it is a distraction from a man's true potential.

HARDESTNIGGAINT:

JESHAL:
But without religion and traditionalism female nature will be something else, it keeps them in check,

monogamy is healthy for civilization, it's preserves family units thanks to religion, the decline of religion in western societies has led to high promiscuity and divorce leading to single mother households where degenerates abound,

also religion keeps innate sadists in check,it ostracizes anyone that doesn't confirm to it's imposed moral principles hence healthy for the majority of the masses as it prevents destructive tendencies,

you seem like a fervently righteous Christian who had an epiphany and decided to convert to atheism, what happened? what went wrong? absence of religion something has to fill up that void in that society, typically it's a political ideology like Nazism, communism, cultural Marxism a.k.a Feminism, the excuse that religion brainwashes majority of people into believing in the existence of the supernatural which might or might or be real but how do you explain miracles, signs and wonders that are above logic and human comprehension, the world is very big and diverse, different religions,ideologies, philosophies, cultures. I want to know why you chose atheism, I look at most atheist as anti-theist not atheist because they are typically not nuanced in their arguments against religion, they don't consider alternatives and reality, they just have bias against religion, remember everyone has that consciousness that God exist no matter how much you deny it.

SOZINN:
@Martinèz39s thank you so much. @ Eric247 hope you are following?

For instance, feminism began as a harmless movement to advocate equal job opportunities (among other noble things) between both genders, but now, they have started and continued to move mad by thinking males and females are equal and should be treated the same. Of course, we all can see staunch feminist in their 50s and 60s regretting that they ever towed that path.
I fear that if we are not convergent in our thought, by zooming out a little to see the chaordic effect of our advocacy on the larger community, we will be worse off than we started.
This is fact!

Again, anyone can decide to lead their lives the way they want to, but like a very intelligent man said "blessed are the BALANCED, for they shall outlast others".

Merci.

A number of guys have said that anyone who doesn't agree with their positions should go and create their own thread... It's sad. Sad because if we can't have constructive criticisms around a subject as gentle men, what breed of weaklings are we then?

I'll just quickly point out a thing or two.
In psychology, there are different kinds of cognitive processes, but for the purpose of the point I am presently interested in making, I want to touch on divergent and convergent thinking, very briefly.
As good as divergent analytical thinking is, the major issue is that extremes can be easily reached with this way of thinking, because most often than not, the bigger picture is not kept in perspective, so, not every variable in the equation is considered, before conclusions are made. That's why some people can say that all Nigerian ladies are immoral manipulative money-thirsty morons and everyone cheers like they came from the same village! Again... very sad!

Convergent thinking, on the other hand, puts the bigger picture in perspective, and so, carefully factors in other inclinations so as to make a very holistic conclusion.

What's my point?
If what we want to see (which I think should be) is a saner society where all men are seen as important and given their rightful place, then pushing only one point too hard will lead into more error than we began with.

NeuroToby:
I see people saying this is a thread is in the romance part of NL and so is not aimed at self development, hence, strictly 'woman matter' should be discussed... well, it's quite understandable, but I have rarely seen people who are not doing well romantically experience any tangible growth in other areas.

I like the way @Martiñez39s made his objective critical analysis of my submission. I will not bother to say anymore things in that regard... we all can have our different views of the same topic and lead our lives as we well please.

Dabronze:
Understand women nature!

TainyLite:
Amazing!!!

ubunja:
I'm here man,, and you're right on the money.

Guys come here and diss the thread saying we're too focused on women ,personally I don't know why they can't create the threads they need as you have mentioned. Cause it's simple. If this thread is not what you're looking for you can just go create the one you feel is sorely needed. And guys will visit and contribute if they like it. Simple.

Hrhdujdb:
Y'all be blowing me on this thread I'm not gon lie. A KNOWN TROLL IS DOING HIS JOB AND YALL HAVE A DUTY - IGNORE but somehow that's very difficult, ain't it?

The troll even gave the instance of authors making money like that's a crime but same troll went ahead to show himself consuming some products and in a *furnished* location. Do you think the producers of those things also didn't make profit?

Moreso, don't tell me there're people in here who think knowledge is cheap, heck knowledge of female nature? Smh

If you think those books are expensive, why don't you try being ignorant about female nature and compare the losses? A troll is using a popular carrot and stick method that we supposedly already learnt as a tool in women's handbook. This is now being used by a troll and supposedly ballfull men are falling left and right lol

Humor me

A TROLL IS A TROLL. Just as AWALT, the troll is guilty of being dumb until proven innocent. In this case, it's better he deactivates and come back as a new account if he thinks he wants to join in on the intelligent convo here for all the crimes he's committed against this thread

NeuroToby:
I've read through this thread for almost one hour and I want to quickly lend my voice to two opinions;

1. If you don't know yourself as a guy, you'll keep running from pillar to post trying to win a woman over. And by the way, I thought being successful (in every area of life) and not trying to chase a women is the goal?

It's sad, however, that many men know so much about a woman, they forget how to build a home and raise godly children.

2. The support a man needs is in the hands of another men. We can cry foul all we want, but the truth is that it is the same men that will favor ladies over you who are advocating that you become an alpha male.

NB: I agree with some of the submissions made by elders in the house, some, I don't. It's imperative, therefore, that every guy knows where he's going to, face it squarely and everything else will fall in place, including the kind of woman he needs.

Shalom.

Agelastus:
I'm totally in support man.

You thought I disapprove?

Agelastus:
No

Eric247:
Yes sir, I'm a student currently facing exams now

ubunja:
the way the above loser keeps mentioning Zimbabwe I just remembered something....

this paternity fraud thing is really getting out of hand. It may be that my own country may be the worst in Africa ...