₦airaland Forum

Androgens:
Ubunja "We Core Redpillers" knows how these events always end In most cases when you wrestle with pigs. I understand you are taking their own very game to their doorsteps and constantly wants to beat them at It. But I assure you It will most likely always end In premium tears and GNASHING OF TEETHS lol. But some of us have decided the best for us Is not to play or play from a distance, It doesn't mean we are a weakling or coward. It's simply wisdom and embracing peace of mind and that's how we have been winning. To those of you playing dirty with them, I wish y'all happy playing..

MrColdSweàt 2.0, sorry, Androgeñs, if you read properly and take time to comprehend, will you die?

Cheasystickylov:
Men , some guys here are just too funny, First I am not thinking the way you are thinking, I have long moved on, but moving on and not learning from the situation makes no sense.
I have seen brothers complaining of how people use their previous posts as an avenue to lambast them here, that is why people create new account to talk about personal things.
You see that Bling01, He js an angel that fell directly from the heavens. He has spent over a total of 20 hours on the phone with me, he has literally taken me from zero to somewhere without unnecessary judgment.
We all learn !
I must say again, I was not asking because I want a solution. Just want to learn deeper the ways of red pill . Enjoy bro.

Long time. It has been long. Hope you are good.

There is nothing absolutely wrong in doing a paternity test. Paternity test is a must. Do it around the time your child is born. Don't wait (few) years after you have bonded with and invested in the child, or wait for when your woman starts "giving you reason to doubt."

Make sure you do the paternity tests yourself. Don't tell your wife or family members (especially the females) and don't accept any paternity test that your wife or her family, or anyone, did without your knowledge and presented to you. Don't skip doing a paternity test because the child resembles you.

Paternity test is a must, no matter what.

JESHAL:
There was a comedy concert in London where so many Nigeria women were attending, princess the popular female comedian that was well know in the baba ijesha rape saga made several jokes during the concerts everyone laughed but when she joke about whether the kids of the women were actually their husbands own, the hall was quiet, she was now the only one laughing. That's why I insist a traditionally vetted religious virgin that was brought up in a stable household.


It reduces the risk a lot but like Martinez said DNA doesn't lie I will still do check up to confirm so that my heart can be at rest.

Good! The introduction of DNA test to humanity was such a blessing. Unfortunately, simping and blue pill mentality do not let most men reap its benefit in the intersexual dynamics.

In the past, our ancestors indulged in mate guarding —despite vetting and their hold and authority on women— not just because they didn't want another man fuçking the pùssy they paid bride price for. Their major concern was to avoid fathering and toiling for another man's seed. They didn't have DNA tests then, continuing their bloodlines/lagacy was such a big deal, and they knew what women could do if left to their own devices, so mate guarding was the best they could do to ensure they were not brutally conned.

Today, thanks to DNA tests, any men with enough fund can be 100% sure of which child belongs to him without stress, worry or niggling doubts. Our ancestors didn't have this luxury, yet most men don't readily utilise this privilege. They prefer to trust their women and fall for the scam of "don't you trust me? Are you implying I'm a hoe? Don't you understand the implications of demanding for a DNA?" and the wile of women acting like demanding a paternity test is somewhat offensive and degrading to women.

One would have thought that the introduction of paternity tests would have eliminated paternity fraud to a good extent, but most men are just daft and ignorant in the intersexual dynamics. A lot of men who have the funds to get a paternity test haven't done so because they trust their women and "she hasn't given me any reason to doubt."

JESHAL:
Martinez39s,gladly waiting on your insights concerning the paternity fraud issue, I want to settle down as a traditional patriarch running my home with love and my wife submitting to my authority as the religious texts says but I want to be very careful as the greatest dread of any man bluepilled or redpilled is being cuckolded by his supposed NAWALT worse much if she's a virgin, I need your counsel since you're are not playing the women's game of relationship or marriage you would be the most objective, emotions tends to cloud our judgement with regards to this issue since most her want to settle down and have their families.

I will drop my contribution eventually, but you need not worry. All you need do is make sure you do paternity tests on your kids BY YOURSELF WITHOUT ANYONE KNOWING, NOT EVEN YOUR WIFE OR FAMILY (especially female relatives). This is the best and wisest thing to do. If you can do this, you need not worry about being a victim of fraud.

Skepticus:
I have no response for Toñnyray as his usual line of thought deviates from the purpose of this thread which is the RED PILL.

Concerning the issue of the accuracy of paternity fraud percentage being reported, I have no issues whether it is below 30% or above 30%. Topping in promiscuity and being ranked by some research as the first in Africa and second in the world for paternity fraud is something worth taking note of regardless of the veracity of the research. All I know is that my awesome Nigerian Women would always prove your white-knighting excuses for them, wrong and serve you hot breakfast (regardless of your social status and financial standing) when it is necessary to bring you back to your senses. Even some online red pill content creators took note of Nigerian women being on another level, when it came to the brutal nature of women from the cries of their men. The almost overwhelming rejection and condemnation of paternity test by Nigerian women when the issue first came up last year is another testament. I didn't make this up.

It was obvious to me what you were focusing on with your post because I had already read the arguments and thoroughly dissected them the previous evening. Don't mind him.

Besides, not everyone here agrees with 30% paternity fraud report as absolute truth or really concern ourselves with it.

LordAdam16:
When you're done, I will shake some tables.

-Lord

That would be in the evening, probably tomorrow if not today.

Tonnyray:
No credible research evidence. Gbam.

Sure, you are right. Though the issue is with Skepticus's post and how it has nothing to do with the studies, you keep hammering on the studies which only Ubunja was dragging with you... you are soooo right. Enjoy your day. SMH.

_{Edit: I hope you know "dissecting the exchange" simply meant I thoroughly read each post to deeply understand each person's argument, not to take sides or think one person is wrong, and to know how the argument progressed (afterall, you claimed I am the one who should look up the discourse). SMH.}

Tonnyray:
Lol. The person he quoted was though. The exchange between myself and ubunja was my not subscribing to those figures as credible enough to bandy around as facts. You are the one who should go up the discourse.
And no the only response required is the research evidence not anecdotes. If there's none we can all gladly move on.

I dissected the argument/exchange yesterday, post by post. Let me break it down for you. You and Ubunja's exchange involved three components:
(1) the percentage of paternity fraud in Nigeria, Ubunja brought this up and made this a discussion.
(2) the cause of the promiscuity of Nigerian women, you brought this up and you and Ubunja disagreed.
(3) the cause of paternity fraud in Nigeria, you and Ubunja disagreed.

When Bàttalion said Ubunja is right, what component was he referring to? At first glance, it is unclear; it could be any of the three or any combination of them. Besides, the post of yours Bàttalion quoted was a post questioning heartòfcity12's take on the basis of his credentials; and heartòfcity's take was on the CAUSE OF PATERNITY FRAUD and promiscuity. Skepticus take was also on the the issue of promiscuity; Skepticus's take had nothing to do the percentage of paternity fraud and the "studies." Let's even say he quoted Bàttalion's post with a wrong understanding of his post, it wouldn't change the fact that Skepticus's post still had nothing to with the percentage.

Even if Bàttalion's was referring to the "studies," Skepticus doesn't know that and his post isn't out of place since it still deals with two of the three components of the discourse.

Anyway, I have nothing more to say on this issue with Skepticus's post and on the past exchange until I give my take later today or tomorrow for contribution sake. However, if you feel you are still right on this issue with Skepticus's post, I will gladly say "you are right."

LordAdam16:


-Lord

I had to shake my head at the way people argue. Later sha.

Tonnyray:
Here we go again.
The topic was paternity fraud in Nigeria standing at 30% or whatever.
Some of us require actual credible research figures before subscribing to such stuff. That's how we were trained.
It's unfortunate that amounts to whiteknighting here. I forgot random tweets are meant to suffice.
I expect tangentiality instead of facts as usual.

Obviously, Skepticus wasn't referring to the issue of the actual percentage of paternity fraud, or the "studies" flying around to support the percentage. Even that wasn't the main issue yesterday. Read his post again to understand what he is tackling.

@Skepticus
I would rather you don't respond because this whole thing is turning to a clown show.
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@Ubunja and other redpillers, I will give my contribute to this issue of paternity fraud and give my take on some posts later today or tomorrow. Have a great day redpillers.

SMH. SMH. SMH.

For goodness sake, Eric Ten Hag, don't play Fred and McTomminay together in the midfield ever again. Liverpool started gaining momentum when this pair started playing in the second half and our defence lost its integrity. Please, no more of this duo in the midfield, especially Fred.

shantti:
Please Brief me on how they are playing. Am not watching the game.

The are playing well and defending well as a collective while maintaining their position. Though Man Utd seemed to have relaxed a bit in attack since Sancho's goal and they've let liverpool do all the attacking as they defend excellently.

Let's see what the second half brings.

Thank goodness Nunez and Mane are not here.

Anyway, I am impressed with the new way Man Utd is playing.

JESHAL:
As a redpill aware man your ability to walk away is your greatest asset when dealing with women, don't force yourself on women, if she has geniune desire for you, she will comply with your authority and submit, a woman that doesn't respect you will want to control the dynamics of the relationship and force her frame on you.

Yes! The underestimated power that all men must have is the readiness and ability to walk away without it being detrimental to them.

"She said," "he said" and "they said" are not evidences and they mean nothing when judging Mendy.

As long as there is no evidence against him, it doesn't matter what someone said or how many people said it.

Thermodynamics:
Nigga, you are the one behind Martinèz39s and TheGidRedpiller account. You are the one behind both account, if you're so confident in your post why not quite embarrassing yourself and allow real people comment. You're not fooling anyone.

You are a clown at this point.

SPOT ON BRO, SPOT ON.

Here are my little contributions to this topic.

VeryWickedMan:
What is Conte's offence?

I am wondering too.

JESHAL:
FACTS

Years back, a guy opened a thread asking the best of two options: training a girl you want to marry in school or raising a german shepherd puppy in hopes of selling it in future.

The thread really shaked tables. Obviously, you know what the guy, myself and other sharp dudes went for.

Troubledman:
I never wanted to involve parents or friends. But she brought them in, in a spate of anger in December last year. When I saw some incriminating things on her phone and left the house. She called all my family, my friends, her family. Reporting me for leaving the house.

When my family tried to get involved then, I told them to stay out of it as it was my family issue. So my own family has never been involved. They're involvement now is because we've been paying a visit here for about a week now and she decided to act up in the presence of my mum.

Other times she waits to get into the room before shouting, but yesterday was really a shock to me. Shouting at me in the presence of my mum.

Ironically, she's going about telling people that I was the one shouting at her, which is a big fat lie, I swear on it. I respect my mother too much to shout in front of her. Heck even in the middle of the night. My mother still told me to apologize to her and I did. She made me apologize thrice.

Why is she still your wife?

Troubledman:
Hmmm. I read all the comments. I deserve all the bashing and more. I do not excuse hitting her, I just called her father now to apologize and confess for hitting her but I told the whole story. Everyone is aware of her aggressive nature. Everytjme he talks to her, its always to tell her to take it easy. I'm also vindicated in the fact that I called her close friend about 3 days to report her. I'm not proud of it but this lady makes my life hell.

Ironically. She doesn't have big boobs or breasts. I decided to marry her because I heard her story and like me she'd been through a lot. I thought that would make use both mature, understand how life works and know how to manage situations but that hasn't been the case.

I walked away, I left. I stayed elsewhere. I gave her space. She came to meet me where I was repeatedly. It was the middle of the night. I couldn't leave the house. I gave as much space as I can. She kept pushing. But that's no excuse. I Bleep up I know.

She left rhis morning. Continued insulting us.

Divorce her. What is stopping you from divorcing her? Hope you know that she is not going to change. Make sure you don't get her pregnant.

slimjohn2k5:
Try to avoid argument, agree to hers and do what is on your mind

Don't follow this silly advice @Troubledman. It will only set you up for years of misery, subservience and disgrace to your masculinity.

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@Troubledman, at the risk of offending you, I must say that you are a big simp and an utterly weak man; if you can't let this sink in, then you are not ready to do better and be better. Go take the red pill.

Divorce is the best thing to do, but like other men in the blue pill matrix, you probably don't want to consider divorce and you see marriage as a do-or-die affair.

Divorce that woman and kick her out. Do not have kids with that silly, mean and childish woman. Throw her back to the streets.

Do not try to make things work. If like most people who seek advice, you are only seeking to hear what you want to hear from others ie. you want people to validate your feelings, then you are a greater fool.



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Stallionhorse:
Leave the marriage but first get her pregnant so your money nd efforts wouldn't be a waste..  Peace of mind is the best gift in this world and if your wife can't give you that run for your life.
If nah me she for dey hospital now.. Push my mum to the floor.. Lol.. That's where the marriage ends I'll beat the bride price I paid out of her that night then bundle her injured body to her family house.

Nope. This is a wrong advice. Let him divorce her asap. There should be nothing that connects her further to his life.

Cc Troubledman

luminouz:
I posted that shola screenshot (on mood issh) on my status and 87% of those who viewed are women and no one even said pim, coz they know say I be werey. Na men dey come tell me say make I take am easy...that I'm too harsh blabblabla.

I told those niggas to fuq off!!! These days my vawulence is mixed with fearless.

Abeg, bro, share the screenshot.