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3Dii:
Damn! 'Finally caught up with y'all. 'Been one hell of a ride since page one. Thank you, brothers!

Well done.

JESHAL:
The cuck stays with the hoe due to scarcity and I'm sure he's a Yahoo boy

It's good to be redpill aware
The hoe has repeatedly cheated and he's happy, very beta and foolish


https://www.nairaland.com/7249856/he-caught-me-cheating-3

The woman is even post-wall.

Alexgeneration:
I don't care about some prostitutes masquerading as actresses nor do I care about Gistlover. I'm very much concerned why Apostle Suleiman's is always mentioned whenever there is sex scandal in Nigeria. Is he the only pastor in Nigeria with penis? Why always him? Why?

So? It doesn't matter. As long as there is no solid evidence against him, everything is hearsay and mere allegation.

LutherSanchez:
Guys,sorry I've not been active today,I actually went to do my PVC today. Something really funny happened at the PVC centre today oooo and I was like what the hell The lady that was doin the PVC was busy collecting money from people and doing for them(normal bribe) without
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Simp enforcers help keep the status quo running.

@sgtponzihater1

I am sorry that we couldn't get to speak further at this critical and serious moment in your life. I have been very busy. I will like us to speak in private, preferably on whatsapp. I will like to profer useful advices and orientation where possible. If you are interested, let me know.

sgtponzihater1:
Cheers. In the Western world we know the dynamics is a bit different. I've got properties, and money to potentially loose. All will be well, but I cannot take drastic measures like I would do ideally.

My story is ongoing and PonziHater always win in the end.

How long is the marriage?

ProphetJeroboam:
women prefer to wallow in delusions, they relish lies as long as you’re telling them what they want to hear. I have this nigga that was smashing this ugly babe, she is facially ugly and it’s not subtle, we all see it. He tells us that he constantly tells her how beautiful she is and how she has the most distinctively pleasing facial features just to keep on smashing. They had a fight one day and this chick told him that she doesn’t blame him, that she settled for him because she is the most beautiful girl he has ever met and how he can never pull a girl finer than her. She repeated all the praises he gave her and how she’s the standard for any girl he talks to. She genuinely believed this and my guy could only listen in silence to words of lies he said just because he wanted to keep on smashing.

My point is, when you base your relationship with people to a certain inflated mental image you have of them, when that image comes crashing down, your relationship comes stumbling down with it. Factually she is not the most beautiful woman or the most intelligent but he doesn’t care about these standards as they’re meaningless to him. Problem with this?

sgtponzihater1:
Unfortunately yes. If not I for don waka

Did you guys do court wedding?

How long have you guys been married?

Do you find yourself making compromises you wouldn't make on a normal day because you want "peace to reign" and avoid a broken home for your kids?

Chocolate, by Magixx.

sgtponzihater1:
Don't get married. A woman I married is living in a House I bought, has not said Good morning to me for nearly a week. She prepares food from the food stuff I bought, sits on the chair I bought and watch movies from morning to night. Probably waiting for me to break the ice and apologize.

Don't get married

Does she have kids for you?

CAPSLOCKED:
WHO KNOWS? COULD HAVE BEEN A BET? LOL.
MASSIVE W FOR SERGEY. IF SHE HAD SOUGHT A FALSE CASE TO DIVORCE HIM PRIOR HE COULD HAVE HAD SOME OF HIS CASH/ASSETS TAKEN FROM HIM. IF HE NAILS THIS ONE HE WALKS AWAY WITH HIS MONEY AND FRAME INTACT.

LESSONS FOR WEALTHY PEOPLE TO LEARN FROM MEN LIKE ELON AND DICAPRIO. IF YOU PLACE A BET ON HER LOYALTY YOU'LL LOSE!

Maybe. It could be.

CAPSLOCKED:
WHEN PEOPLE SUBSCRIBE TO "REDPILL IS AMORAL" THERE'S NOTHING TO HOLD ELON ACCOUNTABLE FOR. RIGHT?

Elon Musk's can't be faulted morally by the redpill. I was just speaking personally from the way I see pùssy. If Elon Musk is a redpiller, one can't use what he did to Sergey to discredit his red pill practice. Cold truth.

JESHAL:
The stupedd troll above justifies a woman infidelity with a mans best friend due to seperation

Ignore it like you would ignore a small pile of poo in the gutter. Don't acknowledge it or reference it in any way. Let it be like it and its posts never existed. That's how you drain things like it and make it look stupid.

I say this to you and to everyone. It doesn't matter how much and how long it posts. Trolls are nothing new, and we must handle them accordingly.

JESHAL:
You think you have money, your fellow rich man peer can't sleep with your wife, Hypergamy doesn't care, it doesn't care about you, it doesn't care about the future of the kids, it's ruthlessly self seeking

Elon musk showed Sergey brins pepper

https://www.nairaland.com/7244802/elon-musk-affair-sergey-brins

I thought they said if you hustle and make it and provide for a woman, she wouldn't cheat on you or think of leaving you. She wanted to use her pùssy to trade up to Elon Musk... monkey branching. She wanted to move from $93bn to $253bn. Hypergamy is never satisfied and it doesn't sleep or take a rest.

Elon Musk's self-control didn't reach the extent of placing male friendship above pùssy. SMH. That's too much price to place on pusśy.

SavageBoy:
I dey tell you, no cap

The guy's advertising strategy na world class mehn

When I read the part where he said he makes about 30k from his phone, I just know say guy man wan use this school reunion epistle advertise him business

But op you try, you got nice writing skills, you sabi garnish fable them am to an award winning literary piece

If his story was concocted by him alone and wasn't borrowed from anywhere, then we must applaud his ingenuity and writing skills even though we know what he is trying to do.

You advertising strategy is top notch. At this rate, you will win the Nobel Prize for Literature.

emmaodet:
Yes bro.
Met one like that some years back. She was very inquisitive.
Trying to know where i work, how much i earn etc
Just kept her in the loop.
Most times we met at restaurant and sometimes hotel until i dumped her ass.

How is your side brother.

My side is fine, boss.

Benee1000:
I laughed real hard reading this.

What these boys are chasing ain't even excellence cos excellence requires time and experience and discipline.

They're chasing success.
They will learn the hard way.
Since they don't want to take the redpill voluntarily, women will give it to them by force.
Women will always be women.

If you're a young chap still trying to figure out life, learn to grow not jump.
Your biggest asset is time. Use it to grow with the right knowledge and discipline.

Knowledge is power, money is only an illusion of it.
Don't Chase success.
Rather chase excellence, and success will chase you.

Overnight success rarely happens and it is unrealistic to bank on getting overnight success. Guys must learn to get their bread from scratch and build gradually with time.

heartofcity12:
You’re absolutely right bro. Lesson learnt. Thanks for the contribution.

No problem, we learn everyday. The experience doesn't take anything away from you.

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That girl a man thinks is decent because of decent dressing is being piped by another guy wey no send.

#SexFirst.

emmaodet:

I do meet such ladies too but the mistake you made was taking her to your house first time.
Since you could read her intentions, you have 2 good options.
1. To take her hotel and lash for the first time so that when she comes to your house the second time, even though she may feel disppointed in her expectations, atleast you don lash the idiot.
2. Let her go just like what you did.

That girl would have bleeped heartofcity12 if he followed your advice. The same way a prostitute would be willing to sleep with a guy she finds physically awful for cash is the same way the girl would have slept with heartofcity12 thinking it will secure her his resources even if she isn't sexually attracted to heartofcity12.

All women are driven by status and money.

heartofcity12:
My mistake was that I over-estimated her because she dressed modestly and she claimed to be gainfully employed(she didn’t look like the regular hoe), I thought she was genuinely into me, I didn’t know she was status-driven like she actually was until I became suspicious of her intentions, despite my Redpill awareness, I still didn’t pass that test like I was supposed to.

Kai. At that point, you lacked some red pill. As I have always said, it is not by decent dressing, nice gestures, wearing christain cover shoes or hijab, speaking in tougues, good character in many aspects, attending Deeper Life church, saying that they are not after your money etc. As usual, a woman can do all these and still be a big hòe and gold digging viper (all women are gold diggers anyway, survival tinz).

The flaw of men is that we look at the outward appearance and make assumptions upon it; making big and hasty assumptions with no room for doubt and suspicion is one of men biggest enemies. This is why men who take the red pill to the fullest are always suspecting and taking all moves a woman makes at the moment with a grain of salt. They play the game and enjoy the flow, but they don't trust or place their full hope on women.

Lesson here is that not all greenlight or choosing signals or approach are genuine.

Exactly bro... I should have simply done either of those.

True. We've said this before. However, you missed a red flag. Let me explain.

The Chosen Principle capitalises on LUST (aka genuine desire). A girl that has genuine desire wants to fùck you and get freaky in bed with you, not date you. A grown girl that lusts after you won't tell you that she wants to date you. Dating and serious relationships are reserved for men (blue pill or red pill) that she perceives has the resources; the moment she mentioned "date", you should have known that you were sized financially by her and her friends. You should have known that it was about the cash, not you.

Women will also try to secure rich men, but that is not the "chosen" the Chosen Principle is talking about.

If a girl lusts after you and whats to fuçk you, she will do the following:
(a) make herself readily available,
(b) make it very easy for you to fùck her (she won't stress you at all), and
(c) she will be ready to try many sexual stuffs with you and give her sexual best without you spending a dime.

If a girl you think is choosing you is doing the opposite of these, bounce. Make sure you bring the issue of sex first (as Ubunja would say); if she is not down for it or doing the opposite of the above, bounce. Sex first; you can't know the red pill, think a girl is choosing you and then try to take things slow and look for something serious... sex first! In fact, within a short time of playing the field and digesting red pills, we men should be able to tell when a girl lusts after us from the signs she is giving.

Think4Myself:
Please stop living under a rock and visit reality for once, in fact this is the reason I don't like the redpillers on this thread. Always taking things that don't relate to us

SMH. Alimony and child support are things in Nigeria if you do court wedding. TarOrfeeek is right.

You should update your knowledge.

pansophist:
And what's worse? She thinks she is attractive and the looks she gets from men are sign of interest. She no know say we de laugh her

monfizzy:
You guys never learn. Why do you want to bring her over? This thing never works. If you want to remain married leave her where she is. This woman will disappoint you. U.K. and the larger Western world marriage doesn’t work. I know you won’t heed to this advice but you’ll remember one day that you were warned.

He won't learn. They assume their own is different.

galantjoe:
Many have plied this road, some had died, while some committed suicide and others are homeless because they naive wives had evicted them from the houses they built.

Never try bring your wife to UK ��. It will never end well

Many won't listen.

Zoharariel:
I agree completely with your write up. Once you take any married Nigerian lady abroad, they instantly turn to tiger.

I cannot count the number of Nigerian men abroad who have been jailed (some committed suicide afterwards) for shooting or killing their inglorious, stubborn & ungrateful wives after they were taken abroad and turned into a mountain tiger.

Life is full of unintended consequences both good & bad for everybody, so - I would rather learn from other people’s mistakes & misfortunes than others learning from mine.

You are a smart dude. This is how you know people that value their lives.

Dbliz:
And in the situation whereby am the only child of my aged parents, I should still forget about having children?or I rather adopt?

Are you the only child of your parents?

Anyway, stop worrying about continuing the family name or bloodline. The world doesn't care about your family name or bloodline except if your family name and bloodline have achieved something valuable or made a profound impact any point. "Otedola", "Musk", "Bezos" and "Gates" are family names that will never be forgotten because of the achievements of certain individuals.

If you don't want your family name to be forgotten, try making an impact that will never be forgotten. Great men are remembered for their works and achievements not giving birth to kids. Everyone has family name, not special about it. Everyone had to have a bloodline and be born by somebody, nothing special; even goats and antelopes have their bloodline... nothing special.

Take care of your parents, but have it in mind that you have your own life to live and you are not obligated to please anyone by procreating. Your parents have lived theirs, it is up to you to live yours.

1Sharon:
You tell a Nigerian not to do these things?

Nigerian men need to have sense. It is small small.

Dbliz:
Thanks alot for the input. But answer just this other one. At old age, there are certain things that definitely you just can't do again. In such cases, what should such person do? Hire a maid? Or stay in an elderly health care home?

Yep. Go to elderly health care home or hire maids and caretakers. At a very old age, you wouldn't be able to do much and that is okay. Old age is when you should relax, reflect on your life, and prepare for death (everyone's final bus stop). Do all you want to do and chase fun and your happiness when you have the strength.

If you get divorce raped or stay in a marriage where the woman wears the pants (thanks to the family laws), becomes a thorn in your flesh (thanks to the family/domestic violence laws) and you become miserable and can't leave due to the cost of divorce, you will wish you took my advice. You might argue that it doesn't happen everyone, but it only takes one encounter and the probability of what I wrote happening is large.

Your peace of mind, serenity in your abode, and utter freedom are priceless and not worth risking by getting married in a western society. Never! Later in life, you will realise this.

Finally, try your best to avoid entering the child support plantation because that is another slavery and oppression on its own. Avoid having kids with a wife, babymama or any woman.

Go and enjoy your life. Hustle hard, make that paper and go have fun. There are a lot of sweet hobbies and entertaining and fulfilling things to do with your one and only life before you die.

Dbliz:
Living such life as you just said is really thrilling to me. But how do I cope in old age? As I've seen a lot of unmarried old men suffer in their old age

Take care of your health, go to the gym and eat healthily. Start doing this early. Take care of your body now and put it in good shape so that your body will take care of you in old age. Old age isn't doomed.

By the way, having a wife and taking her to live abroad is not the surest way to curb loneliness in old age. Go and enjoy your life. It is such a time to be alive.

Don't take her to the UK. Go there alone, hustle hard, stay single and enjoy your life, don't have kids, and don't cohabitate with a female.