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Junnior:
You emit too much simp vibe.

The same lady wouldn't think twice about slapping and publicly humiliating a guy who sexually harasses her.

The reek of simpery he exuded cracked my phone's glass. Men really have a long way to go in this game.

Emmynator:
Why isn't it?
So you warn a girl repeatedly to stop harassing you, she continues because she expects most guys to react like you.
She scoffs at his warnings, "he can't do that" she says.
Until our warnings start having meaningful weight, words will remain nothing but words, now action like this is what gives words meaning, I'm sure in that location, a stare from capslocked is enough to put them at bay.

Some of the many reasons why women keep having the upper hand in the game of intersexual dynamics and why men keep taking L's are due to lack of common sense, lack of long-term thinking and foresight, being simple-minded, and lack of balls.

Lack of balls make many men take the easy way out when they are supposed to hold women accountable and rightly put them in their place. They give females free passes, undue privileges, and rationalise and excuse their bad behaviours rather than hold them accountable and rightly put them in their place. It is just sad out here.

obinna58:
It's your type of personality that even made them do it in the first place(too friendly, easy going) there's no need being rude.
You mustn't attack someone to let them know you don't tolerate bulsh!t, convincing works, who doesn't know rights and wrongs, take it serious and she'll stop, even if she's dumb she wouldn't want you disappointed.
This is someone wanting you to feel her sexual sides, she wouldn't want to ruin it.

Okay o.

Let me ask, if we switch genders and we see that CAPSLOCKED was doing the same thing to the girl, and the girl slapped him or retaliated by touching him where he doesn't like (or where he considers inappropriate), would you be saying the same thing? (Remember that she repeatedly warned CAPSLOCKED to stop, but he didn't listen. She finally threatened him of retaliating in kind, but CAPSLOCKED didn't listen and she kept her word).

Would you be saying things like the following:
(1) It is her personality that made CAPSLOCKED do it.
(2) it was just sexual admiration from CAPSLOCKED and,
(3) she was being too serious.
(4) embarrassing or attacking him in public isn't cool.

Be sincere with yourself in answering me.

obinna58:
Boss these are just sexual admiration they have for you making them do silly stuffs like that.

No need being too serious

This doesn't make sense. So if CAPSLOCKED approachs a female, starts touching her at places she doesn't want, and she slaps him or retaliate by giving him a taste of his medicine (ie. touching him where he doesn't want), would you say she is being too serious and CAPSLOCKED is just expressing his sexual admiration? NO! I am sure you and others would readily condemn him for sexual harassment and state that the red pill doesn't condone that.

Remember, the girl CAPSLOCKED gave a taste of her medicine was repeatedly warned and forewarned of how he would retaliate.

Sexual harassment is wrong, very wrong. There are right ways to express sexual admiration.

posty56:
Thank you! I have said it in one of my post here , women change when they think they have better option, that's why I keep repeating it don't attach emotions to that gender if not you are setting yourself up for heartbreak.

I could write a lot, but let me shorten this. There are many reasons a woman changes:

(1) She has a better option available to her. As a result, she don't need to behave to keep you and avoid ruining the relationship.

(2) She is now doing financially better than you. Incidentally, her hypergamy will make her think she deserves better and she will lose respect and admiration for you. In the feminine psyche, once a women is doing better than her spouse, respect and admiration cease. Also, at this stage, there is no reason to behave herself to keep you and maintain the relationship. The only time she might delay the change or persist in the relationship is when, despite her financial superiority, you are still useful with the lesser resources you have eg. you are still covering the bills while she keeps all her money to herself (your help is a relief she benefits from). Once your are drained and you are totally worthless... I will stop here.

(3) Whether or not she is doing financially better than you, once you face financial hard times, become broke and can't provide for her and the family, she will change. She will lose respect for you, change, and you will see her true colours. You will irritate her like you have faeces over your body, disrespect will start (even openly), and she will get easily upset and repugnant at any little thing you do and at even your presence. No matter what you have done or sacrificed for her in the past, no matter the love you have shown her, these wouldn't change anything.

(4) When her SMV takes a boost and she thinks she deserves better. For example, she used to be fat during the relationship with you, but she lost weight and started looking better and attractive. Also, you trained her in Med school from your proceedings as an okada rider and she has graduated. In can give more examples, but I will stop here.

(5) See finish (lose of mystery and thrill), lose of frame and/or you started doing beta stuff. I could write more, but I will stop here.

(6) The leverage in your relationship has tilted in her favour or she has gotten what she wanted from you.

(7) She has seen that you are never willing to leave her. This is related to (5) sha.

Add yours. There are many more.

jimmynauty:
Impressive contradiction

Can you point out and explicate the contradiction you are referring to?

Saviolamemphix:
Hey bro can i send u a pm

Sure.

Tottenham did well. I wish they got the three points, but they still tried.

Down Liverpool!

MJBOLT:

don't be a fool

Dude used to be a pathetic simp, making all sorts of bluepilled and simpish posts. Ever since that girl he housed showed him pepper and falsely accused him of rape, he started threading the common sense and red pill path.

Emotionss:
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Only few men have the balls to do or even appropriate the type of raw masculinity that you displayed towards such women.

That was how a supposed Redpiller was ""suggesting /Advising"" I look for ways to pacify some aggrieved entitled female staffs who are angry that I did not include them in my father's Day give away...


I am waiting for any woman that will be unfortunate enough to try such nonsense with me.


weaklings forming redpill online while in reality they're nothing but glorified Simps

"The hardest part of the red pill is not taking the red pill, it is staying redpilled."

jimmynauty:
Interesting contradiction.

What contradiction are you referring to?

She couldn't foresee this through her gift of prophecy. Maybe she will foresee her release or, perhaps, prison break; that's if her large adipose tissue will allow her run or fit through the escape tunnels.

Praise God! Hallelujah!

PrinxArthur1:
i saw your take on issue , lol,I am still in control of the relationship ,everything is not Gbas gbos, sometimes corny man die corny man bury am

My G, nothing do you. Your reply wasn't bad at all. I was just saying what I would have done and what I thought would have been the best way of handling things. No room or tolerance should be given for such nonsense and disrespect in my opinion; if such aren't handled rightly, they spell doom for the man. I see no reason why one must put up with such or let it slide without eternal silence or snobbery or a harsh reprimand. Las Las, only you know more about the relationship, the woman and her usefulness to you, and how you people have been relating. So you are in the best position to choose how to handle things (I even said in my long post that discretion might need to be applied depending on the situation). Since you haven't simped or defied red pill principles in anyway, no problem.

I was simply giving my own opinion and explaining to the other guy why my take isn't extreme. Cheers.

MJBOLT:
https://www.nairaland.com/6897563/lady-flogs-fiance-cane-after#108540344

Funnily enough, she is spreading her legs for someone else. A woman can be cheating on her man without remorse and still be so aggrieved when she catches her man cheating.

mattfeuter:
This advise is extreme. . .

There are simpler ways of saying No.

Life no hard reach like that. . .

To make something clear, PrinxArthur1's reply wasn't bad, but I just suggested what I thought would have been a better response. Notice that I PREFERRED silence and snobbery because personally I have zero tolerance for stupidity and nonsense and I have strict boundaries, and we should all imbibe this. In case you think my response is harsh, you can opt for silence and snobbery.

That being said, my advice on how he should have responded if he really wanted to reply isn't extreme. Understand that her question, a question from a grown adult, reeks of a disgusting sense of entitlement and the arrogant and impertinent confidence of someone who has gained familiarity with prixarthur and thinks she has "seen him finish." (anyway she said he usually goes to her place, and I will wager that that's where the attitude is coming from. You never can tell if there is a way prinxarthur relates with her that gives her such audacity, or maybe she is just like that; only prinxarthur knows). Such is inappropriate and to have the guts to shove it in his face is highly disrespectful and a slap to his face, if he has strict boundaries on not putting up with nonsense. It doesn't matter if it is a śhit test or not.

To even do it confidently and remain rude and remorseless after prinxarthur's reply shows that there are strict boundaries he has to enforce in how he deals with her; it shows her regard and manners (towards him) are not sufficient and she has to be put in her place immediately and sharply. For such a rude and entitled folk, silence and snobbery or a harsh verbal stab (if you wish to respond) is okay to put her in her place so she will think twice when trying to pull such stunt next time. People who respect and place value on themselves have strict boundaries on who or what they tolerate and none of them will put up with anyone who can shove such nonsense in their faces.

Never be polite or gentlemanly to an unworthy and shameless woman. Never be polite or gentlemanly to a woman who lacks manners and has the audacity to shove nonsense in your face. Be cold and show no pity in putting women in their place if need be. Many of us will want to enter serious relationships and get married in future; for such men, it is best and important they get used to setting boundaries and putting women in their place if need be, even if it gets them offended or seems too harsh. Without these, your manliness and frame in your dealings with women are questionable and will be found wanting. This should be deduced from a red pill lens. In fact, all must have these qualities and get used to them. It is common sense.

Of course my advice should be followed with discretion. However, I am sure you get the drift.
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Finally, I know life can be hard for some single mothers and they are trying to survive and take care of their kids. However, the right thing should be done. If you want to ask someone a favour, do it politely and respectfully knowing fully well that no one owes you and your child anything. If your fellow man was this rude, entitled and disrespectful, would you pity him in how you would treat his fuçk up? Even after she shoved her entitlement and rude behaviour in his face, she didn't realise her mistake after his reply. She didn't even understand what she did wrong and why he was be angry, yet she kept on being rude and showed no remorse. SMH. Is such worthy of any consideration or pity?

G0LANHEIGHTS:
You get bad mouth chai

I have little tolerance for nonsense. From my experiences with people, men and women, I learnt from an early age to have strict boundaries. Some people deserve it hot sometimes. Don't let people do you anyhow.

mrfizy:
Gender equality is a tale of the tortoise challenging the cheetah to a race and asking the cheetah to slow down for it to win.
Even when the cheetah enables the tortoise winning,it doesn't really makes the tortoise the winner.

Even when the tortoise is given all sorts of extra privileges, the tortoise will still want to be considered a victim.

What's the essence of lacking belief in the existence werewolves, unicorns and vampires?

1Sharon:
The thread really didn't go the way he envisioned at allll

He was expecting the theists here to blow smoke up his behind but instead the atheists came to choke him LOL.

Even some theists here don't agree with him.

kingxsamz:
I won't lie I was shocked too.
I thought Atheists will receive unnecessary backlash and insults like the usual. It's a good thing the thread was already filled with "mature minds".
Certainly not what the Op expected.

He came here to flaunt what he perceived to be his son's unusual intelligence and precociousness, things he is clearly proud of. After glossing over these, he followed it up a story of his son's argument with an atheist kid as though the conversation and points made by his son demonstrated high intelligence and smartness. He even claimed something his son said (which was actually very ludicrous and silly) had a profound impact on him. He wouldn't have opened this thread if he thought his son spoke so stupidly in the argument. Like father, like son; the blind leading the blind and they are proud of themselves.

He probably thought he would be inundated with praises from people, especially theists, on his son's intelligence, but atheists and few theists came to give him a reality check and pointed out the absurdity and logical flaw of his son's argument. When this happened, he got emotional and foolish and started misrepresenting these people and their take as bitterness, anger, frustration with life, jealousy towards his son, jealousy towards the fact that he has a bright son who makes him proud, indirect bullying etc. You can't make this up.

He even afforded his son an opportunity to respond to an atheist's post; and the foolishness of the reply, and the nonsequiturs and strawmanning within, really showed that son and father were cut from the same clothe. He thought his son would speak intelligently in the reply and take down the atheist and he would showcase it to show people how smart his little precious boy is, but the son compounded irrationality with more irrationality and father couldn't see it (he should have if he had any vestige of intelligence on this issue).

Like father, like son.

PrinxArthur1:
single mom are the most entitled set of women I have ever seen , I dick you well and you still expect me to fund the life style you created by yourself

Silence and utter snobbery, together, are the best responses to such stupid statements and questions. You shouldn't have honoured her stupidity with a reply. You could have ignored.

Even if you want to reply such in future, be brutal and tell her "your child is none of my business or responsibility, I didn't give birth to it, and I give no flying fùck about your child. Don't ever tell me such nonsense again. Good day." After this, ignore her. Don't pity such stupidity and entitlement; be brutal and verbally stab these stupid women in the heart. Next time, they will know their lane.

Personally, I prefer silence and snobbery. I can't stress myself over an idiòt.

CaveAdullam:
@BLOODYSPERM deactivated his account. Huh!

Enjoy your sabbatical/monk mode bro.

Sigh!

Dude will be missed. I hope he drops by some other time.

generalwo:
.... So calling someone a criminal is now the same thing as sending messages to their contacts abi? If you tell the contacts to remind the people to repay their loans.... It's makes a lot of sense then editing their pictures with the tag "criminal / fraudster" on the run and should not be trusted..... Do u know the psychological damage such messages cause on people??

A defaulter of an official agreement (which you agreed to of your own accord) is a criminal/fraudster. Loan companies owe defaulters no consideration or sympathy; a deal is a deal. Business is business. Is it because you are in Nigeria where people do anyhow that you don't realise how serious and criminal it is to renege on an official agreement? They are not out of place in telling your contacts that you are a criminal or fraudster; they saying the truth. Truth doesn't care about your feelings. The loan company didn't force you to approach them, they didn't force you to agree to their terms and conditions, and they are not responsible for you defaulting.

Before any sane court or individual, you would be in the wrong and you would be punished for defaulting. Notice how virtually ALL of the issues people have with loan companies started with one thing: they didn't pay at the appointed time. That should tell you something about Nigerians who love to play the victim/pity card when loan companies come calling. Loan companies don't do śhit if the appointed time hasn't elapsed. Go figure and pay up!

oke2018:
I also saw one of their messages on my phone concerning one of my former course mate ,I forwarded the message to her ,she said I shouldn't mind them that she has called them just today o , abeg no go borrow wetin you know fit pay back

@emboldened

Simple! Notice how virtually ALL of the issues people have with loan companies started with one thing: they didn't pay at the appointed time. That should tell you something about Nigerians who love to play the victim/pity card when loan companies come calling for their money.

Nigerians need to start taking responsibility for their actions and stop being self-centered, inconsiderate and dubious. No one forced them to patronise loan companies and agree to their terms and agreements. Why collect money and then default on an official agreement? Isn't that criminal? Are the loan companies supposed to chase debtors with politeness and a smile on the face?

Don't borrow if you can't pay back.

dokxavi:
Pay them after blackmail? Please shut up if you don't know what to type.

If you are ever blackmailed by the loan apps, don't stress yourself again. They have chosen to forfeit the money.

How else did you expect them to collect their money knowing fully well how Nigerians can be dubious and treacherous in paying back money they owe? What would you do if you were in their shoes? Do you think you are special that they would make an exception of you by presuming you (who they don't know from Adam) have no dubious intent? Would you make such presumption if you ran a loan company?

No one asked you to patronise a loan company; you did that of your own accord, so take responsibility for that. No one asked you to agree to their terms and conditions, yet you agreed to it. You agreed to them and yet you defaulted by not paying at the appointed time. Who asked you to default? Is it their fault that you couldn't pay up? A deal is a deal; you made the deal, live up to the agreement. Can't you see you are in the wrong? Don't you see you did something really serious and criminal by defaulting on an official agreement? Before any sane court or individual, you are in the wrong for not living up to the agreement you made. Who defaults on an official agreement one agreed to without coercion and gets surprised when the person you are owing money gets brutal and tries to coerce the money out of you? Notice how the loan company never did anything before the appointed time until after YOU defaulted. You are at fault and you are a criminal. Pay up!

Don't deceive yourself. Just say you don't want to pay. Don't use their antics of recovering their money as an excuse or justification not to pay. Pay up and honour the agreement you made. Such dubious and cunning excuse after being guilty of defaulting is one of the reasons loan companies go hard on Nigerians. Go and pay up; after paying up, you can sue them if you think they broke the law. You can't default on an official agreement and start having expectations and standard for the loan company on how they collect their money back (that's for the loan company to decide). Go and pay up; the loan companies owe defaulters no consideration or pity, a deal is a deal.

heartofcity12:
Oh really. I’ll have to check them out. I hope I could locate their Instagram page handle to check their contents. Thanks

Share the handle if you find it. Please.

Tombrown3:
Have you heard of "Branch"? Go and check how they deal with loans and handle defaults. They are the only app ill recommend for any sane, good spirited, and genuine person to patronise. And yes, their loan duration is the most considerate of them all, less than 20% in a full month and still give you extra 2 weeks to replay with no overdue, I repeat, no over due fees.

Not all loan companies are the same. I believe each company has their terms and agreement and each company is not forcing anyone to patronise them and imbibe their terms and agreements. It is up to the individual to decide if he should proceed with a particular loan company after reading their terms and conditions. What I don't like is when people approach a loan company, agree to their terms and conditions, default on their agreement and cry foul when these companies come after them. Nigerians must learn to take responsibility for their actions. I don't know why people don't realise that defaulting on an official agreement puts you in a wrong spot and it is nothing to be taken lightly.

Well, I really blame them a lot, most people people are salary earners and are paid at the end of the month! I've seen one given 10k to payback 16k in 5 days! 5 days oo.... That's over 50% interest rate in such a short time!

People will do well to read terms and conditions of the loan company they are patronising. If they don't like what they see, nothing stops them from rejecting the loan and going elsewhere. If they accept what they see, it is their decision; and it is their duty to abide by it. Loan companies have the right to draft any terms, interest rate and conditions they want as long as they are not forcing anyone to patronise them.

Anyone one who give such a loan is criminal and doesn't have your best interest at heart.

Loan companies don't have to have anyone's best interest at heart; it is a business. Loan companies are not criminals for setting any interest rate they deem fit as long as they are not forcing you to patronise them.

Notice how virtually ALL of the issues people have with loan companies started with one thing: they didn't pay at the appointed time. That should tell you something about Nigerians who love to play the victim/pity card when loan companies come calling.

Impregnablefolk:
U need 2 hear d way one small girl wit a tiny voice called me so rudely n was compelling me 2pay my over due charge. D problem is dat a lot of dem employ secondary school graduates n pay dem chicken feeds. 4 dose of u saying it's fake news, continue! Real lyf situation Neva hit u. I come in peace.

Having an overdue charge in the first place puts you in the wrong. It doesn't matter who they employ, defaulters who don't honour agreement should be harangued into paying.

pappy2000:
Bros i almost commited sucide too but thank God i am back on my feet, I will never pay them shishi

Pay them what you owe them. No one asked you to patronise them and they are not the ones that asked you to default.

You can't deliver many Nigerians from playing the pity/victim card when they are wrong. You can't exorcise self-centeredness out of most Nigerians.

Why go to the loan sharks, agree to their terms, default and then cry foul or play the victim when they employ all sorts of tactics and coercion to get their money back? It doesn't matter what prevented from you from paying, I understand life happens, not paying at the appointed time is a breach of agreement that shouldn't be taken lightly. Once you don't pay at the time you agreed to pay, you can rightfully be considered a criminal and the loan company owes you no consideration; a deal is a deal and no one forced you to patronise loan sharks. Learn to take responsibility for your choices; don't borrow if you know you can't pay and don't play the victim when the loan sharks come after you after you default.

If you were a loan shark and you were lending money to Nigerians of all people: most of whom can be stubbornly treacherous, deceitful, highly dubious, ungrateful, selfish, wicked and inconsiderate, would you take it lightly when a Nigerian defaults on a loan? People that look for ways not to give you the money they should pay you. Some will even do shakara and give you attitude when you keep asking them to pay up; some will heartlessly keep stalling hoping you will get tired of asking for your money and forget about it. Some take pride in being this dubious and treacherous and they will inwardly praise themselves as people that have "sense" and can survive life when they keep pulling such wicked stunts. Despite being this wicked and inconsiderate, they will still play the pity/victim card when the creditors start brutally dealing with them.

Knowing this, how can anyone expect loan companies to take it easy, politely or give a pat on the back to Nigerians who default on their loans? Would you do the same if you were in their shoes? Do you selfishly expect them to assume you are different and hence don't have dubious intent? Would you do the same? Where are they suppose to get the money they gave out as loans? How are they to keep their business afloat if they slack and Nigerians keep defaulting?

Stay away from loan sharks if you won't pay them back. Stay away from loan sharks if you are stupidly looking for people that will handle you politely with kid's gloves and a smile on the face when you fail to pay them.

Edit: Notice how virtually ALL of the issues people have with loan companies started with one thing: they didn't pay at the appointed time. That should tell you something about Nigerians who love to play the victim/pity card when loan companies come calling.

Hotspotbro:
such inspiring love

They love him for him and he treats them like queens. Only broke men who can't get pùssy will call him a simp. Nawalt dey, just make money and go find them; they will come. Redpillers are just meeting the wrong ones. Nawalt dey.




Na play I dey play.

Hotspotbro:

Their love is like no other love. See how strong it is.

BlueAngel444:
that's what an intelligent person should first ask before jumping into a claim that something doesn't exist even before knowing exactly what it is.

The question is, have you done so?

Or have you just basically ignored what you could possibly do and assumed He doesn't exist.

Do you really think I have never asked that question in my life? I have asked that question, brooded over it, and engaged many believers. God damn!

I am going to answer the question, why believe in something that isn't physical, well it is first off all stupid to think that if something isn't physical it should be rejected.

I never said you should reject something because it isn't physical. All I simply implied was if something can't be proven or demonstrated to exist, then there is no good reason to believe in its existence. If no sound and irrefutable argument exist to back up its existence, then there is no good reason to believe in its existence.

Men at some point never believed in flying, it was because our minds could not comprehend the concept behind flight.

• Mankind initially never believed air transportation was possible because it wasn't yet demonstrated to be possible. Also, the physics and technology were not yet conceived initially. Once these changed and air transportation could be demonstrated and shown to be possible, people had grounds to believe in them.

• Similarly, atheists lack belief in your God because there is no proof, evidence, sound argument, or demonstration of God's existence; this lack of belief is similar to how humans lack belief in werewolves, vampires, batman, unicorns, etc. The atheists stance on God will change when you believers can demonstrate, prove and provide sound and irrefutable arguments of your God's existence.

For an omniscient God who orchestrated everything in a way that my belief in him has great bearing on my eternal damnation, and who wants me to believe in him, showing himself and convincing anyone of his existence isn't so much to ask. Yet no sound proof exists for God's existence since the inception of religion. Until you bring something concrete, God remains fictitious to me.

Because you can not see nor perceive God doesn't mean He doesn't exist, it just means you're blind. But like everyone born blind and can properly grasp the concept of light, blindness is normal and natural to them, so also to those who can't see, to whom, their darkness is light.

You are the blind one. Good night.

BlueAngel444:
wait wait, are you a cow?

By no means am I cow in any sense.

Where is the physical image of God or the bones that you want a physical evidence that it either exists or has a physical habitat. Isn't it stupidity to compare things that are vastly incompatible nor comparale in anyway. Imagine you are listing donkeys and bloodsucking bats. :-/ of fairytales

If God is invisible, immaterial, and imponderable such that we can't have physical evidence and proof of his existence, then we need to ask the believers what made them believe in God in the first place. If we can't prove God's existence because it is physically impossible due to God's nature, then what made believers start believing in Him in the first place? If you don't have proof of something, why start believing in it in the first place?

You are right when you say, "The blind is leading the blind and they are making a great fool of themselves." Because this despicts you perfectly. If they ask now, how did you set out to discover God and what parameters you used, you will start talking nonsense.

LOL. The "blind leading the blind" aptly describes father and son. If I had discovered God, I wouldn't be an atheist.

Atheist lack of belief is down to that they are actually foolish. You mention observed reality and discrepancies based on what is said or your own poor understanding of it.

https://www.nairaland.com/5319206/sincere-adherents-abrahamic-religions-why

Good night.