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Winnerly:
There’s a subtle level of woman (human) hate here though.

How do we strike the balance so as not to become a hateful person in real life? These are human beings too.

By all means, i’m still an advocate of refusing to be used but there’s a fine line between that and becoming a scornful person.

There are laws of the universe which does not really respect gender. E.g give and you shall receive.

It doesn’t matter who’s asking and if it’s a female, you best don’t give with a manipulative intent. Give with a pure heart as you would to a man and walk.

Regardless of gender, some people genuinely need help.

There are men out there that receive favours /help from women too.

N/B, happy to entertain a divergent view and I’m no simp atall.

Well, if you want to financially help anyone regardless of gender, do as you please while you leave those that want to help only men to do as they please. However, do not imply that people who want to help only men are misogynistic, hateful and scornful; that's too low. Besides, most of the people that came here to narrate how they helped men never said they don't help women. Even if they wanted to help only men, there is no problem with that.

In the intersexual dynamic, women have a simp army that is ready to shower them copious amount of financial help and favours that their fellow men will never be a recipient of. This army of simp do these even when they get nothing of value in return. "Send your account number", new phones, paid apartments, being trained in school as relationship benefit, monthly allowances, cohabitation with the benefit of being catered to like a child, lots of cash gifts, the belief that it is only women that a man should spend one, preferential treatments, massive simping and many more do women benefit from while men are usually sidelined to find their own way in the wilderness of life. Despite the entitlement from ladies, feminist attitude, arrogance, ingratitude etc the simp army keeps doing these for women. I am not complaining about this, I am just noting a happening of life.

Many comrades in the simp army will rather spend money on strange women out of love, ego, or to show off while their friends who will stick with them, or have stuck with them, through thick and thin are ignored. Even if these friends were helpful and instrumental in helping them in life, these simps show the same attitude. These simps will even buy iPhones, cars, and apartments for these women and even take them abroad on expensive trips while their guys are ignored. Many have siblings that are about to drop out of school, but they are spending frivolously on women. Some even borrow money and go in debt to please women even when they get nothing of value in return. Many men will never have such favours or consideration.

In addition to all these favours and privileges, women have the media (TV, movies, news, bluepilled songs, bluepilled relationship experts etc.) and romance novels that help to condition men and keep them in this mess. Also, women have the sisterhood that naturally supports and informs every member in keeping us in the matrix and running brutal game on us men. Men don't have these. Many men are suffering and going through untold hardships. In the many ways women get copious amount of help just for having a pussy, men don't. Men are judged on their usefulness and there is little regard to the sufferings, anguish, and inner turmoil of a hustling, humble man. There is no brotherhood. Men need help whether we agree or not.

Despite all these advantages on the female side and how more men need help, you look at the few of us who have decided to help only our fellow men (who really need help) in a bid to balance things out and build some brotherhood (if possible) as misogynistic, hateful and scornful. Even we redpillers don't call simps who only spend on women and ignore men (even their genuine friends) misogynistic, scornful or hateful; I am sure you don't too. We simply call them simps and lament the disastrous results of simping; highest when simps are spoiling things or being destructive and unknowingly mean, we scream "death to simps". Why should these adjectives be used to describe us when we choose to help only our fellow men? On top our money again. It's not as if I am harming anyone.

I am not saying there are no women that are suffering. For these women, we leave them to the mighty simp army, the sisterhood (to give them support in the game and female imperative), kind men and considerate and compassionate redpillers like you. No problem in that, and men like these abound. For the suffering men who are truly in need, they have few people like me and others who have decided to focus all or most of our charitable deeds and "urgent 2k" on men. Men like us are not in plentiful supply. Do your own, I do my own. Besides, I repeat, most of the people that came here to narrate how they helped men never said they don't help women. For every woman that is in need of my cash, I can find a man that is in need of my cash; why should I pick the woman over him?

NB: I have no problem with you helping women. Just dey your dey and stop calling people misogynistic, hateful or scornful because they focus all or most of their charitable deeds on men. Funny enough, I don't hate women.

HardMirror:
we have to educate people o. Salvation is free, healing is free.

As in, why rack our brains studying anatomy, biochemistry and other medical courses for years? Medicine that cannot cure cancer and schizophrenia? Medicine that is limited?

Thanks for the new idea, bro. Faith is the way. I will start educating Christians.

HardMirror, you are right o? How did I miss this?

Why study medicine for six years in the university when faith can heal and cure all sorts easily without the sometimes tedious procedures of many medical treatments, side effect of certain drugs, and time wastage?

Faith can cure all, but medicine can't. Doctors are not infallible, but God is. Doctors don't know everything, but God does. Medicine is limited (eg. It cannot cure cancer, hiv, or restore amputees), but God isn't. Doctors aren't supernaturally powerful, but God is, even beyond what our minds can conceive. In fact, the bible says everything is possible with faith and even the smallest faith can move mountains. Also, the Bible says God can do beyond what we can imagine. Shall we open our bible my brother in the Lord.

◄ Mark 9:23 (NKJV) ►
Jesus said to him, “If you can believe, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE TO HIM WHO BELIEVES.”

◄ Matthew 19:26 ►
But Jesus beheld them, and said unto them, With men this is impossible; but WITH GOD ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE.

◄ Matthew 17:20 ►
So Jesus said to them, “Because of your unbelief; for assuredly, I say to you, if you have faith as a mustard seed, you will say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move; and NOTHING WILL BE IMPOSSIBLE FOR YOU."

◄ Ephesians 3:20 (NKJV) ►
Now to Him who is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that works in us,

So you see, what is the importance of medicine when God dey? Abeg, I cease my involvement in the medical field and embrace faith in earnest. We will start applying this faith o.

Palazee:

How can this one be delivered now?

heartofcity12:
She’s so ruthless, she robbed him of his kidney and heart. That’s the reward of simping

It doesn't pay to be a simp.

RAGGA40:
Alaye that thing dey vex person enter soul.

Helping many of these simps financially is like helping females indirectly.

Nezzjnr:
I know ways of getting the money back .

That one no be issue.

In as much as I support helping fellow men in need, I also know that not all men are worth the help.

Who remembers this simp?

heartofcity12:
Simps are out there suffering at the hands of ladies. This one is sacrificing and doing Father Christmas/poverty alleviation scheme for a girl on a meagre 200k salary in Abuja, I’m sure she’ll monkey branch immediately she sees a better option. This is lengthy tho . Stay redpilled

He needs to visit my meme threads. His story made me remember these two posts on my first meme thread.

First overhaul and reform the curricula and syllabi of junior and secondary schools, even the of some university courses. That's more important.

His gift of prophecy didn't help him see this coming.

CAPSLOCKED:
OH, PLEASE LET'S NOT DERAIL WITH THE RIDICULOUS NEW YEAR BULLSHIT MESSAGES. ASK YOURSELF WHAT REALLY CHANGED FROM YESTERDAY TO TODAY? NEW YEAR NEW ME? THE HYPE DISGUSTS ME, LIKE WE'RE TRANSITIONING FROM A VITAL POSITION TO ANOTHER, WHEREAS IT'S JUST A FLIP OF DATES LIKE YEARS BEFORE AND YEARS TO COME.

You are making sense sha. I just flow with the zeitgeist of the festive period.

You can see I had a Christmas well spent.

Welcome to 2022!

CaveAdullam:
Why don't you wanna help me? I know you have got good oils. What about a cold oil or a lotion? OK. Please.

The anointing oil I was using has finished, and I am managing the little groundnut oil on ground. I want to use it to do crossover.

CaveAdullam:
The old papa I had an encounter with not too long literally sang for me and prayed alongside. Funny papa!

Men should learn doing good to other men no matter her little. It always put a smile on their receiver faces, as if their hope is finally fulfilled.

100%

PS: Do you have hot oil? I want to check something.

No.

ubunja:
stay safe bro. See you next year.

And you too. Hope you stay safe.

On my way home this morning from the gym close to my place, I boarded an okada. The motorcyclist happened to be one hausa guy I was familiar and cordial with since he and other motorcyclists usually hang around my bus stop and estate gate. They have been there for years now.

While on the speeding bike, he and I were reminiscing on the good gestures of my mother towards them every Christmas. He then jokingly told me "oga, no forget do small Christmas for me" and he laughed. Along the way, when we stopped for me to buy something before finally heading to my house, I gave him the transport fare of #100 and I added #2000, which was all the physical cash I had in my pocket, as a gift.

What really surprised me was the way this man looked at the cash in excitement like he had won a lottery, and he couldn't believe his eyes. He was shocked and riveted to the spot before collecting the money. It was as if no one has given him such sort of gift before. He repeatedly kept thanking me on the way. He kept telling me in excitement that I have really tried for him and he was thinking of going to Ogun state today and my gift will come in handy. After I got down, he repeatedly kept thanking me and he zoomed off. I was enthused to see an elderly man old enough to be my father gyrating like an excited child who finally got for Christmas the big gift he has always wanted.

I didn't want to share, but I just kept reliving that encounter and I couldn't help it.

ubunja:
It's vibey and thumping. It's a hit. Seems like an anti-cultist tune lol. We love it man!!!

Yeah. It's a hit, and it's related to cult stuff.

What you up to overnight?

Just chilling with my friends, eating and drinking, playing fifa 22 with each other, and watching films. That's how I and my friends have decided to spend our crossover night.

ubunja:
literally a whole year. Time travels fast doesn't it.


Guys have a happy new year,, I know in Southy we'll enter the new Year a full 1 hour ahead of you...take care.

And how popular is the song below in naija? Cause it's doing the things this side... "you wanna chill with the big boys!!"

It's popular here. I was surprised to see it threading on tik tok, and even foreigners were catching on.

Below is the lyric video of the song.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Un6uCY15_4

MJBOLT:

laycon,Erica and kiddwaya drama comes to mind

If men can realise this. 100%

Ketapu:
I was not aiming to delve into red pills in all the areas you mentioned. I only wanted to reveal some contents of the so called holy books which I believe were written from a blue pill mindset of the original writer of that section of the book.

For example, a verse of one of the holy books says, he who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord.

This verse has been used to manipulate men into thinking that until they get married, they have not find the Lord's favour. In fact, this is just one of the many verses that have gotten men into troubles with women.
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I have read your post. If that was your intention (I know it was Herbswork's intention too), then there is no problem. Such is related to the purpose of this thread.

Herbsworks:
Don’t mind them. Anybody can talk about someone else’s daughter (women) but when it involves religion they shy away. The religion being brought is simply religion being used by women to manipulate men but because most men have been conditioned not to talk ill about God or their pastor then they try to twist it.

The redpill in the women contest involves every angles that women are using to manipulate not just talking about women women women. I have read the Bible more than a 100 times, fasted for 9months straight (6am - 6pm), prayed 10hours straight for one whole month. But because I talk about religion as it regards women doesn’t make me an atheist or sinner. I still go to church and even more than a lot of people here but I strongly believe that all areas of the redpill should be touched otherwise we will just be learning one sided.

The thread won’t be derailed when logic is applied but unfortunately religion has always been a no go area cos “touch not my anointed” gimmick is still at work.

Love & Light

@emboldened

Well said.

Calibrator:
Just when I was about closing my shop moments ago.

One just told me that the only thing I know be asking is "Are you coming to visit at home or not", that her boyfriend just gave her money to loose Christmas hair and do another style for new year.... What was my reply?

I said "Good for you that you have a rich and caring boyfriend, are you coming over during the weekend or not?"

She said yes.

Na our fellow males dey make them entitled walahi.

Ketapu:
What I'm seeing here in recent time has shown that many here are interested in red pills that concerns ONLY FEMALES. Any blue pill ideology in any other areas of life which may bruise their ego must be protected.

That was an eye opener for me not to take some people here seriously again. I thought we are here to discuss reality every guy need to know. It seems that reality only concerns women, in other words, SELECTIVE RED PILL.

Well, the term "red pill" broadly refers to the hidden and unknown truths, especially harsh truths.

However, the hidden and unknown truths of female nature, especially the harsh ones, are officially referred to as "red pill" and this is the most popular "red pill". It is usually what comes to mind when many online hear the term "red pill." This red pill is what the OP of this thread was referring to when he wrote "STRICTLY RED PILL" as you can see from the series of posts he made.

The red pill this thread focuses on are female nature and other related peripherals like intersexual dynamics, game, and social and political situations (home and abroad) connected to intersexual dynamics (eg. when we discuss feminism and the gynocentric laws). Certain aspects of any religion (or any subject) can be discussed here only if they are connected to these and help us understand them; however, debates on the existences of a supreme deity, the authenticity of holy books and whether people should be religious or not are not connected to the red pill discussed here. They should be left to the appropriate thread.

If this thread discussed ALL realities, we would since have been inundated with all sorts of discussions and manifold issues:
(1) Politics,
(2) Hidden match fixing in all sorts of sports,
(3) Addressing "conspiracies" on the quality of covid vaccines,
(4) Atheism and theism,
(5) Businesses of all kinds,
(6) Science,
(7) Law,
(8.) Hidden practices and influences of criminal organisations and cults, and
(9) many hundreds of topics that we wouldn't keep up with.

Reality is broad and there are many matrices that one must unplug from. The fact that one is unplugged from one matrix (eg gynocentric blue pill matrix) doesn't mean he is unplugged from another. However, let's allow this thread to serve it's purpose. Besides, the red pill this thread is devoted to is far from being exhausted, and can never be. We need to keep on at it. Cheers!

Christistruth00:
Eph 5 : 25-33

25Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26to make her holy, cleansing b her by the washing with water through the word, 27and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. 29After all, no one ever hated their own body, but they feed and care for their body, just as Christ does the church— 30for we are members of his body. 31“For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” c 32This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.

LOL. I expected this to happen: that you would keep arguing to make yourself right even if it meant throwing in anything, however unreasonable, to further your case.

These verses do not invalidate the verses and explanation I gave. Nowhere was it said by me or anyone that husbands shouldn't love their wives, and the verses you gave did not dispute the headship and authoritative status of the husband except you indulge in cherrypicking scriptures. These verses do not say that the wife is the husband's equal in the family setting. All they say is that the husband should love his wife as himself, and as Christ loves the church.

The fact that a husband loves his wife as himself, and as Christ loves the church, doesn't mean the wife is his equal partner in the hierarchy and authority of the household. Christ loves the church, but this doesn't mean the church is equal to Christ in authority and lordship; the church still submits to Christ and acknowledge Him as the Head. The church does His will, not the other way round. This is the same with a husband and his wife. As an analogy, the fact that a Father loves his child as himself, or as Christ loves the church, doesn't mean the child is the father's equal in the authority and hierarchy of the household; the same applies to the husband loving the wife. Though the children are equal partners with their father in the new gift of life, but the father is the head and authority in their earthly lives and household; same applies to wives.

Now combine this common sense with my earlier previous post and reflect on these verses again.

◄ 1 Corinthians 11:3 (KJV) ►
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

◄ Ephesians 5: 22–23 (KJV) ►
²²Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands AS YOU DO TO THE LORD.
²³For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body

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Too bad an atheist is schooling a Christian on biblical matter. Too bad a Christian is cunningly cherrypicking and being dishonest in an argument instead of being transparent and honest like christ. SMH. Go and read your Bible. This is my last response to you.

https://www.nairaland.com/6915574/husband-touching-wife-inappropriately-rape

SMH.

Ayanwukoma:
The thing that upsets me more is when we start narrating our experiences of been dealt with toxic parenting from our fathers some people will be saying, we were products of manipulations of our mom. but that's a lie... they just don't know our pains.

Here are the attributes of my father, DON'T KNOW IF IT'S REDPILL OR NOT.

1) My father swear for us at any slightest provocation (he uses word like, YOU GO DIE, YOU GO USE YOUR MOUTH RUB GROUND, WITCH and so much more) imagine as a kid growing up till this day and this man still uses same languages on us his children.
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@emboldened uppercase remark

You just gave yourself away. Those that can pause and think deeply will see how that unreasonable remark shows this is made up. Follow up the emboldened uppercase remark with the one in red and we can tell the ulterior motives underlying your post. Why unreasonably try to denigrate the red pill by dragging it into what doesn't concern it? Since when was the red pill about toxic parental conduct? How does the red pill concern what your father is doing? Clearly, you are a detractor of the red pill. Don't try to deceitfully contribute in the vilification of fathers to counter and cancel out what the red pill is exposing about women (single women, married women and MOTHERS).

I am not saying that toxic and abusive fathers don't exist. All I am saying is that your story is made up.

Christistruth00:
1 Peter 3:7: "In the same way, you husbands must give honor to your wives. Treat your wife with understanding as you live together. She may be weaker than you are, but she is your equal partner in God's gift of new life. Treat her as you should so your prayers will not be hindered."

Though I am an atheist, but I am never surprised to see Christians cunningly and foolishly twisting the scriptures for their own ends. Yours is even deliberate, but I will indulge you nonetheless.

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According to that scripture, the wife is the husband's equal partner WHEN IT COMES TO THE GIFT OF NEW LIFE, which is the salvation, redemption and eternal life offered through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ. This has nothing to do with family or earthly life and how the home is ran or organised.

In fact, that verse lets you know that God doesn't discriminate and He treats everyone equally when it comes to the gift of new life; it's available to everyone and they are regarded the same in Christ. When it comes to giving salvation and eternal life, earthly qualifications, earthly discrimination, gender and social status are inessential before God as explained further in the verse below

◄ Galatians 3:28 (KJV) ►
There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus.

Even a slave and his master are one in Christ and are equal partners in the gift of new life. However, in how both run their earthly lives, the master ranks above the slave and the bible expects the slave to abide by the following in his earthly life:

◄ Ephesians 6:5 ►

• King James Version
Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of your heart, AS UNTO CHRIST;

•New International Version
Slaves, obey your earthly masters with respect and fear, and with sincerity of heart, JUST AS YOU WOULD OBEY CHRIST Christ.

In the same manner, you must note the difference between how God perceives husband and wife in terms of salvation and eternal life and how He expects them to be organised and live their earthly lives. The same bible that gave you 1 Peter 3:7 and Galatians 3:28 also gave you these verse:

◄ 1 Corinthians 11:3 (KJV) ►
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God.

◄ Ephesians 5: 22–23 (KJV) ►
²²Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands AS YOU DO TO THE LORD.
²³For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

I hope your disingenuous self will now admit that, biblically speaking, husband and wife are not equal in the family setting and their earthly lives even though they are equal partners in the new gift of life. The husband is the head and authority figure. I am sure that despite trying to eliminate the man's authority and headship and place the woman as his equal by cunningly giving me 1 Peter 3:7, you will still profess that the man should be the sole provider. The only set of people similar to you and are worse than you are Christian feminists who twist, cherry pick, and misconstrue the bible to support their anti-christian feminist ideas and notions.

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Too bad that an atheist is schooling a Christian on biblical matters. Too bad that a Christian is playing deceitful games when he/she is supposed to be transparent and honest as christ would be.

christistruth01:
She has had 4 Sons for Fani Kayode

Normally FFK is Supposed to give her part of his Wealth as Settlement and monthly Child upkeep Payment

In Europe and America he would divide his wealth in half

No one is entitled to money they didn't earn, not even divorced wives. It's not as if wives are held at gun point to marry their husbands against their will. They accepted their husbands' proposals of their own accord, and hence deserve no payment for their choices except you think women are to be pampered like infants and shouldn't be made to take responsibility for actions. If she wanted FFK money, she should have stayed married to him. He doesn't owe her a penny. She is a grown woman, let her find more jobs if she wants more money.

The fact the Europe and America have absurd and terrible gynocentric family laws doesn't mean others should abide by them.

In the Bible FFk is supposed to provide the wife food shelter and housing for life except she remarries even if the wife was a Slave when FFk married her he must provide the above

She has separated from him. Besides, I hope that, in the spirit of quoting scriptures, you will also admit that men are the heads of their wives and children just as Christ is the head of the church, and wives should submit to their heads. SMH.

Finally the house is for the Children to live in

FFK is on his 4 th Marriage he cannot claim to be a good Husband any reasonable judge will understand that FFk definitely has issues with Women.

Not necessarily.

RodgersAkpafu:
This is interesting
The kind things we read on the net

Despite telling people not to mention me, you couldn't resist.

RodgersAkpafu:
You guys will be the same people running their mouth when a Nigerian woman acts this way to the father of her kids abroad

Fathers should have custody and full control of the children during separation and the mothers should be allowed to pay visits. These visits should be supervised by the fathers.

Things are better and apt that way. Fathers hardly play the petty, mean, abject and lamentable games women vindictively play during separation, dispute with their spouses and the need to prove a worthless point; for example, parental alienation and denying access to the kids to make the man suffer by weaponising his love for and bond with the children. Fathers hardly do that.

Also, unlike women, men are usually more mature and more loving to prioritise the children's wellbeing and happiness over petty disputes, hard feelings, emotional grievances and vindictiveness against their spouses; they do not unnecessarily rope in the kids into any spite regardless of how the kids feel, neither do they weaponise them and the love and bond their spouses have for the kids. Hardly will you see a man poisoning his kids' minds against his spouse out of spite and vindictiveness. Men hardly do these things.

Fathers are usually inclined to work for the betterment, peace, stability and happiness of their children and their wives (if they are cooperative and decent). Most men want that big, happy family that last forever. This is why fathers must get the upper hand and full control when it comes to custody battles.


NB: No one should mention me. I don't have time.