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Your mother is a narcissistic sociopath. Instead of being grieved at her disposition, write her off as a mother and learn to deal with her wisely so that she doesn't hinder you (eg. Don't ask for financial help form relatives or anyone in her presence; don't confide in her about anything; and so on; where you can, keep her at a distance). She will never change, that's a fact you must deal with. Do not reason with her or show her any understanding or sympathy; I can assure that it will be futile and she isn't worth it. It is okay to write her off and move on with your life.

Parenthood is not an excuse to endure nonsense and toxicity. It also not an excuse to retain someone who isn't worthy to be in your life.

Cc MrHenryFord

heartofcity12:
Hoes everywhere. Smh

This doesn't make sense. Why didn't he just edit the 2021?

heartofcity12:

They will use of all sorts of excuses to conceal and explain away their manipulative and sordid ways. They will throw anything in, hoping that something will stick.

sajmark:
K...
Respect bro.

Na so e suppose be, bro.

sajmark:
Bowing out like a little wimp, men have really been emasculated

If somebody says or type "k", it means they don't want to engage further for whatever reason, good or not. The fact that you both disagree and he chooses to disengage doesn't warrant you calling him a wimp. That's going too far. He is not a wimp or an emasculated man for choosing to not engage further.

On this thread, let's solely focus on people's ideas, actions and opinions without unnecessarily calling them names or unnecessarily implying things about their disposition. We are here to learn one thing (the red pill), but we are different individuals with different experiences and background; as such, divergent views are bound to clash and it is no big deal. Simply discuss to come to a better conclusion or agree to disagree.

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Dliquidmetal:
Do anyone follow unilorin hoe story page on IG?? Omooooooo!
Funny but it was even a lady who told me about this page. See this bloody simp with a scarcity mind set

He is being stupid. Logic needs to assert itself in him.

Chiagozieking:
Were we born late..?

Lol. You were not born late. Don't let the impression from the pictures deceive you. Times might be different, but female nature has always been the same. I have more to say on this, but I will refrain because of time.

In our redpill walk, we must not be carried away by outwards appearances and make hasty conclusions.

Palazee:
Martiñez39s, Caveadùllam (Anointing oil crew)

Crazy things are happening.

FRANKOSKI:
I RARELY ACCEPT HELP FROM A FEMALE, DON'T KNOW IF IT MAKES ME A SIMP OR WHATEVER .

It doesn’t make you a simp.

muscarinics:
Martinez.....you have got a fan. Thank you for breaking those shackles that held boys bound for so many years....

Glad you are free. Welcome to the club.

Palazee:
I don't pity such SIMP

I hope he enjoy his NAWALT

EDIT: The Moniker above me, pls ignore

he is not the real Gidredpiller, obviously a troll moniker

True.

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CAPSLOCKED:
YEARS AFTERWARDS I MET THE SAME GIRL IN TOWN AND SHE TOOK MY NUMBER. WE SPOKE A FEW TIMES AND SHE LET ME KNOW SHE WAS BIG INTO MODELING (90% LOVE-PEDDLING BUSINESS ACTUALLY). I ASKED ABOUT THE BOY AND SHE TOLD ME SHE WAS WAY OVER HIS LEAGUE. HE WAS STILL A STRUGGLING AND FAILING MUSICIAN WHO COULDN'T AFFORD CLOTHES OR FOOD. SHE WAS A VERY PRETTY MODEL WHO MADE MONEY FROM GRACING THE BEDS OF POLITICIANS AND SCHOOL PROFESSORS IN TOWN AND IN ABUJA.

JUST IMAGINE FOR ONE MINUTE THAT THE RETĄRD WOULD HAVE ENDED MY LIFE FOR A GIRL WHO WOULD HAVE STILL LEFT HIM TO GO CHASE THE BAG
IT'S THE SAME THING FOR ALL THE MEN SLAVING OVER AND SACRIFICING FOR WOMEN. THERE'S NOTHING THAT ANYBODY CAN DO TO KEEP A WOMAN IF SHE DOESN'T WANT TO STAY. NOTHING.

You were lucky in a situation where others were not so lucky. Things like this are why some people scream "death to simps." The stupidity of simps can be destructive; not just to them, but to people around them.

Hotspotbro:
do you have this thread link?

https://www.nairaland.com/6049404/women-very-calculative-dont-accept

Read and enjoy that red pill in that thread.

The guy too dey shalaye. I would have ignored her after reading her first post. Silence is the best answer for fools.

If you call yourself a redpiller and you see your girlfriend flirting with other men, you are a simp and failure to the red pill if you try to fight the guys that she is flirting with. In fact, things like these should not surprise, faze or yield any emotional response from you. If they do, you need to question your red pill awareness. Simply see her flirtatious activity as a relationship breaker and instantly dump her; then continue what you were doing at that moment as though nothing happened and move on with your life. I don't do relationships, but those that want to put head should abide.

Don't be a simp, don't tolerate disrespect. The first paragraph is reminiscent of a post on my meme thread given by the link below.

https://www.nairaland.com/6498155/part-3-red-pill-memes-redpillers#100623182

SOZINN:
@Osas187
So the said idiot has a boyfriend. Oh dear, better thank your stars you didn't touch her. If he was one of those simps we often read about. You could have been typing this from the comfort of your hospital bed.
I've been there. In November some guy appeared out of nowhere and tried to start a fight with me because I was holding hands and flirting with his girl.

Girl wey I Don use mouth finish work, she don use eye fûck me. The vibe was there and I was ready to take it to the next level. I didn't even know she was just waiting for her boyfriend. I think this is a serious issue and we need to discuss it, because I don't know how to avoid them. Daughters of Jezebel everywhere trying to cause trouble between you and a fellow comrade.

Why send such signals when she knows her boyfriend could appear any minute. The matter just tire me.
These girls don't take their guys serious at all.

In that situation, only betas/simps would fight their fellow man over a girlfriend. SMH.

Pullisic why?

Soso990240:
Hafar bro

What's up?

Chelsea will put a smile on my face.

Not the GOAT.

Peaceyw:
There was this girl that saw my last semester results on the notice board, fast forward to exam day she came to meet me that I should help her in the exam hall but I rejected her. This girl went ahead and reported me to my roommate( our hostels are on the same streets), my roommate was now telling me in a commanding tone that I should help her in the exam hall. I changed the whole mater for him. I told him that is he the one in the exam hall, why is he now telling me what to do. He was now saying I bleeped up that I should not do like that.
Till today, the girl and her roommates don't talk to me. Anytime they see me in class, they act like strangers and I don't even care. I am just waiting for the day they will say bad things about me...

These girls always do their homework. They know the brilliant ones. It is the boldness and senseless audacity for me: to have demanded that you took a risk that could've led to rustication or expulsion and then get offended when you declined. She even reported you to your roommate. Chineke.

As for that your friend, he is very stupid. So he really thought you ought to have risked a rustication or expulsion because of a woman? How blue pill is that. Not even a guy is worth that risk.

JESHAL:
Simp Devils

Steve Harvey is their godfather.

Hotspotbro:
It's always wonderful when they DM or make video or voice call and say it's a "mistake"

No be mistake.

Hotspotbro:
They'll start trying to use you like they think you're just another accessory they can keep and use later when the need arises ..I'm just 100lvl and already seeing signs of failed manipulations.in my DM.Eng 121 assignment comes, she comes to my DM and later, (she must have asked around, because I'm a Lil bit known) from nowhere, pops out and starts with questions..Someone whey I never know sef.. And the way random of them ask me for note wey I nor get..No Good morning or Hello..

Na so dem dey do. Some will get your contact from the class's WhatsApp group and chat you out of nowhere. They will try to build small rapport with you in hopes that they can capitalise on it to keep you as one of their useful orbiters. Usually, they would have done their findings and discovered that you are intelligent or that you are kind-hearted and willing to do task for people in need. Sometimes, they are trying their luck in gathering orbiters. Many think they are the shit and orbiters will always be on ground, thanks to simps.

Playing many men like this gives them ego boost, and they think they are able to achieve this only because of their feminine charms, beauty and men's readiness to get in their pants. Even when this is not true and some men are just being kind with no ulterior motives, they still want to believe all these are happening because they are the shit since it boost their ego and it makes them feel good.

heartofcity12:
We aren’t preaching misogyny here tho and I hope everyone tries as much as they can to find a balance. I post here often about the redpill movement but does that make me hate women? Hell No!.. We all have mothers and some have sisters. Some ppl will get married and have daughters, so we don’t hate women here but the truth has to be said about their nature and manipulative tendencies to avoid heartbreaking stories among men, hence the redpill movement..
To burst your brain, while I was posting memes here yesterday sitting quietly in my car at the mall, this girl selling these pills and liquid medicine approached me and asked me to buy, I had no interest in buying at all but I notice she has always come there to sell her products and people often decline, that wasn’t her first time of approaching me and trying to convince me to buy her product which has always been abortive. I had no choice but to pity the girl(as a human being she is) and gave her a token because I saw how stressed she was and the struggle was real, she knelt and said “thank you sir”. Her mates are at that same spot hoeing around but she chose to do hard work..

Few days ago, I saw a haggard elderly woman in the bus who couldn't pay her transport fare and she pleaded with me in a whisper to help her out and I did. I devote 99% of my charitable deeds to men and the remaining 1% is for females I know to be genuinely in need of help or the few females who first prove themselves by being helpful or are willing to be helpful. This doesn't make me misogynistic, hateful and scornful. I still wouldn't be any of these if I devoted 100% to men.

We have said on this thread how men need help and how the humble man is given little consideration or help in the wilderness of life, even by his fellow men. Such man will never regularly get the favours most women are getting just for existing even though they need help. We have seen for the most part how for men na only them waka come and society and women no send dem. Yet, it comes as a surprise that some choose to do the needful by devoting more or all to men and they are called misogynistic, hateful and scornful. Tueh!

We even know that men, not all, are more likely to be grateful when it come to receiving help and will remember your good deeds down the lane, yet some are not happy that redpillers choose to help men more and are calling us scornful. SMH.

Mind you I’ll do this gesture to anyone I feel is worth it irrespective of their gender, eventho I always come out for dudes more but sense must be applied in everything we do.

This isn't bad. Even if you choose to give all or most to only men, don't allow anyone to morally shame you for not "treating women as human beings" because you are not giving them as you give your fellow men. With the favours and advantages women have in the intersexual dynamic, it is fitting that few men like us are here to balance things. As long as you are not imposing your way on others, that's fine.

SOZINN:
What did you read on this thread to come to this conclusion. Did you even read from the beginning of the thread? I think that if you really read all the messages from every comrade regarding this issue, you will not utter such. We are not against giving to women who really need the money or women whose lives are in terrible shape and no help seems to be coming their way.

If you are in a position to help such a woman and you have been convinced by concrete evidence (not her lies and manipulative whims) that her situation is really bad, by all means go ahead and help her. What we are against or rather what I am against is giving money to women to solve little issues for them when they should be working and solving those problems themselves.

Giving money to lazy girls who have been over pampered by the society and who feel there is always a man at every turn to provide what they need. Giving to girls who don't even need it or worse, giving to those that feel entitled to your money. When comrades here refused to offer girls financial assistance, didn't you read their write ups to understand the situation and why they refused. Most of them even uploaded screenshots of their conversations, when you saw those screenshots, what did you think those girls were trying to do?

Unless you were expecting us to help those lazy and entitled girls because that's what we've been preaching against. I don't know what inspired you to bring this up. I don't know what you read.

100%

He saw people determined on not being manipulated or exploited by females to part with their money and he called them misogynistic, hateful or scornful. How? Na by force to spend on a woman? On top our money? Can't these women go and find work? Are we their fathers?

No one ever said that women who are really in need should be ignored, neither did they impose it on anyone. All we simply did was narrate how we are helping our fellow men more and how we will refuse to be financially exploited by females, but we are suddenly misogynistic, hateful and scornful. Even if we choose to start devoting all or most of our charitable deeds to men, there is still nothing wrong with that. Funny enough, given the simp army and the special treatment and advantages women have, we are even balancing things, as the guy suggested, by helping our fellow men more. Why should that be a problem?

Seeing misogyny and bitterness where they don't exist simply because women are not favoured by an action (but men are) shows that the conditioning is still strong.

RAGGA40:
Exactly during my time in school i never helped any girl with assignments or compiling notes.

It's better to avoid situations that will give females ego boost.

ProphetJeroboam:
Personally I have a strong rule against helping out female classmates with assignments or tests. You think you’re doing an innocent gesture but they’ll never stop coming back until you’re the designated nerd who helps them with assignments, tests and classwork, now tell said girls that you like them and that’s it, finito! You’re dog on a leash. It’s funny how female always take any help you render them to attempt to turn you into a simp. I know men also think girls who who are nice to them wants to fvck them but it’s not usually our fault, girls hardly show green light so sometimes we confuse niceness for green light. I’ll share my university experience on this soon.

To make matters worse. When you are helping them with assignments or compiling notes just out of kindness or you just being helpful with no ulterior motives, they usually will start feeling themselves. They will think you are helping them because they are that beautiful and you are trying to please them to get into their pants. They will think their feminine charm is so strong that it made you do these things whereas you are just rendering help that you would render to anyone regardless of gender.