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Let them speak for themselves. All these useless politicians, who do they think they are that they will speak for every mbaise son and daughter. It will shock them soon to find out that more than 90% of the people they think they are speaking for will line up behind LP candidate.

Do suitors run away from you? Do you find it difficult or even impossible to retain a man in your life? If yes, then this post is for you.

Many ladies consider themselves beautiful or at least attractive, having all it takes to  attract a man into their lives and retain him but to their own disappointment, the reverse is the case, and because some culture frown at a woman chasing after a man and proposing to him, these ladies are condemned to endless waiting for the right man to come along. They are worried that years go by and age is no more on their side. When fortunes smile on them and a man befriends them and it appears that things will lead them to the side suddenly the man disappears.

There are quite a number of reasons men run away from a lady. We are going to look at 8 possible reasons men run a way from a lady.

1.Desperation

Some ladies have suffered several rejections, heartbreaks or disappointments in the past that  when the next man comes their way, they fear that the current relationship might end like the former ones. this fear leads to desperation that leads the lady to certain irrational behaviours that have the tendency to suffocate the new relationship and bring it to an abrupt end. Take for instance a scenario. where the lady expects the man to call her at least twice a day but when the man could not call do so due to his tight schedule or work, the lady continue calling. When he later has the chance to look at his phone he sees several missed calls. Such ladies need constant reassurance of love from their man  which may actually frustrate him.

2. Domineering spirit

Some ladies have terrible domineering spirit which makes them insist always that things must go their own way and if they could not achieve this they give their man the cold treatment or go into  temper tantrums. Such women want to be in control of the relationship and their man all the time.  This attitude drives men away as no man wants be under the control of another human being under his own roof.

3. Dirty in appearance or old fashioned in dressing

Dirty  appearance and old  fashioned dressing  repel eligible suitors. A lady  seeking to marry must make every effort to dress smart and appealing without necessarily appearing seductive or exposing their sensitive parts. Also  personal hygiene is very important here. She must pay attention to her hair to ensure it doesn't give off odour. She must treat body or mouth odour if there's even the  slightest chance they exist around her. Also it is important to say that some ladies don't dress according to their age or marital status. Some young and single ladies dress like old married women. So young unmarried ladies should dress in accordance with their with age and marital status as such mode of dressing confuses would be suitors.
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There are habits that a husband or wife indulges in that look harmless at first but if he or she continues indulging in such habits, they will eventually kill the marriage. The effect of these habits may not be visible to the couple at first but over time, they continue to nib at the foundation of their love relationship until bringing it down brick by brick until such as time when the couple begins wondering what has become of the love they once professed for each other. These habits will continue to take a steady jab at the foundation of their love relationship until they bring the house down to the point when they start considering divorce as the only option available to them. We are going to examine 11 of these habits.

1. Suspicion

Suspicion has a way of undermining the trust that exists between two persons in a relationship or marriage and eventually bring the relationship or marriage down. A husband or wife may suspect his or her partner of adultery or keeping another lover. Before you accuse your spouse of cheating, you must have concrete evidence. When you form the habit of accusing a non cheating spouse, you may demoralize him or her to extent that he or she begins to wonder whether his or her faithfulness in the marriage is worth the effort at all. This mind set will eventually lead him or her into adultery. Sometimes it’s better to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt by trusting him or her.

2. Keeping secret from your spouse

Many couple makes the mistake of hiding important information from their spouse. Some hide information such as landed property, amount they earn. Children gotten from past relationship, underlining health challenges like HIV status, fibroid, damaged uterus etc. God who originated marriage intends that couple should be open to each other. Genesis 2:25 says they (Adam and Eve) were both naked and not ashamed. Recently it was on social media that groom walked out of his marriage on learning that the bride had 3 children for another man and she hid from him.
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If being a virgin is so I
important to you, you can still be a second virgin by receiving Jesus into your life, repenting from all known and unknown sins and maintaining a lifestyle of purity.

You are not there to flex but you are there to make money so forget about social life go for the money ( though you must do it in a legit way). When you have made the money you can come to Nija to enjoy with your loved ones

Many ladies consider themselves good looking enough to attract suitors but they discover that to the contrary, they repel rather than attract suitors. Well a lot things a l
theady does or attitude she puts up knowingly or unknowingly may be responsible for this. We will look at this shortly...

In case you are looking for somebody to settle down with, have enough red flags.

At a time when nationals of other countries are exporting products like I. T, processed foods etc Nigerian national are exporting sexual behaviours and products. IZZORAIT

Why does she want you back? Investigate! Is it that someone else has broken her heart and she wants you as a back up plan? Remember that when that person makes up with her she will ditch the second time.

You will be the loser in this. Many men dating girls your age are just sexual predators. They want to have you to quench their sexual appetite and pronto they are gone. You say he loves you. How do you measure love with somebody you are not seeing only chatting on social media? Immediately he gets in between your legs then I bet you, you know that what you call love is lust, its all about him not about you at all.
Try to change the friends you keep. Make friends with fellow girls your age who love the Lord Jesus Christ, who want to preserve their virginity till they are ready for marriage.
Face your studies squarely and avoid distractions. For now dating a man 15years your senior is a big distraction.
If you are not careful you end up a baby mama.
To avoid the pitfall make Jesus your personal Lord and saviour. You stand to gain a lot by doing this.

Una leave una country go dey cause trouble for another man country. If dey deport you na you begin to cause your village people

Attachment could start between two persons not married to each other.Let your wife seat him down and talk to him in a very calm and mature manner, pointing out to him that she and you are no more comfortable with his closeness to your her. Also tell your wife to cut off any closeness with him. Lastly stop taking your children to his apartment and avoid any activity that will bring him close to your wife again till further notice. But I figure your wife is a shy or timid person. If that be the case you may need to do it yourself but remember do it maturely and calmly.

In 2018 you killed Igbos in Obigbo and tagged them IPOB. You claim you are not Igbo but you bear Igbo name. My friend carry your cross

My take is that the girl has both long term and short term plans. She wants to settle down with you in the nearest future as such she doesn't encourage any other serious relationship- long term plan. However she wants to be flexing with men that can take care of her immediate needs with no strings attached- short term plan. Is that the kind of woman you want to settle down with?

Best of luck

My take is that she has both a long term and short term plans. She wants no other serious relationship and wants to settle down with you -long term. In the mean time she wants to be selling her body for money to look after her self-short time plan. So make up your mind whether you would like to settle down with such a person.

Blood thirsty governor

Say no to indiscriminate killings. Imolites need to be alive to enjoy the road.

you are not even an inlaw just boyfriend.so if had if he had paid bride price he would killed the woman for allowing her daughtet to cheat on him

.You need to repent genuinely and give your life to Jesus then find scriptural references that condemn the act to convince your conscience that you doing the wrong thing and to use same as your weapon to fight satan when he comes to temp you to return the practise.Confess the act as sin against God ,your body ect.Then go into fervent prayer.You can add fasting to it.It will also do you good to text your sexmates and tell them you are cutting off from them from based on your new christian convictions.Counselling with your pastor will also help.He will pray for you and monitor your progress on the issue.Total victory over sexual immorality and pervesion is coming your.IJN.Amen