₦airaland Forum

No one including all the GOs of big cathedrals have you in mind.

The only person that have you in mind is God in heaven.

That was how most of them told us Buhari was God sent. Indeed, he was.

coputa:
This is Nigeria,the relief materials will be looted by those who are suppose to distribute them.the people Who need them will never get them.Nigerians are their own enemies.What a people!

I'm just regretting being a Nigerian at this point.

Sonfethopia:
So sorry about your presicament woman.


But please give me situation report over there in lokoja, has the water gone down in tbe state.

It hasn't gone down. The painful thing is that the government aren't providing the necessary materials to curb this menace.

My son is attacked with malaria and I wanted to get some drugs from the mobile health care but they seem not to have any.

I'm tired of this wreck government.

My fruit business is gone. A lady with money overnight became a IDP camp residence.

God help me at this point of my life. Lokoja what did I do to you?

My son's school submerged. I'm depressed currently. The government aren't providing the requisite incentives for us.

Feeding is becoming difficult. God make my feet come back. I only have you lord.

Happy birthday. Cheers to a prosperous life.

advanceDNA:
The story is a pack of lies....including the first story...
. im not totally sure why she's doing it, but its not uncommon for women to play victim to attract attention...

.if i want to take a guess..i'd say all of these is ploy to sell herself as a good, kind hard working single mum...more importantly... a single mum who needs help and a husband.....

men that like playing hero and have a soft spot for women in distress will fall for it....

..its a smart strategy though...She may likely get cash support or a man, or both.......

What did I just read? Can you please stop playing hanky panky with my post? What strategy. No support have I received from anybody. Everything I have today was by the grace of God and my sweat. You think I brought my story up here to seek sympathy. You better look for a better lie.

If I wanted money I would have gone to the bank to take a loan but my savings will cover up all I lost. You think everyone is as broke as you envisaged and man needed as you have portrayed.

Do you know how many times a day I go to my shop approached by men? You seem not to be aware. You think I'm your contemporary hook-up, urgent 2k girl.

Oga, seek asylum somewhere else. Adios!

Sweetplum:
That's the mentality of most boys on this forum. If you dare date any of them, you may live to tell a sad tale.
Make sure he vomits all the damages. Arrest his mom, father, siblings, entire family and friends, his Alfa or Pastor or Herbalist or Atheist folks. Make sure you deal with him physically and spiritually. What an unfortunate man with nothing to gain and nothing to produce.
Sum up the total worth of what he destroyed physically and emotionally. They may be up to N3m or N5m. Let him cough it out. After his release from the police station, charge him to court. Harass Jim regularly with emotional blackmail and make sure you tell all Nigerians he threatened your life.
The he-goats must suffer like a village goat!

He's so broke. He can't afford it. I will have to start all over again with the fruit biz. I will have to look for another money to continue the biz.

He's still looking for a job to keep soul and body together. I will leave him with God. At least my life was not taken.

After taking the advice of meaningful nairlanders on this https://www.nairaland.com/7341050/he-wants-date-he-doesnt.

This is the aftermath.

I arranged for a meet-up with him to discuss my supposed assumptions. He told me, "he doesn't hate my child, but he feels my son was gargling like a mewling child."

I asked him to elucidate. Which he did and I politely told him that if he gargled, it was because he's still four. I think he should give my son time and establish a friendly relationship with him.

It was like my pep talks rattled him and he immediately slapped me that I have insulted him and trapped his pride. I was like, what!!!

This was a harmless discussion. Why did you slap me? He started apologising. He said he didn't know what came over him.

I told him to leave my shop. I told him I will call him when I'm less angry.
To me, I wanted to pipe low and take his word for it. He asked for some money to take bolt home because he didn't come out with cash. I went into the shop and gave him.

After that day I didn't call him or wanted to have anything to do with him. To my greatest surprise yesterday, he came to my shop and started assaulting me so that I can't leave. I was like, I never wanted to date you before. I was just considering your proposal.

That little tussle was what led to him scattering the fruits I bought. My neighbours came to our shop and before I knew it, he has raze all my goods.

My neighbours called the market chairman and they bungled him to the police station.

What is wrong with men this day? I didn't collect anything from him. Thank God I took the advice of nairalanders. You guys helped me to identify this before going into it.

Thank you, all.

A win-win for Groovy.

Officially voted for Bryan.

Vote buying

Chief priest hmm!

Snapchat:
Yes, it’s unnecessary because how can you be a football fan, watch football regularly and conclude Ronaldo is better than Messi. To me, I believe that’s the beginning of Lunacy.

Anyway keep voting guys, but verily verily I say unto you, the underdog is winning on day 72.

Which underdogs. You self. Lolz.

ThierryJay:
Ronaldo ti lule. Last last Pendu don cast.

Messi na GOAT joor. See doings on the pitch and worshippings from fans.

TRIPLE-VOTE ADEKUNLEE FOR THE MONEY SO HE CAN HAVE A CHANCE TO BE BIG LIKE MESSII

It being 20 years of argument. Can you guys rest for once. The two was heaven's gift to football. Unnecessary comparison!

majamajic:
By this time 3 seasons ago

We are in page 7000 .

The hunger in the land is driving people away.

One thing I love about this season's finale is that no one knows who is going to win the 100m.

The odds are even among all 6.

Why is nobody talking about Chi Chi? Hmm!

Pretending as if the break up is not hurting. This hurt more than anything.

frog12:
this na fake POST jor. she dey tell us at last minute say boy father is late. why you no tell us from the beginning

If you have painstakingly gone through my previous thread on my profile, you wouldn't be saying otherwise.

What benefit will I get if it was fake. Are you giving me anything. Don't let your past experience becloud good judgement. Stop sounding like a broken record please.

frog12:
you are being strict with the guy. na you wan settle down

I am more focused on my fruit biz and giving this young lad the best.

Trustedapparel:
y are you forcing the young man to like your bastard son Didn't that. Your bastard son has a father ? Send that your bastard son to his father.....if you want to marry......all this virginerians with manipulative agenda self........

The supposed bastard father you are shouting died as a result of accident. He was a great great and great guy.

Nyanabo:
How old is your son? Is he a toddler? Preteen or a Teenager? Or a full fledged youth? Give us this details and we know how best to advice you.

He's 4, sir.

I met this guy where I normally get my fruits for biz. We got talking and exchanged contact.

He seems to be a nice guy but when I told him I had a son and narrated the circumstances behind his birth and my life, he told me he was cool with it.

Of lately, I noticed he talks ills of my son and assume it's a joke. I will try to shade it off but he repeated it again after the church service yesterday.

I'm considering giving him a chance because he's cool but his singular act of insulting and shouting at my son when he comes to my shop seem to disturb me.

Please, do you think his behaviour is a red flag or not?

Kobojunkie:
You have enough money saved up to both pay for school, rent a place and care for a kid as well?

If yes, then go for it.
if not, why not consider leaving him with your parents, making sure to call him regularly, several times a day with video calls at least on the weekends, and visiting him every so often until you are done with school?

Thanks but I lost my parent few month back.

lawrenzooo:
How old are you and how old is your son?

He's 4.

Kobojunkie:
Question for you. If you pick up the nursing school form, what plan do you have for taking care of your son then?
And how old is the child at this time?

I plan to take him with me. I want to rent an apartment close to the school of nursing and also change his school.

When I finish from class, I will go and get him from school. By the way, he's 4. Thanks.

mariahAngel:
How old is your son now?

He's 4.

Top of the morning to you all.

I will try to make this missive brief. In 200level, I dropped out of school because I took in. The guy I was pregnant for later died few months later.

I stayed with my mum and eventually gave birth and I nursed my boy and provided for him because my parent were financially handicapped.

Few months later, I started a fruit biz. It eventually flourish and I was able to get an apartment and I started providing for myself and my boy.

Although biz is not as flourishing as before due to the present nation's predicament. Not much sales. Things are getting a bit bad.

Now, I'm at the crossroad. I really want to pick a school of nursing form but my boy and biz is stunting my plans. I'm confuse. Please, what will you advise me to do?

Should I look for the form or focus on my biz?

Moshybear:
Sorry for your loss hun. Kisses

Thank you, darling.

Op, you don't need to be emotional about this. This is election period, expect the unexpected. If the candidates can't take the heat, they should get out of the kitchen.