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Aristotle96:
Abeg make person send me Recharge card make I use do night calls dis nyt na.. Still in the spirit of kindness

omonnakoda:
Go ye into the world and multiply is a commandment for a world of millions not billions of people. At some point we may have to make laws to determine who can and who cannot be allowed to have children.Then I hope we can stop unintelligent folk from having kids and contaminating the genetic pool

Psalm18:
Why do you care what other people think?

Am seriously wondering at this point how old you are.

The fastest way to lose out a good relationship is to listen to what other people say except the guy is a violent person or the girl is a flirt.

Any other conditions, fcuck what people think.
Don't make the mistakes so many have done.

lolaluv1:
When a person calls 911, to lodge a complaint of being followed or being threatened, why does the police respond first to the immediate danger? Why not wait and hear from the other party? Nothing wrong in thinking like most people when it comes to the preservation and wellbeing of a human. I don't care what naira land men would have said assuming it was woman at the receiving end, neither can that cloud my reasoning in this matter.
What is wrong is wrong. And if it was a woman or a child who came to say what this op has said, my conscience behooves me to seek their wellbeing and safety first, before any other thing.

lolaluv1:
Madam. Go and look for the woman and ask her for own side of the story na.
That is how you people sit on the fence till a life is lost and then you go tut-tutting in your 'sagely wisdom'.
That is if common sense doesn't tell you that the indignation being shown by most people here is based on the presumption that what OP says or even some of it is true.
Even if its not and he woke up to tell such grave lies against his wife, they still don't have any business together. Such a union is a recipe for disaster.

lolaluv1:
It's called reading between the lines. Someone who registered with Nairaland in 2007 without being so active cannot just wakeup in 2015 to spin tales.

Let's even assume he blew things out of proportion. Will he lie about his wife purportedly going to collect igbese from a debtor and ending up collecting married dik and a liberal topping of sperm like a common ho.
Or running out of the house in pant like a mad woman.
Or eating chicken while giving husband watery oha without meat.
Or the jazz he found in her possession?

Abeggi. What is bad is bad. Even if he lied about a lot, there must be an atom of truth being said. And just 20 percent of what is stated here is enough to abandon ship for....

lolaluv1:
Birds of the same feather....

Code45:
Why won't it? Ode.

ahnie:
I have learnt not to jump tu hasty conclusions on nairaland,and tu be one sided....oga no offence,we need tu hear your wife's own side of this unside down marriage.

xfire:
Nice question....and a very intellectual one for that matter. Here are my thoughts...

I have been somewhat involved in a similar situation in my first place of work. I made a huge rookie mistake (or so I was told) that cost the company a few millions of Naira. I would have been sacked save for the fact that I was a trainee (and a good one at that). My boss, who liked me, tried to cover up for me and was demoted for that reason. Eventhough no one showed me any sign of unease or hatred, I was very uncomfortable till I finally left the company for another one. I was so concerned about my career growth. I feared it might stunt my growth despite that fact that my new boss was also a very nice and understanding guy. He still remains my best boss till date. So i totally understand your predicament.

I am on my 3rd job and I can tell you that I have worked under various circumstances. I have worked with all shades of bosses and colleagues - the good, the bad and the ugly. I can't begin to recant all my experiences here.

To sum it all up, 90% of your job as an employee is to manage people - your clients, colleagues and bosses. There will be times when the situation at work is tense. It is not enough to quit. Part of the job experience involves learning how to cope socially, mentally, physically, intellectually, morally and emotionally. In a contemporary workplace, you will be tested on all fronts. How you manage and get results despite the challenges will stand you out from others. Office politics and dynamics are to be expected. There is really nothing beyond the ordinary in your current experience. Most top employees have faced similar issues in one form or the other over the course of their career.

However, if the work environment gets so intense that you honestly feel you have given it your best shot and can't possibly cope again, move on ONLY if you have gotten another job. I do not think envy from colleagues is enough to quit a job midway. Meanwhile, you can be on the lookout for another job pr think of working dor yourself.

Cheers.....!

kunleade3:
hello sir,
could you please help check the status of this vehicle
with VIN# JTJBT20X480158696
many thanks..!!

Ambassadors:
Kindly assist with this Vin check
2HKYF18526H003940 send to simonmicah@hotmail.com. Thanks

timonski:
so na wetin you come find for nairaland?:@

Xposer:
This fatal accident happened today along Adekunle Fajuyi street, GRA, Ikeja, Lagos, involving a family which embarked on an early morning journey in their Toyota Land Cruiser jeep. According to sources, the SUV vehicle veered off the road and rammed into a perimeter fence of an estate -destroying two electric pole in the process. Hopefully no one died in the crash....

http://www.nationalhelm.com/2015/12/photos-from-fatal-accident-at-ikeja.html

timonski:
Eh, who knows? You may seem smart with respect to an average retarded Nigerian, but might be average or even below average. So go check a psychologist. :p

timonski:
lol. So you just think you with no authentic source?

Stycon:
Hey Dear,

It's all boils down to "finding the balance" as well as try not to get caught up in the pursuit of "happiness"~ whatever it's called anyway


I think you can have it both ways

And mind you, not getting the A's might not necessarily "challenge you to dream big and force you to come up with a living that could probably break bounds, making you into a household name." if you don't get hold of the wheel of your life and make meaning outta it(in other words; if you're not smart).

Please note that when we get "there" we may discover there is NO "there" in the first place ...so Live & Enjoy the moment!

If you ask me, I would say becoming a household name like Linda Ikeji, Toke Makinwa, Folorunsho Alakija, Oprah comes from being "smart" ~ although it's another level of "smartness " and remember that being yourself is all that counts!

The irony of life is that some folks out there are also wishing they are as smart as you are and perhaps have the kind of life you have too

Embrace who you are; knowing that it's not too late to create something remarkable for yourself

timonski:
And who told you that you are smart?

danbrowndmf:
I often see people fall inlove with someone they are yet to see, maybe through one social network or the other.some relationships even leads to marriage & some fail. Some date for 2years online even before meeting up with each other. My question is how possible is this? Is it lust or true love? How do people get to cope?
I wan try am o .






cc Vikiz
misspicy
Estharfabian(please don't come here to say nonsense o.)
Mhizkel.
Sinizia
naijaboiy.
Mathschic
prettythicksme
Laveda
ishiamu.
SFUareyouGod.
pinkycute.

magneto:
Buhahahahahahahaha.....kai! I luv nairaland!



@mathschic, being smart is good but being wise is better. A smart and wise person will achieve far more than a regular wise person. There is still plenty hope for u....I see u going places and achieving great things!

Stycon:
To all the non-Jews and those who do celebrate Christmas on this forum; I wish you all a Merry and fun-filled Christmas


I've learnt quite a lot on this forum from quite a lot of you guys. I wish there could be a get-together somewhere(on planet earth) sometimes this year to get to meet the wonderful faces behind all this monikers ~ it's an extension of the wish


My special shout-out goes to:

MathsChic

Cheers!

TheGoodJoe:
May this Christmas season and the New Year bring joy, peace & happiness to you, your entire family and friends.[/b][/color]

Fulaman198:
What do you guys think? an excellent action adventure game based on a hero or heroes and old Gods pre-Islam and Christianity.? I'm currently brainstorming ideas.

funkyjms:
"Steve Harvey as U.S. President...

Oh, I was not supposed to press that red button? I have to apologize.
The note I just received said the Russians had invited me to LUNCH, not that they had LAUNCHED.
It is my mistake, I take full responsibility. It's still a great night."

Sunnycliff:
May my Blessings not mistakenly be given to another and may I not be shamefully disgraced in receiving what is not mine!