DrDunamis:

Hmmm...
This is very amazing...
So what about the cleaner? Is the cleaner female?
Plus your friend should just man up and tell his wife everything before the little fox destroys the vine.

yeah, the cleaner is female, sorry forgot to add that..

the 'little fox' is in my house already..
and trust me, my security methods are FBI standards..
the phone she uses, only I can reach her and my house is fully bugged.
so, for now everything is under control.

As for opening up to the wife, had it been she had been rational, I don't think he'd have to go through all this stress just to keep it a secret, if you know what I mean....

VeryWickedMan:


How did you live with Jennifer without knowing she had 2 kids elsewhere plus a boyfriend abroad?? I'm curious and shocked at the same time.


cc: pocohantas dominique sweetplum

your question is just a proof that, you don't know how deep a woman's mind is.
In fact it's safe to say, you don't know women!

MeetNnanyi:
I am Maxwell,

Below are Jennifer pictures before and after she left me

your ex wife is a typical example of a very smart- promiscuous woman, aided and abated by her family...
I'm sure, like her previous husband before you, you cut her off some monetary privileges, so she moved onto the next prey.
I don't blame you, and pay no heed to those above, blaming you and 'saying how can you date for just two months or marry a hotel worker' and those thrash talk... none of that is a yardstick for anything, you were just unfortunate and that's it!

my advise would be, count your loses and move on.
whatever doesn't kill you would make you stronger
the experience should come in handy for you going forward.

As for your kids, get a Good wife or if your mum is alive, and then file for their custody ASAP.

DrDunamis:

Is there no male staff in the house?
Like driver or gateman?

no!
they use automated gates,
no driver.
just her and a cleaner who comes and goes.
he had a driver but relieved him because of such scenario,
more like leaving a goat with a yam, lolz.

so that part is cleared...

maasoap:


You don't see any reason, I do. Shame of telling you that he knacked his housemaid repeatedly and without prevention wouldn't allow him to tell you the truth. Telling you he did once would make you think it was a mistake which it wasn't.

nah, we're cool like kilode!
besides, he doesn't even have the time for himself, if you know any pilot, you'd understand me better...

Machinegun91:
What if I decide to sell 2 of my kidneys?

then you'd have successfully enriched someone close to you, cause you won't be alive to spend the money.

Cazzim:
fear girls oo,I was at home with my cousin brother girlfriend phone when zenith Bank sent her message that am at home start coming... I pretend as if I didn't know what is happening,am still schock,and my cousin brother wants to married this girl and he has really invested on her, I don't know if I should tell him or not. he really loves and trust the girl

lolz!

rozaie:


And I never want to be associated with Slavery, my 4 father’s already did that, whether or not you correct my English that’s a weak approach for an insult because clearly you understand what I typed.

If it is paining you so much that I know my worth, channel that pain to make your life more useful. Love and light my dear

I really hate to do this, but, for context, I can comfortably employ and pay 50 of you for a whole lifetime!

rozaie:


I made conscious effort to make it took bad?? I wish!! You are obviously delusional to think that I‘ll stoop so low as to waste my precious time like that. I worked 4weeks in that place resumed everyday and I did my job, guess what?? they wanted me to continue, while they had already put a new post looking for a new chef. I said that my 1 month prob had to be reviewed before I continue another month, and they terminated the contract and I said good readings to bad rubbish because God forbid that I subject myself to modern day slavery!! So insult me all you want and make stupid assumptions all you want. But that is your business and not mine. All I know is what is bad is bad!!!!!!

You don't know what slavery is my dear, continue living in dreamland, don't make lemonade out of lemons you have, you hear!
from your post its even obvious the kinda person you're, overly emotional and zero logical. who insulted you? were you even the one I quoted?

By the way, its 'GOOD RIDDANCE', not the gibberish you wrote there...
So much for, 'I know my worth'...

saintruky:


A whooping 180k for maid work... Wawu....

Bros no vex... Now when her level don upgrade, abeg i fit resume d work? I go clean everywhere shine... I go even wash d roof of the house... I no dey joke o...

Bros, that's not in my prerogative oh...
besides, the wife should return from overseas soon, so the post would be annulled anyway

saintruky:


Na d good life she want so na... Anything when make her remove d belle, she dey relegate back to suffer... N na wetin d girl nor want...

U know wetin e mean to carry Pilot belle... No be pilot of hilux o... Pilot of plane... Iffa dey lie go ask Omotola d actress... Na d way God just want take change that girl story be this... See as i dey happy for her o lol...

Bros advise ur friend to go settle d babe n d child upon or b4 delivery for one country... He has d cash n d connect... Trust me he won't regret it...

She wasn't really hungry oh
on 180k/ month I guess.

i guess women always want more tho!

Kingpin1000:
It's Putin's fault.
Watch as they blame Putin

You failed to make any sense Sire.

saintruky:
D girl na maid, now she don see opportunity to be called Oga wife, u wan her to throw it away .. u feel say body dey sweet her when dem dey call her house girl?

No matter wetin una do, d babe nor go remove d belle... Cos that child is her pathway to good life... Especially if she come born boy... E don finish be that o... Congrats to u or ur guy...

good life she would have no doubt, but that's about the best it would get. nothing more

Emaprince:
So the woman was also celibate for 5yrs in Scotland?
A?

Abeg keep quiet

six(6) months bro.

charlypoker:
Make the maid born the baby jare
who knows what the baby may become tomorrow?
Let after the birth of the birth, they will discuss the matter

Gracias!

15ssDRIVE:
The way out here is big trouble to avoid generational trouble.

Tell Madam.


Make your friend Abi na You,tell Madam that he have bleeped up,


To avoid you or your friend coming suicide, madam must come and kuku kill you or your friend.

I find your post extremely hilarious!

thanks for the comic relieve tho.

bepositive11:


OP is the pilot. He lied

what does that change?

MtDave55:
I don't see any reason to hide it from the wife if he truly loves her. The wife will definitely be pain and mad at him, of which she have every right to do so, but she will come around later.

Since the girl is not a minor, not someone wife and wasn't forced to indulge in the act of sex, I don't think it's right to crucify the man. Morally and religiously both of them erred but if he is sure he is responsible for the pregnancy he should take responsibilities, even though I suspect the girl stage everything considering how she kept it away from him till this stage.

Sex and marriage are two different things that he had sex with maid and got her pregnant doesn't mean he must marry her, if she is not ready for abortion and he is not ready to take a second wife the best thing is to ensure she get the needed support to birth the child and care for him or her. Its not a must to marry her if marriage is that easy she would have married the man responsible for the one she aborted.

Let he open up to the wife, apologize and resolved to get the lady a place outside his home while he carter for her needs. If possible he should make her sign undertaking that it's only the child that can lay claim to him and his property except he chooses otherwise.

hmm dicey
easier said than done bro

many thanks.

Ghokes:
Bro you are your friend

what does that change?

SmartPolician:


Women lose a lot due to marriage too.

It's a sacrifice two parties make to get the best out of life. Loneliness, which is one of the reasons why people marry, is not a good thing.

what 'alot' do women lose?

lahify:
your 5 slot no dey finish ����

no mind the tout!

GboyegaD:


Both parties aren't doing each other a favor however, employment contracts should be honored.

Every time you type, I just cant help but ask myself if you even went to school, talk more of having all those degrees you once bragged about here.
The company stated they were offering an accommodation, did they state that they were offering a luxurious accommodation??
It isn't their fault that the employee had high expectations of a paradise in her head!
I mean, what does it take to clean up the place to reasonable standard, especially when its most likely the outgoing staff that even messed it up? Its not like she's doing any renovations or anything and it says a lot that the place even still looks decent after her obvious concerted efforts to make it look bad...
and yes, when a company in Nigeria offers you free accommodation, they're doing you a favor.

stop supporting thrash all in the name of forming woke.
you're embarrassing your last name.

GardenGreen:




Eyes and minds focused on problems.

I'm 1000% certain that if handed same apartment, I'll get hypo and jik, have the toilet washed and throughly revamped.

I'd get floor cleaning fluid and clean the floors. When dried, I'll get a rug.


I'll fix the bunk, and get a foam. And focus on my job

They say 90% of graduates are unemployeable because they can't think and make decisions. This is a classic example. And you're one yourself. Let her go home and go and continue to sleep. Serious candidates will take the offer

bless you.

Snapchat:


Dear Bot, when was it ever wrong to fall in love? You can only manage your emotions but you can’t control what you feel from the start.

so finally there another person who knows that account is run by a bot.

flesh and blood didn't reveal that to you bro!

czarr:
E shock you!

isn't my wife's MIL supposed to be my mum?

you guys tipsy or what??

hush15:


That's why there is condom

learn to be solution driven or keep mute.
the deed has already been done!

jaxxy:


so he can impregnate his daughter if she's a woman? or a teacher can impregnate a student cis she's 1st a woman? where are ur values, ethics and morals?

you've stopped making sense, so has my reply to u stopped.

Ardar:


"No one will hear the last of it if he tells his wife" so you want your friend to keep this show of shame as a secret from his wife?

A man who sleeps with a woman without protection, a woman who's medical history he's not aware off does not care about himself and most definitely, does not care about his wife.

I am very certain that that your friend have been sleeping around with different women, but this time around, e don hook am for neck.

people make mistakes, don't be so judgemental
And psychology tells me that, if he was so randy like you said, he wouldn't have been so naive, don't you think?

infogenius:


Yeah, but it also depends how the impregnator plays it. Because if the woman suspects foul play ( which is more likely to happen), the woman may run the show herself or make use of other people.

hopefully it wouldn't get to that.

jaxxy:


I'm sure he has other babies in different area codes since he's a pilot and never arround.

How can a grown ass man impregnate maid abi na jazz??

a maid is firstly a human/woman.

Bobloco:


This one Na format

most likely!

Berankis:

Your advice is a setup. They should just find a better way. Abort.

how is murder a 'better' way?