Cypress042:
This thread won't add little or less solution to the above problem you've stated, so just chill man

but at least, we can know what the problem is, cos trust me there has got to be a problem!
and you know they say about a problem shared.....

H0didon:
High rate of heartbreak

i don't get?
is heartbreak gender based??
don't men heart get broken too, did dey turn gay?

EASYGURU:
They're everywhere now oo comrade. You chyke girl Una never talk one two, she don identify as lesbian or show traits of bisexual. Dem plenty within the last two months, I've had my way with almost or over 10 girls sef and almost if not all are lesbian and even turn down sexual advances. It's getting out of hand

exactly my point!
but how did we get here?
cos back then when I was in uni, lesbians dey oh, but they were very very rare and even discreet about it!!
But now ehn, every girl is into anoda girl and they are proud to admit it, its like they held a meeting we are not aware of...

Maverick777:

What is going on exactly?

lalasticlala
mynd44
Front page please, for a wider audience before things get out of hand.

Maverick777:
Top of the Morning everyone.
I'd make this as brief as possible.



N.B-No vulgar words on my thread please..

mynd44
seun
lalasticlala
please do the needful...

What is going on exactly?

Top of the Morning everyone.
I'd make this as brief as possible.

I have noticed a quite disturbing trend amongst our females lately, and this past weekend just went further to buttress my point!

I was on a mini-vacation owing to the Muslim holidays, at Abuja. I visited a lounge (hustle&bustle) and believe you me, 70% of the girls there were lesbians.. Some kissing, handling and touching each others like lovers should do.
I went further and preyed on one of them and she told me that its a normal thing na, that in fact that its what turns her on and makes her reach orgasm!
I've also had discussions with a couple of girls that told me the exact same thing, in fact a male friend of mine told me he invited a girl over for sex and she told him that if he wants to enjoy her very well, he should call another girl to join them for party!
Me, I've tried to put myself in their shoes and I cannot even imagine myself hugging a fellow guy, like the mere thought makes me want to puke, but why is it not the same for girls
I did an independent survey and found out that 6 out of every 10 girls are or have the tendency to practice lesbianism, as opposed to 0.4 in every 10 for men..
So why is it different for women, what is it about a fellow gender with exact same features as you that turns you on?
Please share your thoughts...

N.B-No vulgar words on my thread please..

mynd44
seun
lalasticlala
please do the needful...

Stallionhorse:
You still young and have potentials thats why they want to tie you down.. You remind me of myself a few years back. The only advice I will give you is forget about women focus on your life.. When u get to certain age if you dont have money no one will look at you. If I had somebody to give me this advice at your age my life would be much better.. Right now the only thing I have to show for in life is my 2 year old beautiful daughter.. I can't count the number of girls that where flocking around me back then, there was a time I had 9 girlfriends, the money and time I should have used to build my future all wasted.. Today I'm reaping what I sewed.. So my guy be wise.

I respect your honesty Sire.

OP, make sure you key into this advise 100%, its priceless!

Boomboost:


You can't take insults but you can give them

She's bipolar bro.
pay less attention to her and her silly tantrums.

Harmony92:
U are very insultive weda axe or house I dey my axe come beat me since abbreviation na rule breaker 4 Nairaland.It is all ur female relatives dat are DUMB N FOOLISH n I am very happy that you finally realized that not every woman in Nigeria treat their son's gfs or wives like ur family members. If you have any woman like that boy's mom in your family please educate them n make dem understand that using sweeping as a criteria for a good wife is outdated ok. A woman can clean ur gate and mop ur suckaway pit n still bring out her character after marriage alright.

If you noticed, I specifically stayed away from insulting or even referring to your family after countless provocations from you, you know why, the moment one is quick to bring family members into an argument, it simply means him/her has no regards whatsoever for his/her own. So I really do not blame you.
From all ramifications, you are a definition of everything bad and a disgrace to your gender.

as you were..

Harmony92:
Hahahaha no b everybody b liar like u o. This is one thing dat I dislike about Nairaland ok, I just told you about myself n u are calling me a liar lol, u are even saying trash about me with confidence n u don't even know me from Adam lol. No b everybody lazy like ona family way dey find who go help dem clean axe ok. What I know Sha is that there are a lot of decent mother inlaws out there who doesn't care weda their sons wives or gfs clean their house or not ok no b everybody relate to your family members way dey use proverty adaption as characteristics of a good wife.

Its House not Axe.
I'm sure that's how you pronounce it as well..
Dumb-fool!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Why are you countering every point that supports the OP? You made yours, let every other person make theirs. Abi. Must everybody share in your misogynistic thoughts?

I'm simply speaking the truth and making sure to correct every wrong impression.
As for the other gibberish you wrote, I'm not like you, you boldly claimed to be a misandrist here, so you think anyone who doesn't share in your inane thoughts are also bigots like you.
Well, unlike some of you, a lot of us are realistic and open minded, I've supported women and rebuked men here on countless occasions(when the need arises).
So get a life and be mature okay.

Harmony92:
Jeez am married with a kid n my celebrating 3 years in marriage by God's grace o oga shame. We should stop using minor things to judge other people What if the girl comes around n clean the whole of the guy's house including the ceilings n later bring out her yeye character after marriage? Then we will start seeing topics like ( Pls help me my decent wife changed after marriage) Me n my mom inlaw we behave like mother n daughter n I will continue to tank God for bringing her into my life she no make me clean her axe bf she approve me for her son. Mind how u talk to people cos I am not like your lesbian sisters.

If only wishes were horses...
Lol, anyone can write anything on a faceless forum
for example, I've three private jets and Elon musk is my bosom friend...

So you see, whatever gibberish you wrote here doesn't stop you from being a low-budget lesbian!

Kobojunkie:
Sweeping isn't what makes one a maid. Instead expecting a person to sweep for you when that person isn't obligated to is what makes that person nothing more than a maid to you, this since what you expect of that person is what you refuse to do yourself.

You conveniently shifted this off an an African issue as if to say Africa is where foolishness lives and breeds. And i don't blame you lot since many of you were raised to glory in it.. foolishness that is.

I wouldn't engage you, simply because I know what you're suffering from.
you've lost yourself while trying to be another.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Domestic jobs are for everyone (male and female). Chores are not gender based.

domestic chores are for women!
technical/hectic jobs are for men! (all things being equal)
stop trying to form woke because of cheap publicity..

can you change a car tyre?
I would expect you to say yes because you're bloody hypocrite.

Kobojunkie:
So because he wants to marry her, she is to be his maid? Do you folks actually process these things you spew abeg?

If sweeping the house is what makes someone a maid, then you have serious low self esteem issues.
Go for physiotherapy, your case is deteriorating by the day!
I wouldn't respond to you anymore.

Kobojunkie:
Why didn't the son aide his own mother in Sweeping though? Why expect a stranger to do in your house what you don't do?

she's someone he wanted to marry.
I don't think such a person can pass off as a stranger!

Kobojunkie:
Do you not also see anything wrong with the woman's son watching his own mother sweep for him?

Madam, this is Africa!
There are certain things a man shouldn't do when a woman is around, and vice-versa.
I'm sure if the lady wasn't there at the time, the boy would have collected the broom from his mum.
but because he thought she had good upbringing and would collect the broom, he laid back.

Harmony92:
The question should be " who raised your mom? Two of my brothers are married n my mom didn't make their wives go true stress jor.

Aiding an elder is stress to you?
shame!
Anyway, you're most likely a low-budget lesbian, so it's pointless..

when2:




Which kain nonsense talk be this? Is it proper to sweep the living room when there is a visitor? Some people will just be promoting bad manners in the name of testing their fellow human being.

did it occur to you that something might have spilled on the floor that needed immediately cleaning, as opposed to random sweeping you're all talking about??

UyaiIncomparabl:


The duty of the girl? Are you so slow? Well, someone like me will never try that. Are chores what you use to grade a wife material?

So its in a man's place to do domestic work when the wife is not incapacitated?
but when the car/generator is faulty, you'd call your husband to fix it?

I'd give you an advise, whatever you do try to make enough money, so you can buy a man who would do your bidding...
Because you can't be broke and still not be a submissive and virtuous wife, it doesn't work that way.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Village man with a local mentality. Test? Is that how you were tested? If you were, would you have passed? If the girl's father invited you to come farm with him, would your tiny and withered fingers have been able to even lift a cutlass?

this is coming from someone who has been going around like a hen on heat, reporting people for next to nothing..
I guess you can't take 5% of what you give out.
hypocritical being!

pocohantas:
Lol. I believe Uyai is trolling.

I want to believe she is.

I just noticed that she has partial psychological deformation.
So expect anything from her at this point.
Its really sad tho!

UyaiIncomparabl:
Badbradley and Maverick777, I have reported you guys for insulting me. I hope it comes with a ban. I won't descend to your levels! Bye Felicias!

You're so dull.
I overrated you massively..

UyaiIncomparabl:


Let me just pretend like I never saw this.

I really hate to engage you, but, for how long would you keep pretending?
Aren't you tired of being like this(inferiority complex)
I believe I also told you the exact same thing that guy did...
I just hope you retrace your steps(for your own good)
please don't respond.

Good Morning.

immortalcrown:
Until you explain how my comment is not logically connected to the post, you are a noisemaker.

I already told you that in my second line Sir.
get someone close to you who understands English, to decipher for you.

immortalcrown:
Misguided men sound as if all women are the same. Misguided women also sound as if all men are the same. See the way you say "Fear women" as if your mother is like this your wife.

I do not know if you are saying the truth. I did not witness the marriage and I have not heard her own side of the story. But if what you said is the truth of the matter, below is my opinion.

Your wife and her mother are extremely greedy and selfish. Your wife does not love you. If she loves you, she would have even borrowed money to support you. You used money to compel her to marry you.

But what about you? You are not better. Your tone and your logic show you may even be worse. You are the type that believes money is all that matters. That is why you chose a wife based on your ability to earn and spend money. You lavished money on her. If not how you pampered and spoiled her with money and petting, she would not have married you or the marriage would have ended within 2 years. Maybe she was a point of attraction for all the men in your area and you prided yourself as the champion in getting her. When wise men try to use prudence and rationality to test a woman, people like you mock those men and say "Na mumu dey use poverty test women". You got what you bargained for.

But let me tell you what is about to happen to you. A serious marital crisis is about to hit your home. I do not foresee a divorce. What I foresee is a serious domestic violence that can result in death. Two wrongs never make a right. You and your wife will equally surfer and your child will surfer most when it happens. You and your wife are equally irrational. Both of you are heartless towards each other. You may end up with another woman that will worsen your life. Your tone shows you are yet to know how to enjoy women. Your wife may commit paternity fraud against you in future.

Better pamper her and pray God changes her. Trying to hurt her will not solve the problem. It will only add fuel to the fire. If what you say here is true, your wife is wicked and she won't mind poisoning you to death if you torture her. Only patience and petting can soften a wicked woman a bit. You don enter be say you don enter. Even a divorce will not save you because she and her congenial mother will use all their efforts to make your life miserable.

you didn't make any sense bro!
read and understand according to what the OP wrote and not what you think he didn't write.
most times, too much smartness= foolishness

UyaiIncomparabl:


LOL. You are looking for solidarity.

I'd tell you again, GROW UP!
you don't have as much time as you think you do.
lastly and most importantly,.... never mind!

asdfjklhaha:

I agree with you. Her behavior is so wrong I can't go at my aunt's place and see her sweeping and cross leg, I will help her out. We girls should stop defending foolishness, that girl is rude.

If you're a female, it means you're wise. I commend you!
And you're the only one I find worthy to quote on this thread
I'd leave you with something I think you already know, but others(male & female) need to see and learn from..
'its not Simping to call out your gender if they do something that's wrong, no but's, no what if's, if its wrong its wrong! stop enabling B.S in the name of gender support...'

seunmsg:


If Seun is behind every evil post against Peter Obi, who is behind every evil post against Tinubu?

All the youths who want better than an unpresentable aged ancestor.
and just so you know, I am YORUBA.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
WTF..
Was god asleep?

isn't it sad that you're ruining your life because you're trying to pass-off as 'woke and controversial' to total strangers? I mean people who don't even know or give two eff's about you..
When things turn out terrible for you(cos they sure will) in the nearest future, these people you're tryin to please wouldn't be there to help you.
Being a toddler is not an excuse, because I'm sure on Fridays when Muslim topics are put up, you can't dare go there to spill thrash.

If you don't retrace your steps, you'd learn the hard way(that's if it's not even already happening), that's guaranteed!

mekuso89:
positive attract negative

so if you are a man then start dressing like bad boy but don't smoke or join cult

just have sense and be smart trust me bad girls will run away and good girls will be attracted to you

Your post is a perfect example of, terrible cover but brilliant content!
you're 100% correct with this.
like terms repel and unlike terms attract!

Sparrk007:
My sister marriage no be endurance, Marriage na full time enjoyment.. money or no money.

For you to say this, then you must either be a toddler or just simply living in a fool's paradise.