If she said she the last time she did abortion she almost died and so is bent on keeping this one then rest assured that pregnancy isn't his. He's just being hoodwinked by an olosho for economic gains since he'll henceforth assume responsibility for her upkeep. Importantly, you (abi your pseudo friend) just dodged a bullet, they hatched plan B instead of plan A which would have been to kill you and get away with your wealth. She's not alone in this plan, her boyfriend who could be one of the stewards working with you or some random guy is in this plan with her. What to do? Play smart. Don't make her suspect you or predict your next move... Tell her to accompany you to shop some household items that madam said you should get that someone will come to the house to pick. When you drive go to a place you already arranged with one of your friends who will act as a medical personnel. Park before entry and then start talk to her.. If you and your wife don't have kids yet tell her you have chosen to be calm and nice to her despite the news she broke to you and her response, not because you don't know what you are doing, but because there is more she doesn't know.. Proceed to telling her you'll share your family's little secret with her and that is that you are the reason you don't have kids yet, that you were told by doctors that you are impotent. So the chance that you are responsible is very slim. But that you too desire and hope it is yours already because 3 days before meeting with her you completed first dose of some medications, and that you told the medical personnel who gave you the drugs he said it is unlikely the first line/dose starts work so immediately with your kind of condition but that he wants to meet with her to ask her some questions and also start diagnosis on her, it will include matching the foetus in her with your blood. Tell her the man is inside the building holding meeting so he said you should call him when you get there. And tell her you will from there go to the store. Then call your friend who will come and act as a medical personnel. But if you have kids already, edit the story to include you didn't get your wife pregnant, it was through IVF with donor sperm. If the kids look exactly like you then edit it to just your inability to get a woman pregnant through the natural route, only via IVF and that this is the first. You have to catch her off guard.
NemoDatQuod: Truth is the most powerful weapon on earth. I will advise he tell his wife immediately. She will ultimately find out. With the profile you have painted of that maid, his wife will find out before the end of this year. The maid does not plan on remaining a maid for long or on staying hidden for long. Moreover, for how long will he keep the existence of his own child hidden?
Let the truth set him free. Let the heavens fall today instead of in a few years time, when there will be more at risk. The longer a marriage endures, the more dangerous disastrous revelations such as this becomes for the man.
you know women! no one would hear the last of this if he tell her. and he loves/wants his marriage...
So what about the possibility of her being pregnant for another person and forcing it on your friend. It's possible to do paternity test even if the child isn't yet born he should go for this option first.
we were also exploring that option but the CCTV in his house shows she almost never goes out.. nothing is certain tho but we doubt that.
You trust people's words too easily: your friend said that he did it once, you believed him. The girl said she was told that abortion is risky for her, you believed her too. Lol. She used that pregnancy to trap your friend, simple. She needs to be made to willingly go for abortion whatever it takes. Even it means settling her with millions of naira!
my friend has no reason to lie to me, as for the girl that's why I put a clause... he intends settling her after birth tho.
ps; if you don't see any reason why someone should lie to you, always give a benefit of a doubt.
Ishilove: Maverick... That's Tom Cruise's character's nick in Top Gun. Maverick is a pilot, and the man with the restless gbola in the OP is also a pilot.
Odiegwu.
Op, I hope the lady gives birth to triplets. That will teach you to control yourself when your wife is not around. Shior
what has the number of babies got to do with anything?
Money (to cater for them)? We spend it as a hobby. what else?
MEGA4BILLION: Well your friend should register her for anti-natal, at this level the maid will need a lot of fruits, folic acid and ferrous sulphate, so he needs to provide them before travelling. Best wishes to your friend.
Who won't want to marry a pilot if young ladies can be fighting over Aguba
No wonder you are beautiful hmmm oruko lo n ro ni.... can I talk to you Beauty
Hello Sir, please take your randy, low-self esteem self out of my thread and stop embarrassing your lineage If you want to engage call-girls, that's why there's an e-mail option.
You guys will need to cook that tale that the maid ram off with a guy well. I am sure the wife will be held responsible for the maid’s whereabouts. The police may get involved in this fairytale and Your guy is a suspect so are u.
Make una cook this lie well because it doesn’t show how smart u and d impregnator are.
Whatever action the wife would or would want to take regarding anything would go through the husband first, don't you think?
A close buddy of mine is in deep shit, just 2 days back he confided in me telling me his maid (who the wife employed herself) is 14weeks pregnant!
HOW IT UNFOLDED Earlier in the year, his wife got an invite to do her masters program in Scotland and they have a 5year old Son, so she elected they employ a maid since she couldn't take him along, she even did so herself.
The husband is a pilot and always never at home (the security the wife had I guess), now I don't know whatever went on in his tiny head, they got intimate (just once) and boom! she caught the shot expertly.. He said she's being showing symptoms since he got back from travel, so he took her for a test and its confirmed.
I guess she knew all along but did nothing on purpose, because I don't want to believe that a 22year old girl would be comfortable not flowing for 3 months (not like she's a novice). Now, his wife is due back in September, and he's scheduled to travel again by Monday(to return only God knows when).
So technically, his wife might even return before him.
He asked for my suggestion and help, because he mentioned abortion to her and she refuted saying she nearly died after the last one she did, so the doctor warned her sternly against it.
I told him that the best I can advise/do for him is to take her in until she puts to bed. let him tell his wife she ran off with a guy or something of the sort. then we take it up from there after delivery.
The situation is one dicey and fragile one, if not handled carefully with wisdom, can ruin a lot!
ProfessorAlex: With APC losing Osun election, they've successfully made plans to rig the presidential election and have a perfect reference that elections were free and fair, "like Osun".. APC and Tinubu know they can't win the presidential election in a free and fair election. You won't be able to complain cos they didn't complain when they lost Osun. It's all a plan for future reference. They'll gaslight you and try to paint a picture of you being a sour loser. The silence of APC and the North on the outcome of Osun State election is deafening. Don't let it deceive you.
Magnoliaa: But I don't know what the men of today are turning to honestly. All jokes apart. This one is celebrating a divorce? Openly like this and on social media? Does he have family members? Kids? Is this how morally bankrupt we've become that a man is celebrating a divorce of all things in the whole world? Is this how much our values have eroded? Publicly telling people with all his mouth that he failed as a LEADER and as an HEAD!
Because that is exactly what this is... there cannot be two captains in a ship, so I am 100% sure that he alone stirred that marriage to wreck! Women are born to be submissive, and have been brought up to be so, to follow a man's lead... a true man with the right frame anyway, so this one should just go and hang his head in shame for his lack of frame. Spits.
Jephyard: Capital No and if she decided to go ahead with the job divorce her. Except Eko hotel, Radisson Blu, Intercontinental Hotel, Four Point, etc any other hotel either beautifully big is a Capital No. My woman tried it, if you see the kind change am wey I change am for am even the manager for the hotel shock cos she told the manager and she was like is it not human that also work in the hotel? I told her my mind. Nigeria hotel no get proper/ no regards for human. So I am not taking chances. Some risk are not worth it.
and what is so different about the ones you exempted?
I wonder if the MODs here even modify some posts before pushing to front page, imagine the OP said the topic was about Wizkid's birthday, but went ahead to write Davido in the body, alongside so many kindergarten grammatical errors for such a short write up and it still made frontpage unedited.
Incase you have a picture or video you want to edit, or turn your pictures in a cartoon I can do that with my phone... Abeg make person help me with work Make I see money chop better food this week
I can do any kind of job Aslo, please don't advice prostitution or robbery to me ...
Also I studied businesses administration in school.. second class upper.. if you got any good job in line with what I studied please help link me ...
I normally go to any random Depot, if I see any truck laden with goods in any of the depot, I normally beg the manager to let me help and do the offloading.
The first time I offloaded cartons of bottle water was very embarrassing. There is a way the boys normally stack like 12 cartons on their backs and carry at once. The madam asked me if am sure I could do the work, I said yes, she asked if I could stack 12 cartons on my back the way the boys were doing it, I said yes(ive never done it before oh). She said I should stack let her see. Every one was watching me, I arranged 12 cartons and tried to lift with my back. I crashed to the floor with the entire cartons falling on me and all over the place. Every one burst out into laughter. The madam was like abeg abeg abeg u have to go, this isn't your time of work, you don't look like people that do all these harg work. Abeg just go. I wished the ground would just open and swallow me.
I begged her for a second chance, if I couldn't do it this time, I would go. She agreed and asked me to stack again. I begged one of the boys to show me how it's done. He showed me how to bend the back and place my hand underneath the base of the cartons.
I arranged another 12 cartons and did as the boy instructed, it worked but I could not move. It was too heavy, large veins stood out of my forehead, I tried and tried and I started to move slowly, it was too heavy. Luckily I made it into the warehouse where it was been stored. My hands were shaking , I couldn't see well, headache set in. But I persisted and offloaded every thing with them. I was paid a paltry #1700 like everyone else. I used it buy stew ingredients and eat.
Omo ah once in a day,and I even see Garri drink 3times a day GOD I AM GRATEFUL..my dear God no go shame us.....I even have a sachet of noodles spicy in my kitchen be like say I go mix am with water boil am..do Eba this evening...Eba just dey hungry me
floss: Religion made sex look like an abomination but it's just an activity just like every other activities that humans do. How can an activity under a different polarity become acceptable but when done under a different situation becomes unacceptable biblically..
To be sincere, akwa Ibom women are the Tecno version of Igbo women (Samsung) They are capable of doing virtually everything that Samsung does, but like Tecno they're quite cheaper and affordable compared to their counterpart Samsung.
So OP, no matter what, many tribes go after Tecno products because they're quite easy to maintain and their parts are very easy to locate, getting married to Akwa Ibom women seems cheaper compared to Igbo women, that's why it's easier for their women getting Igbo men as suitors than their men getting igbo women as suitors
mastersplanet: What is the motive of the post, shebi he left office many years ago, if at all his the fairest back them. What does the article deserve promotion and attention now��♂️. Somebody is taking bribe somewhere
Family / Re: His Maid Is Pregnant For Him And He Wants Abortion by Maverick777: 8:56am On Jul 21, 2022 
