OlawaleBammie:


Baba a don send am to ur mail already. Pls check

seen sir.

OvertheTop:


Elder, Are you married?

read the article very well and find your answer.

mayo47:
This one event you experienced doesnt mean you should arrive at the conclusion that "its at its Peak"

trust me, if the was the first time, I wouldn't write an article about it.
I've had friends who are victims, heard so many stories (and I want to believe you've as well).

noble2faith:


Mr Maverick. Your name sounds familiar. Are you trading with Maverick?

Yes SIr.

DaddyNimo:

My friend find one side go siddon.....no woman has ever cheated on me and no one ever will....cos before you do, I kick you to the trenched where you belong....I don't have time for emotional mental processes....I'm a logical guy....if it doesn't look like it makes sense, it doesn't make sense simple

funny enough, men like you are the most cheated on!
a lady just needs to discover the 'myopic' yardstick you think is making you tame them, and that's all!

alizma:

It's look more like you are the man being cheated on. How did assess the man's sexual prowess and libido level? Ha! I wonder the extent some amebors go to say things they know little about. Don't you know the nature of his job(bonkery) could have negative effect on his sexual performance. That is one of the reasons why oil workers in formal oil company are usually giving milk and all other things to keep them healthy in all aspect but these bonkery guys focus more on the money and neglect their health.

you chose to see the sex and high libido part and skipped the money or attention part? and now asking me silly questions!
Or you don't know what options are again? did I pin point a particular reason?
read to understand and not to castigate, so you don't end up embarrassing yourself in public.

Juoflife1:
Married women cheat for the same reason married men cheat.

Your post simply reveals what you are.

Excuzeme:


The best thing is for Govt to make DNA Test COMPULSORY, immediately after Birth of a Child and FUND IT, just the way they fund Family Planning Clinics and give Pregnancy prevention tablets to Women for free!

And Paternity Fraud should attract a minimum of 15yrs Jail term.
End of Story.

SECONDED!

DaddyNimo:

Only a simp won't know when his woman is cheating....a simp will have all the clues an evidence but mumu emotions and love will blind him....no how your woman go dey cheat and you no go know....unless you're a forking stupid simp who isn't logical in thinking.

you people over that word SIMP here!
do you even know what it means?

do you know how pretentious some women can get?
do you know how busy some of us men get, from one business trip to another?
Na woman I go come dey monitor like a small child..

Woman wey wan cheat go cheat and she go do am under your nose!
Just pray to get a decent and self-respectful lady.

Mokason288:
I have a room stocked with drinks for my traditional marriage.

To cut long story short.

Wedding is called off

I stumbled on her phone and saw her chat with her friend... My supposed Fiancée is traveling out of the country January with another man to Canada .

This hoes ain’t loyal

you've got to be kidding me!

Dangrace01:

just imagine this!!

sonofElElyon:


How do we know this isn't just fiction?

Whether you chose to believe or nah, that's entirely your prerogative Sir...

I'm sure you've not bothered to ask yourself, why DNA test is becoming increasingly prevalent nowadays.

BluntTheApostle:



Are you assuming that everyone on Nairaland knows what Omonigho means?

You mentioned it at least 2 times without bothering to give its meaning.

Its a tribal name Sir!
You should have deduced that from the contexts in which I used it.

I would take that to mean you have no meaningful addition...
after all, ' A man whose house is on fire, doesn't go chasing after rats'...

redseason:

She is actually right. Visit SA, you will understand. Save for North Africans due to religious constraints, most African women are not faithful. Not all though.

Shut up your gat damn mouth!
the fact that other people are doing it, does it mean it's right?
Or you don't know what is right anymore?
Why didn't you copy women from North African countries?
Since you want to copy!

Sterope:
Men are polygamous

Spits!

Flipmac:

Bro Nigerian women are saints compared to women from other African countries besides North African.

Who never waka no go know.

Can you imagine!
Coming from a supposed lady?
And That's enough to encourage yourself ya!

The more comments from ladies here, just goes to show that there's no hope any more!

LilMissFavvy:
It is not only married women who cheat, married men do worse. Cheating on her husband is bad, but don't be surprised if you find out her husband does same. I also believe her husband is lacking in some important aspects otherwise she wouldn't cheat.

sighted!
no shame!
so if a man cheats, as a woman, the next thing you do is, you go look for the next tom and spread your legs?
don't you even have shame?
how does that sound in your mouth?
and then you bring another man's child to your husband to train abi?

how did we get here for heaven sake??
God help you Ma.

Romanoff:


Most people who commit adultery were chronic fornicators.

Go and do your research.

that is not a yardstick madam!

its about thye mindset

Infact, as a man, I've had a lot of ladies during my prime, Now all I want is just one(wife).
Nothing outside would ever freak me again.
It wouldn't be so for a random 23year old just getting married.

so you see..

ivolt:

Is anybody forcing you to marry or have kids?

Aren't you tired of these dumb rehashed stories.

If you are scared stay single forever. It is a free world.
There is also the option of surrogacy if you really want kids.
Problem solved!

the fact that you feel attacked/pained/slighted, already shows your kinda person.
all ye ladies of easy virtue, change...
It's not worth it.

07kjb:


A woman who fears God and you are bringing up virgins matter

Women are scum generally but a few

Didn't you see where she mentioned body count?
or you don't know what that means?

IamAsiri:


So, because you witnessed this case now means that every married woman is a cheat? Isn't that an insult against every married woman you know?

the key word in my post being MOST!

OlawaleBammie:
Yes but u still never give me my 20k

dis guy
the last message you sent me is what actually stopped me from giving you that money oh...
sha send aza to my mail

meobizy:
One picture would have convinced me.

Nobody needs your conviction sir.
I'm not a journalist. Who makes a video of such situation just for clout?
I'm not that insensitive okay, I'm an elder..

Kobicove:
Another thread opened specifically to bash females

OP are you trying to tell us that we don't also have married men who cheat?

the result wouldn't end up in training someone else's child and being fooled.
A woman always knows her child!

you're clearly stupid!
when you grow up, reality would set in on you don't worry...

GboyegaD:
Why do we want to eat or cakes and have them. We promote sexual immorality before marriage and expect it to stop in marriage, do we think it is going to be that easy?

you and who promoted sexual immorality?
what sort of senseless generalization is that?

Elder0001:


I don't see guys on this forum dropping epistles when men cheat, to condemn such action. Why is that so?

you're not wise!
do you think that a man cheating bears half the grunt as a lady
ask yourself dis question, do men carry babies?
the product of a cheating man is evident for all to see, like Yul for example, everyone would know you cheated.
For a woman, its not so, as a man you can wake up one day at 60, having trained 4 kids to adult stage and find out that none are yours biologically
how would you feel?

try dey think before you spill thrash!

alphaconde:
who never Bleep up hands in the air

see ehn i no just get power to judge anybody

when we die time go de for GOD to run am

you nor wan grow up abi?
Nor worry, when you don train another man pikin reach university, you con find out ehn, na that time you go know who don and who never bleep up.

Romanoff:
Stop fornicating, male and female, stop it.

Na wetin all these "I must sample before marriage" dey cost.

what does fornication have to do with adultery madam?

Bluntguy:
Being the bread winner of the house isn't an easy task in present day Nigeria. Just noticed I spend an average of 40k per week to feed the family of six. Just wondering if things can get any better soon, or even get worse. How are you coping?

I stuck up once every week(just for me and any lucky guest I allow)
On the average it used to be around 20k-25k and that's solely because I don't eat stale food.
Yesterday, wen I went for my usually weekly re-stock I spent 37k.
a loaf of bread is now N1600.
times are really hard nowadays.
Everything is on the INCREASE!

From the look of things, I fit rule out marriage if symptoms persist!

pocohantas:
I don’t spend much once I have managed to stock up food in the house. I spend a lot when I am restocking, after that some thousands here and there.

How am I coping?

All that could've been summarized if you ask me.
na una dey make first page quick full so!
.

tamdun:
Good, u don't just rent ur house to every Tom and dick, ask for do documents, their occupation etc

So, to you, yahoo boys don't have legit businesses they run abi?

tayo60:
A man should really study and know the woman he is marrying . A lady with many body counts before marriage can't never be faithful, and moreso, women pretend a lot. Do an undercover investigation about her from friends, neighbors etc before you marry her. So also, a woman who fears God cannot cheat in marriage.

madam/oga, there is no 'one size fits all' in these cases.
People have married virgins that still ended up cheating.
leave God out of it, decency and respect is key!

My take is, Most Women don't know what they want!