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.. ;DFunny statement from u. So are girls not categorized under ladies? Anyways OP just take my advice and be smart..

The truth is that there are still very good and loyal ladies around. I have been opportuned to meet and date a good number of them. This kind of babes are loyal and they can love for Africa. They don't demand for money, gifts and d rest. And they appreciate d little u offer. They don't mind sharing their resources with u if need be. For u guys to know this. Try to make a lot of female friends, interact with them, ask them abt some of their friends with good character. These ladies know themselves better. U will easily spot out or get urself to meet d good ones within a short time.

This is serious o

okoroemeka:
Igbos don't even want to be part of Nigeria,one bloody civil war has been fought because of that,igbos are only held in Nigeria because of the oil money and military might of the federal government, Igbo people are dynamic and hard working they see opportunity were there's none.

Which oil money are u referring to? Its south/south that owns most the crude oil Nigeria explores

Seriously when a grown ass man like the OP that should be doing positive things about his life or rather post positive news wakes up in the morning just post images of a teenager then definitely, this is end times.
It is a big shame on u OP.

OP let me tell u the truth, whatever u are doing isn't going to work out for u as far as she still loves d bf. Believe me it is very difficult for a girl to fall out of love with a man once she genuinely falls in love with him. If u like build her a mansion she won't still stop loving d said guy. That's why u see some ladies married to rich men still cheating on their husbands with their true love. One of d hardest things to do is changing a woman's heart once she loves someone. How did I know all this?
Ans: I have sisters and female cousins who showcase these characteristics.
My advice is that u are a man and as such u should have high self-esteem and ego to move on to d next good girl anytime d present one doesn't work out. Try to have lots of female friends(not lovers o) and choose one as a lover.

chiboy441:
Yes its possible, once you have required STCW and documents that required from you to work as a cadet. see post regarding list of documents on marine and offshore insight blog. i hope i answered your question?

Boss I hail o!
I do posses stcw, discharge, e-passport, seafarer reg form, yellow card and am a graduate of mech Engr. Pls how easy is it to get a ship job outside the country?
2ndly there is a job am pursuing in a foreign ship company who is contracted by an oil company i.e ExxonMobil Nigeria. Pls around how much do u think such a company will pay?
Thanks in advance n God bless.

Barbieperry:
Single single

Fine girl! what's up

Randy100:
Sorry I haven't met such ladies.

k but my guy a lot of such ladies exist. I have been opportuned to meet a lot of them.

Alexaonfleek:
What the op said is correct.forget the way most girls form and all,its because of the hardship of the country.

When a girl really is in love,she gives the guy her 100%.

Pls tell them dear!

Randy100:
How could you be so sure?

Trust me I have been through that part several times and d funny thing is that I was a player(dating many ladies)then. These ladies were so much in love n my curiosity on finding ways to breakup with them made to dig deep abt those ladies(in terms of cheating n lifestyle). My findings got me shocked, 90% of ladies who truly love their guys don't cheat as far as d said man gives them little attention. Am talking abt loving a guy for real and not with interest( money, fame, etc).
Haven't u come across ladies that dupe their parents money just to give to a man because of love?
What abt ladies that use all their pocket money to travel very far away to see a guy they love?
A lady's love is blind and deep. She doesn't care what d whole world thinks as far as she can see or hear from her man. I have experienced these kind of love from several ladies and it at some point it touched me to change my attitude from being a player.

Biglittlelois:
Deep words Op, really deep!!!

Something tells me u are one of the few ladies who gives 100% to her man. Infact I know u are one. Keep it up dear!

Randy100:
There is no forgiveness, no second chance once she cheats.

A girl that truly loves u won't cheat on. Mark my word

Love can never ever be overrated except u don't believe in the existence of God. God himself is love so how can u use such a phrase. I can't imagine myself spending d rest of my life with someone I don't love. I will cheat on her multiple times and so will other men n women because that inner satisfaction from the heart isn't there. I will be happy always if I am broke because I am married to the lady I love than being made or rich because am married to the lady I don't love. No family, friends or any love will give anyone the same satisfaction u deserve from ur spouse which u spend d rest of ur life with. After all this money we are talking abt is not all life offers. Its vanity at d end.
Meanwhile I am living a very comfortable life with good cash but I will never compare trading love for money. never

Everyday I wake up, I see a lot of unmarried mature ladies unhappily moving around. 99% reason of their unhappiness is because they don't see a man to marry n after u hear their story u realize that most times they are d root cause of d problem. The truth is after God there can never be anything as strong as true love. And for any relationship/marriage to stand the test of time, it requires true love btw both parties and not money. some Ladies think they should always for a made man because he has money and learn to love him. D fact is love is not a course u study in sch so u don't learn to love a man, u can only pretend for a while. if its not real and natural love then its not true love. Most marriages are broken today because that foundation which is love doesn't exist. My advice to the ladies is pls go for that man whom u love and he loves u too whether he is made or broke. If u are a sensible woman u can make ur man rich today or tomorrow. Thnks

NuhRegular:
Lol.. I agree with Saff please.. But I don't understand.. All these complaints I'm seeing on Nairaland, every small thing "I don't know if I should just call it off".. Haba.. Is it easy to find a reasonable life partner in this generation of plenty casala that people are just breaking up anyhow.. What happened to "communications" I mean actually discussing your relationship issues and trying to make headway.. Well obviously most of you guys are just in a relationship for one foolish reason or the other.. Because If it was genuinely backed by love, ending things won't be so easy

I do share d same thoughts with u. Guys just want to break up at every slightest error committed by their gfs. I mean no one is perfect and there should always be steady communication and openness for relationships to become fruitfull. Op I want u to give her another chance, I guess she must have changed but let me ask who rocks his/her cousin? That's shit

The simple answer to ur question OP is that, BMC are all hypocrites. They come from the same source, same paymaster and act according to instructions. U can call it Zombie but it is worst than that, but don't worry we have a solution. And its Atiku.
Anyways just click like for Atiku 2019

Premiumwriter:
You mean fat girls like queenbelle?

Don't mind him my dear

Adakintroy:
So we south south don't have a say abi? You are just going to claim us without our approval abi?

What if we want to be Nigerians by ourselves.or you that is fighting for your own self determination will stop others from their own self determination too?

Aside

I don't trust ogbo man around my oil ..their eye for money pass aboki. They are too dominaring.

I know am an aboki slave. But I prefer it to igbo slave. Igbo don't share.

Bro u just said it all. It seems these people takes us south south for fools that's why they have the audacity to just wake up one day and start preaching that we are part of them. As in that is madness of the highest order. In essence they are saying we don't have a choice, and we don't have wisdom as well. It is so annoying eh!

Odingo1:
I wish you what you wish yourself, it is a big surprise how a person will prefer those who kill and occupy against those will enter a place and take over due to their hardworking in establishing their businesses without killing the host, it is all about hate.

Why can't u people simply think of developing ur area than coming into someone's region thinking u can make decisions them. Sorry but that looks really insane! We people of south south will never join u. Can't u get it?

Adakintroy:
We will take our chances with the herdsmen.

I have seen your nature's close quarters. It scares me more than herdsmen. Every place you enter you take over.
Moreover herdsmen are not killers. This are terrorist masquarading.

Don't mind those guys. They always have this mentality that they are wiser n smarter than other tribes which is very wrong. It is insane for a man to just wake up one day and tell the whole world that he owns other tribes. That's just foolishness at its peak. Let me stop there.

nijabazaar:
I am getting somewhat confused.....

With this speech Nnamdi is turning into a Guerrilla guy from Cuba. What happened to the peaceful agitation for Biafra.

But then if you consider it, Buhari does not understand peace, maybe this is the time to go Ape...

We are in interesting times, Kalu now seems resolute and with Mr Netanyahu and nay France....i forsee a proxy battle of supremacy.

I want Buhari out , for sure....I want Biafra

Yes, anything, anything....i repeat Anything for Biafra

But still, can there be peace without War?

This x sending my heart a flutter, I see Very Very Dark Clouds....

Oga there will be nothing like Biafra. when did we the South south people join Ipob? Seems u people think we are fools that's why u just go on air and spew rubbish. Now ur Oga Nnamdi Kanu is also saying middle belt should join. What happens if u stay on ur own? Or maybe he thinks we are still in the 19th century. Everyone is on his or her own. Restructuring is the real deal. Well done sir

emmykey0128:
Guy no b love joor, the guy sabi Bleep wella, u don't know the power of rod abi?

It's like u have been heartbroken several times by the wrong set of ladies such that u don't know the strength of love. Let me tell u, true love can make a lady take a bullet for u. I have been lucky to meet many of such ladies in my life. Dick and money is just a bonus. I know these factors have power to turn d female brain but trust me its not near as strong Love.

technicallyrich:
becasue we are blessed.
If you are a girl and you know marry a biafran,wey even God has blessed with everything,my sister wetin you gain.

Which one is biafran again? U must be from the east. Let me ask u, who do u think makes up Biafra?

proprince:
Later the same Nigerians will come to tell us "One Nigeria" when Nig has never been one.

Core Northern girls dnt go to the east for NYSC but Christian girls are been posted to the Core northern states for NYSC.

All these stupid laws only applies to the poor northern guys, why did Babangida marry an igbo girl, Atiku
Has ibo wife
How is Nigeria one?

Where did u get ur facts from? I have seen core northern ladies serving in the eastern, southern and western part of this country. Its just that some of them do redeploy back to the north but a lot still serve in other regions outside north.

Allee90:
No any and I repeat No any full Hausa Fulani northern girl will EVER marry a None Muslim. Its against our religion, culture and tradition. Infact its an abomination. That is the bitter truth most of you will not love to hear. There is decorum guiding all aspects of our lives. For those that knows they know

Being a Hausa fulani northern girl doesn't make that person a Muslim so states ur facts correctly. I am not from North and am a christian but I have 6 relations(Christians) who are from to Hausa ladies. So where did u get ur ideology from?

Hahahhahahahhaha funny people. Operation Sai baba back to daura! If u support Atiku like this comment.

Thiwalade:
No good man ever leaves a good lady that stood in times of trouble I would never forget that special woman forever. I have just one regret since i've been dating, leaving an ex of mine when i was way younger because she wasn't so beautiful now i realize beauty is vain, She's married now but if i had the chance, i'll marry her and her baby together. I have never met anybody as great as she is afterwards. Nature has a way of paying us back for all wrongs we did. If you have a good man/woman please cherish them, its so hard to find true loyalty in our generation. "Whatever you are, be a good one"

That's a good lesson everyone should learn from u. Once u meet the right person, don't let them go if u don't have a very good reason. Its really difficult to find a good and faithful partner who truly loves u for who u are. Most relationships these days are built based on interest(money, fame, benefits) and not love that's why people cheat, commit adultery n d rest.

Wizaustin54:
that how he has been deceiving us here with the ogoni clean up.

deceit ful , lies , dictator, tyrant, always blaming previous govt for their failure...

Good evening sir, its seems truly the Ogoni clean up will take place this time around.

Biglittlelois:
Not always true, i know of a once upon a time useless broke guy who left his girl for a slay the moment he became rich, i do believe in starting up with a guy but it's more or less 90% risky.

Its not more risky than being used and dumped by a made guy. For me its all bad and d same. The truth is if a guy loves u, he loves u and if he doesn't love u, then he can dump u at anytime whether broke or made. The same applies to ladies. That's when issue of dating a girl due to interest comes in. I suggest ladies should spend their energy and research on trying to discover if their man truly loves them or if he is fake instead following money with that popular excuse "broke guys ain't faithful" or "broke guys will dump u once they are made". Thank u

ImaIma1:
She didn't actually say anything negative. She said they should only stay because of love and not because of pity of what people think about sticking to him as he is not rich

U are right though but why on earth should a man or lady stay in a relationship based on pity instead of love. Its like the person is deceiving his/her self which I see as complete foolishness and waste of time cos it neva brings one happiness. The most important ingredients in a relationship are true love, trust, understanding and commitment. Being broke or made shouldn't ever be d first step. I believe with good planning and commitment anybody can improve his/her financial status up to an atleast comfortable state.