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KOPArespect:
I will try to cut the long story short... I am 29. my wife is 26

I got married in 2018 and ever since, there is hardly a week that my mother-in-law
will not come visiting without my pre informing me. I hate this as i usually result into
sleeping on the couch since i was not financially bouyant to get an apartment then...
we were staying in my fathers house.

This act continued for long that i had to react by telling my wife that she should at least always
inform me whenever her mum is coming , and each time she inform me, I usually pass the night at
a friends place and the woman eventually noticed it. One day, she came, i prostrated to greet, she
answered and started accusing me of not calling her, that she is not here to meet me, she only wants
to come and greet her daughter.

ever since that day, my everyday plan was relocating to another state, as such, i started applying for
jobs outside my state...

Good enough, i got a job in Osun State and had to relocate there with my wife. for about 1 and 7 months
now, they've been communicating on phone and i only call her to ask if they've seen my alert on every festive
periods.

The issue right now is that my wife is heavily pregnant and my business mother MIGHT not want
to come stay with us for long abandoning her business... And i am very sure my mother-in-law will want to come.
coming is not my problem, how long will she stay is my issue, what if she didnt leave after 1,2,3 months?

i am planning of sending my wife to my mum for better care, but i dont want to miss my wife too... please advice, what should i do?

are you okay? Sending her to your mum for better care when her mother is still alive?

Y'all should start knowing that once you marry, you're automatically making the other people your family too, I don't see where this woman offended you for you to have so much contempt for her.

Better behave if you don't want to start initiating crack in your home

Sorry ma, it is hallowed