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Dem boku, I know what I had to go through before I could manage to get my NIN dialing the normal code others dial o

Shameful isn't it.

I have been having this idea that may help in prosecuting the was against terror, maybe terrible but it keeps coming up . I don't know if there's anyone here close to the army. I'm willing to fight alongside the troops for 2months to understand how best to put it to use.

I'm currently dating myself and I don't see myself getting married to me.

Rossinkup:
When they declare a state of emergency, it allows them to suspend certain civil rights provisions of the constitution, such as freedom of movement, freedom of assembly, freedom of speech (to prevent incitement to violence etc), rights preventing detention without trial, etc, and they are also have greater authority to impose curfews and lockdowns, stop and search operations etc.

true for a truly Democratic administration, but what we have in Nigeria is not truly democratic as the President have always exercised powers without recourse to the rule of law

MadamFay:
This made me laugh out loud. Imagine spending all his money on visa and all, and then he gets deported a day after.

He dunno

OfeAchi:
BACKGROUND:

I had a decent job before I met her and I was responsible for all the decisions I took, which mostly led to favourable outcomes.
However when I met her and began a relationship, I wasn't having the freedom I needed. Any decision I wanted to take without her authorization always ended badly. For example there was a period I wanted to jointly rent an apartment with a male friend of mine. She strongly opposed this but I still went ahead to pay rent. Unfortunately for me, within four months my friend had some issues with landlord and we were both evicted from the apartment. (although I got compensated)

Another instance was when I got paid some bonuses from company and decided to invest in some crypto projects during their ICOs (in 2017). I did some market analysis of these crypto projects before my decision to invest, only for her to advice me against it. She said we should instead, use the money to start farming. I didn't listen to her and went ahead to invest. THE RESULT: the investment that was supposed to take me to the moon now became more worthless than tissue paper! I shed tears because of this.

I now decided to get rid of her, but all plans of mine proved abortive. The more I tried to get her out of my life, the more we were brought together. Can you believe that the day I finally proposed to her was the very same day I tried to make out with an old girlfriend?

A friend of mine went to consult an ifa priest, who told him that my fiance has a cloud of good fortunes around her. But I don't believe in those spiritual mumbo-jumbos! I was determined to leave her. This made me begin applying for jobs in other states and towns, but nothing came forth. I even went for interview/test but didn't scale through. Some weeks later, she told me that she wasn't in support of me getting job in another town (she says she was scared of losing me).

Did you know? the time I decided to remove the thoughts of leaving her from mind and fully accept her into my life, was the time that I finally got a better job in another city!

MARRIAGE
We got married in 2019 and I was of the mindset that since she may be an ogbanje, therefore things would work in my favour and I would become a millionaire very quickly, but that's not the case.

Since marriage, any decision I take without her approval always leads to disaster!
I wanted to invest in a partnership deal and told her about it but she disapproved and said I should save the money instead. I went ahead to invest and I lost 400k! Same for other decisions in the house, the outcome was always negative whenever I don't heed her advice.

I hate all this! I'm a full grown man. Why should my life be based on the decisions of a woman? I feel like I'm no longer in control of my life.
I'm about to take a car loan from my company in order to escape this constant public commute and trekking but she has vehemently disapproved, that I should instead save for another year or two before buying car. But I still won't listen to her! If the loan ends in a disaster, I have decided that I would abandon this marriage and relocate to another country. A country where voodoo and religious mumbo-jumbo do not exist, so that I can be in full control of my life!

.......PS: we have a year old baby girl. Maybe I could be sending monthly upkeep from this new country I intend to relocate to.

Able readers, is my final decision a good one?

how are you sure you can leave the country without her approval?

Way to grow, international professional players should see no big deal retiring to our local league, that way the league might get more spotlight and grow from there.

ashybabs:
i just had a rude awakening...

i feel so lost!

i ran into one of my school mates after 10 years... and there i was holding a black water proof bag while she called me from her mob...

no words, e b lyk say make ground swallow me!

we exchanged numbers and she showed genuine concern but its so fuxked up i cant dare ring her

am such a loser

but were you alive when you saw her, huh?

How many classmates of your are dead?

You just need to make sure she loves you and you're not just another hussle.

All in all, her being pregnant for another should not be a hindrance for you, especially since she wasn't cheating on you.

I've always had the mind for something similar. Just hand over the baby instead of killing them.

evuna:
Whatsapp me

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Write your number well

I see no big deal so long as she just came by and wouldn't spend the night there.

She's family and we are Africans.

I would I'd I had a governor, I am not talking of Abia state o

No 1. I was going home from school, sick from stress when we got to a bad patch along the Enugu-Port Harcourt Express road and we all alighted the bus to enable it cross the bad patch, vehicle had a rough time crossing so soldier man came from nowhere and asked me to push, told him I couldn't and he tried using force, I persisted so he flogged me and asked that I roll in the mud, told him okwero mee and they both gather give me small.

Scenario 2.

Had a deal that was going bad with 'a friend,' I had to leave my base to be close to him to assure him I was working to clear the deal, Oga asked for my location, I told him with clean mind but ogbeni returned with a modafakin cadet who came to rake and as I shake am back, he called for reinforcement, I was later picked in a van to their base, Captain Bajoga (may he rest in peace, I learnt he was killed after a month in Maiduguri) gave me small torture but I guess it was nothing compared to what the foolish cadet had in mind and wanted to continue later until the captain threatened him and his gang. Captain Bajoga's role endeared him to me and I was sincerely saddened by his death.

Scenario 3.

One wannabe kushified charge and bail look alike guy, came to buy cigarette from my old neighbour late in the night, the old man had finished packing his stuffs for the day and told him as much, but Oga said he must sell to him o, I got offended and asked him why it must be according to his words, the fool left without a world only to come back with a fool in army uniform who flogged me across my waist and drew blood. He asked me to sit on the floor and this time I obeyed because I was already exhausted by the day's work and it was too late in the night.


That said, being a soldier doesn't make you terrible, but it gives your true person expression. I want to believe there are soldiers who wouldn't hurt a fly because that's who they have always been.

Updating9JA:
A Nigerian lady caused a stir online on Monday, April 5, after she shared a photo of the ”Akara” her friend made.

Twitter user @Vee_Uniq shared the photo on her handle and wrote;

”My friend made Akara today”

See some reactions below ;

Jojo wrote ;



Chy wrote ;



Adebayo wrote ;



Victoria wrote ;



Source: https://twitter.com/vee_uniq/status/1379000328515940358/photo/1

https://www.tag.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2021/04/hags.jpg

Victoria is the only sensible commentet

Slurity:
stop believing everything you see online, even an American body has rubbished the video uploaded by bh that that video happened 2012 and not in Nigeria.

Okay sir, all I'm asking is for our institutions to always tell us the truth, and nothing but the truth

I saw a very probable video by Boko haram shooting down the craft.

The Nigerian armed forces should learn to tell us the truth, that way they can be assured of our prayers and goodwill.

What if mtn disables ussd banking?

Yes, when you leave

Sir, may thunder fire you

Op, does the big 'shot' shoot guns?

Mubby4luv:
Hahahaha, you sha made the cut right?

Some how o

Mubby4luv:
Simple arithmetic, current affairs, logical questions and English language

those arithmetic no simple to dull brains like me o

We have very few logical youths in Nigeria.

How can you even start blaming a man who shuttles between his residence and where the 'abandoned' car is?

You never thought about the children being trapped in the car while playing just because of your hatred for the word 'pastor' and religion?

Kwantinue.

Killertune20:
Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.

Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.

Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.

Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.

I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.

Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?

Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?

Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?

The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.

it takes only time and a little chance for someone else to love you to get over her. you go dey alright.

Leave, but please do not burn the bridges, your leaving might just make him realize how frustrated he has made you and decide to turn a new leaf.

Azyne:
To what end? Diabetes

Jealousy sighted

SchmidtHammer:
I spoke to my father-in-law,a Fulani man himself, a while ago (due to my personal relationship with him, this was the first time I have ever considered the farmers-herders clashes from the perspective of a Fulani man), he explained certain delicate and complex intricacies that makes the proposed ranching system, that used to me a very straightforward one, now seem quite problematic IN THIS PRESENT MOMENT.
The laws in our constitution are not the laws of nature. These laws, as stated in our constitution, are created considering human peculiarities, such that 'general' beliefs even though inclined towards sentiments, as long as they are adopted by a represented reasonable minority and such that IT IS POSSIBLE THERE COULD BE A WAY AROUND THEM with the conditios that it does not threaten the ORDER in the country and the fundamental rights of others (the majority) is not infringed upon.
Having stated the above, it is easy to see that the problem with the proposed Ranching System is that while it is a very logically straightforward solution, it is not the most considerate, therefore not the most appropriate (at least in the short term) and using a method analogous the Occam's Razor for solutions in politics and human relations is unreasonable in my opinion. Open cattle rearing is a culture and proposing a change in this culture must be approached as sensitively as other important cultures of the other tribes. One does not expect that a culture be abandoned overnight, nor that laws guiding a country be entirely insensitive to the peculiarities of the people bound under it.
As in developed worlds, these are the kinds of problems that are confronted by Political scientists, Economic analysts and sociologists, putting forward a comprehensive and in-depth analysis of THE PROBLEM OF HERDERS in the country.

tell them to maintain their culture in their lands and not obstruct ours. Our culture is to farm and reap the proceeds of our farms in due time and not to get killed, raped and maimed on daily basis in out farms.

LoyalHustler1:
Thanks.
Money is already available, it's just waiting to be used.

I just want to do it before rain starts falling again.
by the order of Ishawuru.

I have trusted builders I want to recommend to you. They keep to terms and what they need is your commitment fund and legal agreement, then other pay is after completion.

Toi got mail though.

Giantfarmer:
hmmmm she want to keep you as her customer,my dear purely organic is wat I do ... I only buy multivitamin

Biko educate me on this. I want to try in a little larger scale later in the year

Coldie:
After I moved abroad, I began to value how wonderful Nigeria is.

Nigeria is one of the best countries in the world if u no know u no go understand.

So many Nigerian states are very rich, the only hinderance is lack of infrastructures and the amount of money being stolen from the states.

In foreign countries when 1billion is raised as revenue it goes into the state well to enable it function well but in Nigeria that same 1billion 600million will first be stolen, even the 400 million they remain people are still waiting to steal their own, this affects so many things

please come back home