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Op go and "sat down" like a friend of mine would say.

The basic thing is trust. You don't give your atm to just anybody in the first place, but to those you believe you can trust and hope they don't disappoint whether or not they keep that trust is theirs. But the other good thing is that most banks have introduced the token option or one-time-code for online transactions.

So if I trust someone, I go give am the atm. Thank you

lilspiceyy:
For a woman to talk to her husband in such a manner he must have provoked her na. Wen she is nt sick....its either he is lies, cheats on her, keeps late nights,he drinks to stupor etc. I am woman and I won't find it funny wen my man does such things.

hmmm, u never chi chom chin, I know of a lady who would call to insult like kilode just because one travelled, and couldn't call (as expected by the lady) not minding his constant explanation which every thinking being can fathom with. Now she didn't call the guy, didn't text, but once it strikes her, she'd go as far as borrowing phones to call, text and hurl insults if she couldn't do it with her phone. Now tell me the crime d man committed here.

If you are one lady who would respect her man, kudos, keep it up. But please don't make excuses for those who don't. Neither will I make excuses for any man who'd hit his woman. Let's learn to respect each other

guente02:
Dear All.

I don't really know how to start this. I'm close to my mid twenties but my mom won't let me be. She's always introducing one law or the other.

She didn't start this recently, since i was barely 14 when she locked me and my brother outside in a cold northern summer night. Now she wants me to stop having friends entirely, she doesn't want to see me talking to any girl on phone or physically. She doesn't want me to go to some particular quarters of my compound because I have a friend she feels is influencing me negatively. She doesn't want me to visit any friend of mine that they should be the ones doing the visit.

I'm in my HND and I cant just wait to leave her alone, because the more i see her the more i hate her because all she's doing.

I don't drink, i don't smoke neither do I sleep around with girls. My life is really introverted and if i'm to go by her words I'm going be plugged into depression.

She's now saying that if i default in any of the things she said i shouldn't even see her as my mom. I don't know what she'll gain when I'm feeling bad of myself by obeying her.

I'm tired.

Someone should please give me an advice.

I believe there are no trolls in the family section.

wait till you don't have a woman who cares about you as to want dictate every step of yours. I do understand that as youths, we have this need for self-determination and our parents are not always ready to allow for that, rightly because they still see us as those kids we used to be. You don't need to hate her, just take on responsibilities that would make her realize my boy is now grown and can be a man of and on his own.

In truth I can't explain it, most of the problems I had with my ex emanated from the bond I had with my daughter. But I couldn't help it, she was always receptive to my gestures, always giving me those reliving smiles, not subject to inexplicable mood swings. Her mum got jealous and would abandon us sometimes, but we had all we needed going for us Jor. Don't know if the feeling would have been different with a male child though.

Gideojim:
how much is it?

6500

Hey nairalanders.

I see a lot of people in need of one or more software and drivers but don't know how to go about getting them. I am out to give out my practical kits for sale.

With this kit, I worry not about a hard disk and can fix any software issue anywhere without a single connection to the internet.

The basic is a bootable windows 8.1 in it and a driverpack that is 8gig in size, plus other softwares and activators all in a 32gig LG flash drive

esoboy875:
My HSDPA modem don't wan to connect wit my
laptop again bt its showing network. Wat can I do?
Tnks.........

uninstall and re-install.

uupgrade:
Hi fellas i need a hp laptop in Two weeks time becux that's when i will using it at school, Notebook Or Probook specs include
8 or 4 Ram
Corei5
500 Hardisk
Window 8 or 10
Battery Life 5 hours minimum
Location am in Benue State Nigeria. But can travel to states like delta State, Taraba State, Kogi, Anambra, Enugu finally Lagos but that will be only possible with a if d benefits exceeds the cost, and for those hungry Ritualist on Nairaland You better think Twice before trying anything funny with me. Be warned! My whatsapp contact is : 09096483666

it is not enough to quote specifications, when told the price for such specs you gave, would you be willing to pay?

No big deal, a lady once told me she has been on break for too long and needed it to reset her brain. I did it like I would any favour. Or maybe perhaps I saw myself able to have sex with her, wouldn't know what it would have felt like if I didn't find her desirable in anyway. But I sure wouldn't embarrass her, we are adults and should be able to express ourselves.

Don't know for sure, but I might suspend the marriage plans and seek solutions with her or just go ahead with the marriage with hope ways would be found... But if she knows and never tells me about a problem as gross as this and after marriage I get to find out, hmmm

Interesting

sekzy99:
am just here to mak frnds.

ok, kontinu

sekzy99:
Pls dnt put words in my mind/mouth. Is dat aw u viewed it? Btw all I said is I love kids.

sorry, but I don't see why you should go all out looking for a single mother just because you love kids when you can make yours.

armyofone:
There should be no excuse to beat your spouse. Verbal argument should not be a reason. Argue it out or leave till tension cool off. Beating your spouse has a lasting effects on your own children. It tells them you are mean, bad and wicked. You want your child to grow in a loving environment not an environment where they see mom crying and sad from dad's big hand.
No matter how much I love you, you dare your hands on me, I will be calling the cops and we go from there. I will make you aware during courtship.
Stoning you with phone break that cycle.
Working on making marriage work is two ways. Hitting her doesn't solve the problem.

ok, maybe people should go ahead deliberately creating unnecessary tension in their homes. Ok I hear.

sekzy99:
no dear. Am a lover of kids

sure? Or you just think single mothers are desperate and with limited choice and consequently easy access to cheap sex?

april2015:
let me get your point it's justifiable for a woman to be beaten because she gives him reason , how many men have you beaten or has no man angered you.

I am a man, I can simply walk away when a woman or a man angers me especially if I can forget the person ever existed, but when in a relationship you want to work, you try to hold on, wishing for the best, you fight even when it is easier to let go because from the fight, you hope victory would come and when it doesn't, things could get worse and frustrating.

Pointing out his battery while negating your flaws means you have not come to realise you too have issues and that the best is required from both of you to make it work.

It is only a mad man that would just wake up and start hitting a spouse, unless you are telling me his is one.

Generally people from abusive homes tend to expect much more, but unfortunately, fail to realise that to get more, you need to give more especially in relationships.
Find and work on your own personal faults and see if things won't improve.

Leaving as an option even when I don't subscribe, might not be the best, but might do him as much good as it will do you

The question is did you take after your mother, giving him reasons to want to hit you?

It is easier to say you don't want the type of marriage your parents had but still gravitate towards such or an even more disastrous one when you don't do the things you ought to to ensure you have the sort of marriage you desire.

You have a choice to make, work on your marriage or walk out.

In all, I wish you the best.

ttaiwo09:
Pls, nairalanders help me with activation key for eset antivirus key... I just downloaded d latest version and I find it active ... But don't know the key to activate it!!! Thanks for ur post

search for, download and install eset fix. U may however need a torrent downloader as regular sites options are mostly inaccessible especially after an antivirus is installed

chai

Vstuffs:
I think at 70-80k...u should be looking at corei3-i5 not pentium cos those are better processor than pentium

Core I3 costs more than that.

Op, I can give u a HP 250g3, 4GB, 500GB, dual core @77 @ leksymaxy

reading

anytaij:
Pls NLS my wedding is on Sat and am yet to send SMS pls kindly help a sister. Have tried sending and I don't understand what theymeant by token num abi digit. Helpppppppppppp ooooooo thanks ya all.

Do you have the numbers sorted out? as in typed out in either word document or notepad? if yes, send them to my mail, the total number of numbers will determine the charge. however you can choose to register on www.swiftsms.net and pay for the amount of unit you need, the balance would remain in your account and can be used to send messages r you feel like.

call me on 08065145793 for more

Dell Inspiron 15-3541-AMD E1-6010 APU WITH RADEON R2 GRAPHICS, 15.6'' HD WLED Display, Intel® HD Graphics, 2GB DDR-3 RAM, 500GB HD, DVD RW, 4 Cell Battery, WiFi 802.11 bgn, Web Cam + Mic, bluetooth 4.0, Windows 8.1, 1 year warranty -

Price; 58,000.00k

This Lenovo IdeaPad Mini E10-30 - Intel Celeron (N2830, 2.16 GHz) Processor, 10.1" LED-Backlight Display, Intel HD Graphics, 2GB DDR-3 RAM, 500GB HDD, 6Cell Battery, WiFi 802.11 bgn, Web Cam + Mic, Bluetooth, Windows 8, 1year warranty -

price: 50,000.00k

Hp 255 G2 -AMD A4-5000 Quad core Accelerated Processor 1.5GHz 2MB (L2 Cache), 15.6 HD BV LED-backlit Display, AMD Radeon Graphics , 2 GB DDR3 RAM,500 GB 5400 rpm HDD,SuperMulti 8X DVD±RW, 4 Cell Battery, WiFi 802.11 bgn, Bluetooth, Web Cam + Mic, Win8.1 64, 1Year + BAG

Price: 66,000.00

Asus X553MA-BING-SX437B - Intel® Celeron® Processor N2840 (1M Cache, up to 2.58 GHz), 15.6" HD (LED) Display, 2GB DDR3L 1066(on board), 500GB HDD, 8xSuper Multi-Dual DVD, Windows 8.1 64B Single Language, Office 2013 Trial Version, VGA Web Camera, Bluetooth v4.0, WiFi 802.11 bgn, 2years warranty. -

Price: 68,000.00

Acer Aspire v5 - AMD Dual Core E1-2100 1.0GHz 1 MB Processor, 11.6" Acer CrystalBrite™ LCD Display,AMD RADEON HD 8210 Graphics, 2GB DDR-3 RAM,500GB HDD, 3Cell Battery, WiFi 802.11 bgn, Web Cam + Mic,bluetooth, Windows 8.1, 1year warranty, FREE BAG color - Black & silver

Price: 57, 000.00

We will be updating this thread with brand new Laptops below 100k for average users and buyers.

You can make ask about price, products and specifications on this page and i would gladly reply.

We have a pay on delivery option for Lagos residents, hopefully soon, Jos, Enugu, Rivers and Abia residents would be able to pay on delivery too.

ebun388:
This is hp pavilion Dv9000 laptop with 1gb memory ram. A charger. No hard drive.
The motherboard is bad need replacement, it powers on
showing white screen. It can be repaired or used for part.

Specification:
Intel Core 2 duo processor T5450 (1.66 GHz)
17.0" WXGA + High Definition Bright view widescreen Display
1 GB MEMORY RAM
160 GB Hard Drive
Intel PRO/Wireless 4965AGN Network Connection
Lightscribe Super Multi 8X DVD +-RW with Double Layer Support
8-Cell Lithium-ion battery
5-in-1 Digital Media Reader
Memory Card Slot
Windows 7
Webcam
Fingerprint Reader
Video recorder
Mobile Stereo Earbud Headphones
Universal Serial Bus (USB) v. 2.0 (4 ports)

Price : N15,000 Negotiable

Call : 08166198009

how possible at bolded items.

depending on the state, i can offer you 5k