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Family › Re: My Sister Wanted A Baby So Badly She Got One From My Husband by mcdokwe(m): 12:01pm On Dec 28, 2015

Both of you deserve each other.

Maybe you should declare and open marriage between your sister's family and yours so you'd get all the attention you need from her husband while she gets what she wants from yours afterall you're family and there is love in sharing.

Family › Re: Post Your Xmas Wish Here . . . by mcdokwe(m): 8:58am On Dec 24, 2015

all I wish is to be with my daughter and share those wonderful feelings embarassed

Family › Re: Post Your Christmas Wish Here, Maybe You'll Get Lucky by mcdokwe(m): 8:46am On Dec 24, 2015

to be with my daughter. that's all I want

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Family › Re: My Dad Is Frustrating Me by mcdokwe(m): 11:57pm On Dec 23, 2015

Sirsoftness:
Am a 200L student in Delta state university Abraka 19 years of age

My problem is that my dad still treats me like a child I kept silent for a while thinking when I gain admission he will stop and give me my freedom,but no I have facial hair and I like it but anytime I come home my dad forces me to cut it,he also restricts me from visiting any of my friends and doesn't allow any of my friends visit me,and if I say I want to stay in school and not come home he is definitely goin to disgrace me in school. The main reason of my writing this post is because he used the cane on me he said he called me and I didn't answer,in my defense I didn't hear him call me I was busy he finished my body without giving me a chance to explain

Now what I want to ask is at my age and position should I still be flogged and how can I get my dad to understand I am no longer a child

no matter how much you grow, your dad would maintain the age-gap seniority he has over you. no come dey form boss.

you are not really grown until you prove to him that you are grown, ad by that I don't meant talking back at him or fighting him, but by taking up and handling responsibilities.

otherwise, gerrarofhia mehn!

Politics › Re: Umahi Distributes Made-In-Ebonyi Rice To Workers For Christmas (pics) by mcdokwe(m): 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2015

murphyibiam15:
u dont even need any kitchen manoeuvre again as there is now a machine in almost all the rice producing LGA taking care of that already

very interesting... we will get there.

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Politics › Re: Umahi Distributes Made-In-Ebonyi Rice To Workers For Christmas (pics) by mcdokwe(m): 6:28pm On Dec 23, 2015

TedBaker:
Be sure u will go the d dentist afta eatin d rice, because e go bore holes inside ur teeths. E nearly finish my teeth wen i bin dey serve 4 ebonyi.

methink it was your laziness that nearly bored such holes. they have their unique taste all it takes is proper kitchen skill to get the best out of it.

Family › Re: How My Dad's Loving Words Made Me A Better Person by mcdokwe(op): 5:46pm On Dec 23, 2015

mzvyne:
this is a really nice story...
And u were a really stubborn kid.

oh yes I was!

Family › Re: I Don't Have A Close Relationship With My Younger Sister. by mcdokwe(m): 3:22pm On Dec 23, 2015*

breadandtea:
Hello everyone, this issue has been bothering me for a while now, so I decided to speak up here because I know I would get good 'advises' from people here.

I come from a family of 3 girls (our only brother died when he was less than one), I'm the Eldest (22), the next is 19 and the last is 16. We stay with our parents in Lagos.
I was very close with my immediate younger sister, I still remember many fun times we had together. But our relationship started drifting apart during our secondary school period, we started talking less. I remember I reacted harshly towards her when she used a little of my N100 I was storing for midnight call and things even got worse from that moment.
She joined me in UNIPORT, and we were staying together off-campus. Some times, we barely say more than 50 words to each other in a day, she prefers to gist with our neighbors.

Whenever I see other siblings in my compound, I know something is not just right! We don't even gist normal girly stuffs like boyfriends, makeup, dresses & co, and it really bothers me. We barely even quarrel, I think for the past 3-4 years, we've only quarreled 2 or 3 times.
Though we are both close to our youngest sister.

So please advise me on what to do. Thanks.

I think it is normal. sometimes siblings feel awkward towards one another, especially in discussing certain things. It doesn't mean she won't stand up for you even to death if the need be, neither should it stop you from stepping up for her as the big sister that you are.

Personally, the regards I have for my elder brother is such that wouldn't allow me discuss some things with him.

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Family › Re: How My Dad's Loving Words Made Me A Better Person by mcdokwe(op): 12:42pm On Dec 23, 2015

zonax:
Such words do have far reaching effects than any other corrective measure could ever have. I can relate.
Meanwhile nice story. You have an excellent command of diction which is uncommon with those that grew up in such neighbourhood as you painted.

It depends on your understanding, and I remember saying I got the best education in the post.

Family › Re: How My Dad's Loving Words Made Me A Better Person by mcdokwe(op): 12:04pm On Dec 23, 2015

eROCK247:
Ur dad definitely deserves a national award! Meanwhile my prioritised prayer point as we step into a new year is: "Dear God, don't give me a child like OP

Amen, you definitely don't know what you'd be missing

Family › How My Dad's Loving Words Made Me A Better Person by mcdokwe(op): 7:25pm On Dec 22, 2015

I was born into what I consider a street life, public compounds and all its troubles.

My hustling parents still made sure I got the best especially in education but that didn’t in any way help as I picked up the most annoying and shameful personality.

I even as a kid would keep late nights without carrying out household chores and when it becomes apparent that I couldn’t escape my parents “do good,” opt to sleep out in trucks and sheds, I would occasionally sneak in and proceed to make under the bed my beautiful foams, this habit was cultivated to mitigate the effect of the surprise floggings mum especially had this habit of using deep into the mornings when she’d flog sleep out of my eyes. By the time she’d drag me out, I’d be fully awake to bear the consequences of my sins. How I managed to stay top of my class in primary school then still escapes me as I’d play my life out on daily basis.

I would pilfer on people, unsuspecting people whose heart I easily warmed up into and would sustain my belly and as such could keep avoiding home.

Oh! God bless my mum and grant my dad eternal rest. I’d constantly make “withdrawals” from their “home banks” and with it, live large in school. And constantly devised various methods to avoid detection. My neatly wrapped note books served as conduits to hide my loots to avoid detection and when that method failed, I resorted to hiding them in shoes, pens, I’d tear up the folds of my shirts and shorts and pass the folded cash into them. God knows if I had continued like that, I would have ended up a highway robber and maybe dead by now.
I was closely marked so I no go do, but two loose seconds were more than enough for me to hit a bounty when need be. I was a nightmare to my parents and at appoint when my dad moved and left us to the care of my mum, my constant acts made my dad make up his mind to come and take him along lest I killed his darling wife with HBP.
It is totally and completely ignoble thing to do, and looking back, I wonder what prompted me into such.

While staying with my dad, he once called me and told me how I was his favorite child. Till date, I still can’t tell how and why, because apart from the consequences of being the black sheep of the family, I was often the last to get gifts as they bothered me not.

Yes, I spent more time with my dad possibly due to the close marking I needed to keep my deviant behavior in check and naturally predisposed to his kind of job, but I still didn’t and haven’t seen how I was the favorite child; but I was deeply touched. He spoke of how my act pains him more than it would have if it were to be from anyone else and it sunk, he also said I wouldn’t stop being his favourite child notwithstanding. Today, thanks to those words, I’d rather dig poo to feed than pilfer on anyone. Well, the house chores are still there but I can at least shout my younger ones into doing them.

My Dad’s words (sweet and not the curses) made me a better person that I am today.

I had hoped that he lives for me to show him how much proud I was prepared to make him but death had other plans which were stronger.

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Investment › Re: N2 Million Naira Investment by mcdokwe(m): 3:55pm On Dec 17, 2015

olatommy7:
how do you make money as an agent?

I think they pay you a certain percentage, but as an agent you charge commissions for transactions and they are not regulated. i.e you can either choose to make it free, a hundred buck or more. please refer further enquiries to their website as I am not their sales person, paid to speak for them or even authorised to do so.
thanks

Family › Re: Miadad Xmas Gift by mcdokwe(m): 6:26am On Dec 08, 2015

all for a hundred dollar? long #hiss jor

Politics › Re: Buhari's Incompetence: I Saw It -by Joseph Edgar by mcdokwe(m): 2:26pm On Nov 29, 2015

i did too

Politics › Re: Babangida: "I Will Vote For An Igbo President In 2019 If I Find One" by mcdokwe(m): 2:25pm On Nov 29, 2015

captainflash:
The moment we all vote an ibpo man, nigeria economy will break down for sure, our money will be stolen, people will cry and develope heart break, Biafra will be the FCT of nigeria, our children will be using their legs has a means of transportation.

and hopefully people like you would grow sense and the ability to write legible stuffs

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Politics › Re: List Of 10 Countries Buhari Visited In 181 Days In Office by mcdokwe(m): 10:07pm On Nov 26, 2015*

we elected a globetrotter, exhausting our fuel on travels and leaving us on our own.

#silentwailer

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Foreign Affairs › Re: Photos From The Terrorist Attacks On Radisson Blu Hotel, Mali by mcdokwe(m): 2:19pm On Nov 20, 2015

no need, the endtimes are here

Investment › Re: N2 Million Naira Investment by mcdokwe(m): 6:20am On Nov 13, 2015*

zonga:
Hello

DO YOU HAVE A STRONG IDEA THAT WILL GENERATE AT LEAST 10% PROFIT MONTHLY. HOLLA ME ON 07089932061. LET US TALK. SERIOUS MINDED PEOPLE ONLY. READY TO COMMENCE IMMEDIATELY.

Here is One. I need to invest in it but out of cash. I am putting it out here so that anybody that can invest in it can go ahead and do so as the opportunity is a wide one and can accommodate me alot of people.

It is the remita system of payment.

following the federal government's policy on TSA, MDAs now use the method to pay for services including bills, school fees etc. I happen to own a very small business and have come around the idea that banks make fortunes collecting such funds and are not always open to business but the payments go on even beyond banking ours and it frusrates would be payees who have to get on with payments.

Then the other good news is that those handling the remita have been inundated with requests to provide on-site collectors to some of the MDAs and have a made provisions for such. Now that is where nyone cn invest (I am interested here too) but the condition though little isnt one I can afford but have made plans to build upto next year as the conditions for loan I got earlier is simply "neck-breaking"

As per the agent with whom I have spoken with extensively, all that is needed is a setup cost of 100,000 (One hundred thousand naira) and 2 people would be trained (One handling transactions and the other authorizing the transactions). Then you fund your wallet with the required amount you want to transact then subsequently pay people's bills from the wallet.

Like i said earlier, if you are interested you can invest on you own but if you want to invest in my own idea, my digits are, 08065145793 or famousebere2002@gmail.com

you can check out www.remita.net to have maybe a clearer understanding of what I just said and maybe contact their support lines.

Goodluck to you and every other persons interested in tapping from this opportunity.

Education › Re: Laptop Fee In UNN Causes Hardship Among Students (photos) by mcdokwe(m): 8:09am On Nov 08, 2015

pussyphilia:
This ugochukwu Toc of a guy is a big clown!

Wtf. What if people already had a laptop? What if they could get a laptop for 30k or even less?

As far as I am concerned that laptop charge is insane to say the least. It should be reversed with immediate effect!

read well! He was quoting somebody

Family › Re: He Now Sleeps On A Mat Becos His Wife And Elder Sister Hav Taken Over D Bedroom by mcdokwe(m): 8:42am On Nov 07, 2015

nickxtra:
My friend's wife's elder sister came visiting to help take care of the wife's food stuff shop, pending when they will get a sale girl. According to my friend, when the woman, a single mother of two came, he decided to leave the bedroom of their one bedroom flat for the wife and the said sister to sleep every night and he is now sleeping on the mat placed on the centre rug or at times on the sofa in the parlour, but he is complaining of body pains and strange nightmares. I have advised him to buy a mattress in the parlour for either himself which I feel is better than the mat or discuss with the wife to tell the sister to be sleeping on the foam inside the parlour, but he said the wife told him it would be 'some how' for her sister to be sleeping inside the parlour. So my friend has no choice than to continue to manage the parlour, but the most worrisome aspect of the scenario is that he is not comfortable in the house anymore, particularly when he takes his bath and he is supposed to dress up, the woman hardly leaves the room until he boldly knocks at the door before she would grudgingly leave the room. When he comes back from work, the same thing as he does not enter room, but will only take his bath and put on the two night wears he has permanently hung inside the bathroom. My friend said the whole thing is choking. He wanted to tell the wife's sister to relocate to parlour by himself but advised him against it. In order to maintain a peaceful home and co-existence between both parties now and in the long run, we intend to seek for advice from married and experienced couples who have passed thru a similar experience and how it can be mitigated.

he made a mistake of leaving the room in the first instance. but women sha, he should just know how to handle the situation because as it stands he either keeps managing or draw bad blood in a bid to assert his right. but the woman especially since he is the elder sister should know better that married people are supposed to share their bedroom and not have a relative kick off the other spouse.

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Family › Re: Baby Dumped At Filling Station In Katsina (Photo) by mcdokwe(m): 7:31am On Nov 07, 2015

Still better than abortion. She wanted the baby to live but may not have had what it takes to cater for the innocent child, so rather than strngle the baby she dropped it where it could find help. God keep the baby and grant mothers especially single mothers the ability to cater for their children.

And please punish the bastard who got her pregnant and abandoned her

Computers › Re: please help me on the kind of printer to buy by mcdokwe(m): 8:19pm On Oct 30, 2015

akanbjgraphix:
I need a good printer(black and white/colour) to buy brand new for personal use at the office.

Please I need suggestion and the amount because I don't no about printers, thanks

i would suggest hp laserjet cp 1025. it is cheap (i think) and very efficient. the price is 38k if interested let me know. currently using one in my business centre

Computers › Re: Where Can I Get A Brandnew Lappy For Less Than 60k? by mcdokwe(m): 8:01pm On Oct 30, 2015

MoltenMagma:
It has to be 14 inches. Thanks

unfortunately there are currently no lower end systems built on 14 inches architecture, however, I can give you a number of lenovo systems running intel celeron at that range. price bracket 58-64

Literature › Re: The Spider; The Butterfly, The Struggle For Survival And The Beauty Of Creation by mcdokwe(op): 4:47pm On Oct 30, 2015*

Which mod moved my content here? I posted it at the Job section for a purpose.

Literature › The Spider; The Butterfly, The Struggle For Survival And The Beauty Of Creation by mcdokwe(op): 1:13pm On Oct 30, 2015

The spider; its web, the butterfly, the struggle for survival and the beauty of creation
I woke up this morning and to behold the sight of a butterfly caught in a web, it danced and shook the web, hoping to wriggle free from it while the spider, smaller in comparism stood at a distance, obviously working to keep the butterfly trapped. The butterfly would rest intermittently after each round of struggle and would appear it has given up only for it to resume the fight once the spider comes near apparently with the desire to go for the kill, forcing the spider to retreat to a safe distance.
I was tempted to free the butterfly but resisted the urge with the conviction that it should earn its freedom or should it fail, the spider should earn its meal. I was deeply convinced that if it ever makes it through, it would consider it a real battle and would relish telling the story all the days of its life and the body definitely would tell a story or two because it won’t remain the same for sure. The web on the other hand would feel the impact whether or not it ends up capturing the butterfly. I was deeply thrilled by the struggle and intended seeing it all were it not for the fact that I had my own battles to fight and meal to earn. So with that, I left for the kitchen and bath knowing that the end would definitely tell the story of who won the battle.
Moments later, I came back to discover that the butterfly is gone. I felt sad for the spider but at the same time happy for the butterfly that it made it through and then on a closer look observed the activity going on in the web. The damage was enormous but the spider spent no time in trying to fix it. From its movement from the middle to the different ends of the web, the spider recreates the web, entirely replacing the older strings with new ones and would such skills that would amaze one.
The loss of the first battle didn’t dampen its spirit neither did it rely on non-existing external aid to build its web or trap its food. It didn’t give up on sighting the size of the butterfly, it didn’t rest on its oars hoping that a smaller catch would be securely trapped on what is on ground, and neither did it depend on the old strings to strengthen its web.
Everything it needed it got from the inside.
Why?
Why should you and I spend a lifetime bemoaning the loss of previous effort?
Why should we wait for someone to kill our fishes?
Why should we not develop what is in us and deploy it to make our daily struggles worth the while?
If we are the spider,
Why should we give in to circumstances and not give that additional push every now and then for survival?
Why should we not give a fight even when the strings that bind seem not to be yielding?
From my observation today, i left for my workplace inspired with the knowledge that creation imbibed in us all, the needed tools to survive, and that victory is better savoured when it is earned and not handed over. Sometimes all that is required here and there is a little honing.
I also learnt that judging ourselves by previous failures and dwelling on them is counterproductive.

Business › Re: Reliable Bulk SMS Service? by mcdokwe(m): 11:26am On Oct 30, 2015*

www.swiftsms.net

huzyboy:
I want to send 2k+ SMS and want to know a reliable bulk SMS service I can use. Any suggestions?

Thanks in advance

Business › Re: Reliable Bulk SMS Service? by mcdokwe(m): 11:25am On Oct 30, 2015

www.swiftsms.net

Events › Re: Photos From Baba Ijebu's 80th Birthday Bash by mcdokwe(m): 7:20pm On Oct 26, 2015

Aite

Phones › Re: MTN Loses 5 Million Subscribers In Nigeria by mcdokwe(m): 8:54am On Oct 25, 2015

I hope they don't include the sim I buy and ditch almost every other week.

Crappy network. But una simple server dey try sha

Family › Re: Please Help They Dont Seem To Love Me by mcdokwe(m): 7:23pm On Oct 21, 2015

Itzjoy:
I'm I Really WEIRD?........

I don't seem to understand myself any longer or is it d people around me I don't understand? They feel like I'm asking for too much buh all I want is love and care. Even my family treats me just as a stranger but all I want is a little more TRUST, a little more LOVE............ Please help a friend

People like you give very little but want so much back. how much have you shown those other people that you love them in practical terms and they didn't reciprocate?

Family › Re: This Is My Dilemma Help Me Choose. by mcdokwe(m): 7:07pm On Oct 21, 2015

the good thing about NYSC is their respect for marriage especially as it affects couples getting the opportunity to be together. April is a long while from here, so my advice would be that you seek for relocation on behalf of your wife; that wouldn't be a big deal so long as both of you are legally married.

Family › Re: My Husband Is Ashamed To Ask Our Family Friend For Financial Help by mcdokwe(m): 6:16pm On Oct 19, 2015

Learn to live within your means. I believe your wants escalated because you saw an affluent friend and wish it was your husband. Before you know it, you'd ask and maybe oblige him if he wants appreciation in kind.

Some men would rather starve than beg and if that's your husband, respect him and stay away and find ways to honestly contribute to the family finance and stop looking upto the wealth others built. It is more honorable to ask for a loan than beg.

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