₦airaland Forum

Double0h7:
You need to know what is happening because we don't know you. You gotta take responsibility instead of saying you don't know what is happening. If you knew the problem then we help with solutions but you've come here so we could 'guess' your issues lol.

It's not about guessing bro. In a minute it seems everything is going on well but then something will happen and then everything will be back to zero. More or like been in a limbo or spinning around circles

Jeremani:
Try and stop it,
Thank God u don't masturbate, very dangerous and full of negativity

Thanks bro, I will

Jeremani:
Important question

Lol

I'm not a saint but that's not one of my flaws though I watch porn sha

Adeoye11:
Hope you don't masturbate??

Fortunately for me I don't. It irritates me

yuping:
Life, at least you are a graduate, keep grinding.

Winning boost your morale

Kiddogarcia:
Brother man, keep the head up, just ghost and grind

We go again

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram abobi I feel ur CAPIN...


Na so LIFE be...


U go PASS dar STAGE and u go tell ur STORY just like TIMAYA wey sell PLANTAIN...


WTF MAN

Thanks bro

Daveambition:
Yu don't drink, yu don't smoke
What bout Olosho, yu sef dey gbe-body abi.?
Ur problem no far from ur waiste, moreover; priick no get shoulder na why punna dey make neck spin

Lol, ion have a girlfriend joor

Is sex that expensive in this generation?

Holla911:
You are still young at 28, what you are going through is called life, learn from your mistakes and grow with what you've learn.
Be prayerful, always include God or whatever you believe in, into your plans before you embark on it.
Challenges are meant to build us to be stronger not to tear us. Pick yourself up and try again.

I keep trying again. I'm not the type that believe someone in the village is responsible for my misfortune(s) sometimes I wonder why it always happen but thanks

This thing called life is complicated. At age 28 I still can't figure out where my life is going. This minute it's all good and I'm financially competent then the next minute a problem pops up and in a flash everything is gone. I don't drink or smoke neither do I take drugs so ion waste money (not saying drinking or smoking is waste of money) and I wonder where my problem is

Could it be me or what am I not doing right?

Has anyone been in this situation before, what can/should I do?

If you know anything about MT199 let's cash out

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Calls only please

There are over three towns or villages in Edo state that speak yoruba, does that makes them yoruba?

siofra:
Look at your signature and examine your life

That's why I can't marry a girl as ugly as you!

iTearHerToto:
Girlfriend wey I start reason make I take serious dem don go fvcck am today She call me say she dey road dey come back. A journey she never informed me about.. She no even Sabi game. Told me her friend got pregnant and needed an abortion... Like say she be doc.. Her friend's in Benin while she said her friend was in her state and asked her to go meet her there to help her. Called her friend and found out friend is still in Benin...I don't need no soothsayer to tell me her punna was widened last night. Wahala for who wan take girl seriously. Women are scum

With this your moniker you sef na scum

If she's not as ugly as Siofra, I will

siofra:
NEVER!!

Na so Nkechi sef talk until she become baby momma about na HANTY Linda ni.. make I sip my garri in peace

tutudesz:
You be single mother he be single father the girl na single daughter
Infact una be single family

Ment

siofra:
✌️✌️✌️

Ironically, even Op sef don settle for less.

Datboredberry:
Share the moniker(s) of the ugliest member(s) on Nairaland.

We shouldn't focus on the beautiful... But give due attention to those who aren't attractive!

Siofra

Candidlady:
Poor lady was forced by those men to Push drugs!

cant imagine the amount of presure she must have bin under!!

Did you read the post at all or you just concluded they were working together?

ruggedtimi:
no be everything be about money though...respect/morals. But if m giving 10k with left hand I go accept

I think we pay too much attention to some self made morals

And for the money part it’s very important bro

MadamVanessa:
The lady is very stupid, with no manner at all.

There's no place that will applaud you for giving them something on your left hand or receiving something using your left, even original lefty dont dare.


Zero ethics and moral from a very stupid girl.

Why are you pained?

Is the cabbie your dad

That said, so I’ll reject money because it’s been given to me with a left hand

Some Nigerians no too get sense at all

Ion think both of you are doing anything wrong. One is trying to be who she is while the other thinks she can do better than just that.

Let me guess he’s one of the children doing well in his family and they depend on him. If yes, and they’re aware you’re the wife to be, it is only normal for them to want you close to them because truth be told once a man gets married his wife becomes his priority even before his own parents cos that’s his family. And when you’re far away from them through communication they ASSUME OR THINK you may as well shut them out once you get married to their brother.

There’s nothing like this is who I am; it is who you want to be. I’m an introvert myself but one thing I can tell you is, we choose who we want to relate with so why haven’t you chosen your guy’s family?

I’m not asking you to pretend but what’s so hard in filling the spaces with calls, text and chatting if that’s all they define as closeness

Your boyfriend is not a real guy and I am not sorry to say so..the truth is he doesn't love you cos if he does he wouldn't wanna change you..
As an introvert do yourself a favour by being yourself...don't change yourself cos of anyone..
If he wanna leave let him go..I just told you the bluntest truth here..

It’s your opinion not the blunt(est) truth

Choose your words carefully

Waiting to see the introverts

For me, an extroverted introvert; I can switch anytime.

If someone can get you 50 credits then you can get to Aflao

I have someone there who can help with both the transport but he has to see you first.

My Thoughts for the New Year as this year gradually end

So, you bless God because you have 1000 naira and someone beside you has 500. Why should your gratitude be attached to how much you think you have more than others? Because in the real sense, your true worth doesn't consist in material things. Why not just push your gratitude by not placing yourself on any spectrum?

If I survive an accident where at least a soul dies, my 1st concern is why I should be in a vehicle where the devil will be bold enough to kill someone, not the gratitude for my safety. Remember 276 souls with Apostle Paul on the ship and how he boldly told them none was going to lose an hair to the shipwreck? Acts 27:27—That's the kind of believer you should be this year, not the one whose selfish prayer is for personal safety at the sight of rage. The type of Christian that'll lose a sheep and leave the remaining 99 to fetch the lost one, not the one that'll take a cue on the "at least some people have no sheep" cliché.

Sometimes, you lessen your worth as a Christian when you give thanks for the loss incurred instead of stopping the loss altogether. Contemporary Jesus: Oh, Lazarus died? Brethren, let's give thanks and pray that God keeps Mary and Martha, the sisters. At least, some people don't have any child. You went for an interview with a friend and you were given the job but your friend rejected - you both qualified. Why not ask yourself why a qualified friend with you could be rejected instead of jumping for joy that you were favoured?

You can imagine that little boy with some fish and loaves eating it all alone and then coming to the church the following Sunday to say, "Brethren, praise God! Out of 5,000 people, only me had what to eat. So I did eat until I was full and even had some I brought home". Learn to be the stream that waters every dying tree around you. Let men bud and sprout because of the chances you've got. Don't eat your seed to testify against those who have none.

Be that Christian of change. I will be.

Remember the Good Samaritan story too?
Jesus explicitly mentioned that a priest got there and left the wounded for the dead.

Maybe papa would get to the church on Sunday and testify that the same path he travelled through was where robbers attacked someone he met on the road! ��‍♂️
You should be a Christian that'll dare any blood to be spilled wherever you are. Not one that'll praise God because they're not living in the Violence-infested North.

Dear Christian, don't let the decadence of the present world limit your authority in God.

Don't be the "God, we thank you for our own case; some are worse" Christian, when you can change the status quo.

Don't patronise complacency.

Take a cue also from that woman in pains for 18 years in faith (Luke 13:16). And don't say, "well... If it's been happening for this long, nothing is going to change. Let me accept this as my fate."

Which is more glorifying:

1. Lord, you've always blessed me with so much. Help me to be a great source of help, joy, and stability to many this year and beyond.

2. Lord, like you blessed me last year, let me be blessed this year even if the whole world is in peril.

Number 1, right? Then choose to be the change the world needs. Be the balm for people's pain.

It's sheer piety to show that your God is powerful because He prospers you, while others around you live in untold poverty.

But it's more edifying to show that He's powerful by being the reason everyone around you prospers.

You see why your orientation has to change?

Pray that everyone you associated with shall be blessed and prosperous, instead of praying you should be more prosperous than everyone.

You will know your worth as a Christian from the way you pray. It's why I don't fancy "be richer than your peers" prayers.

What happens if my peers are richer than me?

You even want to be the richest in your family. So others can look up to you? �

Remember: when your prophet calls it a year of xyz, don't forget it can be just anything to you, depending on your input.

Every year is loaded with limitless benefits. Your portion is directly proportional to your input.

So, happy new year in advance?

HeavenlyCherub:
All these comments I read are so laughable. He didn’t pay for everything on this trip like most assume. I won’t go into detail on this. We were in a hotel. I took care of most major bills.

Surely you don’t expect me to open up to someone I just met the same week. Do you people not fear soul ties? I value myself I’m not reckless and I will not increase my body count for temporary pleasure. Why is sex the only way to show appreciation?My body is sacred and I’m not my own. I have made mistakes in the past. I’m just trying to do it Gods way as my own way has failed.

Imagine if I slept with every man that I came across? I did thank him for everything and showed him I liked him too. I just didn’t want to do anything sexual as this affects your judgment. I just wanted to take it slow.

I truly believe he was so persistent and wanted me to agree being his girlfriend because he wanted to have sex. This man said and did everything just to have me. Why are the words ‘ I love you’ used so loosely by some of you men.

There’s no way to tell if things would have been the same if we were intimate. I can only thank God for protecting me.

Lies! Lies!! Lies!!! Now you’re contradicting yourself while trying to defend your alimplausible post up there

That said, if you’re wise as you claim; why would you visit a man you just met in a week if you were not comfortable to have sex with him or you think USA to Spain na Lagos to Ibadan?

To even think you made him sleep on the couch is unthinkable. Sister, you don’t have a point in all you typed. The more you try to defend yourself, the funnier and annoying you sound.

BigYash:
Let her wash those paints off her face first.. Then we can tell who is the real grand mother there. Don't trust any face on makeups my nigga.. E be things..
But based on "polished things" na the one you choose ma nigga.. The much painted one

Lemao this guy don crack my ribs. After giving much hope to the first. Ya wicked bruh

Mamagee try deh smile na

EdobabaComedy:
I got a good opportunity to sell one of my kidneys for cool dollars and I did. Now I am busy chopping life.
I am building my own house, got a sweet ride, naking fresh puna, have a nice cozy bar and restaurant that is moving well.

Why die poor with two kidneys when you can chop life with just one.

Abeg who two kidney help

Nairaland na cruise