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@poster, i was stucked in such a situation with my immediate ex. Always threatening to break-up. At first,I'll fall on my knees and beg her to stay. At times I cried. But then,I realised if I continued that way,for how long can I keep up with that. I decided I'l leave her to do as she wants. Eventually,we had issues again and the same old theory. I didn't say a word to her. She left. I didn't call her neither. Guess what, after 3days she came back apologising. That is women for u. Sometimes, u just have to apply strong force and push them around. Its crazy and funny,but that's how women are. The moment u go soft of them,they take u for granted.

@op, telling the world i was in luv! That sucks

Without these 3 ingredients, every union is bound to fail. They are; Trust, Tolerance and Understanding. The moment these 3 are lacking, the relationship is doomed!

Wtf is this thread saying?

@poster,because most women don't know what they want and as such, can't reap where they didn't sow.

@poster, why not give us the male version; 'A real man's worth.'

So this thread is still alive?

@Robben, one thing I can say for sure is that, I can vouch 4 only 2 server lords on NL- justfree and lanre88. These 2 guys are sincere. I guess the problem u have is with ur os. And mind u, iwp runs as a proxy,hence the connectivity is at the mercy of d network providers(mtn) and not justfree or whoever gave u a server. And about callin justfree on phone;he's said it times without no,he's a student and has busy schedules. I understand hw u feel. Just have little patience with him.

@justfree,I advice u send him a detailed tutorial on d configuratn. Remember,1 customer = 1000potential customers. Do ur best 2 help robben. If u hadn't helped me,I won't be recommending u,so, do wat u can,ok. One love.

Blazay:
@OP,

You are only going through what most couples experience in the early stages of "M-acrimony".
You may need to consider the "open marriage" option. A marriage is always open for men, with many doors and windows for fresh air.

Stop worrying yourself, get a job, focus on your life/kids.
You are making this community "husband" of yours and his family too important.
This is why ALL women should be bread winners.

@OP
Why are you being so sensitve and melodramatic?
Are you not dealing with an African man? Are you not an Afican woman?
I hope you do not stroke out and make your kids the "steps" to another or several women?

I think you need one or two boyfriends yourself. You are a Nigerian woman, this should not be a problem.
In the mean time, invest heavily in condoms.
You ain't seen nothing yet.

As for the family members, you need to ban ALL of them from
your home. . . .or if you a broke housewife, just sit there till God rescues ya!

Take Kia.

Your judgement is harsh,dude. That's too finite!

Most women don't get the true picture of dis 'ex' thing. Its like eating ur cake and still want it 4 tomorrow. Its silly. Why would u want to be friends with ur ex? He's moved on gurl, I suggest u do same.

I have my legs in a bucket of water so I won't sleep. Maga go soon pay! Lwkmd. Seriuosly enjoying this thread. More pls! Guess we're on Episode 20 nw.

@mr. Brown, what do u make of married women who cheat as well? However, the silly I was refering to has to do with the attitudes from women that eventually make their men cheat on them.

@poster, u have a fair point there. I can't agree less

Love, relationship and marriage sucks! Who wouldn't cheat, when there are so many silly women around. Lol

@poster, the justification for cheating berts from the fact that life itself is not fair. Many things happen that we can't explain. Guess, cheating simply balances human affairs, just like without war and strife, there can't be rapid human and technological development. Hence, cheating may just be good after all-nature's own way of mocking us to our faces. You know,like throwing shy.t at us!

I'm like Paulie in The Good fella,so u can call me The Don. Am a perfectionist and master-strategist. I never get rejected. I block every avenue of such a hap.

@poster,the best way is to strike a balance or pick up a hobby. The former requires u gt another girl and build a close relatnship wiv her (not necessarily a sexual one). The latter is do some stuffs that can get ur mind off her. U culd try p.orn or comp game. I doubt if this one will work 4 u.

@poster, it sucks! Its fake and silly.

Love nwantitin!

@poster, the solution lies within ur reach. Play it out nicely; take to the advices already profered herein. They are all sound. In my own view, the spark that used to be btw the both of u is lacking. He obviously didn't care how u'd feel about d text msgs which explains why he kept them. Haba,over 300msgs! Just sit him down and talk things through. There is nothing that dialogue can't solve,if and only if applied wisely. Wish u luck.

At the outset of the launch of the mtn 'juju' number shy.t, a friend told me the service is good for business partners alone as it will afford them little opportunity to detail their work when not together. In his view,only cheap people will use the service in their relationships. I don't agree with the 'cheap' tag he used,but come to think of it, what do u guys have to say 24/7 on phone. Do u not consider battery exhaustion.Time will come and u'd lack what to gist,and that is where the real problem will start from. It just doesn't make sense. Believe me, d magic no thing is going to be mtn's undoing. The craze for it will go down the drain the same way midnight call went. People won't dig anymore.

Goldieluks:
this is bigger X biggest = OVERLOAD.

That's my flavour, babe! I can suck on 'em titties for days none stop.

Sure! It'l show in our kids. I want hyper-smart kids.

Do stuffs like that happen? When no be jazz!

Can't stop laffin! F*cking funny thread

@poster,let's be real, taking her back is pretty hard for a choice. She just showed that, given the slightest hitch she gets to face in life, her way of handling it will be on the cheap turn. And don't elude ursef abt forgive nd forget. Those 2 words don't match. U'l always remember. Question is not whether u shud take her back,rather, can u live with that,independent of whether u'd get married 2 her or not? Guy,ask ursef again wat will happen wen u go 4 nysc? She'd need money 4 project nd sorting some exam runs. Dude,wake up!

In as much as a BB ticket is what Nigeria needs at the moment,I definitely don't see it happening. About GEJ, I sseem to have mixed feelings about him. I believe Nigerians will see his true nature  (good and bad) after he wins the election. Believe me,he'l win the election free and fair. There's no denying his popularity. Now, they say 'to catch a monkey,u must behave like one.' That expression may just play out his current affinity with the corrupt pdp men he's adjudged to pally. I believe his merely using them.