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I feel you bro. Mind sharing some bbpins here so I can share in your glory. Lol!

Distance and the fact that, she stopped trusting in me.

valacious:
everything, and i mean everything is wrong! few years down the marriage line you will sure detest her sleeping by your side,

dont go ahead!!!!

@ Valacious, let's look at it this way; a lady, 25
who married a man, 40 and have been married been together for 20 years. How do you think she'l be feeling about the man who would look very old compared to her at 45 when she is still attractive? Or how else would you view Yerima and his 13 year old bride, say in 10 years from now. I think the world has subjugated women enough, its right time things get done not for gender sakes but for normality and why they have to be done.

The Cork:
Only if you are human

How do u mean?

tpiah:
a gathering of adolescents maybe?

Haba, you're bigger than this now!

@ poster, the art of breaking up is despicable and only perculiar to the individuals involved. However, as against your claim, scientific psychology has proven that men are more considerate and think of causing less harm than women. Women can go to any lenght to show you, you're done with (just as your friend did).

bawomolo:
this thread is gay

What makes it gayish? Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion. The bottom line is, if the world had only men in it, it may not have been the way it is now. We can't say for sure if its gonna be good or not. And believe me, there is homosexuality in the world cos there are females (not saying women are the cause), thereby those who practice the act chose to do so of their free will and not cos situation(absense of the opposite sex) led to it.

There is a very common question that people ask when they are about to go into a relationship and it is this:
"[url=http://IS IT POSSIBLE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND STILL BE YOURSELF?]IS IT POSSIBLE TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP AND STILL BE YOURSELF?[/url]"
Well this simple question has a very simple answer: "YES!" The most basic building block of a relationship is love and those who truly love you, love you for who you are. Let me explain "LOVE" to you so you can get the answer to this question yourself.
Love is a feeling that we have towards someone because we like a attribute that they have. This may be something like their values, simplicity, honesty etc. This is true love, and this is real love.
Consider how it would be to begin a relationship where you pretend to be something you are not. If your future partner comes to love your "UNREAL SELF" the moment they find out about your true self they may stop loving you. Because they loved a particular attribute that you pretended to have and you actually did not have it: Quality gone, love gone.

The full article can be found here; http://datingessays..com/2010/07/is-it-possible-to-be-in-relationship.html

ONWARDBABA:
helo sir plz alert us about the codt of masters thats is msc and mba prog

Don't get you. Do you mean if its msc or mba I'm aaking of? I need a purview of the msc prog.

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Ziggyjoel:
NOTHING WRONG! JUST PRAY YOUR CHILDREN LOVE HORROR FILMS!

Lmfao!!!

Like someone narrated earlier, u can bleep such women bt marrying them is a matter of choice; what you want, and if you can cope. Entirely, there is nothing wrong with enabling such relationship provided there is mutual understanding.

Please house, I need help on this issue. I want to know how much it costs to run a masters programme in Unilag; the tuition fee, book cost and even the duration. Thanks.

googles:
maybe . . . maybe not

maybe someone who has lived in a world with no women in it would be in a better position to answer your question

What you're saying can be likened to when someone asks if there is happiness in heaven compared to what we have on earth, and a reply like the one you gave is presented. Simply,nobody has been to heaven and has come forth, yet we can always talk of heaven,life and death. As such,we need no one who's lived in a world with no women in it to give answers to us. I think you knw better than you've said cos you spoke intelligibly,and I commend that.

madlady:
That comment horrifies me .

What's horrifying about it?

odiaero:
@poster, always think b4 u write, or dont think with your manliness

The nairaland forum is for constructive reasoning, and not an avenue for making insolent remarks. If you don't find sense in my post, why not do yourself that good by walking away other than you've done. What you just did is bad and condemnable. Pls, desist from this.

I was at a gathering yesterday, and this topic raised an uproar; that the world would hav been a better place had there been no women. However, there naturally was 2 sides to the debate: some for and others against. Those supporting raised salient points,with some using the case of eve's concession of sin to adam as a case-sample; claiming that,that act by Eve caused sin in the world. A few of us who spoke against the motion likend women as 'a necessary evil' that complements the cyclic course of nature, since everything in the world is of two folds:-good/bad, night/day, life/death etc. Hence,for their to be a balance in nature, for there to be a male, there must also be a female.
Thus, I concur that with women in the world, the world is good,better and best. I'd hope I'm making sense.

~Bluetooth:
you,your family and all your generation are cursed people.oloriburuku

@ Bluetooth, I really dnt blame you. You've only displayed the 'Nigerianness' in you; an ill-fated people. Besides, is your name Nigeria? Or was my opinion particular of you or anybody within Nairaland? In case you don't know, the global perspective about Nigeria is worse than what my statement says. Nigerians are seen as scoundrels and rogues, and the funny thing is, people, I mean Nigerians themselves seem to pride in this!

Nigerians, cursed people, cursed nation!

@ Poster, ur analysis is unwholesome. U seem to be explaining d virtues of being good in a relationship as it pertains some guys. What you've listed has nothing to do with a guy being bad or good. As someone said, girls just love them,period. There's no defined qualities of both attitudes.

[url=http://THE REACH TO TRUE LOVE: a short piece.]THE REACH TO TRUE LOVE: a short piece.[/url]

Among the many desires of most young boys and girls today is that initial urge to feel loved, and express the art of loving in its highest manner. To this effect, so many things come to play in determining the magnitude at which love at every age is displayed. Therefore, when we take a critical love at love in its right context, we find that it super cedes every possible expression within our human reach. The zest to loving is quite apparent and differential to the human traits of desire, surge and pleasure; which are why there is no true loving other than balancing the choice to being loved and showing love in equal measure. http://datinginreality-mcleo..com/2010/07/reach-to-true-love-short-piece.html

There are different tastes to different meat. It doesn't mean a thing whether you're skinny, moderate or bbw; the important thing is the individual person. Your carriage, style and swag.

Onchedu:
In simple English and summarized, what's your point?

@ Onchendu, this piece is an article, appearing in its unfinished form. What is contained herein is a preface to the topic; an introduction. And below it, I signalled where to get the complete piece.

Let's talk about the most important interview you'll  ever be granted. Seated at a well-appointed table,  you mull the choice between crab  cakes and seared  tuna, but truly you are sorting through a mental repertoire of wisecracks and war stories.  If you are secure in your  improvisational charms, you  might use this moment to appraise the  cleavage or  cufflinks of the woman or man across the table. 
There's  no predicting discussion topics, but you can  be sure they'll pertain to your marital status,  extracurricular activities, and your job. (There  are no  verboten questions at this interview.) You are  applying for a  new and expanded life. Or, you simply  want a one-night pass that  can be renewed  indefinitely. And you need to know whether your dining companion is up to the task. 
A date makes us both spectator and performer at a  two-ring circus:  We troll for wit, kindness, curiosity,  and "chemistry," hoping that we radiate these same  attributes in the right amounts. From strategic  winks  and blinks to elaborate grooming to gifts of gorgeous baubles,  men and women employ an arsenal of tricks in their romantic lives,  all in the service of a  demanding master at the far reaches of  conscious  awareness. Eons of evolution have honed our  behavior to  aid and abet a reproductive payoff. 
The sum of the stratagems we  employ, and the wisdom  of nature in crafting them without our  explicit awareness, are now the subject of intense study by evolutionary psychologists. Our sexual calculations and character  reconnaissance, it turns  out, call for smart, but not  always accurate, judgments. That's  because mating intelligence  is as oxymoronic as the term  suggests.  We routinely bring both cold reason and outsized misconceptions to a relationship. Both serve a  purpose.
A woman will accurately gauge her date's personality  on first meeting, but  she will grow more  convinced of his good  humor  and  charm  if  they stick  together.  Love has a loopy logic.




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iice:
[color=#9900ff]Some people cannot. Some wounds go too deep. Some people are not meant to be friends etc etc.

Me? I'm good friends with almost of all them.
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Enockia:
just play cool

Play wat cool?

@ iince, ur very correct! Some unions were neva meant to be. Accepting that fact is always difficult, even more when the situation affects the one with the most input to the relationship.

THE EX-BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND FACTOR.

We often find ourselves musing at the question, “how do I relate with my ex?” As straight as the question may appear to the lay-man, the factor as to how to go about it surpasses most thinking. Come to think of it, why should you even talk to your ex? What business do I have with him/her; after all I’ve been through? What connections are left for me in him/her? Was I better of in the relationship than I am now? The list of thoughts go on, but what most people overlook is the fact that, even though the relationship had to end the way it did (not depending on what ended it), a thing or two beclouds the time spent that makes it memorable of our thoughts, such that, at given periods, we tend to look back at those times we were together; the good and ugly experiences shared and the wondrous desires the relationship afforded.
Going through the tides, you are forced to look back in dire evaluation, wondering the mended affection that it experienced with the ex-lover. This feeling is natural. You often feel you shouldn’t have quit the relationship, owning to the memories that rupture your thoughts making you feel self-unsure and uncomfortable when in the closest contact with your ex. You feel betrayed and de-barred. You feel loathed and despised even after so many while of having quit the relationship.
As against the thoughts of moving on, you will be considering being friends with your ex. This is the dreaded four-word phrase… “Can we be friends?” It’s a classic break-up line, but it’s also an issue that must be faced when a relationship hits the rocks. In truth, the question ought to be, should we be friends? And, if so, how will you be about it.
Now you see, an ex-girlfriend will normally not call you for the simple reason she hates you. In her eyes you are the scum of the earth. You become a “pure and applied evil”. And as far as she is concerned, the reason it all ended was your fault. This is a focal factor that ramifies the art of dating and continuity in relationship issues and consideration.

By: David-Leo Alabi
http://www.datinginreality-mcleo..com

Watch out for the sequel to this piece in subsequent publications.

Ondo '09/B
The experience ws okay,jst dt d town is a dry place, nt cool for a jivist like moi. D hoes were okay though.