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googles:
maybe . . . maybe not

maybe someone who has lived in a world with no women in it would be in a better position to answer your question

What you're saying can be likened to when someone asks if there is happiness in heaven compared to what we have on earth, and a reply like the one you gave is presented. Simply,nobody has been to heaven and has come forth, yet we can always talk of heaven,life and death. As such,we need no one who's lived in a world with no women in it to give answers to us. I think you knw better than you've said cos you spoke intelligibly,and I commend that.

madlady:
That comment horrifies me .

What's horrifying about it?

odiaero:
@poster, always think b4 u write, or dont think with your manliness

The nairaland forum is for constructive reasoning, and not an avenue for making insolent remarks. If you don't find sense in my post, why not do yourself that good by walking away other than you've done. What you just did is bad and condemnable. Pls, desist from this.

I was at a gathering yesterday, and this topic raised an uproar; that the world would hav been a better place had there been no women. However, there naturally was 2 sides to the debate: some for and others against. Those supporting raised salient points,with some using the case of eve's concession of sin to adam as a case-sample; claiming that,that act by Eve caused sin in the world. A few of us who spoke against the motion likend women as 'a necessary evil' that complements the cyclic course of nature, since everything in the world is of two folds:-good/bad, night/day, life/death etc. Hence,for their to be a balance in nature, for there to be a male, there must also be a female.
Thus, I concur that with women in the world, the world is good,better and best. I'd hope I'm making sense.

[quote author=~Bluetooth link=topic=484059.msg6440295#msg6440295 date=1279918166]you,your family and all your generation are cursed people.oloriburuku[/quote]@ Bluetooth, I really dnt blame you. You've only displayed the 'Nigerianness' in you; an ill-fated people. Besides, is your name Nigeria? Or was my opinion particular of you or anybody within Nairaland? In case you don't know, the global perspective about Nigeria is worse than what my statement says. Nigerians are seen as scoundrels and rogues, and the funny thing is, people, I mean Nigerians themselves seem to pride in this!

Nigerians, cursed people, cursed nation!

@ Poster, ur analysis is unwholesome. U seem to be explaining d virtues of being good in a relationship as it pertains some guys. What you've listed has nothing to do with a guy being bad or good. As someone said, girls just love them,period. There's no defined qualities of both attitudes.

[url=http://THE REACH TO TRUE LOVE: a short piece.]THE REACH TO TRUE LOVE: a short piece.[/url]

Among the many desires of most young boys and girls today is that initial urge to feel loved, and express the art of loving in its highest manner. To this effect, so many things come to play in determining the magnitude at which love at every age is displayed. Therefore, when we take a critical love at love in its right context, we find that it super cedes every possible expression within our human reach. The zest to loving is quite apparent and differential to the human traits of desire, surge and pleasure; which are why there is no true loving other than balancing the choice to being loved and showing love in equal measure. http://datinginreality-mcleo..com/2010/07/reach-to-true-love-short-piece.html

There are different tastes to different meat. It doesn't mean a thing whether you're skinny, moderate or bbw; the important thing is the individual person. Your carriage, style and swag.

Onchedu:
In simple English and summarized, what's your point?

@ Onchendu, this piece is an article, appearing in its unfinished form. What is contained herein is a preface to the topic; an introduction. And below it, I signalled where to get the complete piece.

Let's talk about the most important interview you'll  ever be granted. Seated at a well-appointed table,  you mull the choice between crab  cakes and seared  tuna, but truly you are sorting through a mental repertoire of wisecracks and war stories.  If you are secure in your  improvisational charms, you  might use this moment to appraise the  cleavage or  cufflinks of the woman or man across the table. 
There's  no predicting discussion topics, but you can  be sure they'll pertain to your marital status,  extracurricular activities, and your job. (There  are no  verboten questions at this interview.) You are  applying for a  new and expanded life. Or, you simply  want a one-night pass that  can be renewed  indefinitely. And you need to know whether your dining companion is up to the task. 
A date makes us both spectator and performer at a  two-ring circus:  We troll for wit, kindness, curiosity,  and "chemistry," hoping that we radiate these same  attributes in the right amounts. From strategic  winks  and blinks to elaborate grooming to gifts of gorgeous baubles,  men and women employ an arsenal of tricks in their romantic lives,  all in the service of a  demanding master at the far reaches of  conscious  awareness. Eons of evolution have honed our  behavior to  aid and abet a reproductive payoff. 
The sum of the stratagems we  employ, and the wisdom  of nature in crafting them without our  explicit awareness, are now the subject of intense study by evolutionary psychologists. Our sexual calculations and character  reconnaissance, it turns  out, call for smart, but not  always accurate, judgments. That's  because mating intelligence  is as oxymoronic as the term  suggests.  We routinely bring both cold reason and outsized misconceptions to a relationship. Both serve a  purpose.
A woman will accurately gauge her date's personality  on first meeting, but  she will grow more  convinced of his good  humor  and  charm  if  they stick  together.  Love has a loopy logic.




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iice:
[color=#9900ff]Some people cannot. Some wounds go too deep. Some people are not meant to be friends etc etc.

Me? I'm good friends with almost of all them.
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Enockia:
just play cool

Play wat cool?

@ iince, ur very correct! Some unions were neva meant to be. Accepting that fact is always difficult, even more when the situation affects the one with the most input to the relationship.

THE EX-BOYFRIEND/GIRLFRIEND FACTOR.

We often find ourselves musing at the question, “how do I relate with my ex?” As straight as the question may appear to the lay-man, the factor as to how to go about it surpasses most thinking. Come to think of it, why should you even talk to your ex? What business do I have with him/her; after all I’ve been through? What connections are left for me in him/her? Was I better of in the relationship than I am now? The list of thoughts go on, but what most people overlook is the fact that, even though the relationship had to end the way it did (not depending on what ended it), a thing or two beclouds the time spent that makes it memorable of our thoughts, such that, at given periods, we tend to look back at those times we were together; the good and ugly experiences shared and the wondrous desires the relationship afforded.
Going through the tides, you are forced to look back in dire evaluation, wondering the mended affection that it experienced with the ex-lover. This feeling is natural. You often feel you shouldn’t have quit the relationship, owning to the memories that rupture your thoughts making you feel self-unsure and uncomfortable when in the closest contact with your ex. You feel betrayed and de-barred. You feel loathed and despised even after so many while of having quit the relationship.
As against the thoughts of moving on, you will be considering being friends with your ex. This is the dreaded four-word phrase… “Can we be friends?” It’s a classic break-up line, but it’s also an issue that must be faced when a relationship hits the rocks. In truth, the question ought to be, should we be friends? And, if so, how will you be about it.
Now you see, an ex-girlfriend will normally not call you for the simple reason she hates you. In her eyes you are the scum of the earth. You become a “pure and applied evil”. And as far as she is concerned, the reason it all ended was your fault. This is a focal factor that ramifies the art of dating and continuity in relationship issues and consideration.

By: David-Leo Alabi
http://www.datinginreality-mcleo..com

Watch out for the sequel to this piece in subsequent publications.

Ondo '09/B
The experience ws okay,jst dt d town is a dry place, nt cool for a jivist like moi. D hoes were okay though.

Nigerians ehn! Info dt is free of charge on the net ur askin for money. Abeg

korayday:
men depends on where u're friend is working, if it's a job with prospects and chances of promotion he should stay there, cause kpmg pays less than that after tax and the last i heard they reduced salaries by 20% due to recession, so my advice 2 your guy is to stay where he is, unless he is really interested in having a career in an accounting or financial related role.

Plus i think you are lying if your friend had an offer he would have seen the package on his offer letter, next time if you want info on something come out straight and say the truth, would have told you the actual amount and package, but you're obviously lying.

Well spoken

The issue wit religious proliferation among nigerians is associable wit d african-nigerian problem, which is individuality complex. Ppl compare their day-to-day surgings wit d dictates of religious commitment,thereby misplacing their priorities wit d search for a 'common' truth dt doesn't exist. Hence,till ppl realise d reason for christian worship,which is living a life of fellow-living, they'l neva quit changin churches.

@ Poster,it wuld be gud if u indicate d nature of d job ur advertising so dt prospectiv individuals cn knw hw to pin their search. I stay in Magodo nd cn use such incentive.

@ Moderator, na wa for u oooooo! Haha, a brother asks for help; we're tryin to help nd yet, u keep deleting our posts nd leavin on those who're probably goin to scam d poster. What's wit hidin one's ip address? Its done everywhere, nd if u dnt knw, d ppl who do it most are americans.
The world has gon digital, so wake up.

@ poster, wat buzzman said in his first paragraph is true. D grades dnt count except u aspire for a phd.
@ Buzzman, masters is nt all abt theories jst as bachelor's degree dsnt bind on theories alone. D advantage wit masters is dt u hv a broadened view abt basic challenges dt surpass d bachelors level. Dis is cos, masters focuses more on d individuals research nd nt jst wat ur taught.

OMG! If nt for those safety pills, I'd be having my 12th kid last month.

Though the award was biased but i think Dagrin deserved naddar.Who even know him outside the shore of 9 ja?Barack O Grin ko, Bush O Grin ni. Nonsense

My friend, dnt think u knw wat ur sayin. Who knws Dagrin outside the shores of naija? Do homework well, Dagrin is famous in d Uk. And mind u, d award was for naija singers who made impact in d country nd nt in diaspora.

@ Larkson, of course u'd be allowed since its jst a test nd nt interview. Pls,make urself available at d test ground. Gud luck.

Hi, I'm billed to write d test on thursday,3rd June. I dnt think there's any big deal wit d test,jst dt they'l be posing gmat questions. What they wnt is brilliant minds. But mind u, u cn only write d test once in a life time.