₦airaland Forum

maajin007:
rain abuse;her phone will become untouchable and if u av access to her phone you see funny female names e.g bola Samson the man name is Samson ooo ;Iya wale the guy name is wale that Iya is just deception

maajin007:
rain abuse;her phone will become untouchable and if u av access to her phone you see funny female names e.g bola Samson the man name is Samson ooo ;Iya wale the guy name is wale that Iya is just deception

so you have seen a lot professor

Yea, after a sound we heard, I watched it burn in few minutes as I stepped down stairs and out of a near by office on the said street, I wish human being were not inside

God help you @Op once your wife start believing in any Pastor/Prophet better than you, it could cause some unnecessary rivalry in the home. Little did some women know that these Prophets will never tell them the truth so as to always have them around. If its Lagos chai na one chance. That been said, you have to be courteous and wise, with examples if you could get any, try seat her down and educate her about fake prophets, a wife like yours, you will need to be grounded in the word of God to lead. I believe there are true spiritual gifts, but most of these so called prophet are greedy, self centred confusionists in disguise. if you check too they are not grounded in the word of God, and half educated in some cases. Though as much as possible, its not good to involve a third party in your affairs, after trying your best, try talk to her parent and see what you achieve. I repeat a wife like yours, you will need to be grounded in the word of God and decisive too to lead her.

Akunyili re-echoed! The girl has the look of an artist! Thank God her parent didn't stop from her passion.

ireneony:
op, don't be desperate to get married. pls remove that mentality of you having job for your lack of suitors. with a job u have I think social media will be the best place to find a suitor. I know what am saying, pls don't look down on the power of social media and I know that u have lot of guys that ask u out on your social media.
sis, the truth is no man have that time to toast a lady this days. if u like trek from Kaduna to sokoto no car will stop for u, even when they stop, the arrogant one is what u see.
most gentle guys don't even have the time to woo a lady except on social media.
don't be desperate your time will come

so but only the arrogant, guys dont have time to toast again. Nigeria go better

Nawa o

freshdude2:
What's a 'friendzone'?

it is a friend within geographical love prison with hard labour

OasisofRefuge:
@mclick sir, u didnt explain the two types (formal and informal) of divorce you stated above.

a formal divorce is the one that goes through legal means while the informal are couple that lives separately without legal involvement and those who are still living under the same roof but a not committed to marital vows. I will still update my comments latter

There are two type of divorce; formal and informal divorce. Its so disheartning that #divorce seem to be the trend now even among the so called tongue talkin Christian, who claim to fear God, we definitely have missed some steps in the original original marriage set up instituted by God due to globalisation and several other influences. Whether there will be divorce in a marriage is dependent on the knowledge, understanding or the coupe moreso, the foundation of the relationship. Divorce is the common trend as going po marriage without needed understanding as I said earlier, marriage involve a man a woman, so in each knows their role and do it appropriately there won't be unnecessary rivalry and if they both do really love each other no minor issues can separate them. I have seen all shorts of conflicts in marriage that even as a pastor you it will be the difficult for anyone to tell the victim of the issue to remain in the marriage, whoever is in such case you will discover a dysfunction in the foundation, insincererity, lies and so much more. Its simply a sensitive case only if considered broadly. We are in dear need to curb divorce in our society, we must first address the root course of divorce which most times it the foundation of the relationship, the bible said if the foundation be faulty what can the righteous do, I am not say those who started well do all end well in marriage. The foundation I am talking about is when marriage (love) in based on benefits alone without responsibilities, dysfunctional home or divorce is imminent, some even lie to have marry someone, imagine a bishop wife who has an issue and refuse to disclose to her husband before and after marriage.

Not all ladies will want to only the focus, wise and sincere. A lot like lies

Lovely piece, teach us Lord to follow the right path to fulfil purpose. Amen

Lovely piece, teach us Lord to follow the right path to fulfil purpose

Polygamy mini quiet and or loud war zone

Nice one

Trailblazer1:
No matter the juju you use for protection, no body is immuned to death.

Lesson:
Atheists don't believe in God, but there Nigerian counterparts are afraid of juju.

They don't fear God but they fear Satan.
Go to ombatse in nasarawa and explain big bang theory to them. Then you will know that juju doesn't understand big bang theory.

bro you got it

maclatunji:
You need an education on scripts.

Education like its only Nigerian money I have ever seen you mean, or is there any economic benefit for for we Nigerians for having Arabic inscribed on our currencies. Do let us into whatever insight that is symbolic to the unity of Nigerian circular nation status

maclatunji:
The essence of the currency is for people to use it, if you make it difficult for a good part of the people it is meant for to identify and use it, then you have only proven to be myopic.

I also find it funny that the opponents of the Arabic script are motivated by hate and to a lesser extent fear. Removing the scripts will not change their fear or reduce their hate. I find it amusing as a result.

I am as much amused by your comments, your arguments are narrow my brother . beside, who are the people that will have difficulties using Naira with English letter? Dont tell me the school in the north funded by federal government, are there for nothing. Our aged expecially the uneducated are using our currencies without hassle, they know the denominations and it values, who then are the people that won't be able to use it without Arabic inscriptions? I personally can't phantom how removing the Arabic inscriptions has any correlation with hate been piped up. As per the yoruba and igbo languages, the major tribes in Nigeria are; Hausa, Yoruba and Igbo, so your protest can only be valid if the inscriptions removed are in hausa language, make your case that FG should also inscribe hausa language and not Arabic that is strange and associated with certain religion. Just imaging if other ethnic protest of the exclusion of their dialects. Our problem sometimes is hinged on selfishness, selfcenteredness, delusions and sentiment, this loopholes is what foreign powers are exploiting to our detriment and detachment. The day the common men in this country realise the damage our sentiment a tool in the hand of our elitist is doing to us, that's when we shall be able to deliver urself from the claws of our greedy ruling class. If you ask me, I have many thing against this government just like I have against past governments, on this however, I support the move. Nigeria is for Nigerians that cut across; South, North, East and West my little objection

Good right up, @if you dont think the word you will think the world, definitely the world is a huge distractions as it tend to take away our attention and sense of kingdom purpose

sunnyt1:
Guy, you have invited confusion into your life.

Whatever was on ur mind when you were wooing 3 gals is the real definition of confusion.

Why wud you date 3 gals at the same time and not think u are rehearsing adultery.

Carry your cross bro

rehearsing adultery you say, it suppose to be practice as he is doing it alone, in the actual sense, it is training for adultery. I wonder what guys that dates three girls at the same time tell each of them

Good analysis, without formidable opposition is the sphere o Nigeria politics, I am afraid our camelion may take on more bad colors

I think your choice should be based on prospects, passion and leading. What prospect do you have in banking as against P.hD in Elect Elect, apart from the prospects is, the clear passion. P.hD is a minimum of three years in Nigeria, consider the time too. Note, at a point in any chosen career even the one you have passion for, there will always come a time when you feel like quitting, at that point real success may just be a stone throw away. You may grow to become better than your bosses and contemporaries in banking who knows, Elect Elect P.hD may be where you will make it, but watch it, you have been in the banking industry for a while, thats where you started you Career from and what you want to do by going for a P.hD is transition so, it has to be approached with caution, putting every other things in considerations. If you are not a very top boss in your office, P.hD in Nigeria is a serious task not necessarily because you have to work hard but, sometimes if you are been supervised by a bitter fellow it become hellious, except you want to take the easy way out, you know what I mean. So Bro, put prospects, passion and leading into consideration. Pray about it and be sure

Pm me

@Op good job

Ehya, true she really love the man

Op, you definitely do not know what Art is or all that it encompasses or else you won't be talking about scraping it, a lot of us think that you can still do art without studying it, well I use to think like that............... Art is inborn, but get it, inspiration in 1% while paspiration is 99%. This inspiration theory may not be 100% true as to every theory there is always an exemption. You can say people are making waves in art world without studying it, but check the background, the hands of the experts can not be found wanting and without them all will soon become shapeless and in shambles. Arts is guided by principles and theories, without these principles, art practitioners will be so limited and naive. In a nutshell, Art is so wide and it's the foundation of every other discipline

If your husband like your church and so decides to adopt it after marriage good for you, if he allow you to continue with your church good as well but if he decides you both you attend his church so be it. It is the best and healthy for you both to follow and believe the same doctrine, that way you can grow together in healthy home building. There may sometimes be some unnecessary conflicts owing to different believe system. That been said, your husband is the head of your home, so you can't marry a man you won't accept his leadership I think. Some women cause unnecessary stress for themselves by trying to force their way in thing such as this. For the sake of peace therefore, which ever church you attend know your God and let the effect of your knowing Him reflect in your home.

This will make anyone to live a happy and fulfil short or long live. Myles muroe, your memory, your legacies lives

Amazing! What a concerted people, what a duo of Myles and Ruth Moroe. I have deliberately been trying to avoid commenting about their death as it shocks to the marrow but at last, this ethereal tributary got me. We all live to fly away someday, however, what we do here will remain. What shall be said of you?

Wonder shall never end. Roving blind eyes, unbridled tongue, the defence of unholy wife assistance general amidst melancholies of greed cut up in the web of unfair share and snaky paradox

MizMyColi:
Moderation is key, in everything.

Case in point, me.

I like to be pampered.
No sane lady doesn't.

However, some of us (ladies) are too controlling in that regard.
We expect the man to go out of his way for us, we expect him to know just what to say to us, how to and when to.
We really don't care about him, except he cares about us.
Ideally, it shouldn't be that way.

A man thinks differently from a woman, there are those times when he just can't bring himself to pamper and be all lovey dovey.
This is why it is dangerous for ladies to base their sense of self worth on people's validation.
Let all the validation you need come from within, not without.

That way, when the pampering becomes less or totally absent, you're able to carry on without loosing confidence in your man/relationship.

To both sides of the divide, I have this to say.

A healthy relationship is about so many + factors.
One major + factor is; Compromise, healthy compromise.

not a bad one

Apply to Uncle Jonah for a bride priceless ministry of singles affairs chai, but on a serious note, exorbitant price price is not in every culture, call the people concern to come and answer question8-), God bless the memory of ma late Dad, he can spot you from a far if you are a no going any where person and then apart from that, go in peace no fighting and beating. You have the day

We are, most of us timidly too timid, cowards. Because of lack of knowledge and fear. We have to be determined and take our destiny into our hands, nothing much will change really until the religious people, I am not talking about the ritual religious observer, but the very so committed Christian