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Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
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Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
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How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
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Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

Arva, I am a Shy guy

No impact yet, the rice of food item has not gone down an inch, so how do we believe

Vivly:
True born again Christians?
Do we have fake born again Christians?

Yes, many of them. Beware of wolfs in sheep clothing

One big challenge for graduates is going through the period of hard times, because starting up a business with little or no form of assistance is not easy giving environmental factors. Moreso, people must know that sometimes even your loved ones may not be there for you when you need them, during the trying times I mean, but if you are sure you have passion for what you are doing, and it has future, will the stress be worth it in the long run? Yes. Come to think of it, no salary earner can be rich. Check out the list of most rich people, they are entrepreneurs. It is very possible to secure a white collared job, yes it is. The situation we are in now demand an extra skill. Again, though some little earning job could present better opportunities, not in all cases expecially when it not your own as you may not have the flexibility needed to develop or grow as the case may be. It will be cool been the boss controlling things

Yea they do, when you see the one that love you for the right reason, do let go of her

I stand on the Bible and model 2 which is the bible model, as that is most sustainable expecially in the present economy. For ladies, nomatter how rich your hubby is, he will always appreciate little help here and there, marriage should be a mutual thing, if each knows his or her duties and play them well, there will be less friction. In some cases you find women providing the most, that doesn't make her the head, that is if she is wise enough to handle it with an understanding man. Meanwhile, real good men will always love, honour, respect and ardour virtuos women.

I am still wondering how BH was able to build up to these extent, we keep hearing scores of death among them, yet they seem to be as strong as ever. One thing I know is, they and their sponsor will soon become history

I still can't see how she became a millionaire over night. Op you didn't give detail

There is more to all these, I smell a fow play. This is power play. But how come they had to go ahead with another deal without resolving the first issue. FFK we are waiting for you to let us into what happen then, will shall be able to turn the table around and look at the opposition probably

GooseBaba:
Bros, love dey sour na..? Make love take back seat...marriage is a contract... Everyone needs to understand that..

contract, some of them makes it look like that sha, Lol do you mean that's what the lady imply by her post

Let me start by saying any kind of marriage; traditional, religious or statutory is binding. In most cases we do all kind of marriage as stated above. Little did we know that one nullify another. That been said, by observation, I think girls are more concern about the marriage ceremonies than having a good home, they will do anything to pressure their fiance into an elaborate wedding nomatter what not minding the after wedding. Moreso, some girl will do anything to have a court marriage most expecially not for formalities of the union but for their sense of insecurity. Why nothing is wrong having wedding done the way we are use to, The main challenge ladies do have is they think everything should be about them. If a man that loves you pay your bride price be contented, make sure the man that loves you and you love for the right reason

philtrum:
maybe wen my great grand children are doing 50years remembrance for me after I die at the age of 100.......

I dont believe that, Nigeria can change if will all play our role well

No course at the university is exclusively a road map to success, the grade you graduate with sometimes and most expecially these days, is not a determinant factor for success. opportunities and what you make of them determine if you will succeed or not. Simply say, time and chance happen to them all

How I wish that happen in Nigeria

Amusaopeyemi:
I'm an only child.

I see

Amusaopeyemi:
I'd love to have as many as possible as long as there is money. I don't mind a soccer team sef.

heh your hubby is in. But does having lot of money mean you should have many kid

iziegbby:
Read carefully my dear

better, I did have

Amusaopeyemi: You said it all.

hey girls, so giving birth to many kids is your ministry?

iziegbby: Did u read what i said.
I said welcome not only

ohkk better

iziegbby: Both oh

so any guy who doesn't have money is not qualify? moreso what are you reason, looking for a guy with money

iziegbby: Men with money welcome

young guys with money or made men

APContherun: Pray tell me how it should be titled, I will change it immediately.




Say whatever you like guy, but the truth is that Atiku was particular with Buhari in his statement not that he Atiku is any better. Atiku counselled Buhari on the qualities expected of APC presidential candidates which obviously Buhari lacks, how else do you want it?
The mods can close the thread, not much I can do about it but Atiku has passed his message, so when next we accuse him of religious fanaticism don't get ovetworked for even his friends and associates see him as such.

Atiku to Buhari, APC presidential candidate should not be a religion fanatic

I hope the sanitary inspector will not come to lagos and start making incessant arrest

Beehshorp: op u made me remember my legendary pant known as nwafor 7 colours aka mau mau dat pant strong die and e get pocket. but I prefer boxers to pant o

pocket in a pant

bestestgirl: the man just has some serious bad luck
I pity him though, I'm sure nobody will ever rent shop to him again

bad luck you say abi he is trading with people's luck

BackDatAssUp: We have dared you to kill, overthrow or impeach GEJ but you lazy oil gurgling parasites have refused.

Yoruba, you are traitors and bastards

Let it be known that irrespective of the outcome of 2015 elections you will not smell free oil

Ingrate dirty ugly incestious bastards

you dont have to insult anyone to be heard an intelligible argument will sell your opinion

With the title of the post, I smell fow. Op read your right up and rename, if at all he said it, Atiku didn't say it the way you put it

Nigeria the world champion again even though will fail to win the world cup, but this is the sign of better tomorrow. That is why the world is afraid of us, we find ways around situations nomatter how bad. How I wish is eliminated and and good leadership is provided

Charles4075: Run for your life my brother.. Never you trust a beautiful girl especially one who's so interested in you cos it will lead to your death and if you're lucky, it will leave an everlasting scar. Trust me op, I've been down that road before.

really? Share with us

baby190: Welcome home,but husband is scarce ooooo

so you pple won't give a chance enh

Dec 25th

iziegbby: Okay so im posting this again, no luck the first time..

First of all let me start by saying i live in the state's and have lived here almost all of my life left Nigeria when i was very young...., now im in my early twenties and a student looking for someone to get to know through messaging phone calls video messaging etc...men with money welcome Im pretty tall slim and yes i can cook! Tell me something about yourself and a pic if u can...i have whatsapp
I hate to have to say this but yes im real so be ok with long distance for some time.......

men with money only