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OasisofRefuge:
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OasisofRefuge:
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Mclick:
ohkk, have not seen the real msg sha, the one that came in is like notifying me you wanted to. Will watch it

OasisofRefuge:
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OasisofRefuge:
Sometimes i wonder if we the present Christians would have been able to generate the name CHRISTIAN if apostle paul and the rest were not given the name by the unbelievers. its so sad how we do things now.
these few things i see we Christians do now and dont consider it sin anymore, there are like normal things now, but it does not change God 's standard anyway.
1. NOT LOVING EACH OTHER AS WE ARE MEANT TO
The message of 'love your neighbour as you love yourself' is going into extinction. we no longer love. even right there in church, we don't show love. its so sad how many drive big cars with empty seats from church home after services without giving someone going to the same street a ride. you saw your neighbour standing on the road looking for taxi, yet you see no reason to stop and give him/her a ride. I know if Jesus was in that your car, he would love to give everyone a ride home. so, you that cant help someone, who is your mentor sir/ma?
2. SAYING WHAT YOU DONT MEAN (LIES)
often times we give promises we know we are not going to keep. you know you cant keep it, yet you go around telling him/her you love. you know you cant help get him/her a job, yet you collected his/her Cv, kept it under your bed and keep promising each time he/sh calls. you know you dont mean it, yet you keep giving your word. its sad
3. PRE-MARITAL SEX
The fact that we are in modern age does not change God's standard of operation. the wages of sin is still death. no wonder so many pains and death in marriages today because of disobedient. God still judge those who defile marriage bed. its meant to be honourable. scientific analysis, philosophic reasoning, modern ways of analyzing things can not Change God's word
4. TAKING OF BRIBE
Christians now give and accept bribe to get job, contract, promotion and all that. Ex. 23:8
people gladly give bribe to get a job then come for testimony in church and see nothing wrong with it at all. they latter crown it with giving of tithes, first fruit offerings and all that. its sad
5. USING STRONG HEART IN DEALING WITH PEOPLE
I know of an uncle who is an active deacon in church. he easily write relatives off his list when they do wrong. he can never forgive. no matter how you apologies. and when he does that even if you die, he will never come for your funeral services.
alot of Christians are too heart hearted. you cant change them. dealing with people without mercy. the bible say Jesus was moved with compassion when he saw the people going in a wrong direction. what about us, why are Jesus features missing in us, yet we claim we love Jesus?
you are free to add yours. things Christians do now that we dont consider it sin anymore.

OasisofRefuge:
There's something about music in the body of Christ. good music does wonders in the mix of God's children. no wonder king david was able to cast out demos tormenting king saul through music in the bible.
it is my desire to see God's power move mightily in all churches through chior ministrations.
I have decided to make myself available, serve, to join hand in building up a church chior for a church in need of well organized choir.
why do i want to do this?
i want to affect lives positively through music.
i dont want to loss focus in my gospel music pursuit.
i dont want that dream to die.
which kind of church do u want to work with?
a bible believing church, holy ghost filled, a praying church like the one am attending now. (Dunamis)
will you get paid?
no.
thank you

Oxone:
Hello deary

@OP
That's mostly because a lot of people are not realistic about their expectations & the rest don't even know what they want

adepiero:
do you mean Lords chosen?

sexylogan:
Bros,it's not easy.
The older u get,
-the more money u earn
- the more devilish girls will smile at u pretending to be angels
- the more examples of failed marriages you witness
-the more u realise that beauty without brains and character is worthless and
- the more u realise how fv.ckd u will be as a man if u marry the wrong woman.

I no dey rush into marriage. I'm taking my time.

sexylogan:
Bros,it's not easy.
The older u get,
-the more money u earn
- the more devilish girls will smile at u pretending to be angels
- the more examples of failed marriages you witness
-the more u realise that beauty without brains and character is worthless and
- the more u realise how fv.ckd u will be as a man if u marry the wrong woman.

I no dey rush into marriage. I'm taking my time.

Jennydoris:
If you can get a handle on the things on this list, I guarantee
you'll notice your relationship drastically change for the
better.

Here you go:

1. Flipping out if he looks at or talks to another woman. It's a
man's nature to look, getting on his case shows you're
insecure, which is a huge turn-off. If you find yourself
getting jealous whenever a woman is within his vicinity, you
need to do an honest check in with yourself. At the root of it,
there is either trust missing from the relationship or you need
to build up your self-esteem.


2. Not respecting his personal space. If he's in a bad mood or
doesn't feel like talking, leave him alone and let it be. Most
guys don't like to talk about their issues the way women do.
They prefer to pull back and work things out internally.


3. Not taking care of yourself or letting yourself go. It really
is a shame to see how many women think it's okay to stop
working out and shaving their legs as soon as they're in a
relationship. If anything, you should feel more motivated to
make the effort once things are more settled to keep the
attraction alive and sexual energy buzzing.


4. Not having your own life. Don't be one of those girls who
forgets her friends and her interests as soon as she has a
man, it never ends well.

5. Being passive aggressive. Men are much more
straightforward than women, if you tell him nothing's wrong
and then pout and mope around waiting for him to press you
further, you'll just cause anger and resentment to build. Be
honest and straightforward with him if you have an issue.

6. Nagging. No guy is perfect, no man is capable of giving
you every single thing you need. There will be times when
you're not happy with something he's doing. If this happen,
do not nag him over it. The best strategy is to tell him what it
is you want (I love it when you do X) instead of harping on
what you don't want (Why don't you ever do Y?)

7. Not appreciating him. Again, stop looking at the things he
isn't doing and look at what he is doing, and then
acknowledge and appreciate him for it! The more you show
you appreciate him, the more he'll try to please you.

8. Being bitter/whiny/grouchy. We all have bad days, it's
understandable. However, it's in your best interest to try and
be happy and positive. No one wants to hang around with a
negative Nancy. In general, we're drawn to people who are
happy and radiate a positive energy.

Wake up with a smile, express gratitude, see the good in your
life and in your relationship. This will not only help you in
your relationships, but it will make your life better overall.

9. Dumping your insecurities onto him. It's not his fault if
you feel fat or your skin is breaking out or you found a tiny
wrinkle by your mouth, these are your issues and hang ups
so don't turn them into relationship problems.

 If he's with you, it's a given that he finds you attractive. Don't
talk him out of his attraction by highlighting all your flaws.
Chances are he won't even notice these things until you point
them out, so why draw attention to them? Men are attracted to
confident women so not only will you be making him a ware
of your flaws, you'll be diminishing his overall attraction to
you.

10. Trying to change him. When you get into a relationship,
you need to take that person for exactly who he is, not who
you want him to be. He is who he is, take it or leave it.

When it comes to minor things, like the fact that he wears
running shoes with dress pants, be gentle and encouraging.
Don't criticise and make him feel stupid. Say something that
makes him feel good and inspires him to make that change
on his own, for instance "You look really sexy in that outfit
but it would be even sexier with those loafers instead."



Lots Of Love.

MissSlimbody:
Two wrongs can never make a right.

What you did,is in the past, since you've repented of ur deeds, I see no reason why she should engaged herself in such a shameful act.

Your wife is not morally sound, I must say.

That a man cheated on me is not reason enough 2 turn me to a cheat.

What to do






Mizmycoli you're needed here.
Abeg, wetin make him do?