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Amotolongbo:
The woman thought Mr Erastus was cuming while he was going

fati2001:
JBTC

SBS

MOC

tife4eva:
Hello,
My mom is lovely but lately I'm getting fed up with her. She is someone that requires people to do every single thing for her without lifting a finger. Asides earning money to train her children, which I'm forever grateful for.

I can say that all my life, I can count how many times I've seen my mother cook or pick a broom, talkless of lay her bed.

Growing up, I thought it was very normal since our culture is one where you have to be very respectful and help your elders. I have many siblings so we all did everything for the house and for her. But lately, with the older ones settling down and moving out, I'm left with her.

It has gotten to the extent that my unmarried siblings also avoid the house because it's not easy living with her. We got her a maid to help around but it's not a permanent solution especially with expenses.

I'm a student and I came home this break while the maid travels back home for Christmas. The whole situation is quite tiring for me. I was baffled today when, while I was choked up cooking Christmas food for us and guests coming later, she called me to rub cream on her foot, like why can't she do it herself. The fact that she didn't even help with any of the cooking and arrangements was painful enough.

My siblings have given up on her as they believe she's used to it already and she can't change. I've been told that my late dad pampered her and got several maids for her so she has been doing this for so long already. My father died when I was little.

I've taken it as not a big deal but I'm beginning to think of moving to another state after graduation just because of this issue.

I don't know whether to confront her about her attitude. Or whether that would make me disrespectful or ungrateful to her.

ITbomb:
One day you will remember her and wish she was there for you to be rubbing her legs all day

yinkeys:
My sister New Zealand is too far
Imagine spending 2 days journey
Why not consider Luxembourg or Canada
Paying double or triple air fares
It’s your choice at the end of the day

BigSarah:
Ouk 2023

Insha Allah

MufasaLion:
You will end up writing shit at the end of the day.

gracile:
I just love her eyes

Freestainworld:
The governor of Lagos State, Rivers State, Akwa-ibom state are the best governors in this era, the whole governors in the East excluding Umahi of Ebony state, are the worst performing governors especially the one of Abia state, the other South south governors are just carrying big tummy up and down for nothing, the whole governors in the north excluding the short man devil and one other governor that I have forgotten his name are just answering governors for answering sake, in the west, just remove Lagos, the others are owambe title holders.

buksarki:
But why do you think Osinbajo will be better than him, is Osinbajo not a Tinubu boy and also part and parcel of this ( Buhari/Osinbajo) mandate . During Obansanjo/Atiku Nigeria condemn Atiku more than Obj but today Nigeria V.P has suddenly become inconsequential . Sentiment apart if Atiku stand with Osinbanjo i will vote Atiku 100 times, simple because Obj/Atiku government are far better than what we have today. Nigeria will always make mistake just because of tribalism but wait is Dave Umahi not worthy of becoming Nigeria President or is because he is iboman?

DubaiLandLord2:
Paid protesters.

nairavsdollars:
IDPs who are victims of their wicked acts are suffering while the real killers are being pampered by Buhari’s government. This government and [/b]terrorism[b] are like:

Biodun556:
They are trained to build not to repair. Go to vehicle manufacturing companies and assemblying plants to see them just like civil engineers who construct building not repairing building