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Crime / Re: Mentally Challenged Woman Seen Breasfeeding Baby by McSquishi(f): 7:32pm On Mar 25, 2021 |
MimiBiggs: So the thought was to just record the poor woman and child rather than offering assistance of any kind. What is wrong with people? Everything today revolves around going viral and getting likes... |
Crime / Re: Woman Burnt To Death By Her Co-Wife In Niger State (Photos) by McSquishi(f): 11:04pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
IlufoyeOlamife: My comment is about the husband. This tragedy can’t occur without his decisions. If when you do good people tell you it’s bad, perhaps it’s not as good as you thought. Be open to correction. |
Crime / Re: Woman Burnt To Death By Her Co-Wife In Niger State (Photos) by McSquishi(f): 11:03pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
IlufoyeOlamife: If a man intends to be a polygamist he should state so from the start so as to only attract women who agree to that lifestyle. Most women don’t want to share their man the same as most men don’t want to share their woman. It’s a natural way. And even when everyone agrees to polygamy the husband must bring it about in a way that ensures all the wives are equally loved and cared for or else jealousy will be a natural result. He failed in his duty entirely. Some men even enjoy having the women fight for his attention and affection... |
Romance / Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by McSquishi(f): 10:55pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Draslo: Hmm. That’s tricky. But if you’re only doing it for a favor and it’s not really for the money anyway then to avoid any unnecessary temptation just stay away from her. you said your flesh is weak, you have a soft spot for her, & you think she has an ulterior notice so then why pursue the matter further and end up in an affair? Practice self-restraint and kindly decline. |
Celebrities / Re: Actress Omoni Oboli React After Been Criticize For Passionately Kissing RMD by McSquishi(f): 8:25pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
I always thought Nigerians were very conservative and religious people until I came to know the culture well. Now I know that many people will be “forming” online but have few morals in real life. One post today trending has members talking about a Zulu girl’s boobs and this one here has it proposed that an actress kissing during a film might be some sort of an abomination. |
Crime / Re: Woman Burnt To Death By Her Co-Wife In Niger State (Photos) by McSquishi(f): 7:34pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Hmm which means the husband did not do his duty. If a man takes another wife he is to ensure that there is peace, that no wife is left feeling broken or less than or betrayed by the arrangement. If a man cannot manage two wives and guarantee harmony then he should not engage in polygamy. The blood is on his hands as well. |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 7:04pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Richy4: You seem to be projecting, don’t confuse me for your deep seated issues. “Every move” hmm seems you know me very well to know what I label people’s every move. Is it “every move” or was it a white teacher admitting to making a Black American child kneel before him based on the fact that the child is Black? Pathetic Unlike you, I am proud of my heritage, my complexion, and African descent. Unlike you, I acknowledge and abhor racism and those we call c00ns who worship white people and look down on their own. Ya know, those types who see a story where a Black child was victimized and rushes to defend the white person. Sickening people, truly.. You said you are in the racism capitol of the world, right? so I’m sorry your skin is likewise despised... nothing you can do about that one either lol 1 Like |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 6:22pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Richy4: You couldn’t help me to begin with. Especially considering you’re the one in need of help. Good luck Hopefully your inferiority complex gets you far! Racists love people like you, so you’re well placed to succeed in your “capitol of racism”. Take care |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 6:02pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Richy4: You don’t know the mother but have determined without evidence that she is after money. And despite the headmaster himself admitting that the student’s race is why he had him kneel (because of his African descent) some less intelligent people will say it’s not about race and I’m playing the race card. The headmaster said it was about race, genius! Smh. The only thing the headmaster disagrees with is that it was “racist” and wrong to have a child kneel to him based on the child’s race. Do you get it now? You called white supremacy a “theory” and now using the term “race card” but balk at the idea you’ve internalized white supremacy? Denial is a hell of a drug. Wasn’t it you who said that you can’t focus on America’s history or white supremacy because you are in the racism capital of the world. So then it was you who inferred racism is different in different places, initially, remember? Also, not all school systems are the same, are you kidding? One place you have to pay fees to attend school, one place education is free. One place teachers can beat children, another system it is illegal. If you don’t know what is normal behavior in American school systems don’t speak on what you don’t know. It’s not a lot to ask. The difference between you volunteering to kneel is that I am not a person of authority over you who has required you kneel before me in subjection. Another huge difference is that you’re typing on a laptop and know that it’s impossible to kneel before me and so you never have to live up to your words. Talk is cheap, come here and kneel before me if you’re really ‘bout it. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by McSquishi(f): 2:21pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
averageguy: That’s what I gathered. This post, to me, is meant to be a warning for some and confirmation to others. For those who want the gender divide to be closed and who want progress as far as gender inequality, it serves as a warning that things like reporting rape, beatings, sexual harassment will lead to loss of companionship. And for those who hate the idea of gender equality in any way, they want to accept the post because it helps make up their argument. I agree, it’s very threatening for the way things currently work in Nigeria. but no matter how many posts with fake scenarios & fake statistics are made, progress is gonna reach Nigeria eventually regardless. 3 Likes |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 2:11pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Richy4: So you don’t understand racism in America and therefore should stop speaking on things which you have no knowledge about. If you don’t care to learn about the “theory” of white supremacy and the realities of racism in places being discussed then don’t weigh in on the topic as though you have some insight. Stick to your racism capital of the world and the dynamics there. I’ll educate you how schools work here. Teachers are expected to mold and protect students. They are not tasked with disciplining them, putting them in their place, or humbling/humiliating them. A student being told to apologize on his knees is an anomaly here, it is abhorrent. I don’t care how much you love white people and think they have the best of intentions, it is strange behavior regardless of race to ask a child to kneel before their teacher to apologize. That the teacher admitted to doing so solely because of the student’s race makes the humiliating behavior racist. This isn’t even difficult to understand. And it’s interesting how you assume a mom can’t genuinely love her child to the extent she would want to vindicate him and protect him and other kids from ever being exposed to such a thing again, you assume the Black mom must have bad intentions and just want money, right? She doesn’t really care that much for her son... But the white teacher despite the strange actions related to race by his own admission, you assume he has the best of intentions. You even ascribed more fault and bad behavior to the Black child than the teacher. You are a classic case of internalized white supremacy. How funny. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by McSquishi(f): 2:02pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Cybercop2002: Is this reply actually meant for me, a woman, accusing me of having a fetish for European women |
Politics / Re: Colarado Shooting:why Always Muslims(picture) by McSquishi(f): 2:00pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
Sunkie119: In reality when it’s a white male they usually don’t highlight much about his identity at all in the media. But that is true about Muslims... |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 1:58pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
ShaqFu: Ok, I’m not reading all this nonsense. You say I don’t have a point then go on to argue against each one of them. Not agreeing with my points is not the same as accusing me of not having any. My point can be found in my original comment: Nigeria in particular really has a problem as far as men feeling women are inferior beings. It’s all throughout the culture and is a cancer to society. You can use semantics all you want and say since Nigeria is not officially TOP 10 of rapes worldwide (despite infamously low rates of reporting) it’s a safe place.... but no country where women are sexually assaulted 1 in 4 by the age of 18 is safe and it is an epidemic. Nigeria is ranked like number 3 most dangerous countries for women in Africa and 9th most dangerous countries for women worldwide. All the other stuff you’re saying to obfuscate and distract from the reality of gender based violence I’m not interested in. You are throwing poverty, terrorism, and finally blatant denial at my statements to keep from admitting Nigeria has a real men problem. Nigerians are not taking time to teach men how to be moral, accountable, and responsible citizens. People like you will write up an entire research paper just to avoid admitting to the conditions women face. I’ll live in your fantasy with you: Nigeria is very safe for women. Men and women live as near equals in every facet of Nigerian society, in fact women have more power than men in some cases. So much female privilege. Nigeria is actually the capital of gender progression and serves as a beacon for the world in terms of gender equality. Enjoy your delusions. |
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by McSquishi(f): 1:40pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
luminouz: I don’t care what you believe... enjoy your day as well |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 1:40pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
mabea: In areas that make sense? yes. But that also wasn’t the point I was making, so let’s stick to that. The point I was making was actually the opposite: that just because “100 million Nigerians” feel certain things are acceptable or something is not traumatic doesn’t mean the rest of the world agrees. |
Romance / Re: Help! I Have A Real Problem With Females. It's Messing Up My Head. by McSquishi(f): 1:35pm On Mar 24, 2021 |
newuser11: I’m not sure, sorry. I’m assuming you are in Nigeria, so I can’t really... Your best bet would be to Google “individual counseling + city”. Good luck with that. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Lovely Picture Of A Polish Woman That Married An Imo State Man And Their Kids by McSquishi(f): 2:26am On Mar 24, 2021 |
OneTemplate: I wish I could like this twice! You said it perfectly. “inferiority complex” is exactly it. My short time visiting Nigeria I got a sample when I was looking for Black dolls to purchase in the stores and there were none to be found... when I asked why I was told no one would purchase them if they were there. I couldn’t understand how in a majority Black country how white dolls could be the popular choice except that white supremacy was very much ingrained in the psyche of the people. And what you said about wanting kids who look like you is important. Black people who always gush over interracial couples/mixed kids deep down hate their looks and having children with dark skin or African associated features is something they would happily avoid. Mixed kids represent “goals” to them. One day I pray this mindset is far behind our people. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by McSquishi(f): 2:02am On Mar 24, 2021 |
luminouz: “Fighting wildly” is something you won’t ever find me doing, especially on religious issues lmao... so I wonder why you would mischaracterize me in such a way? Hmmm “Fighting blindly” another thing you won’t find me doing. I always speak on topics I’m educated on and have researched well. But nice try... “Fighting” at all is a mischaracterization since I’m doing the same as you and weighing in where I choose on whatever topics I choose. It’s a forum, meant for conversation, even debate. I know Europeans not just people who have “been to Europe”... and never have I heard any analysis that women continent wide are suffering loneliness and loss of companionship. Most women who are scammed are those seeking young African men who they can exploit because it is easier to lure a young African guy with their euros than is to find a young man from their country at their age or with their less desirable looks. I’m not aggressive, I’m direct. 6 Likes |
Politics / Re: Lovely Picture Of A Polish Woman That Married An Imo State Man And Their Kids by McSquishi(f): 1:45am On Mar 24, 2021 |
OneTemplate: Of course the thread wouldn’t exist at all. It’s sad how little value is placed on Black love and the beauty of Black families, honestly. |
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