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Romance / Re: Help! I Have A Real Problem With Females. It's Messing Up My Head. by McSquishi(f): 1:33am On Mar 24, 2021 |
newuser11: Maybe you have some self-esteem issue where you don’t think you are good enough for anyone and so anyone who accepts your advances you can no longer respect or be attracted to because you wonder how they can be attracted to someone like you? I don’t know, maybe consult with a therapist? 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Colarado Shooting:why Always Muslims(picture) by McSquishi(f): 1:27am On Mar 24, 2021 |
It’s not always muslims. Most mass shootings in America are at the hands of white males, what are you even talking about?! 2 Likes |
Education / Re: Benue Student Beaten By Principal, Teachers For Playing Chess In Class (Graphic) by McSquishi(f): 1:25am On Mar 24, 2021 |
This is terrible. Nigerians really must begin to protect their children. Beating in school or even this level of beating outside of school is purely abuse 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Lovely Picture Of A Polish Woman That Married An Imo State Man And Their Kids by McSquishi(f): 1:18am On Mar 24, 2021 |
I wonder if Polish forums have members who get so excited to see Polish people marrying Black people. Is it only African pages who feel so excited about these things |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 1:16am On Mar 24, 2021 |
Richy4: Maybe the idea of racism in America is difficult for you to understand since you are not a Black American and obviously not well versed in American history. A mother not wanting her son to be humiliated and degraded has nothing to do with cashing out. The most common consequences here would be a public apology and the teacher being fired, not cashing out. The mother wants her son to be vindicated and to be able to walk around with his head held high, that’s why she’s fighting for him. Again, if you don’t understand racism, white supremacy, and American history, maybe don’t speak on subjects you don’t understand fully. 3 Likes |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 1:12am On Mar 24, 2021 |
general111: You could be right that 100 million Nigerians need therapy Certain harmful things you consider fine in Nigeria is not so in the rest of the world. Beating kids in school is fine in Nigeria but in America it is illegal. |
Education / Re: American School Headmaster Vs African American Family Vs Nigerian Culture by McSquishi(f): 1:09am On Mar 24, 2021 |
AfricaUnited: It doesn’t even make sense because if he does it to his own kids, who I assume are white, then why would he only make the Black kid do this at the school? Even if it is a cultural way of behaving abroad he cannot push a foreign cultural practice onto an American child, especially something like this to a Black American child. A “headmaster” would be very aware of the racial dynamics in America and how debasing it is to have a Black kid being forced on his knees to show respect to a white man. But that’s debasing for any child, to be honest. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Many Ladies Are Lonely In Europe by McSquishi(f): 1:03am On Mar 24, 2021 |
eejo: Women in Europe are not dying for companionship anymore than the average woman in Nigeria. Scammers usually choose women who are physically less desirable and usually aged. Those women are trying to find young poor men who can they can lure with money, control and exploit for sex and sometimes they get scammed on that mission. Nobody is lacking companionship over rape allegations � not one man has stopped dating out of fear of being called a rapist. stop the madness. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 12:27am On Mar 24, 2021 |
ShaqFu: You’re creating arguments I didn’t make in order to avoid the point. Typical. You dismissed the reality of the epidemic of gender based violence and sexual assault women face in Nigeria to say “men are raped too”. That is a deflection. Men are not being raped in significant numbers to the point that nearly every NGO in the world is concerned. 1 in 4 Nigerian women are sexually assaulted before they turn 18. I’ll repeat that for you. The reason women being raped is a topic is because Nigeria ranks amongst the world highest for rapes of WOMEN not males... and the topic we are commenting under is yet another example of such violence against women and yet you tried to limit it to “one man” as if this isn’t a trend in Nigeria. Are you following now or you want to deflect again. As far as the fact that you can name a few women who have managed success despite gender oppression in Nigeria, that is pathetic. First of all, I’m sure the number of men you can name is endless whereas you can name only a handful of women. Secondly, a a minority of women being able to beat the system of oppression women face is not evidence the system doesn’t exist. Just like in a racist system the success of a few racial minorities isn’t evidence racism doesn’t exist. As far as whose fault it is, it is everyone in society who coddles men and treats them as if they are superior to women. It’s everyone who thinks women saying they are equal to men is offensive. It’s everyone who upholds double standards that benefit males. It’s |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 6:50pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Komu1048: Imagine being a man, growing up in a society that has coddled you so much that you believe 10 year old girls are to blame for grown men raping them. This is an entirely disgusting statement and reveals the decay of society. For some men it is entirely too late for them, they cannot be cured of their delusions. But their delusions are harmful to others, especially women and children. They will rape a girl of 10 and say she used her “power” against them. To be in a country such as Nigeria but complain that women have the power!? against all factual besides ex any metric you look at... I just... I am almost speechless |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 5:54pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
ShaqFu: You said I’m generalizing which means to make a general statement, which means I was speaking generally... You’re in denial about the fact that gender based violence affects women in majority. You’re even making a mockery of the situation by saying men are raped. Certainly, male children are sometimes sexually abused along with female children though it is not as common... but which men are being raped to such a degree that the increase in rape cases has been so significant? 1 in 4 Nigerian girls are sexually assaulted by the time they are 18 years old. That’s an epidemic and your denial will only make that worse. What’s really annoying is someone who grows in a very male-centered society. You see how males are favored and treated as superiors, you were raised under this. But for conversations where the harm men do is pointed out you will now be a faux feminist shouting “EQUALITY, WE ARE ALL THE SAME!” |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:59pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
ShaqFu: “One man” Are you going to pretend rape and sexual assault is not very common in Nigeria? Are we going to pretend violence against girls and women is also not very common in Nigeria? So you understand I was speaking generally, right? Which admits I was not including every single man. But generally Nigeria has a big problem with how it views, treats, values girls and women. I’m sorry to say. And this “one man” is an example of what happens because of that fact. |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:55pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Pat081: But my dad and brother can read my comment and know I’m not describing their character and they will understand the general point I am making without taking offense. That’s the good thing about them. |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:53pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
IGoComotYaTeeth: Women are always talking about sex in Nigeria, and men are doing what? Can we stop lying please? Like, really... this laughable. Women are pressuring Nigerian men to be sexually immoral? ha! |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:52pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Depepper: That’s the worst part, he likely won’t because girls and women are not valued at all by society |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:51pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Depepper: That’s the worst part, he likely won’t because girls/women are not valued at all by society |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 2:50pm On Mar 22, 2021 |
Reckyd123: Don’t tell me how to write. I don’t need to write “some” to satisfy those people who have reading comprehension issues. Take your sensitivities elsewhere. I see men generalize “women” all the time and I’m sure you do as well without correcting them. Go somewhere, please 1 Like 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Tupac's Dear Mama And Notorious Big's Juicy. Which Is Your Favourite? by McSquishi(f): 1:35am On Mar 22, 2021 |
JayEntaur: Thanks. I like a little bit of everything 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 6:33pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
sonmvayina: I didn’t ask you to tell me what the chapter is about. You alleged that there was nothing to be found in the Bible, in the law and prophets, about human’s suffering for the sins of mankind, or human sacrificing themself as a type of offering. i showed you a chapter dedicated to that very thought. You can give context all you want but I told you previously that the Messiah s stated in the New Testament came to fulfill every jot and tittle of the law and prophets. Isaiah chapter 53 is fulfilled by his ministry & death. The part about being an offering for sin is in chapter 53 verse 10 as I noted with the “10” before that sentence. So you don’t believe we have souls? You don’t believe man is threefold spirit/soul/body? Everything that is animated has the spirit of God but not every animated thing has a conscience and consciousness, that is the soul. |
Crime / Re: Man Beats His 14-Year-Old Housemaid For Refusing To Have Sex With Him In Lagos by McSquishi(f): 5:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
What is wrong with men? They feel so entitled to the bodies of anyone with a vagina. It is sickening. I blame society because all I ever see on social media are posts warning women to be good wives or the husband will sleep with the maid as if maid is his property. What about what the maid wants? Why should she be pressured to have sex with anyone, she just wants her job. Society encourages men to have little morals and no self-control. And they are becoming more criminal, debased, and dangerous to women and society. And the fact that she is 14... wickedness. A 14 year old should be in school not working as a maid and under the authority of some sick pedophile. 119 Likes 14 Shares |
Romance / Re: Is Your Girlfriend A Liability Or An Asset? Can She Do This? by McSquishi(f): 5:22pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BRATISLAVA: You’ve said it all! |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 5:15pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
sonmvayina: a human body, made of cursed earth, is not a worthy sacrifice. No physical man is able to redeem because due to Adam we are born in sin. a sacrifice has to be blemish free in order to have the sinner’s sins placed upon it. Yahshua’s body was specially prepared in the same way Adam’s was, making him the only body fit to redeem. One such place in the Old Testament that mentions redemption through such a sacrifice is Isaiah chapter 53. The entire chapter describes someone taking on our sin and redeeming us, bringing us peace through his pain: 4 Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. 5 But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. 6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. 10Yet it was the Lord’s will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the Lord makes his life an offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the Lord will prosper in his hand. 11 After he has suffered, he will see the light of life and be satisfied So you see, the idea of such a sacrifice is not foreign to the Bible at all. As I first told you, there is nothing Yahshua does that is at odds with the Old Testament. Everything done is in fulfillment of scripture. |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 5:14pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
sonmvayina: a human body, made of cursed earth, is not a worthy sacrifice. No physical man is able to redeem because due to Adam we are born in sin. a sacrifice has to be blemish free in order to have the sinner’s sins placed upon it. Yahshua’s body was specially prepared in the same way Adam’s was, making him the only body fit to redeem. One such place in the Old Testament that mentions redemption through such a sacrifice is Isaiah chapter 53. The entire chapter describes someone taking on our sin and redeeming us, bringing us peace through his pain: 4 Surely he took up our pain and bore our suffering, yet we considered him punished by God, stricken by him, and afflicted. 5 But he was pierced for our transgressions, he was crushed for our iniquities; the punishment that brought us peace was on him, and by his wounds we are healed. 6 We all, like sheep, have gone astray, each of us has turned to our own way; and the Lord has laid on him the iniquity of us all. 10Yet it was the Lord’s will to crush him and cause him to suffer, and though the Lord makes his life an [/b]offering for sin, he will see his offspring and prolong his days, and the will of the Lord will prosper in his hand. 11 After he has suffered, he will see the light of life and be satisfied So you see, the idea of such a sacrifice is not foreign to the Bible at all. As I first told you, there is nothing Yahshua does that is at odds with the Old Testament. Everything done is in fulfillment of scripture. |
Romance / Re: I'm Single Because I Can't Wash Plates by McSquishi(f): 4:40pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
Valenciabaddie: So you don’t even live with him and to be a good girlfriend you should be making visits to clean a house you don’t live in to be considered useful? It’s fine if as a favor on occasion you cook him a meal or clean up for him, especially if you are there visiting for a day or two. But to make it as if it’s a requirement and compulsory, he should just hire a maid service. Anyway you’re lucky because any man who is dating you & saying you have no value unless you are cleaning his apartment is a man who has an archaic mindset and no respect for you. He should be telling you how valuable you are to him not asking what value you bring. If he can’t see your value at this point don’t cry one tear or think one more thought over that boy. |
Romance / Re: Young Lesbian Couple From Tanzania Wins The Heart Of The People After Posting by McSquishi(f): 4:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: Most men don’t give their woman orgasms so it’s not a huge difference there... 3 Likes |
Family / Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by McSquishi(f): 4:01pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
bitingcool: Agree! She should very much be allowed and expected to express her frustrations with him. he said her bad mouth is killing him in an earlier reply, so I assume he meant she’s using harsh/degrading words which nobody really should do with their partner. But it could be as you said. in the same way he feels he is above housework, he may likewise feel he’s above any critique at all & therefore anything she says to him is taken as an affront 5 Likes |
Family / Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by McSquishi(f): 3:07pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
BarristerAlarig: Right. And still it doesn’t give her any right to belittle or be abusive but I definitely understand her disappointment and frustrations. |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 2:31pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
sonmvayina: No one has changed the laws but they are written on our hearts and minds as the Old Testament said. Jeremiah 31:31 itself predicts a change that’s why it says the new covenant will be UNLIKE the old one. His death was for the purpose of redemption. So that we are no longer under the laws and have an opportunity to know, understand, and love our creator on a personal level. the previous way had people depending on rabbis and priests to communicate with Yahweh on their behalf and it was not serving the purpose of true redemption. Since you disregard the New Testament when convenient I suppose referring you to Matthew 24th chapter would be fruitless: 4Take heed that no man deceive you. 5 For many shall come in my name, saying, I am Christ; and shall deceive many. 6 And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet. 7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places. 8 All these are the beginning of sorrows. Wars and strife must come to pass, Earth is not the final destination. A peaceful Earth wouldn’t even make sense as it wouldn’t encourage anyone to search for and depend on Yahweh, similar to how in the Old Testament the Israelites only called out for Yahweh when they were in bondage or peril. The peace that Yahshua Messiah brought to us comes once we accept the sacrifice he made and acknowledge who he was, once we are filled with the holy spirit. |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 2:15pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
sonmvayina: Yes for mankind to make a child, a sperm and egg must be used. But Yahweh is not beholden to the laws of man. He shows that again and again throughout the Old Testament. Or do you think all the signs and wonders of the Old Testament are metaphorical? Anyone can say that Yahshua the Messiah didn’t exist without evidence. You’ve used your imagination here to suppose what Yahweh can or cannot do but I’d recommend reading Job chapters 37-41 again for some humbling. Yahweh does not need your or anyone’s approval or permission to do anything. And because you disapprove of him placing his life in a human body doesn’t mean it’s an abomination. As he said “cursed is the ground” but he should use cursed elements to make a spotless body? As you know, a sin offering must be without spot or blemish to be a worthy sacrifice. A man like us would not be worthy or capable of redeeming us... If you’re not aware, atheists dismiss the existence of God entirely and likewise mock your own beliefs in the same way you’ve done here. You didn’t prove anything, you offered your limited perspective and concluded based on that alone. |
Family / Re: I Resigned From Work In Lagos, Relocated To Abuja To Be With My Girl & Get A Job by McSquishi(f): 1:43pm On Mar 21, 2021 |
GboyegaD: What’s transactional here? Being disappointed is natural human emotion. He encouraged her to incur more expenses with the expectation he would get work to cover his portion. when someone makes a plan with you but fails to live up to their end of the deal, being disappointed is a valid response. You can’t dictate how other people should feel. 6 Likes |
Religion / Re: Man Is A Spiritual Being Having A Human Experience.. by McSquishi(f): 11:23pm On Mar 20, 2021 |
sonmvayina: So it hasn’t taken place. Ok... Earlier I thought you were saying no one will read the Torah to me as present-tense. So you do believe there will be a Messiah. And that god will send a man, that’s not at issue with you... you just don’t accept the one already sent. The idea that god would send a regular man to save anyone in his stead actually seems more of an abomination than whatever your qualms were. And that is not at all different from his old covenant. Why would he do away with stone and replace it with stone... You expect a literal temple to be built rather than a metaphorical temple in a physical Jerusalem... How do you pick and choose which parts of the Old Testament are not literal and which parts are not? Earlier you said certain stories in the Old Testament were not literal but meant to elucidate a point... why would he build a physical temple which was for the officiating of priests when he says in jeremiah that every man will know him and he will place his law in our hearts and minds? What purpose would the temple serve? He says he will remember our sins no more, so why would a temple be needed as no one will need to go there to have sins forgiven? Otherwise it wouldn’t be a new covenant at all, it would be the same old one. Anyway, this has gotten a bit away from the point: you originally said the existence of the Messiah as written in the Bible is at odds with the Old Testament and in opposition to God... you have not shown at all how that is so. You’ve only said you don’t agree with God’s method of placing life into Miriam... |
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