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Crime / Re: Father-Of-Six Arrested For Sexually Assaulting 9-Year-Old Girl In Adamawa (Pix) by McSquishi(f): 12:18am On Mar 31, 2021 |
Something is really happening with many Nigerian men today. So much wickedness at every turn. It’s like they are being overtaken by demons. Society is crumbling. |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 10:56pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kinematics: But per your source: “If a woman has other chronic medical problems that may be helped by a hysterectomy (such as abnormally excessive menstrual bleeding, uterine fibroids, uterine growths), then this may be an appropriate procedure for her to consider. Otherwise, contraception should be considered a secondary benefit and not a sole reason to have the procedure https://www.medicinenet.com/surgical_sterilization/article.htm “Most often, hysterectomy is done to treat problems with the uterus, such as pain and heavy bleeding caused by endometriosis or fibroid tumors. The surgery may also be needed if there is cancer in the uterus, cervix, or ovaries. Some women may have the surgery during childbirth to save their lives if there is heavy bleeding that cannot be stopped.” https://www.uofmhealth.org/health-library/hw212587 A partial list of inappropriate indications for hysterectomy includes prophylaxis against uterine cancer, contraception in a gynecologically normal patient, management of menopause, leukorrhea and chronic cervictis, primary dysmenorrhea and premenstrual tension....” https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/7333047/ I believe it would be considered malpractice to remove a uterus solely as a method of birth control |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 10:14pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kinematics: It’s not just that it seems absurd but also illogical, dangerous, and approaching medical malpractice I’m born and raised in the developed world and women commonly request their tubes tied after cs, not their uterus removed. I have never heard of that. The only cases of uterine removal after CS I know is to save the mother in an emergency. Hysterectomies are usually only performed if their are complications to do with the uterus not for simple contraception. Maybe in underdeveloped countries this occurs? |
Crime / Re: Man Arrested For Raping 4-Year-Old Daughter Of His Co-Tenant In Ogun (Photo) by McSquishi(f): 9:37pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Are men ok? These things are happening more & more frequently. Something is poisoned in the culture. Busy talking about runs girls and slay queens and mad about twerk videos but sirs your fellow men are raping preschoolers and prepubescent minors, robbing, scamming, killing... my god. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 9:32pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kinematics: You’re right it’s rare. But rare is why I said nothing is 100%... In which extreme family planning situation would a doctor remove a uterus rather than just seal off the fallopian tubes? |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 8:22pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kinematics: hysterectomy would be an extreme form of sterilization. I’m sure the contraceptive benefit of the procedure would be considered but that isn’t recommended as a procedure to undergo if contraception is one’s primary concern. But yes, that would definitely be 100% if undergone. I just don’t see that as family planning. From my understanding the more common reasons for vasectomy failures are natural reconnecting of the clipped tubes and not waiting long enough to have unprotected sex. |
Celebrities / Re: Dbanj Celebrates His Wife, Lineo, On Her 30th Birthday by McSquishi(f): 7:57pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Anigreat: is this secretly Dbanj behind this account? Why have you taken this matter to heart? 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 7:51pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Kinematics: I don’t think hysterectomy is usually considered a method of family planning... do you mean tubal ligation? Because with that it is 1 in about every 100 where pregnancy can occur. Even vasectomies are not 100%, it’s very rare but I think pregnancies occur at about 1 in 1000. |
Family / Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 7:07pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
obembet: No method besides abstinence is 100% even where it is done properly. When you add in the likelihood of human error (forgetting to take birth control pills, improper use of condoms) then it increases the chances those methods will fail. With IUDs they can be inserted improperly, they can slip out of place... leaving pregnancy very possible. Some IUDs take time to be effective. Basically, nothing is guaranteed 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 6:41pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Sarcastic101: You get so much attention, right? From the cream of the crop, right? Sure. Lol... Then stop begging for mine with these sad displays. You mentioned me first, I didn’t call you here. So feel free to disappear at any time. Bye. |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 6:33pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Sarcastic101: Lmao, so now it’s my husband who is cheating? before it was my dad. Before you said I would never be married now you know all about my marriage? Ha. Look how desperate you are to form an adequate insult... all for my attention because you can’t manage to get attention in real life. Sad. Sweetheart here’s some advice: you may be ugly on the outside but you don’t have to force your insides to match. Work on yourself... Be well. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 6:09pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Sarcastic101: 1.) I am already married so your dumb predictions are as useless as the person making them... 2.) the only person attracted to my comment has been you... so thanks for admitting you are a nonsense man, at least we agree on something. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 5:59pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Sarcastic101: Now if I call your mom and dad useless goats to even dare birth such a person as you I will be called rude... but look at how you mention my parents unprovoked. I never said all men cheat, so the fact you’re offended by my comment reveals you feel I was speaking about you or else you’re illiterate and didn’t understand my comment. Either way, not my problem. Most men who say they want good women end up cheating on those good women with the bad ones. So who cares about getting married when the ones who are married end up in misery with your kind anyway. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 3:57pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
milann: If as a wife you’re being laughed at because of humiliation your husband brings upon you, who cares about laughing last? Foolishness 2 Likes |
Travel / Re: Ghanaian Woman Dies While Driving At Top Speed To Catch Her Cheating Husband by McSquishi(f): 2:11pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
Women have to learn to let these men go. If he’s cheating no amount of confrontation and chasing and begging him to be better will change his nature. This man likely cheated on the woman so often that she’s now become crazed & irrational. A man who has always been true and good to his wife, she won’t react this way upon hearing he has a woman in his car. She would assume the best of him because he has always shown her the best. (Also, which man upon his wife dying to catch him cheating would admit his side chick was in the car? Of course everyone would say it’s his cousins or family to save his reputation) Instead of leaving him she’s now dead and he’ll bring his side chick into the home she made for him. Cheaters are not worth the stress, a miserable marriage isn’t worth your life. |
Celebrities / Re: Lilo Aderogba: "Men Don't Like Good Girls" - BBNaija's Lilo by McSquishi(f): 1:57pm On Mar 30, 2021 |
DaddyRochie1642: But they often save good girls for “long term things” like marriage where they cheat on them constantly and drive her crazy over the man going outside to be with the ones they save for short term things Long term things like cleaning his house and cooking for him for life. What a reward for being a good girl. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: UPDATE On The Girl That Didn't Contact Me After The Date by McSquishi(f): 2:31pm On Mar 29, 2021 |
Nodeydopass: Aww! I’m so glad she reached out to you and you both communicated openly and honestly! I hope it works out for you both! |
Romance / Re: This Girl I'm Dating Forgot My Birthday, Should I Move On ? by McSquishi(f): 2:55pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
londonbanks: What do you need input on? It seems you’ve already figured things out and arrived at a decision to end things... |
Crime / Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Neighbour For Greeting Her Husband by McSquishi(f): 2:46pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: I haven’t taught anything lol but maybe I could teach you manners if you want... your native language is completely wasted on me 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Neighbour For Greeting Her Husband by McSquishi(f): 2:37pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
OlayemiAshraf: Let’s work on our grammar before trying to form insults. One step at a time. 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Neighbour For Greeting Her Husband by McSquishi(f): 2:35pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Simplyleo: It’s heavily implied. Women aren’t irrational like this without suffering a cheating man. “Men are polygamist by nature” right? |
Crime / Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Neighbour For Greeting Her Husband by McSquishi(f): 2:16pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
So she has a cheating husband but instead of leaving him she will be terrorizing every woman he interacts with? Silly... |
Business / Re: How Long Does It Takes The USA Govt To Know If Someone Died ? by McSquishi(f): 1:17pm On Mar 28, 2021 |
Hushbingo: Wait, she died in the US not abroad? I didn’t see that the first time... The government will know about that almost right away. Death certificates are signed, social security numbers involved... usually the funeral home will report the person as deceased to social security administration. anything with that person’s social security number attached will then probably be affected. If you were truly about to marry this woman then call her family and ask for the relevant information. Surely they must know you well... I have to add that collecting her unemployment insurance after her death is very much fraud and definitely makes it seem like u were using some old woman for her citizenship and benefits She’s only dead one month and your concern isn’t losing your future wife but losing access to her funds anyway, RIP to her. 5 Likes |
Health / Re: Men’s Sex Organs Are Shrinking Because Of Phthalates Chemicals, Pollution by McSquishi(f): 1:53am On Mar 28, 2021 |
SarutobiEky: Aww shucks. Thank you |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 3:26pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
richmond500: You do the same, dear. |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 2:17pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
richmond500: Women don’t have human relationships? What does this mean? Are you describing networking? Yes, a part of gender discrimination is where men in power keep the power for themselves and only help the men around them succeed, not giving women a chance to enter their boy’s club... Forget this “crooked ways” bs as though it’s not men in power who are responsible for all the corruption Nigeria faces today. Men consistently rise through the ranks through illegitimate means. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 2:11pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
jelel6: I actually found a 2020 report http://www3.weforum.org/docs/WEF_GGGR_2020.pdf Nigeria ranks 128th of 153 on this one. The educational attainment is still dismal. And I’ll have to read it over more but I’m skeptical at those workforce numbers because where once Nigeria provided no data for professional and technical positions, they two years later rank number one... So about personal responsibility, if you look at the stats about how women are married in Nigeria a least a decade before the average man in Nigeria is married. As you said, women are stopped from advancing in career because of their family. A lot of men have an idea that their wife making too much money will make her a bad wife, not submissive, so he won’t want her to advance too much. some say they don’t want their wife to work at all because male bosses and coworkers can’t be trusted or some other reason. If women have on average 5 children in Nigeria and women are is pressured to get married early and do so on average by 25. They marry men who commonly believe a woman’s job is to manage house and kids and that a successful career woman is a threat to his family. The men are in positions of hiring and when the culture sees women as inferior, sex objects, etc it’s no wonder women who are in the workforce do not rise in the ranks. I can’t in good conscience call that personal responsibility. There are very societal/cultural pressures and barriers to women advancing in addition to the very real systemic ones. I don’t believe that the men who come online and express such low opinion even a disdain for women would show behavior that is opposite of that if they are in positions of power. Most of these guys are not trolling but genuinely believe women are less than them, less capable than them, were they to be a hiring manager I can’t imagine they would be keen to hire women. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 1:19pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
richmond500: The data I showed reveals women are overwhelmingly not in senior positions so rarely does a woman have the opportunity to open the door for anyone. The people who can open doors are the males who are the majority in power both in private and public sectors. When men who have attitudes such as yours are hiring I wonder who gets chosen when an equally qualified man and woman are up for the position? Not to mention in too many instances where women are chosen for positions despite being qualified they are hired based on their looks and the employers desire to have opportunity sexually harass them... |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 1:08pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Venom442: I shared data that exposes this statement for the blatant lie it is... the link is in the post you responded to but you still chose to lie, why? |
Romance / Re: Should I Still Contact Her??. by McSquishi(f): 1:06pm On Mar 27, 2021 |
Pclemenza: You can disagree without accusing me of dishonesty. read again, i said “or maybe she’s genuinely not interested in you” in the response you read. I don’t know this woman so I can’t 100% say how she feels for him based on what he shared. Some women are reserved, some women have a strict dating etiquette where they don’t chase after men, some women are socially awkward and don’t know how to initiate things... “My kind” don’t all behave the same way the same way males don’t all behave the same way or for the same reasons. |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 3:21am On Mar 27, 2021 |
jelel6: For Nigeria education is not close to parity, for girls who are left out of school it’s at 40. for boys it’s at 29. For literacy 41.4 for women and 61.3 for men. Nigeria ranks 140 out of 149 countries on gender equality regarding educational attainment. As far as the methodology I think it is sound. It says it doesn’t judge things like culture, customs, and policy which it considers input/means. The outcomes are the greatest indicators of inequality... There is no indication that women on any part of Earth have less ambition and drive than men, so the notion that disparities exist because women don’t want it is unfounded. Anecdotally, the little exposure I’ve had to Nigerian culture has revealed just how palpable the discrimination is. It’s not even hidden. A lot of Nigerian men have a very low opinion of Nigerian women and of women in general. Many believe women are biologically inferior to them. Many believe that being male makes them smarter, more logical, and more reasonable than women. With such persistent attitudes it’s impossible not to acknowledge the very real possibility that even the most ambitious Nigerian woman will encounter roadblocks to success when those who are able to open doors for her are Nigerian males. I appreciate you taking time to look over the report! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: The Ultimate Solution To Nigerian Women's "Uselessness": For Redpillers & Simps by McSquishi(f): 12:00am On Mar 27, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM: I hope you met your multi-syllabic word quota for the day. Geez... Which science did you receive your degree in that told you that the hormone estrogen is related to clouded judgment? The way you people will just spout nonsense pretending it’s fact... wow. Not to mention that men also have estrogen and in increasing amounts as they age. so I suppose men’s judgment becomes more clouded as they get older? smh There is no country on Earth where “gynocentrism” is a part of the culture. LoL. You’re childishly confusing efforts to cease all oppression of women and gender discrimination with being “gyno-centric”. 2 Likes |
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