₦airaland Forum

mariahAngel:
All I can say is that correcting you will not be necessary.

pocohantas:
If the man is responsible and was involved in their welfare, it would be easier. Not the ones that would go dump them with grandma in the village. Anyway, apart from maternal instincts, I have noticed Nigerian mothers like to put themselves through some unnecessary suffer. Maybe it helps them with the emotional blackmail (after all I did for you). As far as the man is responsible and has the means, I will leave the kids for him!

lovelybugs:
As nice as this sounds, a lot of men can't be trusted with their own kids. They'll end up dumping them at relatives homes as unpaid house boys and girls, to be molested by whoever pleases. A mother who loves her children would never leave them to go through that. That's why most women are at a disadvantage. Na who care pass dey loose for marriage matter.

mariahAngel:
What I have come to understand and made peace with is the not all women will be alphas, just like not all males are alphas.

Omg! A guy just created a thread on romance section asking if there's anything wrong in calling his married ex to come cook for him! Omg!
The lady not only agreed, she also went with him to the market to buy the ingredients!

I swear, I'm so pissed right now!

Quality20:
just travel to sokoto, northwest of d country. There u gonna even be tired of choosing virgin girls, but d only problem is that they are not so fluent in English.

ifytrik:
Body count must be less than 3? Nomber of body count doesn't always determine the size of the vigina, there are girls that 4k like dog, they may not date somany guys but the once they date will have to 4k them everyday, such girls may not have upto 3 bodycount but will still have a very wide pus*y. My advice for you is forget about bodycount, just make sure you taste before buying, date her first and see if her hole can grip your johnthomas the way you want. SHIKENA!

Since the news of the UNILAG girl named Chidinma who allegedly murdered her supposed sugar daddy, CEO of Super TV broke and took centre stage of discussions, the issue of sugar daddies keeping side chicks has come alive with varying views and interpretations.

According to Nollywood actress, Peju Johnson, sugar daddies are the reason most single girls are finding it difficult to settle down and marry.

“Let me say, sugar daddies have helped a lot of ladies to live a better life, changing their lives for better and at the same time, spoiling many of them. They change the orientation of many girls about life; helping them to fund their lifestyles and this, has made it difficult for many of them to want to settle for normal guys/ men. They have made many young girls look down on their boyfriends because he’s unable to do what the sugar daddy does,” she said.

On the case of Chidinma Ojukwu who is in the police net over murder of her sugar daddy, she said, “ Only God knows what we don’t know. Nowadays, young girls can do anything for money, to belong or impress their mates.They are so desperate and just want to live the kind of lifestyles they see on Instagram. So, I think she did that intentionally, because why take his ATM card to withdraw money and also his phone, if she didn’t do it for the money.”

Peju Johnson started acting in 2016 when she returned from Egypt where she stayed for five years. Upon her return, the Ile-Ife born and bred beauty took a full plunge into acting. She has featured in many Yoruba films like Lekki Guys, Viper, Oka, Scar and many more.

apatheticme:
Only an insecure man (which most Nigerian men are anyway) will have issues with his wife/girl being able to solve basic problems or face basic challenges without always calling for help!

It is this same reason that makes most Nigerian men scared of their wives being high fliers, achievers and career driven!

Only a woman raised with Inferiority complex and a poor sense of self worth will keep waiting for a man before she can do anything.

Personally, my hubby even prefers me dealing with our mechanic for instance, because I get better results plus cheaper prices. They see him as a big man, so whenever he wants to fix anything, they bill him. Something of #7500 for instance maybe brake pad for one leg, they'll tell him 20k. But if na me, I'll go buy the stuff myself and supervise them sef. Hubby doesn't have that much time, besides he's so cool with delegating duties! So even his own car, I take it for fixing, servicing anything. We'll just exchange cars if need be.

I remember when we were still doing our building project, many tasks that I was the one who handled it, many things I was the one in charge. Infact there were days I'll be the one to go to site and supervise/coordinate workers - mason man, plumber, electrician, carpenters etc.

Infact hubby never bought a single plumbing material! From pipes, to GP Tanks, to submersible pump for borehole, I was the one who bought everything, and they were top notch at good prices! I only took the plumber along and coordinated everything!

Whatever we're doing at home, hubby believes in doing it together, including both of us working on our PhD together currently! I could go on and on.

God knows I've got no freaking business with an insecure man, that will tell you don't do this, or don't touch this. I'm amazed when I see some women that would even say their hubby don't allow them drive, I'm like wtf!

Caveat:
I know some Broke ass wimps aka Red Pillers would soon come and tag my hubby a simp for making the home a place of growth and progress, but he's way more Alpha than they could ever be all their lives! Alpha is not subjugation of women, neither is it misogyny, unfortunately these retards can't see beyond their noses!

I'll rather be single than be with a man who limits my potentials or sees me as an object to be used and discarded! I rest my case.

Shokoloko:
What an interesting novel.
Captivating and descriptive
Welldone Lizzy a.k.a Foly

budaatum:
Along with an exam for a marriage and procreation license.

Just as one should not drive without lessons and a test, so should one not be allowed to procreate without a procreation license to indicate competence, in my opinion.

In the future sometime, hopefully, when this generation runs things.

abduleez1:
SinnerVerse......

Achilles100:
JOLT is just like Atomic Blonde , na just action flick.

Good to see Kate Beckinsale back in action.

Super TV CEO’s Murder: How I overpowered, strangled Usifo Ataga— Chidinma

Says ‘I see Osifo’s face when I dream’
‘Yahoo Boy’ indicted; on the run

Chidinma Ojukwu, the 300-Level Mass Communication student of the University of Lagos, UNILAG, who was arrested last Wednesday, over the murder of Chief Executive Officer, Super TV, Usifo Ataga, in a service apartment in the Lekki area of Lagos State, has revealed that she sees Usifo’s face in her dream.

This is just as more facts have emerged on how she murdered 50-year-old Usifo.

At a chance meeting with the 21-year-old lady, she said she wished she would wake up to discover that the whole drama was only a dream.

She said: “I have never had peace since the day I was arrested. Never in my wildest imagination did I envisage I would kill a human being. I see his face in my dream every night. At times I would be scared to sleep.

“I have been begging God for forgiveness. This is not what I wanted for myself. I don’t know what fate holds for me.

“I am also begging his family to forgive me, especially his children. Ah! God, what have I done?” she exclaimed, burying her face in her palms.

More facts

While maintaining that she carried out the killing alone, Chidinma told detectives at the Homicide Section of the State Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department, SCIID, Yaba that she was able to overpower the deceased because he was weak.

She revealed that late Usifo became weak after taking three wraps of Rohypnol while she took one wrap. She stated that she strangled Usifo before stabbing him.

Her claim has confirmed the Ataga family’s insinuation that Usifo’s neck was discovered to have been broken during an inspection of his body in the morgue.

Internet fraudster indicted

Meanwhile, detectives are on the manhunt for a suspected drug addict and internet fraudster (names withheld), who Chidinma claimed to have assisted her to falsify the deceased’s documents after she escaped from the service apartment in Lekki Phase 1, abandoning Usifo’s lifeless body.

She disclosed that the deceased earlier gave her his Automated Teller Machine, ATM, card to withdraw some money to buy some clothes but that she did not withdraw much.

Thereafter, she said she contacted the internet fraudster to help her withdraw more money.

As at yesterday, the internet fraudster, who got wind of Chidinma’s arrest, had bolted from his abode. But the Police assured they would get him to answer questions on what he knew about Usifo’s death.

Police beef security

Meanwhile, Police have beefed up security around the suspect to avoid any situation that could truncate investigation.

As at yesterday (Monday), only her father was allowed to visit her. Journalists were also barred from speaking with her.

This move, according to Police sources, was also aimed at avoiding a situation whereby any untoward incident will happen to her. For instance, her food is served by the Police, as outsiders are barred from bringing in food for her.

BlueRayDick:
Ororo doing most

MorataFC:
They should be nationalized to Lesotho.

BlueRayDick:
He is a great guy, but his temper is just terrible....It's obvious he can't help himself.

I was just wondering what he would've done if he was in Dzeko's shoes that one time Balottelli decided to showboat while at man city playing the ball with the back heel when he was through on goal and Dzeko almost begging for a pass. God knows Ronaldo would've beaten Mario up

donstan18:
They are the same, just that penalty and freekick privileges no dey.

Plus he’s not rated that much in Portugal team.

CaptainFM1:
Awon soapy marlian crew. If a man head gives you horrible effect, I'm sure a woman head will pleasurises you. NBC should just ban this straight away.

No content in the music and worst still not entertaining at all. Rubbish song!