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Leave him alone. At least u have a big fridge and a lot of household equipments in ur closet I think that's something to be thankful for. If u want nothing with a married man tell him. Stop staying in the lonely empty room and be feeding on him anymore because its time to set urself up. You should be thankful fate has brought salvation ur way. Sell those properties and use it to start a business. Of he still want u back tell him it's over. That life u dreamed of u know that euphoria and fantasy and bliss won't be happening yet but you're not left with nothing. Ask him for a loan or just a payoff to use set yourself up and have something going for u in life. If you're still a student now's a golden opportunity to finish up school learn a trade and set yourself up and running. Emotion this emotion that I don't understand what that means. He has invested a lot of money in the fling and from my projections up to a million naira and u have invested just emotions what nonsense. Pls be thankful

Bluehill1051:
Condom don reach 150#??!!!
Thank God for my guys for clinic wey dey supply me in boxes o

Lol i have loads. Family planning office never runs out.

midnighter:
Lol! Na wetin you wan talk?

Yes na how else do i put it. Some ppl get married and are able to accommodate themselves. For some people it's war.

Grayjoy:
So sorry for your guy, sounds like what went down in "MX town" sometime this year, the more reason I always prefer ladies who have gone through it all.

U are ready to put up with anything?

lefulefu2:
that catch them young doesnt work anymore .there are girls these days who start their runz racket right from an early age.at the age of 15 or 16 them don be pro then at 25 they already veterans in the trade .holding a girl at a young age is no guarantee that she never bad .

What shall a just man do?

chigoizie7:
Na all these stories de scare the shit out of me.

No one knows who is who anymore

Me too. I am scared. There's no way out.

lefulefu2:
she is just a runz girl at heart ..nothing more nothing less

She was 18 then. My guy was looking for a girl to marry. U know catch them young.

First question they ask is does he have money? I was with my colleague one day and his girlfriend we were just hanging out and shortly another colleague with a top of the line avalon 08 ltd stopped by and had some drink then he offered to take this girl home it was raining. We knew what was about to go down anyway because the avalon boy is a casanova. He asked this girl for a fling i suppose and then later in the night the girl called my guy and said " pls that your friend that took me home, is he rich"? My guy was plain in his answer, yes he is and the avalon boy moved in on the girl and had his cut.

The guy shared her picture to another niggar a andanova too and this guy owns a Lexus es 330 with tinted glasses, top of the line. The lexus guy started stalking this girl. He met her on the road oneday and pulled over and she entered. He started a conversation with the girl about her hair where she makes it, the style she likes and all that. This guy told the babe he owns a fine beauty shop in the heart of the city of Owerri. I am sure u all are getting the right ideas now. He said all you need is to walk in, drop my card in there with the note on it and they will give your hair a touch pf class. This guy is just doctor and owns nada.


The girl went for the kill, did as he was told and got what she wanted. Then the lexus guy called the Avalon boy and said its about to go down. We were all in a clinical session and the girl called. She said she was in so so and so hotel that he should come out. The guy was about to leave when the avalon boy called him and said look man this girl is the girlfriend to this guy seating right beside you. The guy was moved anyway and out of pity he called off the arrangement.


The guy just immediately broke up with the girl and the mother threatened to disown this girl if she doesnt get back to the guy. She wanted her LovePeddler to marry a young fine doctor. The guy just jump and pass.


If you're loving any girl just think about this. It's not worth it. Save yourself the stress.

I want out.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
dat means we cant even be together
I hate stingy men

Lol this guy. U no de tire.

KpagoGIN:
Just free him that babe is light years ahead of him, and no body is saying the lady in question should tender her pay to the guy but the simple act of gratitude would have gone a long way in giving him a sense of belonging.

You are very right. Commitment is key in all u do with a woman I tell my guys everyday. Some even call me Dr commitment. Some guys think once a girl allow u have sex then she's committed that's a huge lie. A sense of gratitude. Even the truth. Coming to help u when u are down. Putting money in the cash drawer at home so u dont lack. These are commitment. Pls not the vagina.

Guy will u even be alive to see next year because ur situation is the number one cause of death among men. You let yourself got scammed just like that. Pls what's special about this lady? Is she not the same Naija woman I see everyday u know just roaming nothing serious no ambition. How did u end up like this? Does she use jazz u know like witchcraft and bad luck which they wear in waist beads? My niggar what happened? I am in my mid 20s just like u no girlfriend just my career and my side hustle and living fine like it's a miracle. I have many plans and the first which I call vision 2020 is leaving this country. You don't think about anything else man. When the family told u about fees why did I agree? What's in that woman that made u agree? What stupid course is she studying not even like medicine or nursing that u chose to mortgage ur life in support of a futile academic journey dead on arrival. Why? Guy why? Why? You Bleep up. My double hustle give me at least 600k a month but I find it very hard to bring a girl home. Why did u fall for this scam. When she said she was raped why didn't u play along. Bring in a police man so it looks like u want to press charges and let the truth come out. Why did u allow urself to be used this way. Now the union has kids u were busy getting her pregnant when u have nothing. Before me self get a lady pregnant eeh even that child will not be born in Nigeria I think my kids deserve a better passport and citizenship not a cursed place. Guy why don't u think about urself first. If I were u I will quit Jesus I can't be u. Pls quit. Call it off whatever it is. Tell any idiot that cares to listen you're done. I can't believe this. Take the kids to ur mother and keep them there and let this God forsaken women go to hell is she wants. She deceived u and stole ur life sway goddamnit

lefulefu:
lol u dodge bullet. Most runzgirls they prefer having a guy that is either naive or a guy that is cool headed or nice as a husband or boyfriend. Dem no mind they will even spend on the guy with the money they make from their olosho business. The reason they prefer such men is that they feel they can easily manipulate or control such men. Check out the husbands of most ex oloshos turned wives. Their husbands are always timid or naive. Thank God u dodge bullet.

You're correct.

Why do guys do this for Christ sake. I for one I find it excruciatinly painful to give girls money. Now you're so deeply committed to this babe and she's not returning any one of it and you're pained why. She's not your girlfriend at all she's just sticking around till wha she's expecting for herself comes along. She can't even tell u one atom of truth. Let her go. This one self go be a big problem for u. Your money is your money and it's there for you to use and save ur ship on the day of storm dont u understand? Damn!

ColonelEmeka:
yes it is and i am watching out for the wailers from the east (even though i am also igbo) who would come here to say he should focus on Innoson or how can Hyundai do that? Where is the electricity they would use for their manufacturing plant as if Innoson is not using the same electricity they claim is not available.

Wailers who are already peeping in on the thread, over to you

*sips wine*

Pls learn from the person below you. Biko nnaa learn.

They never born pastor that will stop me from engaging my bride in the church.

This is a giant subcutaneous lipoma very likely and is generally a benign tumor which is noncancerous and can easily be removed via lipoma excision surgery by a surgeon.

The cost of this operation will vary across personnels and establishments but will cost around 30-50k but surgical removal, however, can become more expensive especially when the tumor have a high degree of post-op complications occasioned by the location. for instance a lipoma on the scrotal sac or close to the heart.


By side effects i believe u mean possible complications of the excision procedure. Generally the prognosis of excision procedures are good but this depends on the location of the tumor. The surgeon working on your friend will be cautious of the superior vena cava, the brachiocephalic vein and the subclavian vein which are important anatomical structures that surround the location of this tumor. This means he will chose where to cut carefully but it's nothing to worry about.

There's no alternative as long as this fellow wants this stuff out. I am sure it's affecting his quality of life imagine putting on a cloth for this bulge to appear below the neck. He should go for the surgery.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
my shakara boy friend

I am straight pls.

ladyGKilaBCrueD:
oh, hey

Hi

ericsmith:
Ofcus everyone should live ... buh don't re-phrase norms & right.

You're right I'm right. Live and let live.

Instead of vision 2020 that is next year idiots are talking about general elections.

Which car be this way 5m Youtube views on soapy no fit buy brand new.

ericsmith:
And how is lesbianism equally right to been straight. if its equally right, lesbian marriage should av been acceptable all over the world by now not to even mention naa 8yrs jail for naija.
why do lesbian need Love Machine or why are gays alway lookin for hole. I know you're trying to act civilized buh keep the right or wrong note out of it.
i love watching animals documentary alot cos it project the footprints of God's design ... @times i wonder why same sex does not exist amongs the so called lower animals.

Live and let live.

But women are usually very funny. Like you use ur main account and be bashing men here out of your own ignorance men are scum men are this that feminism this that but in ur desperation to get married a dude with a black belt in martial arts domestic violence is giving u several heavy knocks on ur head and u explain it to mean he loves you to a fault all because u want to get married then u create an alternate account to come and complain on the same nairaland where u bash men lol. I weak. Pls loving someone to a fault doesn't translate to giving them several heavy knocks on their head. That guy is not cool and can kill you. Dont let the fear of being tagged evening newspaper push u to the grave. Run now.

But why.

Academic dishonesty no get solution in Nigerian universities. Students copy each other in exams like it's the norm. Students copy assignments from wiki and other sites without citation like it's very normal. How will such students learn something.

2papa:
The level we are is not a boyfriend n girlfriend stage. Have gone to take list of her bride price, so if am asking question or need advise here I didnt do anything wrong

When i was little my dad stays in lagos and my mum in jos. Then my dad wanted us to come over and stay for a while and he paid for flight ticket for the two of us and we flew from jos to lagos. Why cant you have the two of them come stay with you? How do you expect the woman to feel starting with you in ur house in lagos and not knowing the condition of her daughter in faraway delta? Why did you tell her that if she goes back to see her own daughter after ababdoning her for a week then she should never see u again which means you are calling off the engagements? My brother no be so. I fear for the child self she go don cry tire. Allow her to go see her pikin okay. If possible since una don enter another level let the two visit u. The pikin cannot come inbetween u both this is just mother's love.

You mustnt have sexual relations with a man. You seem to be a lesbian and it's equally good.

Her daughter is a very important part of her and you must respect that. She already left the little girl to stay with an insensitive man like you for one week and you're not okay. It doesn't bother u how the little girl ia fairing and if she's well fed and taken care of. What kind of a man are you and i even blame the women that keep falling for men like ur type. This is unbelievable.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head..




I laughed real hard at this point. Lol women don suffer. because a man wan marry u he de beat samba for ur skull lol. Tell him not to try it again biko before ur sagittal and patietal sutures disjoint. Lol

Lol voodoo and hoodoo

Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day.

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

Hmmm