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Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 7:12am On Feb 28, 2015
MarvellousGod:
Divorce rate is high because many people marry for the wrong reasons, ranging from Physical look, money to travelling abroad et al

If people married their best friends/lovers, divorce rate will be at the lowest minimum.
Nevertheless, there are still many healthy and happy marriages out there which I believe are even more than divorced/separated homes, just that the bad is always more pronounced. ...
what i suggest is that, since this generation believe that they have the right to break vows in this age and go for divorce at will,then the marriage vow should be stopped. Just take a look at Nigerian celeb.
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 6:52am On Feb 28, 2015
Mintayo:
That's is why It's always good to look and also pray before saying I do!
I believe marriage is meant to be a forever thing, sticking with someone till death says otherwise!
Divorce is not always the solution to all marital issues!
when the marriage was ignited by lust and not love,they can never fight for the survival of their marriage.
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 11:21pm On Feb 27, 2015
yinkus4u2c:
ds cant make FP jor
stop trying to derail the thread,its not about the thread making front page. If i wanted to create a thread that is 100% sure front page material,I know what i will do.
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 11:13pm On Feb 27, 2015
adanduka:
Pastors & Couples should probably leave out the vow because it is better not to vow than to vow and not fulfil it.
matter of factly,the vow has become a Joke,was the need when the spouse don't want to fight or believe that they can make head way even in the midst of cobwebs of challenges.
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 10:08pm On Feb 27, 2015
kallmemrB:
...smh..fine lady like u dey keep space for FP...too bad
I don't think thats the case here,or is there an award for 'first to comment',you know some people now make unknown awards and are won by them.

Lets face the discourse, Divorce is becoming incessant in our society this is Africa for real
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 9:53pm On Feb 27, 2015
yinkus4u2c:
and what if?
No one will be injured,cos i can see both of ur hands around ur waist. No be fight
Family › Re: The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op): 9:42pm On Feb 27, 2015
yinkus4u2c:
undecided
Is that your contribution? Looks more like na who i go ask
Family › The Wedding Vow: What's The Essence When People Can Divorce Their Marriage? by Medley(op):
Are married people permitted to Divorce in marriages, bearing in Mind that they both said for better or for worse and for richer or poorer? Wat's Ur say?

Nowadays marriages can last for only a day and the next day, One of the pair will declare he/she want out mostly for reconciliable reasons(as against what the vow actually stands for),marriages even end sometimes because the wife did not serve the meal hot, the guy is not good in bed(but may not actually mean the man is impotent and have given birth to children), the wife snoars when sleeping, the wife is becoming too fat for my liking(when she has giving birth to 4 kids for you),and the list goes on in the era we are now. Married people hardly want to fight for their marriage.

What's the essence of the marriage vows? Are married people suppose to divorce even after their vows and on what condition/s?

I suggest that if there will be room for divorce,then the marriage vow should no longer be used
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Senate Stalls Obanikoro’s Ministerial Confirmation by Medley(m): 9:08pm On Feb 25, 2015
Funpeter:
Honestly this people are taking us for a fool why will you nominate someone who was accused of something.
Am not surprise is only in nigeria you will be accused of something and you will still be constesting. In sane world such can never happen.
When someone in prison is wining a election and someone who is accused of being corrupt is the presidential spokemans and the list goes on.
The senate too are just pretending normally they would have say take a bow just becos is a former senator.
Oloshi gbogbo.....
though i am not aware of how proficient Koro is that gave him the opportunity to be Nominated,but you should also know that the President Nominated Koro before the election rigging tape
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Senate Stalls Obanikoro’s Ministerial Confirmation by Medley(m): 9:02pm On Feb 25, 2015
miraclewonder:
Even though I'm a GEJ supporter, Mr President you fall my hand for this one. Even if you want to make him a minister, you would have@least waited for the dust to settle down before giving him a political appointment.
koro has already been nominated before the tape was exposed. So won't be too fair to blame it on Jonathan. Just for the records
Christianity Etc › Surrogate Mother And Surrogate Insemination Is It Permissible For Christians by Medley(op): 7:05am On Feb 22, 2015
Situation arises in some christian homes were the man is incapable to do his duty sexually, using the bible as the authority of christians; is it permissible for the woman to have another(either from the family or outside) man take the place of the man, if the woman decides not to adopts.

Some women nowadays do insemination if their husband is infertile, and in this case it involves that of another man, is this permissible for christians?
Politics › Re: Buhari Rumoured To Have Met Jonathan’s Loyalists In Paris - PMNewsnigeria.com by Medley(m): 3:51pm On Feb 20, 2015
no problem. So long as he won't be biased if he wins. Amaechi,fashola and tinubu should also be begging if thats what they are trying to make us believe
Politics › Re: Tension Between France & Cameroun Over Captured French Boko Haram Fighters by Medley(m): 11:51am On Feb 20, 2015
we are getting closer to the truth. French boko haram members,no wonder its been hard defeating them
Nairaland General › Re: Bokoharam Invades Dadinkowa Town,30km From Gombe state by Medley(op): 11:09am On Feb 14, 2015
Xymc1:
I live in Gombe town, we have presently fled town on our way to Billiri... They are not only in dadin kowa, they started from dadin kowa this morning and have made their way through town to the Army Barrack located in millionaires quarters... Heavy battle between the army and Boko haram at this moment; i also heard from someone inside town that fighter jets and helicopters arrived the baracks and are presently engaging the terrorists....... God help us all!
pray this will be over soonest
Nairaland General › Re: Bokoharam Invades Dadinkowa Town,30km From Gombe state by Medley(op): 10:29am On Feb 14, 2015
It will be very unprofessional if the NA took their arsenal to sambisa forest,this attack is coming after we learnt they(boko haram) are under intense searching by the NA in sambisa forest. I know our armies are prepared for this.
Nairaland General › Bokoharam Invades Dadinkowa Town,30km From Gombe state by Medley(op):
Bokoharam has invaded dadinkowa town. And there are have been reported to be shooting sporadically and throwing explosives majorly around UBA area of the town.

Gombe, the capital of Gombe state, is under attack by Boko Haram terrorist. The insurgents, according to witnesses from Gombe, are currently being repelled by soldiers some three kilometres away from the town.
A source from Gombe, Mallam
Hassan, told PREMIUM TIMES on
phone that “we’ve all rushed back to our homes now. our town is under attack; we heard that Boko Haram terrorists, in their hundreds, are trying to invade the town”.
“Everywhere is quiet now, but the sounds of shooting and explosion is deafening. We hear the soldiers are battling to stop them”.
The Boko Haram terrorist group
has repeatedly attacked the town bombing bus stations and other locations.
Saturday’s attack is coming less than two weeks after a suicide bomber struck in the city shortly after President Goodluck Jonathan campaigned.
Mr. Jonathan was in Gombe for a rally that February 2, when a female suicide bomber struck
shortly after the campaign train
departed.
The female suicide bomber and
a passerby died in the attack,
while six persons were injured,
the police said at the time.
In December, the Nigerian military said it killed 67 of the insurgents, who, in a convoy of over 30 vehicles and motorcycles, were on a mission to capture Ashaka, another Gombe town, the host community of Ashaka Cement Plant, were The defence headquarters, which admitted losing 10 soldiers in the battle, said troops got intelligence report on their mission and laid ambush for them.
Sources: NTA and

www.premiumtimesng.com/news/176828-gombe-under-boko-haram-attack.html
anyone with more info.?
Politics › Re: Bayelsa PDP Suspends Chairman Over Diezani’s N40m Gift by Medley(m): 9:34am On Feb 12, 2015
kokoA:
They will vomit all these monies when Buhari becomes president else they will all rot in jail.. Amen.
i hope so. But remember it's innocent until proven guilty and not guilty until proven innocent. We are no longer in the military era. I myself will want corrupt leaders to be shown the wrath of the law,also,you can not categorically say that the 40M was stolen since you don't know how she got the money. Poverty makes people scream when they hear millions,she has made money,though am not saying she is a saint.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Lucky Signs Supporters Portray For Their Teams victory in Football matches by Medley(op): 4:12pm On Feb 11, 2015
The Ghanian goal keeper wasn't saved by his lucky spider man, anyway
Politics › Re: Federal High Court Disqualifies suit against President Jonathan re-election by Medley(op): 3:50pm On Feb 11, 2015
magaliyu:
Sai BUHARI.....
The hope that the change movement has put in the heart of many Nigerians is really surprising, I just hope its not a Scam. If possible i would have want to see if this change is real,but that will only happen if the election is won by APC.
Politics › Re: Federal High Court Disqualifies suit against President Jonathan re-election by Medley(op): 3:41pm On Feb 11, 2015
temitemi1:
GEJ till 2019!!!
You are really hardworking in your efforts, i won't deny.
Politics › Re: Federal High Court Disqualifies suit against President Jonathan re-election by Medley(op): 3:18pm On Feb 11, 2015
with the suit filled against GEJ of which i know is dead on arrival ended,the suit filled aginst GMB is more worrying because it bothers on perjury,i don't know what the final result will be. Lets hope the result of the case will be taken in Good faith
Politics › Federal High Court Disqualifies suit against President Jonathan re-election by Medley(op):
A Federal High Court sitting in Abuja on Wednesday morning struck out a suit challenging the eligibility of President Goodluck Jonathan to stand for re-election
in the 2015 presidential elections,
rescheduled to hold on the 28th of March 2015, after it was shifted by the Independent Electoral Commission, INEC, from its original February 14 date.

DAILY POST recalls that there are at least 5 suits challenging the eligibility of President Jonathan to stand for re-election in different courts. Two of the cases have
been referred to the Court of Appeal for adjudication while three others have been pending before Federal High Courts prior to
this latest ruling.


sources:
dailypost.ng/2015/02/11/breaking-high-court-strikes-suit-challenging-jonathans-eligibility/

www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/176617-breaking-court-affirms-jonathans-eligibility-2015-election.html
Politics › Re: 30 Soldiers Monitor Tinubu's Ikoyi Home by Medley(m):
Boss13:
Tinubu should go to court and get an injunction immediately. He should also sue the Military Council, Service Chiefs, Jonathan, PDP, The Presidency and The Federal Government for trespassing, freedom of movement, freedom of association and threat to life. Though the lawsuit might not be successful, continuous petition and subsequent appeals will create the required delays. However, the injunction will be highly respected and complied with.

This is totally abuse of power and no respect for the rule of law.
so you believed this tale. Its part of the strategy to make Goodluck look like a dictator,since thats all PDP has against GMB. Statements like this one should not be made without evidence. They should stop deceiving Nigerians.
Education › Re: Jamb 2015: Unilorin, Uniben, Unizik Leads List Of Most Popular Universities by Medley(m): 3:15pm On Feb 09, 2015
Would have been more genuine if your source was from JAMB and is this current?
Politics › Re: Tinubu: "Election Postponement Is Democracy At Gunpoint" by Medley(m): 8:45pm On Feb 08, 2015
this statements is surely one of those that will incite election violence. How will the party faithfuls be convinced after this kind of statement if the party fails to win. The only situation that will make the results of this election to be accepted by APC is if the party wins. I think this kind of statement should not be said until there is an evidence. We really should consider all areas before saying anything at this time.
Politics › Re: Boko Haram Small But Financially Secure -US by Medley(m): 11:15pm On Feb 07, 2015
Its not far fetched. All what we need now are the names,if you got any
Politics › Re: Armed Forces Deployed In Lagos (pictures) by Medley(m): 3:27pm On Feb 07, 2015
omenka:
This is the height of desperation from Jonathan. If these were happening under a military regime, one would have understood, but what are armed soldiers whose presence is much more needed in the North Eastern parts of the country doing in the Streets of Lagos?? Is there a war going on in Lagos??

This ought to be condemned by every right thinking Nigerian and lovers of democracy.

Jonathan is out to destroy this country.
do you think the whole soldiers Nigeria got will be sent to borno?. What if thats what the terrorist want the president to do.
Politics › Re: Armed Forces Deployed In Lagos (pictures) by Medley(m): 2:49pm On Feb 07, 2015
demelza:
No wonder boko haram has been gaining victory in recent times.
See where our soldiers are packed.
civilians are quite different from high profile terrorist with AK47 and IEDs,so the soldiers can easily be persuasive
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Lucky Signs Supporters Portray For Their Teams victory in Football matches by Medley(op): 9:09pm On Feb 05, 2015
Imagine the Ghanian goal keeper bringing into the football pitch a lucky spiderman. That will probably close the goal post with web,for him mind
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Lucky Signs Supporters Portray For Their Teams victory in Football matches by Medley(op): 12:53pm On Feb 05, 2015
ShakurM:
Sitting in front row o...either draw or win. Never a loss!
True talk! If i just can't sit in the first two roles,if i will be watching the match in a viewing centre,It's like the game is over for us.
Education › Re: These Courses Are Difficult To Have First-class In. by Medley(m): 12:33pm On Feb 05, 2015
Jesuspikin77:
In this same nigeria someone made a cgpa of 4.96 in chem eng
a lecturer in FUTO,from OAU?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Lucky Signs Supporters Portray For Their Teams victory in Football matches by Medley(op):
Many will agree with me that in the quest for us to see our team win a competition or match,they are extra miles we can go. I am not talking about extremism situations(like using voodoo or other alien powers) that can make the handler mad.
There are some signs that we put through either before, or during a football match or other sporting events to ensure that our team wins.

This signs vary depending on the individuals,some call it their 'lucky style', and when watching a match,they are sitted in that pattern,others, will put on a particular shirt of their football team,without this 'lucky signs' they are uncomfortable watching the game and may even play down their loss as the consquence.

Whenever my team FC barcelona are playing a match i always have the clubs hand band on my wrist, and my fingers crossed like a chain,with this i have full assurance that we will win, and even sometimes,i predict the score that we should likely win with. Sometimes, we lose the match,and i refuse to eat dinner as a result,(atleast everyday no b christmas),but when we win,it's as a result of the lucky move.

Have you got any lucky move or signs(sometimes very funny or strange) you pull through, hoping that your team will win? Lets share?.

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