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Tweak2k:This was what she did
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I no go lie u boss, I lost it, as in i almost ran mad...She was the only thing so dare to me st a time when I was jobless & nothing seem meaningful... I spent every second of everyday in thoughts & kept on asking the "WHY" questions... Still so very painful & even till now i still wonder where she got the coldness, the heartlessness from to do such a thing, someone i lived with in the same room for "EIGHT" months...Wow |
This was a girl we served & lived together @ Abia, umuahia & she hardly ever misses any church program...Since this incident, I no fit love again cause i no get heart....Posted it here on nairaland a while ago, had to search for it & screenshot it....FEAR WOMEN, i repeat FEAR WOMEN
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Tell us what she did that makes it impossible to forgive her...Then maybe we can know how to advice you |
...When you have PhD in gullibility |
This lady has brain tumour... Ever since her marital issue she has subtlety gone mad...Always doing anything to get attention... ![]() |
This is lengthy but endure with me, I met this girl sometime late last year, we kick started things on my birthday this year, the relationship will be almost five months old but the signs I'm seeing from her aren't ones to overlook...She has this rude way of talking and even in our chats, we might actually be having a decent conversation & before the blink of an eye, her mood has changed & the course of the discussion has changed, she starts sounding insultive & defensive & believe me fights, violence etc aren't my ways of resolving issues, I believe in communication, intense one at that, trust me I've sat her down & tried talking to her numerous times but I've realised rather than she wanting to listen, she'd prefer just to say sorry countless times, she says that sorry in a way to just shut you up & and she further goes to say she feels miserable when she's talked to or corrected & trust me i don't do it the aggressive way, the last time i corrected her she was like "maybe we should give our self a break" that it seems i am not what she wants, we later settled that night after deep communication..I am not & will never try to change her, I just believe if she can be calm, be at peace with herself & be in control of her emotions more, ,she can be better than she is & I am also disturbed cause i am very close to 30 & if things gel up in a year or two, I'd settle for her hence my reason for being more petrified....Need you guys opinion on this and ways i can go abt it cause I'm not one to hop from one lady to the other.... The one that happened recently, she came to my place on Saturday & I was going through her birthday pictures she took cause her birthday was a day earlier only for a message from a guy came to her WhatsApp, I saw it but didn't say anything, he was even using her pics as profile pics, he sent love messages & she replied with "Thank you", i just gave her back her phone & after some few minutes she was trying to show me something on her phone & i noticed the message that came to her phone earlier has been deleted, I felt horrible & exasperated & issue abt this guy has popped up before & she told me they use to date like 2-3 years ago & cause the guy happen to have another girl & that was how she lost interest and she never really liked him then also cause he was a drop out & what brought the guy's issue was a love message he sent that i came across, in a nutshell i flared up on this recent one & was so disappointed in her cause she promise to take care of the guy the first time we spoke abt it only for this to pop up again... She left that Saturday, saying she will handle the issue& since then we haven't spoken...I just can't bear the thought of dragging or tussling for a babe with another dude, I'd rather let him have her...I need cogitated opinions of wise people here...What should i do? |
Mtscheeww...dey there, person wey dem go don Bleep tire...u beta look for one tight aboki kpekus wey u go dey knack steady steady |
ROAD TO KYIV HOTS UP Bayern munchen vs Real Madrid Liverpool vs Roma... For me i think R.Madrid & Liverpool for final What are you guys envisaging? |
It will not be well with her and if you accept her back, you deserve a national award for the most gullible dude... Pained from experience |
Creativity is the spice of life... ![]() |
So...mtscheew ![]() |
EdifiedCEO: |
A boy that has refused to grow up will never cease to behave like a toddler-Pete Edochie 1954 |
Wanna reply you, saw your profile pics and kept mum...is this your breast on your chest or lime.. |
As if say na beta boobs self...ungrateful lot...so many ladies are praying to have their boobs pressed atleast for once in their life while some are prayerfully waiting to av theirs pressed this year before it runs out and you are here wailing...alaimoore...as if say na yellow breasts with brown nipples dey ur chest ![]() |
All this sh*t just make me dread settling down... imagine facing this in a marriage, something that I cannot even cope with in a relationship....My ex no do reach this one b4 I dump her.... I detest senseless and needless issues in relationship |
kiddoiLL:It's sexy ![]() |
Hmmmm...Hapi married life in adv broo But this your teeth sha ![]() |
decatalyst:like I lost mine.. bitch didn't even hesitate to dump my broke ass for a dude with a ride right in my very presence in a public place...to say I was bewildered is an undersratement.. it's well sga |
AreaFada2:Yeah, you spot on...i've learnt my priceless lessons & left all in the past but thanks for your cogitated opinion sha, you nailed it |
misano:Boss this recent happening was a re-awakening to me...i've learnt a great deal from it...God knows best |
Hhmmm...that was how my gf (now Ex) left me on the spot in a public place without any issues or any offence from me & went with a guy in a car right in my very presence...Though she has been behaving very strange & funny giving me needless attitude hence the reason for going over to her place to find out what problem really was & resolve it, not knowing i'm the one still dating her & that she has moved on...To say it was painful is an understatement, I went back home, ruminate over everything, cried & moved on... Thank God i went over to her place sha, i wouldn't have known there is more to it...ALL THIS HAPPENED WITHIN THE SPACE OF A WEEK NOTE: This is a girl that was always begging/pleading with me not to jilt/Cheat on her all the time, the tin sef don turn her personal anthem, she monitors & investigate pass F.B.I...who would have thought she would be the one to err, she was not even remorseful...MAY 24 a day i'll never forget I have downloaded some anti-shocker Life is full of shocks-Mum's advise |
Yea...her mum died three months later r.I.P late Mrs Onabamiro ![]() |
It can only get you tablets... ![]() |
Fokogbade but why ...why are you sleeping with a married man? Why do you want to be the reason for someone's sadness? Why do you want to break his home? Even though he has chosen to be irresponsible & senseless, you shouldn't become a tool that'll keep fuelling his looming destruction...If you happen to have a home & you realise your husband is cheating on you, how will you feel? How are you so comfortable sleeping with a "Taken" man...If you are in the wife shoes & she gets to finds out how do you think she's going to feel? I pray you'll get paid back in your own coin...I just hope you'll remember what you've done when "KARMA" comes knocking A man isn't fit to be called a "HUMAN BEING" when he/she has no "FEAR OF GOD" & has a dead "CONSCIENCE" |
Op...PLS keep her...believe me it took her a lot of courage to spew out that secret to you...What if she hadn't tell you or feign it to you & you later hear it from outsiders after you've married her nko...Bro think bro...All of this happened b4 she met you, so why do you want to make her regret being "Honest & Transparent" with you when she could hav just kept mum & pretended nothing happened Be careful of your advisors, don't let someone who can't keep a three month relationship gives you advice on the woman you should take to mama...Think bro Never make someone feel stupid & gullible 4 for being good |
Lol...this your mata tire me oo ![]() Your case is truly different ![]() |
So many tales of brokeness bro ...shey na when i trek from ketu to ikorodu ...Now as i'm talking gaan na 49 naira they my acct ![]() Maybe na y my gf sef they do like man 4 the relationship... Edakun epp me ![]() |



