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RomanceRe: She Curses Alot by Meekmind(m): 2:33pm On Dec 15, 2016
BRO my advice to you is to do the "NEEDFUL" why you still can...Don't enter "HELL" with your eyes wide open....RUN BRO RUN...Run for your life, career, future, destiny, dreams, goals, sake of your unborn children etc...#SAVEYOURFUTURETODAY#






















Hope she won't see this & curse me too? undecided lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: My Husband Is Too Hygienic, It's Driving Me Nuts - Mature Minds Talk by Meekmind(m): 1:07pm On Nov 14, 2016
Eyah, i feel your plight... cry cry
















That kain man no fit giv head oo, he go first wash ur puna wit hypo 4 "HYGIENIC" sucking b4 he can get down wit u... embarassed embarassed














Wait ooo, when you guys where courting didn't you notice this? undecided
CelebritiesRe: Toyin Aimakhu Releases New Dazzling Photos Asked Beyonce To Pack Well by Meekmind(m): 12:54am On Nov 06, 2016
Just imagining what her yellow kpekus will look like...Gosh














#TeamyellowKitcat# cool cool
CelebritiesRe: Moyo Lawal And Her 'Halloween Eyebrow' Put On Blast [PICS] by Meekmind(m): 11:43am On Nov 02, 2016
[quote author=Airforce1 post=50692297]women are funny creatures

They use razor blade to scrape their brows only to draw it back on with pencil.

Laughable.
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Y scrape it in the 1st place...Confused beings undecided
CelebritiesRe: Paul Okoye Assists The Lady Who Cried For P-square To Re-unite by Meekmind(m): 11:07am On Oct 22, 2016
Hmmmm...Are you sure this is everything?Even though he's Paul okoye, I still believe shining of congo is involved...Come & complete ur story biko undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Laide Bakare Licks Her Son's Lips, Fans Slam Her [PICS] by Meekmind(m): 8:29pm On Oct 21, 2016
Nawa ooo... wink










E con be lyk say make I put my preek 4 her mouth...she go sabi lick the tip wella kiss
FamilyRe: Man Catches Driver Having Sex With His Wife On Matrimonial Bed In Ogun State by Meekmind(m): 6:14pm On Oct 17, 2016
INTROVERT:
That driveR is a sessual predator. he has been monitoring that woman and knew she was a easy hit because of the yaba left attributes she posseses. too bad
"Because of the yaba left attributes she posseses" This really caught me grin cheesy grin cheesy...Never knew yaba left get attributes oo grin grin
RomanceRe: Don't Mistake Beauty With Prettiness by Meekmind(m): 5:42pm On Oct 15, 2016
Spot on bro....you nailed it










So sad crywe have so many pretty ladies(with the help of make-up though) out there but very few are BEAUTIFUL...
RomanceRe: Amazing Story: “65 Pastors Approved My Marriage To Foluke Daramola” – Kayode Sal by Meekmind(m): 7:47pm On Oct 07, 2016
Is you kidding me? You mean "65" pastors gave you the permission to go ahead & suck those melons for the rest of your life?

















Those "Melons" must be divine then... grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Tonia Ferrari Okoro: I Pulled Down My Jeans & Showed Actors My Naked Bum Is Real by Meekmind(m): 9:47am On Sep 21, 2016
Can you pls open the bum here so we can confirm... huh




















Oh lawd see yellow melons... embarassed
Jobs/VacanciesHow Do I Prepare My CV? by Meekmind(op): 6:12pm On May 12, 2016
I'm a graduate and presently serving in Abia, I need the right CV format that will aid in the preparation of mine cuz i've been getting confusing formats from friends and i need to get it done ASAP...anyone in the house wanna help...
RomanceRe: If You Have Only One Day To Live In This Earth, What Will You Do? by Meekmind(m): 8:15am On Dec 24, 2015
I'll go straight up to church and tell God to forgive me & accept me, though i should give my life to Christ now but i still dey target shewa 4 my street tongue dat babe eehnn her bweast na water melon lipsrsealed and after asking for forgiveness, i'll go straight-up to play drums cuz i've always said I wanna die playing drums grin...SE FINI
RomanceRe: Lady Beaten To A Pulp By Husband Sends Him A Bizarre Birthday Message by Meekmind(m): 5:36pm On Dec 08, 2015
Gosh!!! Na person dem beat lyk dis lyk say tipper fall ontop her face shocked...No amount of how infuriated or exasperated she got you that now makes touching or beating her the justified punisments...Ladies pls learn to love with ur 6th sense and not your hearts, she could have avoided this brutal onslaught if she had heeded to blinking warnings she was seeing during their courtship days but i guess she fell for the gullible proverbial "LOVE IS BLIND" tingy undecided, now see the result. You can only thrive in all aspects of your life as a married man when you treat your woman like a rare treasure and an asset she truly is and it's only then things can begin to augur well for you... If the man truly melted out this dastardly & inhumane acts to his wife, then he shall know no peace all his days, there are better ways to punish a woman rather than beating her as if she stole an ATM machine undecided, to all you guys too forming tyson fury over that caring, loving, well mannered & cultured girl u av as gf may thunder fire una...#SAYNOTOVIOLENCEAGAINSTWOMEN#
NYSCRe: ABIA ''15 by Meekmind(m): 8:52am On Oct 23, 2015
ajabi:
If you know you've been posted to 'God's own state', the number 1 state-Abia. Drop your number so you can join the Whatsapp group to meet other Abia State B15 corp members.
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08081736710
RomanceRe: My Strange Experience With A Lady; She Almost Died In My Residence. by Meekmind(m): 4:15am On Oct 19, 2015
grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
EventsRe: A Deaf Bride Weds A Deaf Groom (photos) by Meekmind(m): 12:51pm On Sep 22, 2015
[quote author=lalasticlala post=38264476]http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2015/09/the-deaf-and-dumb-wedding-of

Lol, it's good na after all love is blind and not deaf mute tongue
RomanceRe: How Ladies Push Their Man Away Unknowingly by Meekmind(m): 11:09pm On Sep 20, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
I feel honoured
Not hyping you though but just gave you a piece of my mind...expectin ur request
RomanceRe: How Ladies Push Their Man Away Unknowingly by Meekmind(m): 10:59pm On Sep 20, 2015
Mzflexydeeva:
A lot of ladies find making their man happy very difficult. Some even feel making a guy happy is tied only to sex but it is worthy of remembrance that a lot of girls open their legs daily and this still doesn't make the men happy enough to stay with them. Maybe for the minute he wants to experience the excitement of your bosom but appreciating a guy is one thing most ladies overlook.

The number of ladies crying "he broke my heart" would reduce drastically if ladies stopped living their lives like its a fairy tale cartoon.

1. Insecurity:  no matter how insecure you are, its no reason to disrespect your man. Two captains can sail one sheep. Its hard to keep your calm especially if he has a lot of girls are around but shouting and insulting him won't make him pay more attention to you. You simply would be giving him more reasons to look out.

2: Appreciation: never underestimate the power of appreciation. If your man takes good care of you, use ever chance you have got to let him know he's doing a good job. If he looks cute in the morning tell him. If he showers you with gift, thank him. If he listens when you need a friend, be grateful. When you cry and he hugs you, embrace him. A man won't go looking for what he already has. When ladies point out more faults they are pointing at another lady to take their place.

3. The baby in every man: there is a baby in every man that comes to light when he is with the woman he loves the most. Don't see this as weakness. No matter how bad a man feels or angry or disappointed its the duty of the woman in his life to bring out the baby in him and know just how to calm the baby. You can't run away every time he's in a bad mood and expect to keep him.

4. Making him feel at home: around you, he doesn't want who to judge him but he needs someone who sees his strength not the weakness.

There are a couple of things ladies do without realising they are sending the men in their lives packing.
- challenging his authority as a man.
-always winning.
-nagging.
- being bossy.
Funniest part is, they always have an excuse and it is always this is who I am. Who you are is who you decided to be. There is always room for change especially when you make up your mind to be with the person. You must understand a man will always be the man irrespective of what you bring to the table.
Realizing that there is a difference between an humble woman and a stupid one  will hel you better appreciate that a man is your superior but you are his partner and never try to be the man especially when you know he really loves you and wants the best for you.
wow...considering this is coming from a lady in this dispensation of ours is truly astounding & marvelling...I have read a couple of your posts & you seem to possess something upstairs and a look @ ur profile pix is also in alignment with ur cogitated posts which qualifies the saying of a "beauty with brain" ...are you a yoruba, igbo or from the northern part of the country? will love to av u as friend on fb, my i.d is "Adeleke meekmind salu"...will be looking forward to ur request...u're one of the very few that still convince me that there are still wise, intelligent & knowledgeable ladies out there...keep up the good work provided all ur posts are really a product of experience & knowledge
RomanceRe: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Meekmind(m): 11:45pm On Sep 13, 2015
uote author=Mzflexydeeva post=37772704]Equality is a big problem among both sexes today. There is a common saying these days that "what a man can do a woman can do better" and it is no longer news that finding a perfect partner is impossible but as impossible as it is, some people still like to say they have found a perfect partner. Its not because they have really found a perfect man or woman but one who fits in perfectly.

Understanding is what makes a person fit in perfectly but it is rather sad to see some guys getting heart broken for their nice and cool attitudes. Some girls think its their right to have a nice guy around them but the truth is,  rather than feel it its your right, just be grateful you have a great guy.

Whereas some girls pray for a good guy, others take the guys they have for granted.
Some attitudes in guys which girls take for granted include:

1. GENEROSITY   - In this context, generosity is in terms of finances. Simply because he is generous enough to spend doesn't make it your right. Lots of girls are quick to abuse this gesture taking it as a sole entitlement. Some guys have the cash but will never spend it on a girl. So if a guy spends on you, don't take it as an opportunity to open an office or extort him. Learn to say thank you because the fact is, a guy gives because he wants to not because he has to. There's nowhere its written where a guy has to be financially responsible for you because he's dating you.

2. GENTILITY - A guy who treats you like a queen should be seen as a king. Simply because he's calm, polite, courteous doesn't mean he can't be bad or rude. Its really sad to see some ladies tarnishing the image of a guy they claim to love simply because he treats them with courtesy. A lot of simple, calm, polite guys are often taken as maga, they seem to be seen as weak when in actual sense they are the real men who know what it is to take care of a woman.

3. LIGHT HEARTED & PLAYFUL - Loving a guy who plays like you are both in primary school is to be desired. Dating a tyrant or a bossy guy is in itself bondage. That a guy plays with you a lot isn't enough to disrespect him irrespective of the age difference. Some guys enjoy having their girlfriends as play mates. This doesn't mean he's immature or probably childish but when you treat him like a child, disrespect or take him for granted because he's always in a cheerful mood and has a good heart, the essence of having a friend is defeated. There should always be a line irrespective of how free and playful a guy is with you.

4. PATIENCE - Most ladies take patient guys as fools, feel they can ride on them, mistreat them and even give a nonchalant attitude. Patience is a virtue. It takes a great man to know the value of patience and understand how it works. Its difficult to find people who are really patient today.  Don't think that because he is patient you can keep been the unbearable girl and he'll keep coming back. There is always so much a person can take. So when you have a guy who is patient with you, its not a reason to keep pushing him.

5. SINCERITY & OPENNESS - That he keeps you in the known isn't weakness. That he tells you everything isn't stupidity. That you know everything about him isn't your power.... A lot of ladies see this as weakness in as much as others crave for guys who keep no secret. He's not telling you things so you know when to use his weakness against him rather he confides in you out of trust. Don't make him look any more weak than he already accepted to you. Don't go about sharing his story, don't give him a biography of his weaknesses every time you have a fight. Be his safe place, a shoulder to always rest on.

6. LOVE - It is a common saying that " when a girl knows how you feel she will take advantage of you". This is rather alarming. In thus generation where love seem like a mirage it is surprising that some girls  would still find a guy who genuinely loves them but would over do things turning him into their toy or a maga or even their last option.  True love is hard to encounter but never turn a love so pure into darkness.

Our attitude towards people also affects the choices we make in life. It is that little thing that makes a big difference.[/quote].


wow, Op u just rekindled unwanted memories, I did all of this and more for a relationship that spanned a year & half, I did everytin u pointed above and more, even extended my magnanimity to her family thinking we were on same page but neva got quarter of what gave..she became so rude, disrespectful, arrogant, full of ego...I showed her way more than she deserved...In the end I just had to save my self from the needless emotional trauma by calling it quit...The one sided stuff was hell on earth, i don't blame her though, I blame myself 4 loving the wrong person rightly and hanging on to her hoping she would change...It's well sha
RomanceRe: Screenshot Of The What My Friend Posted On Facebook About Feminism by Meekmind(m): 5:43pm On Aug 08, 2015
In case it makes front page...
EventsRe: Must See Pre- Wedding Shoot Of A Nairalander(see Pics) by Meekmind(m): 5:06pm On Jul 23, 2015
Wishing them a blissful, productive & enviable union ahead....the lady's teeth tho lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: BAD GUY :fan Grabs Maheeda’s Butt As They Take A Photograph Together by Meekmind(m): 4:24pm On Jul 20, 2015
Chai...see free yansh... tongue...wish i was in that guy's position, i go press bobby sef lipsrsealed...that yansh go soft die...in phyno's voice "kin ma ladi, kin ma tedi" kin se iranu ooo grin
EventsRe: Wedding Of A Nairalander With A Nairalander + A Nairalander Mc by Meekmind(m): 7:36pm On Jul 18, 2015
The husband's head though lipsrsealed...wishing them a great HML with children surrounding their table
EducationRe: Trailer Crushes LAUTECH Student To Death (Graphic Photos) by Meekmind(m): 1:29pm On Jun 13, 2015
O lord for every time that i have sounded ungrateful and complacent, pls forgive me and help me to always thank you regardless of what i face...Life of vanity, ALL IS VANITY...a life lived for Christ is worthwhile...friends let's return back to God, there is nothing out there, the so called fun and enjoyment are just flash in the pan...R.I.P korede it's well with your soul...
PoliticsRe: Artistic Wish Of A Boko Haram Victim (Picture) by Meekmind(m): 1:18pm On Jun 13, 2015
Wow very agonising...wish i could grant him his wish...O lord 4 every time that i have sounded complacent and ungrateful pls 4giv me and help me to always thank you regardless of my situation...hmmmm embarassed
CrimeRe: Boy Develops Seizure Attacks, Dislocates Shoulder After Father’s Beatings by Meekmind(m): 9:11am On Jun 06, 2015
So devastating, things like this are what causes low self esteem in a child and makes him sees himself as inferior to his compatriots...very pathetic story.



















In other words where is diddydiva self...I hav a deal for her cry
CelebritiesRe: Ini Edo VS Lupita Nyong'o: Who Rocked It Better? by Meekmind(m): 4:20pm On Mar 08, 2015
Iya awero...
undecided
Christianity EtcRe: A Male Campus Pastor Paying Female Members Personal Visitation."alone"....ok?? by Meekmind(m): 4:12pm On Mar 08, 2015
Yeah it's advisable...



























Just pray for forgiveness of sin before going and don't forget to go with condoms also...














I wonder what happens to counselling and advising them within the church premises...Must you visits her @ home...The bible said you shoud flee away from all appearance of evil...Una too like to dey pass boundary...Oversabi pastors
CelebritiesRe: Kenny Saint To Fight Prostitution In Ikeja As A Legislator? by Meekmind(m): 7:58pm On Nov 24, 2014
Evathyst:
Wow! Now I understand better. In dt case, u can add me on fbuk; Akinola Abisola Victoria. But plz b4 u do, kindly read the thread on how we 'damsels' maga guys so that u'll know how to avoid d fast train that is coming ur way huh


Don't be scared Bro, in France here where I'm schooling, we advice guys to know what dey want to put thr head into tongue
. Lwkmd...I trust u to still be one with conscience! Hope I'll be justified
CelebritiesRe: Kenny Saint To Fight Prostitution In Ikeja As A Legislator? by Meekmind(m): 7:23pm On Nov 24, 2014
Evathyst:
Haha? Lyk seriously, I don't understand u. Do we both av any unfinished bizness to settle? huh
. It's not as if I know you 4rm adam, I just checked on ur profile and I liked what I saw, just want to meet you and acquint myself with u...dat's all I'm asking

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