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[quote author=brightDdon post=120330140][/quote]Don't mind him, he's just showing his foolishness always. He is still a small boy.

Do you think they are right or just being unreasonable?

Jennyclay:
The bolded: it took a long time for him to pay back just 3k he borrowed, and that didn't teach you a lesson . You still went to borrow him 30k. I think you gave him out of abundance. Biko, allow him to pay whenever he has the money. Don't drag him!

I only borrow nigerians money that I can forfeit. Take for instance, you ask me for 10k, I will give just 2k even though I've the whole 10k resting in my account.

You are very right because I saw the red flag and didn't take it serious. Right now I am being patient because i don't want to embarrass him or have other neighbours hear us but honestly he is pushing me.

Romanoff:
After this experience, learn this lesson below that I learned from my father.

"Never borrow out money that you can't afford to forgive or let go of".

One thing about finance I learned from my husband is "a borrower who doesn't pay you back isn't a problem to you, at least they know they can't come back and borrow from you again and you will have reason to not borrow them again. The bigger problem is the faithful borrower who always pays on time, they will always keep coming back to borrow and you'd have no reason to say no to them".

If you can, just forget the money, he won't have the guts to come back and borrow from you again. If he does, direct him to his bank.

honestly I really wanna use that money for my house rent to give the landlord. The funny thing is that he and his wife work but i and my wife are still job hunting. You're very right cos if I had my way i'll have left him to his consience with the money.

olasaad:
Go and knock his door now now now and ask for your money. He might not give you today or this week but never loss guard because if you do you will not get your 30k completely again.

He has gone to work already sincerely the thing is very very annoying. I just wish you could see my heart.

A neighbour of mine whom we stay in the same compound borrowed 30k from me on the 3rd of January, 2023 with the promise to pay back that same week. Before i knew it, that week passed but he didn't pay back, he even kept quiet as if nothing happened. After 3 weeks i decided to ask him about the money two days ago(Sunday), telling him i'll be making use of the money on Tuesday which is today, He then promised to rally round and raise the money yesterday. I waited on him but still didn't hear anything from him again, not even a call knowing fully well i'll be using the money today. The funny thing is that his wife came and borrowed just 1 thousand naira from me through my wife last week friday promising to pay back that same day too but till today she has also not payed, she just kept telling my wife please today, tomorrow, next tomorrow and so on, that's just the language.

Please guys what action should I take? Now i see why alot of people do not help no matter what.
Honestly, I didn't give him out of abundance of having, but for the value of friendship. There was a time he borrowed just 3k from me, he took alot of time before paying back.

Different from Bala Blu...... Blu, Blu, Bulaba.

Oh God, Nigeria has really become very funny and pathetic... Just imagine.

Sincerely this is very sad but the truth is that it happens everywhere, accidental discharge, collateral damage etc...

Lies everywhere, one person will decamp in his house to a party and claim 20,000 supporter's decamped with him. Lies, how did he come up the figures?

When you have a wife who Conspicuously show/take her mum and her siblings more important than the marriage, infact takes them as her major priority.

PDPs Campaign train landed in No, Plateau State yesterday 13th December, 2022. Atiku and his Entourage visited the Paramount ruler of Jos, HRH Da Jacob Gyang Buba, Gbongom Jos then he proceeded to greet the bishop of Anglican Diocese of Jos, Arch Bishop Benjamin Kwashi.

This kind of toilet should come to akwa ibom, e go sell for here no be small cos one person poo fit fit cook for an entire local government.

Nigeria and lies when, Kai.... Instead of admitting and finding solutions, they rather look for a childish lie and excuse.

Very sad

Bandits yesterday attacked bokkos local government of Plateau state and killed scores of people, destroyed homes, food and vehicles. This is coming barely 24hours after the APC flagged off it's Presidential Campaign in the state. A mass burial was conducted for the lives lost today. The plateau state Governor has ordered security men to immediately go after the bandits and arrest them and also bring them to book.

Wike has failed to understand that what goes around comes around. He thinks he'll be in power forever, I really pity him after leaving office cos by then that his popular song will be against him. "As e dey pain Dem e dey sweet us, as e dey sweet us, e dey pain Dem".

This is great... What do you think guys?

Why do DSS Officials like putting on dark eye glass?

The APC will Flag-Off it's Presidential Campaign tomorrow 15th November, 2022 in Jos, Plateau State & Bola Ahmed Tinubu has just arrived ahead of tomorrow. He was received by the Plateau state Governor Simon Bako Lalong who is also the DG of the APC Presidential Campaign at the YAKUBU Gowon Airport Hypang.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vC3jBrG2QBc

Toh, mun ji ko?

Nigeria my country, law is for the poor and justice is for the elites.

In my own case na my wife dey call my mother in-law every single day. So which one is proper? If I talk e go be like say I wicked.

Hmmmm.... It's a pity, he should have been forgiven, after his release will they deport himm back to Nigeria or he will still be in the American soil.

Hmmmmm

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Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

You see this thing called DNA test? I must do it by all legally possible means, it is really annoying, frustrating and deceptive. Since my alleged child was born, I've always known he is not my son. For your information before e you come for my head, I take care of him very very very well, more than how slot of wealthy people will take care of their children, I mean what i am saying. But the truth is that I am 100% sure that he isn't my child.Theonly thing that has been delaying and hindering me from doing a DNA test is that it will spoil alot of relationships that has been build and it will also put me in shame from a lot of people. Deep down my wife, she knows the real father of the child.

Laturuturu:
You really have to be careful. He wanted you to know he is gay that is why he intentionally uninstall his app then ask you for help.
They are everywhere

I thought in that dimension too

SenecaTheYonger:
Why would you even allow a man to hug you?

honestly right from the first time he hugged me, i wasn't really comfortable with it but i couldn't tell him cos i was looking at his age and nobody would ever give it a different meaning.

There is a man i normally go to buy bread every evening at his Provision store, who seems very nice. Whenever i go to his shop, he hugs me and ask after my wife and children. I use to think he was just so caring and i never gave it any meaning.... What shocked me today was when I went to buy bread this evening then he pleaded with me to help him i send and install WhatsApp in his phone, I was doing that when a Facebook message popped up and without hesitation i opened it. Guess what i saw; Hmmmm, i saw more than 30 messages from different men whom they've had sex and telling each other i miss you, this and that.... If you see what i saw Hmmmm. How can a normal human being be calling his fellow man baby, sweetheart, I love you...etc So the man is a gay. God i never expected that he was gay because he is an elderly man who is in his 50s. Those he mostly had sex with according to his chats with them are young guys around 27,28,29... Etc.

1234ben:
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Pls analyse ur expenses. I ve 3 kids and a wife, weekly on a manage level, my wife spends up to 30-40k
meat 5k,
Chicken/fish 3-4k
Soup ingredient 2k
Tomatoes 2-4k
Kids Bobo/Biscuits. 5k
Sachet water(2bags). 2.2k
Gen fuel. 2k
Fuel for car. 5k
Miscellaneous. 10k
Total. 36k -44k.
This is based on d facts that there foodstuff at home.

me sef even that 20k per week na based on say foodstuff dey house ooo. God go help us.