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All activists cannot be martyrs eg Mandela even though most martyrs may be activists. If Mandela had swallowed a grenade, the freedom fighting cause would have suffered a great blow. Barcanista is a researcher activist not a martyr activist.

docadams:
@barcanista

I remember some years back a young male student in
South Korea went to the front of the federal parliamentary
building and set himself on fire in protest against a govt
policy he wasn't happy about.

If that has faded from memory, of course, you cannot
forgot the cause of the Orange revolution in North African
that resulted in a phenomenon of global dimension. Who
was the hero? A common street trader who plied his trade
on a wheelbarrow.

In other words, bro, time spent on NL writing and posting
epistles may not even make a scratch.

BUT if you take your destiny in your hand proceed to the
National Assembly and swallow a GRENADE in protest,
you will be guaranteed the fastest route to fame and glory.

You can trust me, temitemi, orerascal, biafranqueen,
mogidi and even beremx and passinshot to write a
deserving epitaph.

To me that looks more like her sanitary pad placed far in front and held tightly by her sanitary underpants thereby forming d rounded shape

IVF would ve been a good or even better option than adoption.

Adoption looks good from a distance but when you do go down that lane, you'll see its not as watertight as most people think.
Most times, the one adopting may not be as patient with the flaws of d adopted child as they would be with their own.

The so - called BIL has entitlement issues. As far as he's concerned, the newly wedded should be at his beck and call!

Perverts hiding under sex education will not stop trying to pollute the minds of our innocent children.

Which sex education did our forebears receive before living d chaste life which many of them, though not all, were known by? Smh

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Y'all are sounding like flat tummy is the "in-thing" and i'm telling you that it varies for everyone.

There's no redundancy there. [/color]

So on point, so so on point

No 1 and 9 for me

On point

TIMEISWISDOM:
Mushroom organizations seeking undeserved recognition by telling the present government what they want to hear.
Where were they all these while??
Its boring already hearing nonsense, please people involved should be tried and sent to jail if found wanting not all these acts of masturbation

No alarm at all, Im cool

TheSonOfMark:
I just saw the thingy now. What's up?

Cutehector1,000,000 likes! #TruthIsLife#OManKnowThyself#LoveYourself#LimitedEdition


Most ladies will get fat as dey age.. So why kill urselves...[/quote]

What is his business with their life. He should feel sorry for himself first that his career only exists because there r celebrities like Tiwa to crack jokes about. Busybody

On a good day Stoja,of course, we all would prefer limbs. However, what good would it do a bride or wife as the case may be to be in a marriage to a violent man with limbs one minute and be dead the next?
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Hmmm, so you'd rather have no limbs and be in peace or have all limbs and war in your home?[/quote]

I just love his courage. Going for what he wants to do without giving a feather what anybody thinks. Ride on jare bangerlee! More ororo to your hustle

Only God knows who is stoking the fire in that marriage really

PunkyVeer:
Maybe the landlord is the one sleeping with the wife. How come he knows so much? Hmm...

I'd bet they'd b living in peace unlike the "war zone" that characterizes some marriages to some men with all four limbs

God BLESS Wike

Am good n u?

Jorussia:
Hi,how are you doing?

Please send dat reprobate out of your house with immediate effect. At her young age she's already this headstrong!! Then, when she s a bit older, na uncontrollable be dat. This is accumulated stress you r joking with, don't imagine dat you r immune from high bp

I wish you new, beautiful ideas
Its well

omaa4:
Thank you all for your suggestions @ bebrief people can change after marriage or better still people can pretend a lot. thou, that's by the way I will take the advise of well meaning people here and will be hoping for a change for the better. @ melodies I will be less confrontational for the sake of peace afterall it's a man's world!

Both of them are hot tempered. She should try delaying her answers each time he starts and while delaying count 1-100 silently. By d time she finishes counting, the rational thing to do will present itself. Remember, in quarrels the first thing you do is most times not usually d most rational

This is really creative, I love the pictures of them on white with outstretched arms, really lovely

In your very situation is where the love you supposedly have for him should be evident. U dated and should have noticed this but married him. Meaning u were ready to put up with it. For d sake of peace, better put up with it and device other less confrontational, more respectful methods of dealing with this so he's not forced to bully you. So many marriages have broken over less. Even as little as where to squeeze toothpaste.

There's nothing wrong with making her your future wife. But the question is have you laid d necessary foundation like finishing school, getting a job or a trade, renting your own room or house depending on your pocketvailability, how much savings do you have, etc

This is more than trying to have a heart to heart talk with her hubby because it's like he's just been waiting for d opportunity and it's finally come and as such there's no entreaty dat will change him.

If you still want to stay in d marriage, take steps to protect yourself e.g. purchase plenty of female condoms to use with your hubby cos he might be averse to using one if you suggest. I

Take steps to protect your kids by avoiding unnecessary violence in d home via quarrels n fights.

Above all, get a job for yourself not your BIL. This will give you economic freedom and you will then see clearly what you should really do in a situation like this.

So on point

yorubadelta:
No other religion gets attacked the way Christianity does. Athiests mock our God and ignore other religions but I'm yet to see an atheist attack lets say a Buddhist for his/her beliefs. Yet, when they see Christians, that demonic influence in their lives fills them up with so much hatred.. darkness cannot stand light.

I don't see the west pressuring other religions to Wed homosexuals in their mosques, temples etc but the church gets that pressure. Why is that?
Pastors are now getting jailed for refusing to Wed two men.
Christians are shunned and despised worldwide.

Well, all these happenings lead me to believe one thing: CHRISTIANITY IS THE RIGHT WAY which is why the devil is fighting so hard to stop us

When you finish scamming let us know, you know when it comes to scamming, I've got no skills compared to you. Fake office address, fake everything! You can't even post a credible comment without insult. Shows your level of reasoning. That picture is fake and anybody taking you serious does so at their own risk. I'm not a gigolo like somebody so I don't need to advertise my face for anyone, if there's a need I'll gladly direct useful people to my facebook page. Not everyone is a scammer like you

Wonders,as the cliche goes, shall never end! Fraudster and scammer alerting people about fraud and scam??!! Everything about you is fake;fake name, fake office address, fake number, fake face, fake child, fake single parent,even your post is so fake! One wonders what your main aim and objective of putting your bbpin on this thread is if you had already made up your mind to lie about everything about you. If truly you are so scared of scammers as you claim, how then are you able to display your bbpin so boldly??!! Everything I told you about myself are true and if you hadn't started your lies you would have had the opportunity of verifying for yourself. For your info I'm a hardworking single parent and have never earned a dishonest cent. One of these days the jail term you have been working hard for will catch up with you. Since this thread was put up, useful people have been placing their numbers and bb pin and nobody till date has complained of scammers. I'm not surprised, you think everyone is like you. The whole essence of dating is to get to know each other. How do I get to know you if everything you tell me about yourself are lies? You claim that your company is based in America and you are in Cotonou but your company in America did not list your Cotonou address!!! How possible is that or you think you have the sole,patented right to be scared of scammers!!! I told you where I work even to the minutest detail as my level in my office. Next time when you are on a DATE site remember to be truthful because most of us can smell a lie from one kilometer away and will not hesitate to delete a pathological fake liar. If at this point in my life, I haven't learnt to detect liars and their lies then "sorry" ought to be my middle name. You cannot even wait to be scammed before you start shouting scam because you are trying so hard to be relevant and look important! If you are half of what you claim you wont even have time to indulge a so called "scammer" that's the major reason I don't hesitate to delete them! I wouldn't even have bothered replying this thread, but on second thoughts i needed to set the records straight. Stop claiming to be what you are not, get needed education

laluski:
I want to alert everyone on this section to be very very wary of fraudsters.someone sent me a Bbm invite and when I accepted introduced "herself " as Dapa", sent 2 pics gave me a brief history of herself. Then she started asking me my full name and surname,i gave her a fake surname, my phone number or numbers,i avoided the question, she asked me what I did I told her then I started suspecting something was very wrong when she asked for my company name and full office address. That's when I paused and I asked her how she got my pin and she said from this section of course. She said she was coming to Lagos and wanted to come and see the kind of business we could do together and I knew that ain't possible cos of the nature of what I do.i played along and gave her a fake company name and address that I was based in cotonou.she still insisted on the Cotonou add and when I asked why what she really wanted .she Now wanted my company website. That's when I wanted to ask her a personal question, she just stopped responding and deleted me sharply.
I know she or he is gonna read this eventually and all I can say to you is May you end up in Jail in Jesus name. I gave u a fake surname cos I knew u wanted to hack my facebook account.
You jus Dey start yahoo and want to scam hard money earning parents like us here. Fool
Please be very very careful on this site since it's a public forum
Tnx

Bvn wahala

Just saw this on my facebook page and need to share this here

OMAR BANGURA from Sierra Leone has this to tell Nigerians;

"I don't think you guys know what you are playing with. You can call each other names and laugh about it now but when you end up inciting hate here as I read through your posts here and a real civil war start in your country you will regret what you are doing now. Your religious and political leaders are trying to divide you between religious lines and you are helping them do that rather than standing up and say we are all nigerians never mind our tribe, region or religion. That's the only stand that will save your blessed nation. The foreign powers pushing the government to take certain decisions will abandon you when you start killing each other and reject you from running to their countries so be careful. Our 11 years war in Sierra Leone was not even based on religious or tribal difference and see what we did to our country. The worst conflicts are those based on tribal and religious differences. See Central Africa, Bosnia. My heart bleeds when I read what you guys are saying because I know what this will lead to. You will be the losers all of you whether Christian, Muslim, ibo, yoruba or hausa. Stand as one and save your nation together because you have only one Nigeria that has the potential to lead Africa."
PLEASE HELP SAVE NIGERIA AND SHARE THIS TO AS MANY PEOPLE AS POSSIBLE.
A word as they say...

I really would want 2 say quit, but
U wuld have 2 move 2 a 1 room because
U cnt afford room&parlour wit 40k.
Dat automatically kills ur idea of using ur present place
4 d biz and source of income as well aside 4rm
D obvious size disadvantage. Bsides,300k if used 2
Hire a1 or 2 bdroom 4 d biz can't take care of d furnishing
As well.
Alternatively, can u look 4 any of these tech savvy guys
In Lagos 2 attach a recording device 2 ur baby's
Bag and try d Elegushi place or any other as suggested.
Dat way u get 1st hand info on how they treat babies
At their parents' back while still saving & planning.
If d place is nt gd,within d period,u can ask around
Till u see a good place or better still within d
Elegushi period intensify efforts 2 get some1
4rm ur village even if its an older woman or a
young girl,if there's none in ur village,try other
locations in Nigeria.
I wuld say dnt make anothr mistake and start
Regretting. Jobs r hard 2 come by & even biz moguls
Like Ovia 4 instance strtd wit All States Bank b4 he
Opened his own biz. All I'm sayin is u need ur
Parachute before u jump out of d plane.

Highyo bruv keep up d good work,truth will always prevail.

highyo: that's the fact. Only God can destroy them. That's why they ask Jesus,
have you come to kill us before the appointment time?

Thanks so much for this. I always find it difficult to understand why
People keep sayng of spirits "die"! A spirit cannot die,otherwise Jesus
Himself wuld have been d 1st one 2 order them 2 die because of
Their vile activities of which he saw d results. Rather they begged
Not 2 b cast into d abyss. May God help us.