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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Shows Off How Much He Has Changed Five Months After Leaving Nigeria by merits(m): 3:49pm On Jun 11, 2022
meobizy:
Na cold, surplus food and steady application of cream dey freshen person there. He may do the worst of jobs yet will look better than Dangote. These pictures can never deceive me. Okay, he’ll get more exposed, sha.
Exactly bro.
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Shows Off How Much He Has Changed Five Months After Leaving Nigeria by merits(m): 3:48pm On Jun 11, 2022
toobusy:
At some point, everyone will get tired of running away and probably come back together to fight those politicians and take back their country
Exactly,they should continue running.Rather than to fight for their rights here.
Politics › Re: Abducted Kaduna-Abuja Train Passengers Regain Freedom by merits(m): 8:29pm On Jun 08, 2022

Politics › Re: Ogbonnaya Onu Got 1 Vote At The APC Primaries by merits(m): 1:29pm On Jun 08, 2022
grin it
Politics › Re: Buhari's Face As Ogbonnaya Onu Cried For South East Presidency by merits(m): 12:46pm On Jun 08, 2022
Romance › Re: I'm About To Break Up My Relationship Of 3 Years Due To Indecent Dressing by merits(m): 12:29pm On Jun 08, 2022
Colephbreed:
Hello guys good day hope y'all are doing great.

Am writing this with so much grief in my heart as I feel depressed, sometimes love can come with somuch pains and joy at same time.

So recently I agreed with my fiance to relocate to a different city since she got a job over there, we agreed a scheduled time we wil have to see each other within a specific period of time. This is someone we share everything in common the love was great, she's an awesome soul to be sincere.

I got so much attached to her, that it made me felt lonely and empty when she left, due to that reason I always want to call and check up frequently, This has been going on For about 4 weeks consistently, the first red flag I noticed was that she asked me not to be calling her frequently that sometimes it's not really cool with her, I respected that fact and reduced the way I call but I was beginning to loose the trust I had for her.

She goes out with her friend frequently and they love partying, even when I consistently warn her about the late nights they keep most times in clubs and partying she keeps telling me she's not a kid and she can handle things herself. Lately the relationship have been filled with lots of argument, misunderstanding, and the trust is beginning to reduce drastically.

Yesterday she uploaded a nasty picture as her display pics on WhatsApp, she was just putting on a top without bra, though she's busty and all that, I asked her take it down and upload something more appealing and decent that am not comfortable with such pics, she began to rant and start saying all manner of things like it's her privacy,her phone, her body,and she decides what to do with it, am an African man and I don't welcome this woke mentality of women nowadays, feeling they need to be half naked to feel sexy I can't cope with such indecent dressing, I told her am not trying to tell her what to do but atleast you should respect my opinion sometimes, I got angry and sent her a very long message about my displeasure. since then she has refused to pick my calls nor reply my messages.

She tried calling earlier today but I didn't pick, I couldn't sleep through out the night the whole drama was just playing in my Head.

Guys is this enough reason to call of a relationship or are my just being too self centered? have actually made up my mind just need to hear from different and more matured people in the house.
Thanks for reading and enjoy the rest of your day.
Give her second chance,the more the fight the more love get stronger.
Politics › Re: Group Photo Of APC Presidential Aspirants by merits(m): 2:18pm On Jun 05, 2022
TheRareGem1:
What is the meaning of EMI lo Kan?
It means.Is my turn.
Politics › Re: President Buhari Visits UN Secretary (Photos) by merits(m): 2:05pm On Jun 01, 2022
TermuxDarkWeb:
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid0271Z3sdZkjgEcVsxKvfEjErCHKwn7PKXNSrxS3Kzbz6XZPGLfJ2FNfoPCkaz7MxJJl&id=100011193364134&sfnsn=scwspwa
He knows nothing than traveling. Kaduna train victims are still in captive but nothing was done to rescue them till date.useless man with hopeless focus.

Politics › Re: Melaye Tackles Buhari - You Can Only Choose Your Party Candidate Not Successor by merits(m): 2:03pm On Jun 01, 2022
grin wahalla no dey finished for this life.

Romance › Re: Lady Transports Man With Her Huge Backside (Photos, Video) by merits(m): 5:17pm On May 31, 2022
Islandlady:
That ass is too much naaa, she should give me small abeg cry
Go and by yours,yansh full market.

Politics › Re: Kidnapped Victims Of Abuja-Kaduna Train Attack Appeal To FG & Osinbajo (Video) by merits(m): 5:13pm On May 31, 2022
Snitch24:
Pls who is always the first to get this video
Why are we doing our self
The US came to Nigeria singlehandedly to rescue their own citizens without any local military backup
I hate to say this but it's a simple truth
Nigeria army is making profit off this kidnapping deals
No cap �
I concour with you.

Nairaland General › Re: What Have You Lived To Regret The Rest Of Your Life by merits(m): 5:01pm On May 31, 2022
Savedday:
9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...
Absolutely right,99.9% of them dates for living,all their financial crisis will be bill on you.

Foreign Affairs › Re: Meet Indian Woman Who Faked Being A Man For 36 Years To Protect Her Daughter by merits(m): 4:34pm On May 30, 2022
ogbiwa:
A crafty woman reportedly spent 36 years pretending to be a man to protect her daughter and keep herself safe from stalkers.

S.Petchiammal from the state of Tamil Nadu in southern India, made the unusual sacrifice for decades while raising the child alone.

Married when she was 20, she tragically lost her husband while pregnant with his daughter only 15 days after their wedding — and quickly found life as a single mum a struggle in the strict, traditional and sometimes unsafe environment of her village.

Petchiammal eventually decided to move away, and began to cut her hair and change her clothing after a personal visit to Tiruchendur Murugan Temple, where she rechristened herself with the name ‘Muthu’.

The devoted mum then spent the rest of her life keeping her true identity a secret from everyone but her daughter and close members of family as she took on a range of manual jobs, including work in construction, hotels and tea shops.

Revealing the story of her life in disguise as a man, Ms Petchiammal told the New India Express: “We resettled at Kattunayakkanpatti over 20 years ago. Only my close relatives back home and my daughter knew that I am a woman,”

"I did all kinds of jobs, from working as a painter, tea master, parotta master to 100-day work. I saved every penny to ensure a safe and secure life for my daughter"

"After days, Muthu [a male name] turned to be my identity, which in turn was mentioned on all documents, including Aadhaar, Voter ID, and bank account."

Petchiammal added that while her daughter has now married, she is not willing to revert back to female attire yet as she thinks the identity she took on gave her child a "safer life" — and so believes she should die as the same person.

https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/weird-news/woman-fakes-being-man-35-27068379

Celebrities › Re: Kunle Adeyanju Finally Arrives Nigeria (Pictures) & Video) by merits(m): 9:29pm On May 29, 2022
LoveTalk:
A very brave man!
He actually took a very big risk.
He should take me back to London ooo
No way,we all remain here

Forum Games › Re: Check This Out And Tell Us Your Scores by merits(m): 6:56pm On May 28, 2022
obembet:
What’s your score?

A quick Life exam for 35marks

1. Still a Virgin....(5marks)

2. Never smoked (5marks)

3. Never Cheated. (5marks)

4. Never watched porn.... (5marks)

5. Never masturbated ..(5marks)

6. Never got drunk....(5marks)

7. Never sent out nude... (5marks)

What did you score?
Zero.my fellow team zero gather here to sought this out.something must kill a man

Christianity Etc › Re: 31 Dead In Kings Assembly Church Stampede In Rivers State by merits(m): 6:44pm On May 28, 2022

Politics › Re: See Reno Omokri Tweet About Peter Obi One Year Ago. What Went Wrong? by merits(m): 6:27pm On May 28, 2022
Built2last:
Peter Obi followed by Tinubu are the candidates in this election that Reno Omokri has spent time on social media trying to discredit.

Check his timelines. Everyday he posts things to dissuade people from following Peter and try to convince people that he doesn't stand a chance. He was doing that on Tinubu for a while but his focus is now more on Twitter.

Let's even agree Peter doesn't stand a chance at presidency, what's wrong with allowing the man pursue his dream. what went wrong between them. Why is Reno exacting so much energy trying to attack his followers and dissuade people from following him.

In all these, neither Peter nor Tinubu has replied Reno.

I came accross this tweet and I recall the good old days when Reno sings awesome songs about Peter. When Atiku and Peter were political associates Reno praised their combo. What suddenly changed?

Reno had openly said he is supporting Atiku, Could it be that Reno had preferred Obi to remain Atiku's vice and not vie for president and when Peter was not going for that, hatred set in.

I mean there are tens of candidates contesting across party lines. There are people Reno has never said a word about. What did Peter and Tinubu do to Reno.

Reno has said Peter's followers online are toxic. Why not ignore as a former associate of Peter and Atiku.

Reno said Peter left PDP to avoid being disgraced. There are over 10 contestants. Only one winner will emerge. Is Reno saying that whoever looses election has been disgraced? Peter is not the first to leave a party and move to another and won't be the last.
There is just more to it that Reno is not saying.

His boss Jonathan and Obi are very close, what will happen if APC gives ticket to GEJ and he wins and calls Peter to come serve as minister of economy or minister for finance.

I have tried to understand where the so much venom against Peter and Tinubu is coming from. I can't place it.

See his tweet just a year ago.

Phones › Re: Boys Wearing Slippers, Tee Shirt And Short Nika With Iphone 11,12,13. by merits(m): 5:31pm On May 26, 2022
fineboynl:
I hate it when I see boys with short Nika above there knees and with slippers and to worsting it they carry big iphone.

If seems they spent all their money on the iphone. Some of them cannot even afford a bottle of beer.

They don't spend money on other things other than that iphone thing.

People without the iphone even dress well, spend well and look rich richer. But the iphone is what those boys are using to cover up.
Wetin concerned you about that for God sake?

"Paddle your own canoe"

Career › Re: Advice Me, I’m A Graduate, I’m Considering Learning An Handiwork by merits(m): 5:16pm On May 26, 2022
Felimax:
@ 29, you are waiting for Nairaland decision? A graduate!

This country is finished! I won't even expect this from somebody who just did SSCE.
Yo dey mind him.
Abuse use of forum.

Entertainment › Re: Zimbabwean Female Soldiers Twerk In Their Uniform (Video) by merits(m): 8:54pm On May 25, 2022
BadNews:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ffstHGBUNB0

A Video of some Female Soldiers twerking has gone viral after being shared online.

In the short footage, the military women who were in their uniforms were seen twerking and having fun in their military base, which some claimed is in a Zimbabwean community.

The officers danced and twerked to Bruk Off Yu Back by Jamaican singer, Konshens.
Dry yansh
Romance › Re: You Visit Your Fiance For The First Time And You See This House (photo) by merits(m): 8:43pm On May 25, 2022
Eyiwunmi33:
What's there. It's a house after all.
Although I'll be sceptical at first
And you enter the come close mouth grin
Health › Re: My Wound Is Taking Forever To Heal (Graphic) by merits(m): 8:35pm On May 25, 2022
Just apply Vaseline on it regularly.
Politics › Re: Train Attack: We Will Start Killing Kidnapped Passengers In 7 Days — Terrorists by merits(m): 6:40pm On May 24, 2022
Omooba77:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/05/breaking-train-attack-well-start-killing-abducted-passengers-in-7-days-terrorists/
And we have service chiefs but they can rescue this innocent citizens.I don't know what to say again.
Useless country with failed security.
Jokes Etc › Re: Five Kinds Of Men You'll Find On Nairaland by merits(m): 11:39pm On May 23, 2022
chatinent:
1. The overly mature ones.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/dbc.gif
They see those who post everyday and everytime as totally immature! In other words, maturity is rated by number of posts. You see them always finding the nearest entrance to start a chat with any female name who kind of gives them an attention!
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/11/drsmile.gif Make we no call names sha.


2. The redpillers.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/08/smacking.gif
These ones are always fighting with ladies every now and then. The crazy thing about them is that sex is the bullet they use to make satisfactory points.

3. The Liars.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/12/high.gif
Ha! These ones are just wonderful! They can claim wetin dem no bi, and lie lie lie just to be seen as a public figure...as a wealthy dude. Like huncle, nobody gives a F of who you are! Their major targets are hungry Nairaland girls, or those desperate to hookup.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/grlly.gif
And those ladies are mostly gotten, used, and garbaged cos they tend to only follow those ones posting relocation to oversea topics and “big boys.” Laslas, na Nairaland dem dey come yab them.

4. The tribalists.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/camb1.gif
These ones are very quick to defend their tribe even when their tribe has done sth odoriferous. You'll see them supporting the killing of Deborah with all their might;

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/14.gif
or supporting the IPOB rampage;
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/world-cup.gif
or using rebuttals at those who blame skull mining!
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/sttmf.gif
Senseless lots!

5. Those ones that use Nairaland to show the lack of home training they've always yearned to show outside.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/flirting.gif
They try to toast you, you no gree, they finish your reputation.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/group-slap.gif
From that day, you become their worst enemy because you refuse to believe all those wooing BS they told you.
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/ihy.gif


Thank you. grin

Lalasticlala, mynd44, dominque, seun
You seff your over Sabi too much.What is all this you just typed? to disturbed my precious eyes
Fashion › Re: Lady Shares Photo Of What She Ordered And What She Got From Her Tailor by merits(m): 11:33pm On May 23, 2022
Karlovych:
embarassed How does she expect a cloth meant for a gazelle to fit a hippopotamus?
Your head dey hot huhfor NatGeo wild.
Romance › Re: Girls Choose Your Body Shape & Boys Choose The Body Shape You Like (pic) by merits(m): 11:28pm On May 23, 2022
Prettygirl200:
I have the body structure of C but have the height of H.
Just tell us you be midgetgrin
Romance › Re: Girls Choose Your Body Shape & Boys Choose The Body Shape You Like (pic) by merits(m): 11:26pm On May 23, 2022
Stargurl20:
I no even know the shape wey I get. I just dey and I know say I tall com dark join
No be E shape be that.Go for E.
Crime › Re: I Watched A Thief Vandalised A Kiosk And I Couldn't Do Anything! by merits(m): 9:41pm On May 22, 2022
Favaman:
You are mad!!

I am not the cause of your frustrated life.
If ain't frustrated you won't ve bin in support of illicit acts,ewuu!!

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